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| I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by sirjohnson(m): 2:57pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
I and an ex just got back together, so she decided to visit me yesterday Thursday deciding to sleep over till today Friday and would leave by 9pm...I tried to coax her into making out with me yesterday night but she vehemently denied on the grounds of not wanting to sin against God, and Konji wanted to finish me. Note that we had sex four times before during our first stint together. We woke up this morning and tried my best, she denied again, but when she decided to take her bath, I sneaked into the bathroom and she willingly allowed me do pre-intimacy, the pre-intimacy was pretty long and I even used my finger on her. Now I am damn up and couldn't control myself anymore. I begged her to allow me enter her, but she refused still. I even asked her to just help me come either by mouth or by hand just to feel relieved, all to no avail. Its now beginning to turn embarrassing, she was almost cussing me out. So I told her its better she leaves now and not wait untill 9pm cos I will keep disturbing her and she wont allow me... She dressed up, took her bag and called me all sorts of names... She said I didn't love her, that if I did I would not tell her to go because she would not have sex with me. She said I should not bother to see her off. Then she left. The lord knows I only told her to leave to save the two of us the stress. Have I done wrong by telling her to leave knowing that my Konji wont allow me leave her to be and she would still not oblige? 1 Like |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 2:59pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Did you eat the kitty  1 Like |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by MizMyColi(f): 3:00pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
*Post modified.* Utter Claptrap!  When it suits them and their 5 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by agarawu23(m): 3:01pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Mr man, Truly you don't love her 6 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by Cutehector(m): 3:01pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Hahahhahahhahahhahaha Pleeease just d cap only, let it touch d front of d pusszy, I swear I won't enter.. Chei konji can embarass men eh 20 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by sirjohnson(m): 3:14pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
agarawu23: Yes, you are right.... I dont. She forced herself back on me after she noticed I have upgraded in all ramifications.. New beautiful apartment, money etc, but I told her I love her... But mind you, she isnt a gold digger, she has more money than me and would not ask me for a kobo. |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by SeverusSnape(m): 3:21pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
You shouldn't have sent her away, Bros, Don't you have self control??...Can't you spend the night with a lady without having sex?... See, I've spent the night with my ex in a hotel room (I've spent nights with others on several occasions), we kissed, smooched, did everything that a guy and girl should do in privacy, But I didn't penetrate her, I had my reasons; Not that the urge was not there, But I controlled my self, Take note, I didn't even make any move to go into that garden. You have to learn to control your libido, Don't allow your third leg think for you. If you continue like this, I see a potential rapist in you. 17 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by Hazardd(m): 3:25pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Konji at work  you try to send her out if not it could have resulted in rape lol 2 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by jonaifame22(m): 3:33pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
I commend ur strenght, nice one for sending her out |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by Nobody: 3:37pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Am crazy about men who has self control over their sexual arousal..... One reason y I respect my ex boyfriend..... dat dude will neva strafe without ur mutual agreement, if u like sleep naked next to him, the moment u frown dats a turn off for him, he won't bother if u like spend a month in his house sleeping unclad.... Anyways op can't u practice a No Sex relatnship and not cheat 11 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by falconey(m): 3:43pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
I experienced this sort last year but was able to control my konji after 2hours of disturbing her, being naked trying all sorts of tricks to make her succumb but all to no avail........... I controlled myself we watched movie,ate and discussed about other things then she left. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by jonaifame22(m): 3:44pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
avasweet:are u sure ur ex bf's dick functions everytime it should function? |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by mrkay101(m): 3:56pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Konji is a respecter of no man.. |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by HIGHESTPOPORI(m): 3:57pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
avasweet:If he is all that,why is he now ur ex? 10 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by Vinshu(f): 4:00pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
@Op, you are really shameless. You cannot see a lady unclad without having a hard-on ?  |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by 400billionman: 4:11pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
What is your name again. Are you Sean4konji ? You did well bro. Let me tell you how to handle such girls. When she calls again, do not pick till she calls 4 times. She will be missing you and forming holy. Do not ever beg a lady for sex. Thats her point of strenght over you. Rather stay celibate for one year. |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by 400billionman: 4:12pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
MizMyColi: She love him.. |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by 400billionman: 4:16pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Vinshu: Persons like you will still label a guy impotent, when you are in the mood and he is not forthcoming. 1 Like |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by Vinshu(f): 4:20pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
400billionman: There is time for everything and when she said No it should turn him off. Not persisting to the point of sending her off. That's rude and naughty. The op is a pervert |
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| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by morethanadoll(f): 4:23pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Wow...seems like a woman with unforseen motives. The question is, does she really love you? A woman who loves her man will NOT make lame excuses, especially when they have ALREADY had intercourse in the past. Also, that same woman would NEVER let her man go Hot, especially to bed, where they are both sleeping. As the older generation of women says, what you don't do for your man, another woman will! How would she like that? If I wasn't feeling up to penetration, I would have easily fulfilled my man's wishes of MouthAction. She is ungrateful. Find you lady who doesn't mind pleasing you when you need it. Damn...she made me mad and I don't even know her. 13 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by tosyne2much(m): 4:24pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
She didnt want to sin against God yet she allowed pre-intimacy ? May God deliver us from new generation born again ladies who fornicate in born again clothings 11 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by 400billionman: 4:26pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Vinshu: If you are in the mood, will you allow a male visitor sleeping on your bed for 2 nights when he has vehemently refused settling your libido the first night ? There are ladies in the habit of doing that. At least, he didnt try raping her. I have heard some guys say they would either rape such a girl or send her away. Better send her away. Its too tempting. |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by tosyne2much(m): 4:29pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
MizMyColi:Wooooow !!!  Who would ever thought Mizmycoli would make such a comment  |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by Vinshu(f): 4:30pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
400billionman: You must be a perv. |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by sirjohnson(m): 4:35pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Vinshu: Yes, I can't see an endowed lady like her naked and not have a hard on... Am an active homo sapiens for pete's sake 2 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by MizMyColi(f): 4:36pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
morethanadoll: Ohhhhh please shut it! It is thought processes like yours that give men the impression that women are desperados. For fvck's sake since when did her body become an object that must always be at a (her) man's beck and call? Is she married to him? Are they legally bound? Does she not have a right to say, "Ok, I did this with him in the past, but I don't want to dash into it just like that"? Does she not have a right to say, "Ok, this is how far I want to go?" Did you even bother reading the OP well? From what I read up there, she did not even want to have any carnal knowledge, but she gave in because the pressure was too much, not necessarily because it's what she really wanted. And you SirJohnson, do get a grip on yourself! You guys baffle me at times. Whatever happened to Self-Control? Why would you want to go all the way with someone whom you do not love? Where's the sense and humanity in that?Later, you'll be among those who call ladies wh0res and whatnot. You admitted that you two weren't together for a while, you also made it clear she has more money than you do, didn't your senses reveal to you that she prolly wants to take things slow before getting really intimate again? Like seriously, you need to re-wire your way of thinking. And FYI, it was really ungentlemanly of you and shows that you are still very much a baby when it comes to putting your emotions and third leg under check. A man who has no rule over his spirit is like a city broken down and without walls. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by MizMyColi(f): 4:38pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
tosyne2much: Clearly I didn't try to digest the story properly, and going by the revelations he made on this thread, I am modifying my post right away. Nonsense! 1 Like |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by MissSlimbody(f): 4:40pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
sirjohnson: I don't support pre-marital sex, but your girlfriend is a hypocrite the reason is up there.3 Likes |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by sirjohnson(m): 4:41pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
SeverusSnape: The sole purpose of me inviting her over is for sex and she somehow knows it... Not for movies or cuisines, and if my objective is not fulfilled my body no go come down... And I dont see anything wrong in inviting a lady over solely for sex, its what active men do. |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by Vinshu(f): 4:41pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
sirjohnson: It's not right. Girls can see guys naked without being turned on why can't guys do same? |
| Re: I Told Her To Leave Because She Wouldnt Have Sex With Me.. Wrong or Right by IamLEGEND1: 4:46pm On Sep 25, 2015 |
Vinshu:what is this one saying, is he gày? |
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