We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter.

Sorry bro. You were just the rebound guy. That was unfair and I think you should let her go and cut all ties with her.

Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?


The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.

Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.

God is with you.

braine:
Pele, bro.

Ur piece of advice is needed sir...

Na only her make sense for ur area ni? Oga na school she dey, she go need attention from a guy no matter what and u not around her to give it to her. I'd advice u play along, tink of her as ur babe anytin shez around and get a side chick. Life is too short to kill ursef on top one babe wey no care about u. SMART UP BRO!!!

you don't need a soothsayer to tell you she doesn't love you, but how you take use four years of your life dey chase one babe?

kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?


The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.

Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.

God is with you.

chisos!!! I gatz go pray for mountain top b4 I go fit bleep u

imas:
you don't need a soothsayer to tell you she doesn't love you, but how you take use four years of your life dey chase one babe?

I tire ooo, wen dere are enough succulent nd juicy ones around

Want my advice? MOVE ON... It ain't always easy but I keep telling my guys never to beg for love.

See this guy, he wan do relationship with a lady that spends 3/4 of each year of her life in school

kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?


The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.

Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.

God is with you.

Will u be a specimen during the experimentation?

Igemburg:
Na only her make sense for ur area ni? Oga na school she dey, she go need attention from a guy no matter what and u not around her to give it to her. I'd advice u play along, tink of her as ur babe anytin shez around and get a side chick. Life is too short to kill ursef on top one babe wey no care about u. SMART UP BRO!!!

Tnks 4 dis piece bro..

Smh. The writing was on the wall all along but you chose to ignore the signs. No sane person, no matter how decent & "wifey" they are, takes not one, not two, not even three but FOUR FLIPPIN YEARS to respond to someone's advances. She didn't do that out of "decency", she simply wasn't into you. Period.

Yes, you got used & guess what? YOU let it happen. How can you allow yourself to hang dry for four years? That doesn't get you much respect. It reeks of desperation. I'm sorry but you have yourself to blame on this one by putting yourself as "option Z" to some girl I'm very certain is NOT worth it on all levels.

imas:
you don't need a soothsayer to tell you she doesn't love you, but how you take use four years of your life dey chase one babe?

There re breaks within.. The luv refused to fade.. No be my fault, nh nature

mrlaw93:
Will u be a specimen during the experimentation?

Na my work Oga Old-time Customer.. Just say the word!


But, I go collect money o

kilode100:

Na my work Oga Old-time Customer.. Just say the word!

But, I go collect money o

I get future ma.

Don't try to force it bro..also broke up with my ex cos of this same situation duo he was d one cheating..don't allow yourself to be love out of pity,,she has made it clear so let her go..your own woman is out there ready to love n care for you,,give yourself a second chance..time healeth every open wound!! My opinion duo

Aceed:
See this guy, he wan do relationship with a lady that spends 3/4 of each year of her life in school

i tire oo for dis guy. Op it wont work, it cnt work. Jst tk her as ur side chic n look for anoda in ur area or whr u work or worship. If u nor dey sch leav sch babes or gain admission n enta sch. Bt how wud a grown man b crying ova a gal whr der are a million n one untapped babes everywhr.

jabojafa:
i tire oo for dis guy. Op it wont work, it cnt work. Jst tk her as ur side chic n look for anoda in ur area or whr u work or worship. If u nor dey sch leav sch babes or gain admission n enta sch. Bt how wud a grown man b crying ova a gal whr der are a million n one untapped babes everywhr.

Am also a student sir.. we dnt just school in same state.

mrlaw93:
Am also a student sir.. we dnt just school in same state.

wich sch b dt sef? Babes nor dey der?

jabojafa:
wich sch b dt sef? Babes nor dey der?

Dem plenty dere.. bt d heart decides!

mrlaw93:
Dem plenty dere.. bt d heart decides!

always use ur head n not ur hrt.

jabojafa:
always use ur head n not ur hrt.

lolz

mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlala, abeg reason my matter.

Bros I don reason ur matter finnish. And guy...


That babe no like you at all. As you talk say she use you pass time you are very correct. Abeg try bone am.

Why you go use 4yrs runs babe ? That one suppose tell you say she no send you na.

And I know say you show her too much love so she come see you like small boy wen no get level.

Babes no dey send guys wen dey show them too much love.


Guy bone that chick she no send you abeg.

[size=17pt]OP Are you Yakub??[/size]

https://www.nairaland.com/2740722/conversation-between-yakub-cheated-him

raayah:
[size=17pt]OP Are you Yakub??[/size]

https://www.nairaland.com/2740722/conversation-between-yakub-cheated-him

lol...I think he is yacub..

raayah:
[size=17pt]OP Are you Yakub??[/size]

https://www.nairaland.com/2740722/conversation-between-yakub-cheated-him

I don't think so yakub's girlfriend is not a student.

raayah:
[size=17pt]OP Are you Yakub??[/size]

https://www.nairaland.com/2740722/conversation-between-yakub-cheated-him

Lol.. i am nt Yakub and she is not comoestas ..

End time. . U are on a long thing and a serious learner... U don't beg for a relationship this time

Drive on bro

No long story, there is nothing here to discuss. She left and you gained experience.

Man up and move on!

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All guys should learn to focus their energy on developing themselves mentally, physical, financially and if need be spiritually, before diving into the illusion called Romantic love.