| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Josh316(m): 4:39pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...
During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.
Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..
I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?
Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter. TAKE A WALK BRO... YOU HAVE BEEN USED AND FRIENDZONED |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Gbawe: 4:39pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Bro, it may hurt now but consider yourself lucky. She does not sound like a sincere person and it seems to me your relationship with her was always one-sided with you valuing the relationship far more than she does. Try and move on with your life because it clearly appears as if she has done precisely that.
A way to look at this is that you dodged a major bullet because she does not sound like a good person and it is obvious she would have hurt you sooner or later. Clear your thoughts, try to gather yourself together and move on by cutting all contacts with her and focusing on things that make you happy and fulfilled. In time, when you are ready for it, a far better woman will come along who will be interested in you and you alone. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by CandyBar: 4:40pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
mrlaw93:
I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. One of the worst things in a relationship is Loving someone who loves someone else. What to do? Buy Orijin.....drink am wella, focus unto next thing....God just answered your prayers.....a broken heart is always better than a broken home. Cheer up bro.......finer babes full brekete......Trust me. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by samola98(m): 4:42pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?
The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.
Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.
God is with you. is tat a good advice. Bros u re just a spare tyre, u re only useful when the main tyre is not available.either u accept or u take a walk. Kapish 1 Like |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Mobsync(m): 4:45pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?
The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.
Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.
God is with you. I also have the same problem. Should I also come to you? 6 Likes |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by engrjacuzzi: 4:45pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
so we now have porn stars on nairaland. just spotted kilode100 with her comments. see what cossy ojiakor has caused in kilode100's life. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Phame: 4:45pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
imas:
you don't need a soothsayer to tell you she doesn't love you, but how you take use four years of your life dey chase one babe? I don't know what's wrong with men like mrlaw93 (OP). How can any sane man use such a long time to chase one girl? He deserve what he got. I wont use one week to chase any girl. Nonsense! 2 Likes |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Obowo2: 4:46pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Mobsync:
I also have the same problem. Should I also come to you?  na General problem |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by SosaMontana(m): 4:46pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
imas:
you don't need a soothsayer to tell you she doesn't love you, but how you take use four years of your life dey chase one babe? Guy d tin tire me ooo 4yrs for a babe b4 d guy go find wife it will take him 10 yrs Nawa 4 some guys ooo 2 Likes |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by wokomabest(m): 4:51pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?
The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.
Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.
God is with you. shoo 1 Like |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by stonecoldcafe: 4:53pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...
During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.
Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..
I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?
Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter. [size=28pt]GROW UP![/size] |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by ivoatt(m): 5:02pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Girls plenty for town |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Mekzmoney(m): 5:02pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
M much more interested in ur profile pix and nt ur comment.... What kinda man would have a queen like u and still cheat? Sum men needs 24 lashes... Babe are u still single? Just asking.. NegeduGrace:
Don't try to force it bro..also broke up with my ex cos of this same situation duo he was d one cheating..don't allow yourself to be love out of pity,,she has made it clear so let her go..your own woman is out there ready to love n care for you,,give yourself a second chance..time healeth every open wound!! My opinion duo |
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| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Ninilowo(m): 5:21pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
You love her but she doesn't love you. The equation is not balanced. Try ur luck elsewhere. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by chachanga: 5:22pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
How stupid could a guy get? You wasted four years of your life that could've better used discovering and loving a worthier person on a chick who only deigned to see some flimsy application for you as a rebound toy, well done. Na you get the years wey you dey waste. Mind you, you only live once and i doubt very muxh sir that you are a cat  . . Al the while you were pining for her attention, she was receiving serious pvnny pounding ministrations from a guy like you. She gave you a yes and at the first chance she had to be apart from you, she went back under his d!ck. By Jypiter's cock, you sir, need a swift kick on your fanny. Maybe then, some common sense might percolate in your general brain area. Sorry, for the harsh words but i just hate seeing a sincere fella being taken for a ride. 1 Like |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Nobody: 5:26pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:
Smh. The writing was on the wall all along but you chose to ignore the signs. No sane person, no matter how decent & "wifey" they are, takes not one, not two, not even three but FOUR FLIPPIN YEARS to respond to someone's advances. She didn't do that out of "decency", she simply wasn't into you. Period.
Yes, you got used & guess what? YOU let it happen. How can you allow yourself to hang dry for four years? That doesn't get you much respect. It reeks of desperation. I'm sorry but you have yourself to blame on this one by putting yourself as "option Z" to some girl I'm very certain is NOT worth it on all levels. you are right |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by 8unit(f): 5:26pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...
During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.
Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..
I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?
Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter. pls bro, did you ever make love to her? Did u ever cum in her cuntt? Answer me i've a piece for u |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Nobody: 5:28pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...
During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.
Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..
I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?
Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter. once love is involved force cannot be used , I wonder why you persisted even after seeing the warning signs . anyway its too late crying after split milk just forget about her. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Nobody: 5:34pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
You're so raw and that's too bad for a woman! kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?
The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.
Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.
God is with you. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by bummyla(m): 5:36pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Guy! You Can Not Force Someone To Love You! And You Can Not Make Someone Love You More Than They Are Willing To Love You! If I Were You! I Will Nurse My Feelings! Cry! Pick Myself Up And Make A Success Of Myself! Life Goes On! Somebody Than Loves You For Who You Are Is Waiting At The Corner! Please Don't Lose Her Because Of This One Bad Experience! Thank You! http://www.bummyla.com 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Leiykong(m): 5:38pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Sorry for ur loss bro |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by geebehn(m): 5:52pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
jabojafa:
always use ur head n not ur hrt. LOL |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Icekyng: 6:02pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
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| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by lordsbiz(m): 6:09pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...
During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.
Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..
I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?
Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter. nna, i just pity you, imagine a guy like you wasted four solid years of your pathetic life chasing after a girl that obviously doesnt want, but had to bend to your pathetic compulsion, if you have not heard, love is two ways, if you show your love interest to a lady and she no gree, bros move on, there are countless dying to be urs, u wasted four years? For the fact that you are even considering getting with her, i pray you dont recover, you are a shame to manhood. Chai 2 Likes |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by peedeeasobie(m): 6:20pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...
During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.
Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..
I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?
Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter. and she's a 'decent and good wife material'? Are you okay? |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by cirmuell(m): 6:20pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
Eeya  rebound ish pele. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by swaggerdgrt(m): 6:20pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?
The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.
Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.
God is with you. lolzz babe u harsh oohh 3 Likes |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by swaggerdgrt(m): 6:24pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
NegeduGrace:
Don't try to force it bro..also broke up with my ex cos of this same situation duo he was d one cheating..don't allow yourself to be love out of pity,,she has made it clear so let her go..your own woman is out there ready to love n care for you,,give yourself a second chance..time healeth every open wound!! My opinion duo I lov dat |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by swaggerdgrt(m): 6:27pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
jabojafa:
i tire oo for dis guy. Op it wont work, it cnt work. Jst tk her as ur side chic n look for anoda in ur area or whr u work or worship. If u nor dey sch leav sch babes or gain admission n enta sch. Bt how wud a grown man b crying ova a gal whr der are a million n one untapped babes everywhr. hmmmm mayb u hav nt bin in love bfor dat y u ar sayin dis,hornestly is nt easy to let go or forget d pains so easily no mata hw hard hrted a man cud be.it tke time to heal d wounds xcpt u dnt hav true nd genuine love for her 1 Like |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Eddy2cute(m): 6:33pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?
The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.
Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.
God is with you. hummm must u show ur ashawo antics on nl? Mtcheww they use style dey advertise ur market. |
| Re: I Feel Cheated But couldn't Let Her Go. by Dhotseal(m): 6:35pm On Nov 16, 2015 |
mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...
During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.
Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..
I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?
Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter. U don't know what to do...like seriously? Well, do this.: Borrow some money and go buy yourself a pair of balls. You get crushed by a girl and u come crying on Nairaland. Pathetic! |
