mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter.

Endtime relationship

mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter.

1. Since it took her 5 good years to give-in to ur request, it might just mean that she was never into u and only used u as a rebound 4rm her last break up; to av a shoulder to lean on until she finds her footing again. If dis d case, u might never av a chance with her again.

2. She might also find it difficult to cope with long distance relationships. Once she graduates and returns home, u might have another shot at dating her.

3. Maybe she never really enjoyed ur company while u guys dated. U might think u treated her well; some ladies are difficult to satisfy.

Guy know this
It is normal for you to think that you will never find someone else that is better in every way and it is but the truth is you can always get someone far better.
Try to forgive her so you will not be held back in anyway and focus your energy in upgrading your self mentally, financially and socially try to go on dates with other girls and even guys don't jump into any new relationship you have a life just live it from within and enjoy yourself no time o

[quote author=mrlaw93 post=40076315]We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. [i][/i]my broda go to oshodi market and buy a girl for urself.she not urs

You aren't used so you shouldn't feel that way...but you missed the signs the moment she told you of her break up...that was like a rebound process that wasn't about you but for her to keep her mind off of him...they have history which you don't have with her...so it's going to be pretty hard for her to shake off and just move on with you...don't be too hard on yourself and move on....it wasn't meant to be that's the hard truth..

I like your courage and persistence to have used four years of your productive life to chase a girl...
Please let and go while you search easewhere for your true love...
Honestly, event like this scare me from being in a reletionship

Let go of her

u spent 4 years asking her to date you, you'll spend your lifetime asking her to come back to you, this time.

No woman is too special to be lost, so propose and marry her before he does. But the truth is she liked you because you were there and kept her company.

[quote author=mrlaw93 post=40076315]We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter. Bros their are 5.8 billion girls in dis planet earth according to **i don't know**just making estimate...y should one make a fool outta yew?

Is it just me or am I the only one who thinks that wooing a girl for 4 years is absolute crap? I mean no offence OP but I think it's absolute rubbish, well that was your first mistake.

The second one is to have the mindset that loosing her would be a disaster, really? Thats why she treated that way. No one, I repeat no girl as long as she's not your wife should have that sort of hold on u. I guess you've learnt from it.

Relationship should be a 2 way thing....she didn't meet you half way, you went all the way and she saw how desperate you were to get her and took you for a ride. Move on already!

Bros, abeg!!! No marry out of pity...its. Dangerous to ur BP....she will continue with d same thing if u forgive her....

kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?


The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.

Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.

God is with you.

Women alway come back to the guy that 4ked the hell outa them. That's a known fact.

4yrs?? Oh men na course you dey study so nah!

All doze years while waiting for her.....
What wia u doing then #bros.........?





The annoying thing about girls dat Does this kind of shits to guys is that.......................


They Usually Have Pitifull en Decent Face/look..........#Smh

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kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?


The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.

Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.

God is with you.

tru talk....

man....my advice for u is to look left and right and quickly take a u-turn before u enter stand still hold up for life.....lesson 1 = if u dey ask woman out always notice weda her mind dey ur side or elsewhere..2= if u r in a relationship always check d handwriting on the wall...3= u wia not close enough something u used 4 years to have, u did relax after getting it whilst she told u that she had a boy frnd in sch and ur mind no advice u say she go still go back to sch and see dat her ex wey don sabi her cold wey no d right words to pull her shorts in a second....if I meet my ex today...walah I go neck am...even if she dey date olamide or wizkid.....wetin I go yell u my man be say whenever she comes home for holz...just dey use am dey do training and don't mention dat guy at all in any discussion u guys have...even if she receives any call from dat guy or any other person...no ask am just play along and make u Seg don look for another bae shapaly..

kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?


The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.

Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.

God is with you.

U no go kill person, walahi!

hob:
its hard but move on bro.....too many fishes in the water

who want to date fish?

Demote her to side chick, relegate yourself to the other guy as long as holiday bleeping still dey. Many ladies ain't worth that kind affection. She's only affect continuous service availability.

You're an adult, I don analyse am for you.

8unit:


pls bro, did you ever make love to her? Did u ever cum in her cuntt? Answer me i've a piece for u

Not yet..

All na just say u never NYASH am...

mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter.

You be confirmed mumu

How can you be on a girl for FOUR years

Chai ! You need help

In that four years span, I'm sure she'd have had at least 3 boys friends, fùcked nothing less than 100 times by at least 8 type of dickheąds..


You have always been her list option.

imas:
you don't need a soothsayer to tell you she doesn't love you, but how you take use four years of your life dey chase one babe?

Wasted career. 4 good years to graduate from higher institution...

imas:
you don't need a soothsayer to tell you she doesn't love you, but how you take use four years of your life dey chase one babe?

The matter tire me 4 whole years,Jesus Christ wouldn't preach 4 dat long to gain a new convert.

@op did u visit her website?

1..2..3..4, I am four years older than my kid bro...thats the gap u used in chasing one babe, then u didn't even get physical...sigh..
all these should be lessons, its hard af but mehn u have to endure the pain n free, obviously your mind will make you go crazy thinking you wont find a better option but its a lie, it always gets better.
you seem like a Nice guy...there is no space for nice guys anymore. you will just get used n crushed terribly.
but how can u even track for almost five years n bleep...oshey gentleman...hope u see your reward now?

frenchpharaoh1:
4yrs?? Oh men na course you dey study so nah!

my brother no be lie oh lmfao

joeslicky:
my brother no be lie oh lmfao

e remain 2 more years make e be "law" lol