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Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by braine(m): 2:05pm On Oct 08, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Go to her house,knock on her door and POLITELY return the gift to her.

That's how you politely return a gift. undecided[/color]
grin
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by wellmax(m): 2:05pm On Oct 08, 2015
Post it with DHL
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Ilekeh(f): 2:08pm On Oct 08, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Why is the watch not enclosed in the box that they usually keep it?

Looks more like those watches abokì men sell in their show glasses. undecided[/color]
Lol and why can't we see the face of the watch?
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Nobody: 2:08pm On Oct 08, 2015
You don fall for story. grin No Nigerian girl will say to a guy that she's trying to get his attention. Those pictures are what he intended to buy for her. grin

agohmamuda:
WHY ALL THESE KIND GIRLS NO DEY EVER COME MY WAY ?? angry angry ALL I'LL SIMPLY DO I LOVE THEM BACK grin grin
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by cuvox(m):
..wrap them with something else and give it to her as gifts too.

later you explain why you did it
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Mixty: 2:10pm On Oct 08, 2015
I smell lies
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by apheyz(m): 2:10pm On Oct 08, 2015
ashmanpolo:
This girl in my area was hanging out with my friends and then she started bitching on me. That she hates me. I like forming. "Everytime he's dressing like an Americana and he doesn't even greet people" That, what am I even feeling like sef?

"Why is he not with you guys today? I always see him here everyday, drinking Heineken and always Laughing out Loud with y'all" She told my friends as she feigned obsessed.

The next day my friends told me about all the swearing so I saw her some days later and greeted her first. The girl is quite pretty BUT not my Speck. I don't do 'yellow paw-paw'. I started the conversation this way:
"Halo swit, my name's Ashman. You' so beautiful"
The young girl started laughing. Every word I said was countered with laughter.
"Are you laughing at me?"
She stopped, whipped her face. Looked straight into my eyes and said:

"I'm laughing because you don't even know how long I've been trying to get your attention" whew!!! I was flattered. For once in my life I felt like the Emperor of Rome. BUT one thing was sure, I can't date this girl. No NEVER.
We exchanged contacts and it's barely two weeks, she walked up to me and handed a parcel to me. "I got this for you"

I got home and opened it this morning. I swear, I saw a brand new Swatch wrist watch; Original Malizia Perfume and a foreign Pee-Jay. That girl must have spent an estimate of 30k. Right now I feel perplexed. I really don't need such gifts from a girl I can NEVER date. I mean NEVER and I also wouldn't want to be indebted to her.

'I know this kinda girls. If they fall in love, e don be for you na. They will remain in your life like Mount Zion that can never be moved. Love go taya you na'

How do I politely return her gifts.
Thanks. Mature responses needed asap.

CC: Farano
Lalasticlala
Ishilove
This OP can lie for Africa
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Oct 08, 2015
As simple as she gave it to you. Thank her.
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by omo9ja1(m): 2:11pm On Oct 08, 2015
you are forming too much

you hardly see a girl spending on a guy take your chance or you will end up loving someone that does not love you
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Danielwisdom(m): 2:11pm On Oct 08, 2015
Pls my dear give me her number. God bless u
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by drss(m): 2:13pm On Oct 08, 2015
Op u get her number? I wan tell her something.
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by lacreamieboie(m): 2:14pm On Oct 08, 2015
Return them... She stole those items!
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by tolexy007(m): 2:14pm On Oct 08, 2015
@op na so you fine reach? undecided undecided undecided
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by cowgirl9090:
The act of giving can be incredibly deep and meaningful to the giver. When this passing of care, love, and intimate feelings are interrupted(by rejecting it) in some way a great deal of hurt
can follow.

To avoid hurting her feelings,here are some tips to remember:

It is best to approach the giver in private and in
person. When this is not possible, it is
acceptable to write a letter.

Thank the giver for their thoughtfulness taking
care not to embarrass them.

Express your regret for declining the gift and
explain why you must do so.
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by drss(m): 2:15pm On Oct 08, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Go to her house,knock on her door and POLITELY return the gift to her.

That's how you politely return a gift. undecided[/color]
and then she will hate him for d rest of her life.
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by AfroKnight: 2:15pm On Oct 08, 2015
This story get as E be
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Oct 08, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Go to her house,knock on her door and POLITELY return the gift to her.

That's how you politely return a gift. undecided[/color]
Simple!
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Ehisben(m): 2:15pm On Oct 08, 2015
Transfer now if u don't need her
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by musafat(f): 2:16pm On Oct 08, 2015
Don't go to her house, I will advice u dash it out or show it to ur frnd. Goin to her house may land u in trouble
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by canDy4eva(f): 2:16pm On Oct 08, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Go to her house,knock on her door and POLITELY return the gift to her.

That's how you politely return a gift. undecided[/color]
abi my broda! Itz as simple as abc!
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by drss(m): 2:17pm On Oct 08, 2015
cowgirl9090:
[color=#000000]Typing[/color]
reading...
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Jeneral4: 2:18pm On Oct 08, 2015
buy ha sth more expensive...... after dt, u wud hv paid ha d debt n u can den free urslf of d moral burden n den discharge her
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Achilies(m): 2:18pm On Oct 08, 2015
Op take her out and respectfully ask her what is the purpose of the gift. Her reply will make u know if u should return the gift or not.
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Pamelayoung: 2:18pm On Oct 08, 2015
@ op go get a life pls.
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Whizpeter(m): 2:18pm On Oct 08, 2015
ashmanpolo:
Maybe it's a message. She wants a baby from.... Not me
Your 666th post on NL... shocked
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Nobody: 2:18pm On Oct 08, 2015
Why you no wear the watch and snap with it,instead you went to copy in a site and paste?
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by OyinMIXmola(f): 2:19pm On Oct 08, 2015
I srsly hate ish like diz,I'd rather stay single than taken cheaply all in the name of love...am sure if d babe knew how u created a thread on her matter,it even hit the front page too,am sure she wld start hating you men frm today onwards...if u dnt want her gifts then u sldnt collect it in d first instance,mercy after death...bro abeg go baffff
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Pamelayoung: 2:20pm On Oct 08, 2015
drss:
and then she will hate him for d rest of her life.
And who cares?
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Oct 08, 2015
Give me her number lemme woo her then.She fit jel for me pass you.
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by leeman009: 2:20pm On Oct 08, 2015
Give me her number since you dont want it
Re: How Do I Politely Return Her Gifts? by LadyX(f): 2:21pm On Oct 08, 2015
menix:
Hmm..
OP just go to her house with the gift nd tell her ur father saw the gifts nd scolded you that he had warned you of collecting gifts from "STRANGERS".

Do the acting nd return it chikena..
grin grin grin
Am *dead*
Why did you assume that OP is a kid?
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