90% of the girls we have nowadays are goldigggers, money rules their world

My people say women are like gifts, what you see inside is what you get.

Crap

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If a lady can't stand by me or believe in my hustle when I am broke.
Then she is as good has a _fuck mate I will discard anytime.


Just imagine the bullshitt you just spew. What happens if the man eventually goes broke(God forbide)?.

He will quit the relationship. when he is financial fit. They will start where they stopped.

Atimes I wonder how a person can by inebriated by so much bullshitt


Spits.
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they say love is free but expensive to shop!!

do nigg*s still fall inlove?

"love" is just an english word, it's found in the dictionary and not in the hrt of men...

my prayer is that God give hustling guys a befitting husband.

Flashh:
Only gold-diggers and runz girls go into relationship with the mentality that it's a guy's duty to spend on her.

So I think you are referring to "runz girls" in your post, not a real woman who knows she can live her life without depending on a man financially in a relationship.

You didn't tell us where it is written in the bible that a man should be responsible for the bills of a woman he hasn't gotten married to.

Relationship isn't something you buy with money by spending for a girl/lady. So get that!

Gbam!. U r a real man.Good response!

Lol ready made,what of second hand or aba made lol

Jobless people reposting instead of making comments.

A hoe will always be a hoe...

Na idiot men broke men complain...real men dont have time for such ladies.their main mission is to get the sperm outt and give them the coins they are after..you cant make them your hoouse wife as they will leave you whn ready made turn to nothing made but a well brought up will stick by you thick and thin.


a corect man always remember d days of humble beginnings...not when you leave village,bleach in lagos and start chasing ready made up and down...

Real man talking

Nonsense tread! I won't spend my dime for a girl who was not there when things were rough..

How did a guy came up with this silly mentality?

What/what is a ready-made man? Is man ever ready?

Guys should stop complaining about these heaux being materialistic should be a more befitting title cos the pum is always for sale to the highest bidder or the one who has the best pitch when it comes to selling dreams. Pum has no permanent owner and I agree that you can't knock their hustle.

Just get ya muscle/hustle up, so you can afford any pum regardless of the price.

The only reason this OP has just 11 Likes is because it's not a woman-bashing topic that will make under-achieving guys feel good about themselves. @OP, broke guys dey wait make one rich guy marry their sister come dash them business capital wey dem no gats pay back

I have to add something.


I still don't understand why guys are allowed to go after pretty and curvaceous girls in peace, while girls are criticized for going after rich men. It's basically the same.

And as if that is not enough, they criticize ladies that go after

1. Looks.
2. Intelligence.
3. Fame.


In short, if they had their way, they would want every lady to date, poor, ugly, dumb guys . . . just because . . .

I know how much cream costs, powder, lipstick, clothes, I've often been forced to go shopping with these girls, and I have been shocked at how expensive it is to be beautiful. Yet, men go after them . . . with nothing. How do you expect her to keep up the ruse?

But wait, you expect her to use her money, right? But then, why would a lady that is rich enough to take care of herself, settle for a poor dude? Love isn't THAT blind. And the worst part, this doesn't stop with money alone, if a lady says she would love to marry a handsome man, guys will quote her and insult her. Saying that she will have to settle for anybody when her time runs out.
If she insists on dating someone with a good command of English, they will criticize her as well. If she says she prefers dating doctors, or a certain flavour of engineers, they will gather around to call her a gold digger of sorts.
If she says she wants a tall man, they will insult, if she says she wants a confident man, they will insult. They will insult if she friendzones. WTF?!!!!!

Guys, this . . . is not that fair oh. . . . we need to give these guys a break and let them choose for themselves. Being broke doesn't make you special. It makes you . . . broke and undesirable to women. I have seen many of you claiming that one day, you will be rich, but in reality, the odds are against you. It is very likely for her to regret staying with you however.

Let the women choose what is best for them without insults and criticism. They have rights too.


That's all.

The Bible didn't say man and woman were created on separate days. Man and woman were created same day. Everything was created in six days and rested on the seventh.

Where did you get your half baked Biblical analogy from?

It's not how you start, but how you finish. Some men come backed by Bank of mum and dad,earlier opportunities, etc, others will eventually have to struggle a while until they 'get made' In all, Just remember that other scripture about the 'wise woman building her home...'(Pro 14:1)

cyprus000:
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If a lady can't stand by me or believe in my hustle when I am broke.
Then she is as good has a _fuck mate I will discard anytime.


Just imagine the bullshitt you just spew. What happens if the man eventually(goes broke(God forbide)?.

He will quit the relationship, when he is financial fit. They will start where they stopped.


Spits.
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why you dey swear for yourself? Why una guys just like to dey call yourselves 'broke'? Many women are with men who are trying to find their feet, after all, even team broke guys get babes, abi you no get babe so? People get married every Saturday and 90% of those men aren't rich, so who's marrying them?

DDeliverer:
is linda ikeji richer than oga seun?

is dt why bros is intimidated?

Them never ban you before baaaa

mikolo80:
so we no go arry again because of politician dem abi wetin be dis nonesense you de talk

habba nah because of dz tiny piece u quote every paragragh lyk dz? Oga u sabi copy no be small. .

seangy4konji:
A hoe will always be a hoe...

Na idiot men broke men complain...real men dont have time for such ladies.their main mission is to get the sperm outt and give them the coins they are after..you cant make them your hoouse wife as they will leave you whn ready made turn to nothing made but a well brought up will stick by you thick and thin.


a corect man always remember d days of humble beginnings...not when you leave village,bleach in lagos and start chasing ready made up and down...

Lol take it easy mate

In as much as I would like to agree with you OP,i do not think God created women because Adam was ready financially to have a woman.
God created Eve because he knew Adam was lonely.

Teempakguy:
I have to add something.


I still don't understand why guys are allowed to go after pretty and curvaceous girls in peace, while girls are criticized for going after rich men. It's basically the same.

And as if that is not enough, they criticize ladies that go after

1. Looks.
2. Intelligence.
3. Fame.


In short, if they had their way, they would want every lady to date, poor, ugly, dumb guys . . . just because . . .

I know how much cream costs, powder, lipstick, clothes, I've often been forced to go shopping with these girls, and I have been shocked at how expensive it is to be beautiful. Yet, men go after them . . . with nothing. How do you expect her to keep up the ruse?

But wait, you expect her to use her money, right? But then, why would a lady that is rich enough to take care of herself, settle for a poor dude? Love isn't THAT blind. And the worst part, this doesn't stop with money alone, if a lady says she would love to marry a handsome man, guys will quote her and insult her. Saying that she will have to settle for anybody when her time runs out.
If she insists on dating someone with a good command of English, they will criticize her as well. If she says she prefers dating doctors, or a certain flavour of engineers, they will gather around to call her a gold digger of sorts.
If she says she wants a tall man, they will insult, if she says she wants a confident man, they will insult. They will insult if she friendzones. WTF?!!!!!

Guys, this . . . is not that fair oh. . . . we need to give these guys a break and let them choose for themselves. Being broke doesn't make you special. It makes you . . . broke and undesirable to women. I have seen many of you claiming that one day, you will be rich, but in reality, the odds are against you. It is very likely for her to regret staying with you however.

Let the women choose what is best for them without insults and criticism. They have rights too.


That's all.

my brother, thank you. Naija men think they're the only ones that deserve good things and the ladies, like hungry dogs, should settle for whatever bones thrown to them and even be grateful. It's a sickening mentality cuz these same guys want their sisters with nice, smart, good-looking and comfortable guys.

tommychow:
OP LISTEN TO ME! You're not getting the issue. It's like a country where 95% of women are fat and ugly and majority of the men are like "I MUST MARRY A SLIM, CUTE CHICK". Very ignorant, right? We need to ADAPT to our surroundings. As you said, population is rising with lesser jobs available due to stunted growth in the countries economy. Now, you are indirectly saying all women MUST be with a financially stable man by saying all men MUST be financially stable before getting a partner. When he's 44 abi?

Listen, things have changed. Relationship is also a hustle nowadays, 'hustle' in the sense that we need relationships to go through hard times more than good times. Blame this dead country.

And ladies, keep searching for "made men" ehn. To one made man, there are 150 interested babes. HE'LL BE A FOOL NOT TO MESS AROUND! After suffering he'll now settle with one woman? RUBBISH! Which one is love? Did you love him when he had nothing? ABEG SHARRAP DER!!!

Oil dey ur head jare.

I don't support broke guys being in a relationship, and I also don't support jobless broke ladies being in a relationship. As a guy, if you a comfortable, go for financially ok ladies. Broke ladies need to focus their attention on breaking through poverty before thinking of marriage, husband is not the solution to your poverty.

Why must the guys always be the rich ones in the relationship and ladies always there to be a parasite? Why can't it be the other way round sometimes. Ladies being the rich ones and helping out her guy. Must ladies always be leeches?

You are making it look like these girls are entitled to be in a relationship just to make money. SMH.

Flashh:
Only gold-diggers and runz girls go into relationship with the mentality that it's a guy's duty to spend on her.

So I think you are referring to "runz girls" in your post, not a real woman who knows she can live her life without depending on a man financially in a relationship.

You didn't tell us where it is written in the bible that a man should be responsible for the bills of a woman he hasn't gotten married to.

Relationship isn't something you buy with money by spending for a girl/lady. So get that!

1 Timothy 5:8

aim5:
Women should put as much effort in improving themselves for their potential suitors as well. I know it's only natural to want to be with a successful attractive person, but these females need to stop thinking that they're entitled to their husband/boyfriend's wealth just because they're together. It's really nauseating. If you people claim and fight for equal rights, you should be able to buy your own things, pay for your own meals and take care of yourself. You want to be equals with men, but don't want to lose the comforts of a man's acts of chivalry SMH.

Both parties feel the sense of entitlement please. Men feel they are entitled to their woman's service, food etc. We all just need to stop being selfish and learn to be more considerate.

I don't think any lady should date a guy for material gain.It's all about spending intimate moment together.Especially when both partners are sexually active.Except if he or she want to remain a celibate until after marriage.That is why I dey kukuma go brothel go ease konji.The money wey a guy go dey spend on a date wey he no go fit kiss her until after several months wey she go say" I accept"and allow him to kiss her,That guy go use am Nack one better ashi.No toasting,no gift,just negotiate and pay to do your thing.