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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by tosyne2much(m): 12:08am On Oct 08, 2015
shut:


grin
U dey laf abi ? cheesy


Btw, happy birthday... I guess I'm the first person to wish you a happy birthday cool

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Jayne07(f): 12:08am On Oct 08, 2015
Nobody is perfect. Everybody get their own for body. If u follow majority here and break up with her den move on to d next girl,wen dat ones wahala starts would u also break up? How long do u want to keep breaking up? Pray about it. Study her. Do u love her enuf to be with her for d rest of ur life? Does she love u d same way? Minus d stubbornness,if yes den sit her down as d head of d relationship, tell her she's pushing u away. Ask her if she really wants the relationship. If yes she must work on her stubbornness and learn to tell u stuffs. Form the habit of praying together and ask God to help u be better for each Oda. If truly u both love each other, break up isn't the solution. And also let her know ur the man in d relationship and u sef get craze. Don't forget women like dat macho sense.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by shut(f): 12:09am On Oct 08, 2015
tosyne2much:
U dey laf abi ? cheesy


Btw, happy birthday... I guess I'm the first person to wish you a happy birthday cool

Aww yes you're,
Thank you kiss
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by jornie(m): 12:11am On Oct 08, 2015
shut:


Why do good guys end up with not so good ladies and good ladies end up with not so good guys
Lol it's a funny world out here.


Dude, i take it you're mature that's why you ignore and just keep loving.She on the other hand is just being childish you need to sit her down and tell her how much she gets you pissed,tell her what attitude of her's you don't like and try iron things out.
It's good to be understanding but bad when you always let her have her way.wonder why our parents don't always buy us chocolate when we cry for it?
Goodluck wink
na lie joor ...
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by francescainnoce(f): 12:11am On Oct 08, 2015
For a second, I was gonna think it's him, I mean my boyfriend and I was gonna squeeze me tonight.
Checked your profile and it happened to be negative because my boyfriend will sacrifice the planet for me and back and I'm lucky to have him however have got issues that I'm a bit skeptical on sharing it with him... Not like I'm dating someone else or anything of that sort, it's only pressure, stress and some other personal challenges that is pressing down and I'm scared to have him feel like hey woman "it's too much already" unno..
So I kindaf keep this away from him and it makes me unhappy that I get him all locked up in the middle...
Christ help me please
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by tosyne2much(m): 12:11am On Oct 08, 2015
shut:

Aww yes you're, Thank you kiss
Don't worry I will send my gift via mail cool

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:12am On Oct 08, 2015
Empiree:
You are the crook and betrayal in this relationship. It means your intention with her was to only eat the icing on the cake. You are a bad man. She did the right thing for wanting to know your mum.


Shut your yakker before I slap the black out of your skin negro. I had every intention of going the distance with this girl, but her attitude to things put me off. We went out for a good three years. I tried so much to contain her excesses, tried to change my ways for her, but she didn't want to reciprocate. don't judge on something you don't know.

By the way, someone who has no qualms insulting my mum, the woman who brought me to this world, who nurtured me and made me who I am today, is someone I can NEVER take home to meet her. Even after insulting her, she never apologized. I am a yoruba man and I have the whole respect for my mother. You don't go insulting my parents or my siblings and expect me to present you to them as my future wife.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:13am On Oct 08, 2015
francescainnoce:
For a second, I was gonna think it's him, I mean my boyfriend and I was gonna squeeze me tonight.
Checked your profile and it happened to be negative because my boyfriend will sacrifice the planet for me and back and I'm lucky to have him however have got issues that I'm a bit skeptical on sharing it with him... Not like I'm dating someone else or anything of that sort, it's only pressure, stress and some other personal challenges that is pressing down and I'm scared to have him feel like hey woman "it's too much already" unno..
So I kindaf keep this away from him and it makes me unhappy that I get him all locked up in the middle...
Christ help me please
Good for you in your display of immaturity.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by omonnakoda: 12:13am On Oct 08, 2015
oluwaahmed:


Ah! Give her one of ur kidneys? Why R u bein a love Extremist
OK would she give you one of hers
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by tosyne2much(m): 12:14am On Oct 08, 2015
francescainnoce:
For a second, I was gonna think it's him, I mean my boyfriend and I was gonna squeeze me tonight.
Checked your profile and it happened to be negative because my boyfriend will sacrifice the planet for me and back and I'm lucky to have him however have got issues that I'm a bit skeptical on sharing it with him... Not like I'm dating someone else or anything of that sort, it's only pressure, stress and some other personal challenges that is pressing down and I'm scared to have him feel like hey woman "it's too much already" unno..
So I kindaf keep this away from him and it makes me unhappy that I get him all locked up in the middle...
Christ help me please
Hmmmm !!!


Now clap for yourself

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by jornie(m): 12:16am On Oct 08, 2015
omonnakoda:

Let me start by asking a very simple and maybe foolish question.What do you mean when you say you love her ?
Would you give her one of your kidneys?
Second question,do you have any other women?
Do you have a plan B.
That for me is the way to test how much you love someone
Otherwise what you call love is just fear
you zay!?! kidney bawo?
kilagbe kilaju! sad
shoro niyen!
plan B?
what guy has no other girl feelin him
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:19am On Oct 08, 2015
Empiree:
You are the crook and betrayal in this relationship. It means your intention with her was to only eat the icing on the cake. You are a bad man. She did the right thing for wanting to know your mum.
Are you serious? Women enjoy it more than men. Jeez! angry lipsrsealed lipsrsealed cry cry cry
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by ebenco2000: 12:19am On Oct 08, 2015
O boy just move on. People like that can never change , since you cant cope with her now, just leave her and look for someone you are compatible with. Marriage is out of it because it won't work.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by dacovajnr: 12:22am On Oct 08, 2015
Murder her and claim defence.. undecided
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Olenga(m): 12:22am On Oct 08, 2015
You have not told us what she does that makes her sturborn!!!!!
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by jornie(m): 12:23am On Oct 08, 2015
F

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Jayne07(f): 12:23am On Oct 08, 2015
francescainnoce:
For a second, I was gonna think it's him, I mean my boyfriend and I was gonna squeeze me tonight.
Checked your profile and it happened to be negative because my boyfriend will sacrifice the planet for me and back and I'm lucky to have him however have got issues that I'm a bit skeptical on sharing it with him... Not like I'm dating someone else or anything of that sort, it's only pressure, stress and some other personal challenges that is pressing down and I'm scared to have him feel like hey woman "it's too much already" unno..
So I kindaf keep this away from him and it makes me unhappy that I get him all locked up in the middle...
Christ help me please
I can relate
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:24am On Oct 08, 2015
dude congratulations!!!....cuz u are already a maga tongue tongue

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by shut(f): 12:24am On Oct 08, 2015
tosyne2much:
Don't worry I will send my gift via mail cool

cheesy keep pulling my legs
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by flokii: 12:25am On Oct 08, 2015
wasak:
We started dating in 2011 after a year of asking her out. I just love her naturally not for anything. Admittedly, her stubbornness might be partly due to my over pampering at the initial stage of our relationship, I was naive but I think 4 years is actually a long time for the love to be balanced. At every point in time she claims she loves me more, but no evidence whatsoever to show for it. I don't want to venture into crazy things I've done for her, that's a story for another day.
It appears she takes delight in frustrating me due to my simple nature, actually I can be stubborn too, but not with regards to relationship because I believe it's all about compromise. She's inconsiderate and selfish, always wants to have her way at all time even though I have to sacrifice my convenience for her umpteen times. I'm scared of settling down with a woman who'll finally kill me, I love her no doubt. But it appears love is not enough. Someone talk to me pls

Love is never enough in a relationship my friend.. there are other parameters..

n still a young guy..

let d old babas dem come and give advice... Peace
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Nobody: 12:27am On Oct 08, 2015
Read my signature bro.However, If you want a girl to like you,don't be emotional to her or pamper her.Personal experience.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by ebenco2000: 12:29am On Oct 08, 2015
Jayne07:
Nobody is perfect. Everybody get their own for body. If u follow majority here and break up with her den move on to d next girl,wen dat ones wahala starts would u also break up? How long do u want to keep breaking up? Pray about it. Study her. Do u love her enuf to be with her for d rest of ur life? Does she love u d same way? Minus d stubbornness,if yes den sit her down as d head of d relationship, tell her she's pushing u away. Ask her if she really wants the relationship. If yes she must work on her stubbornness and learn to tell u stuffs. Form the habit of praying together and ask God to help u be better for each Oda. If truly u both love each other, break up isn't the solution. And also let her know ur the man in d relationship and u sef get craze. Don't forget women like dat macho sense.
why do we always believe prayer can solve all problems when all we need to do is to be objective in our decision making.A broken relationship is better than broken marriage, if you have a partner with an attitude that you cant tolerate, dont think of marriage because hoping someone will change will be a big mistake, it takes a miracle for that to happen, there are many girls out there. God will direct you to the right one.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by nigerianvenom(m): 12:29am On Oct 08, 2015
Harbosede02:
It's obvious u love her and U've shown it to her too much that shez nw taking it all for granted.... Y nt try the I don't care attitude some time,make her realise ur life doesn't depend on the relationship(even if it does)let her knw u av so many options.

Thumbs-up babe. I love dis
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by tosyne2much(m): 12:30am On Oct 08, 2015
shut:


cheesy keep pulling my legs
Ensure you reply my pm so that we'll talk about the location of our rendezvous cheesy
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Akosxxx(m): 12:30am On Oct 08, 2015
jornie:
Fvck kwame's a fool,,,he should b arrested
laughing at this just woke up my guyz mehn. funny man

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by jornie(m): 12:32am On Oct 08, 2015
F

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by shut(f): 12:34am On Oct 08, 2015
tosyne2much:
Ensure you reply my pm so that we'll talk about the location of our rendezvous cheesy

grin
You kidding right
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by magio(m): 12:39am On Oct 08, 2015
Just dropped mine three days ago and move on, Maybe God allows us to meet few wrong people so that when we finally meet the right person we will be grateful for the gift. so my man try and forget her and see some great change in your life.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by TolaniLuv: 12:40am On Oct 08, 2015
Your mates are out there hustling trying to be successful you are here bitching about love...

Focus on success first' she should be the one whining about you'

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Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Empiree: 12:43am On Oct 08, 2015
metalgear:



Shut your yakker before I slap the black out of your skin negro. I had every intention of going the distance with this girl, but her attitude to things put me off. We went out for a good three years. I tried so much to contain her excesses, tried to change my ways for her, but she didn't want to reciprocate. don't judge on something you don't know.

By the way, someone who has no qualms insulting my mum, the woman who brought me to this world, who nurtured me and made me who I am today, is someone I can never take home to meet her. Even after insulting her, she never apologized. I am a yoruba man and I have the whole respect for my mother. You don't go insulting my parents or my siblings and expect me to present you to them as my future wife.
ok. Easy, you hit the nail with your little details. But hey, na your side of the story be this. She's isn't here to defend herself. Who knows you said this to get sympathy. Ofcourse I won't trade my mum for silly fiance. No sensible man does that.
Re: How Do I Handle A Stubborn Girlfriend? by Davland(m): 12:45am On Oct 08, 2015
[quote author=magio post=38769832]Just dropped mine three days ago and move on, Maybe God allows us to meet few wrong people so that when we finally meet the right person we will be grateful for the gift. so my man try and forget her and see some great change in your life.

Will also be singing Craig David_walking away to 'er b4 weekend kiss

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