xhero:
The good news is dat OP is on point...d bad news is she's probably guilty of every point she raised....but who cares ryt?

n mata how guilty I probably am, putting in black & white should have been more than enough to help me change don't u think?

Adaeze003:


O gini kwa? Lol.

I don't have a problem with the post but you see what I was talking about according to you "a little massaging of our ego". Your(guys in general) ego is just too easily deflated.

Oh and btw, the effort has to come from both sides. Everyone blames the woman for a failed relationship even when the man cheats, is unemotional and a bully. You'll hear people say(like you once said) "don't put yourself in a position for him to hit you" or related crap like that. That's just really really silly and selfish(yes, men are selfish for other men sef).

Well, I will not put in my best if he's not doing same. It's really not worth it to me.

You can shout "amen" to this post all you like but don't expect what you don't give. Do unto others....(well, you know the rest)

The highlighted is something you really need to consider and look at it from another angle.

What happens if your spouse or bf understood clearly that there are red lines that shouldn't be crossed no matter how provoked?

So,once again do not put yourself in an awkward situation where anyone would even think of raising their hands on you.

That ego thing isn't really ego but a romantic way of encouraging your own, abi you and your boyfriend na competitor?

misspicy:

No mind all dis attention seeking good girls on NL....i dnt even af a problem with her post,truth is i af made such mistakes n i corrected mysef buh the problem i have with this OP and the post is dat,its a biased post,why cnt she add ways men can treat women good too....na likes she want and she don get am.










Kossyablaze see wat i was telling you

See them ,angry stubborn girls - After they will be shouting 'heartbreak' up and down.

safarigirl:
Relationships fail because many women get advice from OTHER WOMEN on how to treat their men.

One problem of my girl friend. Always complaining that her friends said I read too much, her friends said I don't call regularly, her friends said am fooling her. Her friend this n her friend that.

I am just tired of the girl. A graduate without sense is a waste. She makes me get bored I swear..

The good news is that, am breaking the relationship today! I want to date a lady with matured mind.

idris4eva:
Even if I still copy these post and paste it on my girlfriend wall, she won't still understand......this post define the type of a woman am currently dating.......

I copied and pasted the link on my girlfriend whatsapp contact. She didn't talk to me all through the night.

Am just beginning to hate that girl. Her character is nothing to write home about.

I know the relationship will end this week shall. I stand to loss nothing.

Undermining his authority as a man? Why, does she see a dog instead of a man? I am sure when a woman sees her man, she sees and knows it's a man, no? Unless ofcourse, he behaves like a dog Or what else are you talking about? This is a democracy, stop being so insecure about your manhood, you were born "the man" and really if you were naturally meant to be authoritative, you won't demand it, it just comes-naturally .

Mzflexydeeva:
I try

wish my gf was ur friend so she could be mentored by d boss lady herself!

butanep:


One problem of my girl friend. Always complaining that her friends said I read too much, her friends said I don't call regularly, her friends said am fooling her. Her friend this n her friend that.

I am just tired of the girl. A graduate without sense is a waste. She makes me get bored I swear..

The good news is that, am breaking the relationship today! I want to date a lady with matured mind.

butanep:

I copied and pasted the link on my girlfriend whatsapp contact. She didn't talk to me all through the night.
Am just beginning to hate that girl. Her character is nothing to write home about.
I know the relationship will end this week shall. I stand to loss nothing.

And you will be the same one coming here demanding authority. You can't even make up your mind on whether to break up or not. Today, tomorrow, next year. Stop bitching and do it now.

afolwalex20:
True talk

Yeah, excellent write-up

Mzflexydeeva:
hmmmmmm! How interesting. I like ur observation but you should probably rethink. How much does the likes & all add to my account If I were to add ways men cud treat woman good do u think i'll be really true with that? The fact is no & that's because i'll simply favour the female side. One thing u don't know is, the best person to tell u about a guy is a guy. If u have lots of male friends u often realise they understand and relate better when u have issues with another guy. The essence of most of my post is to enlighten ladies especially on things they overlook. But anyway ur opinion is ur opinion afterall

Thank you for this response. This goes to show that the initial article is not copy and paste as some thought. Can I say that you are leagues above many of these ladies, sorry girls, on this forum. The beginning of issues is when a girl sees advice or any form correction in a bad light

Truckpusher:
The highlighted is something you really need to consider and look at it from another angle.

What happens if your spouse or bf understood clearly that there are red lines that shouldn't be crossed no matter how provoked?

So,once again do not put yourself in an awkward situation where anyone would even think of raising their hands on you.

That ego thing isn't really ego but a romantic way of encouraging your own, abi you and your boyfriend na competitor?

I will not tow the line of "never hit a woman" but you gotta admit, if a man did the same thing the woman did, the bully will not fight him. A woman beater knows he's physically stronger and that's the only way to "subdue" his woman. If she fights back? Even better. It'll give him greater joy when she's down.

Such men are loosers, check them! They're unsatisfied with most things in their lives therefore even your smile will annoy them. Ever wondered why the beating happens over and over again? I'm sure you just figured the woman is brainless and continuously screams at her man. Smh.

But somehow, other men will still make up excuses for them and anyhow, it's the woman's fault.

Oh... I think I just saw something. "A man is your superior"... there's just allot that implies including the woman is inferior. hian! I don't agree but I guess that's my opinion.

butanep:


One problem of my girl friend. Always complaining that her friends said I read too much, her friends said I don't call regularly, her friends said am fooling her. Her friend this n her friend that.

I am just tired of the girl. A graduate without sense is a waste. She makes me get bored I swear..

The good news is that, am breaking the relationship today! I want to date a lady with matured mind.

Good news!!! I feel you sha. Yours is even much more tolerable. Try mine

butanep:


I copied and pasted the link on my girlfriend whatsapp contact. She didn't talk to me all through the night.

Am just beginning to hate that girl. Her character is nothing to write home about.

I know the relationship will end this week shall. I stand to loss nothing.

Hahahahaha. I think say na only me. They are something else

Ok

captainboris:


wish my gf was ur friend so she could be mentored by d boss lady herself!

Are you sure she would gladly accept such without leaving you

Sometimes I tend to wave some of the relationship issues I see as factor of our environment.Living in Nigeria is unique and so must be the relationships.We need to look at each not generalize as the way the lower class still maintain their sanity in general life beats me.

Contributing to your list as a male I will advise,ladies should stop giving in to a man's bed desires with that mindset that he wants it.A male needs to see you have fun like he wants thats what makes its mind blowing if not its boring and most of these issues tie to se.x. Wonder why some of these issues also climax after birth,I know post natal depression exist but maturity sometimes is allowing who wants to help know where to start,some men and even women qt a point will even ask,ok what should I do?Its ok for a partner to be confused but the party must ask for direction and each party must bear responsibility.

I have to sum this way as no 2 are same and no single rule applies

nonjebose:
Good news!!! I feel you sha. Yours is even much more tolerable. Try mine

I give up bros.

Such lady is a waste to time. They have nothing to offer than sex!

I just hope the lady I love can do all these things just to keep me.

nonjebose:
Hahahahaha. I think say na only me. They are something else

I really don't know what the problem among them.

Some really lack proper home training. They feel their boyfriend is like their brother they talk to anyhow.

Immediately I broke up with her. I will just stay single for sometime. Let me see the difference. Sex is not hard to get anymore.

misspicy:

I hope you got what you crave for,now contest in the next miss nairaland pegeant and you will win.















Punkyveer,i know you didnt see this

grow up lady, this post aint bout a contest.....

read and learn.

Mzflexydeeva:

with this I pray you find a perfect Man

You are on point. So ladies with such senses still exist.....? Wow! www.mymissingribs.com

It's obvious that most guys here are boys not men... You can always bring out the best from that lady and make her the perfect lady you have ever dreamt of. All it takes is love, patience, understanding and determination. Remember, better the devil you know than the devil you don't... There's no perfect lady or guy anywhere except God.Use your head and stop been nagging boys who only want to taste all the ladies and use one flimsy excuse to cover up.

there are still few girls out there that are still a little bit intelligent and their brains dosent bridge wires and violently spark,like the others.tell ur fellow women,that refuse to learn till they go into the grave or reach age 55 years.The thing is that black girls re naturaly nasty,bossy,harsh,too religious and very dishonest and this is the main reasons why they loose out to made black men to much more cute,loving,honest and calm white girls..black girls are not loving creatures,so they cant give what they dont have..u only see them in church roaming aimlessly around the pastor,pray for me pastor,pray for you when you re loaded with various colours of iniquities...

jrerico1:
with this I pray you find a perfect Man

....yes oooooooooooo , me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me me

cc:mzflexydeeva

faithbibi:
It's obvious that most guys here are boys not men... You can always bring out the best from that lady and make her the perfect lady you have ever dreamt of. All it takes is love, patience, understanding and determination. Remember, better the devil you know than the devil you don't... There's no perfect lady or guy anywhere except God.Use your head and stop been nagging boys who only want to taste all the ladies and use one flimsy excuse to cover up.

so true ma`am

passionate88:
Relationship in Nigeria is a big scam. being single is sweeter than honey.

yes u re just right.

nonjebose:
Are you sure she would gladly accept such without leaving you

Honestly I don't know.
What makes u think she hasn't left me before?
But In all cases, she usuall come back begging.
It sounds funny right??

damton:
Good talk.so how does guy pushes their ladies away

Interesting point

kandiikane:




And you will be the same one coming here demanding authority. You can't even make up your mind on whether to break up or not. Today, tomorrow, next year. Stop bitching and do it now.

I am not bitching. I have made up my mind already. If peradventure I didn't see her today, it will not exceed this week. I don't break up relationship on phone or via chatting. I will simply sit her down and hit the nail on the head.

Trust me on that!

faithbibi:
It's obvious that most guys here are boys not men... You can always bring out the best from that lady and make her the perfect lady you have ever dreamt of. All it takes is love, patience, understanding and determination. Remember, better the devil you know than the devil you don't... There's no perfect lady or guy anywhere except God.Use your head and stop been nagging boys who only want to taste all the ladies and use one flimsy excuse to cover up.

so why you come dey vex?