mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter.

There is one thing I know and I am sure about . Any lady that truely care about you would never let you wait for 4 gud years b4 she says yes. It's very obvious that lady z gat no feelings what so ever for you. She accepted cos u were disturbing her. Plus there are too many gorgeous sane ladies out there that would give everything to be with you. I wonder why you are wasting your time with one that is not worth the feelings you are giving.

you are just too obssesed with that girl, of course she is not into you at all...so u spent 4years of pain and uncertainty habouring deep feelings for this babe, while she no even get one kobo feelings for you and even when she gave u a little releif for ur 4year suffering,it didnt even last 4month. kai men don suffer in the hands of women.

Jux let go, simple. Look around u n see there r thousands of other gals jux waiting for ur love. Ur d rebound guy, so try moving on cos she has told u already her mind, so if u stick around @ur own risk. Unless u enjoy hrtbrk------move on man, beta things ahead, wen ur own gal comes along, she wnt tell u hw she only has feelings 4 u wen ur close by---------bt ll tell u hw much she loves u every single day, weda close by or nt.

mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter.

let it go,this too shall pass,believe me.

mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter.

op the truth is this...you were her rebound guy thats all, just forget about her and move n i bet u she will come back again when next she breaks up wit her guy.

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Igemburg:


I tire ooo, wen dere are enough succulent nd juicy ones around

the succulent and juicy ones are hoes...the OP is in love with a wife material.

I have seen things like this happen before.

Let her go. If she comes back by herself, then she's yours. She's already left the guy before, means there is a crack already in that relationship, believe me if she sees someone better than that guy, she will leave the guy. Love between her and that guy now na sense love, if you like believe me... but it's just a fact I tell you here.

Here is what I would advice you, turn a new leaf. Change from who you used to be. Look for a better girl (after you have arranged your life, if you collect money from your parents, look for something that fetches you money, your own personal cash) then if you living with your parents, move out.... live alone. Be jovial and friends to females around you. But don't spend always. Always be on the listening side Never do the talking.

Find a good girlie that suits you. I used to be like you, but guess what now, my ex is stalking me, and monitoring me, she even adds my friends on Facebook... only Jehovah knows what her intentions are now... but am way passed that.

When you forget this girl, and she sees good around you, she may think twice, if you still love her if she comes back, you may take her back, if you don't, don't fúck her, just ask her to go.... that shows even more maturity than anything.

Word is enough for the wise.

Salem.

Simple advise...... Avoid babes still in skool, dey tend to misbehave a lot... Find working class or biz class sef..

jabojafa:
ahahahaha...... Dt ur name no b household name oooh

put it on the try and see the magical power Lol

Oga giv am red card. Y u wan kill urself.

braine:
Sorry bro. You were just the rebound guy. That was unfair and I think you should let her go and cut all ties with her.

Exactly my thoughts!

I'm seriously learning from the advice people are putting up here. I once had a similar experience trying to woo a girl I fell in luv with for three yrs. I came to my senses and snapped out of the illusion and told myself no more shit and enough of this nonsense. since she wasn't coming forth with any reasonable answer.
I immediately bone her matta and now the luv don die a natural death, such dat I no send anything about her. it's very funny to me now especially when I remember those days when I was madly in luv with her up to the point of evening begging her to go out with me. I go just d laugh at my naivety.
the truth is that luv is just a figment of the imagination and an emotional thing. You can shut it out if you want to. it's not a totally helpless thing that you can't control as most people make it out to be.
The bottom line is, I choose whom to fall in luv with, it doesn't just happen randomly.
So in my own world I decide for luv, Luv doesn't decide for me. I choose Luv, Luv doesn't choose me.

Quite heartless of her, i wonder why she agreed to date you if she knew she was into her ex. Not nice one bit.

MOVE ON... i know its "easier typed than done" but that is the only sane alternative for u. Just try as hard as u can to let her go, delete her number,unfriend her on fb etc... That girl was never yours nd she isn't going to b in the nxt 10yrs... Just find another gurl, nuffn do u!

PunkyVeer:
Smh. The writing was on the wall all along but you chose to ignore the signs. No sane person, no matter how decent & "wifey" they are, takes not one, not two, not even three but FOUR FLIPPIN YEARS to respond to someone's advances. She didn't do that out of "decency", she simply wasn't into you. Period.

Yes, you got used & guess what? YOU let it happen. How can you allow yourself to hang dry for four years? That doesn't get you much respect. It reeks of desperation. I'm sorry but you have yourself to blame on this one by putting yourself as "option Z" to some girl I'm very certain is NOT worth it on all levels.

Spot On!

Babe, free ticket dey ur syd

kilode100:
Guy, fashi her and come to me jawe ..
Wetin sef?


The truth is that she broke up with that guy, gave you a chance but you couldn't, hit her center of gravity wella...
You no sabi fcvk Bros.. Even if the woman na Angel, she still needs serious throbbing for down below.

Not to worry Uncle., I fit teach you how do to am and any woman you handle afterwards, won't let go.

God is with you.

My guy d nxt tym dat babe is on holiday,giv her a very gud badt fvck,and u'll b happy.......tnk me later...............fvck love,infact it dosent exist..

gimakon:
I have seen things like this happen before.

Let her go. If she comes back by herself, then she's yours. She's already left the guy before, means there is a crack already in that relationship, believe me if she sees someone better than that guy, she will leave the guy. Love between her and that guy now na sense love, if you like believe me... but it's just a fact I tell you here.

Here is what I would advice you, turn a new leaf. Change from who you used to be. Look for a better girl (after you have arranged your life, if you collect money from your parents, look for something that fetches you money, your own personal cash) then if you living with your parents, move out.... live alone. Be jovial and friends to females around you. But don't spend always. Always be on the listening side Never do the talking.

Find a good girlie that suits you. I used to be like you, but guess what now, my ex is stalking me, and monitoring me, she even adds my friends on Facebook... only Jehovah knows what her intentions are now... but am way passed that.

When you forget this girl, and she sees good around you, she may think twice, if you still love her if she comes back, you may take her back, if you don't, don't fúck her, just ask her to go.... that shows even more maturity than anything.

Word is enough for the wise.

Salem.

Nice shot bro..

mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..
I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter.

all ds superstory ppl una haf cme bk again abi
issorai

dammytosh:
Go and get a life.


4 years for a girl to say yes ?

Are you a learner ?

4 damn good years of another guy firing her cylinder pass ferrari and you are here forming useless love.

slap your self 10 times.

and say after me.

[size=15pt]I AM NOT AN OPTION

I AM NOT A SPARE TYRE[/size]

NEXT EEDIOT PLEASE !!

ol boy u neva see sumshin. how can you fall for a lady that told u " she has feelings for you when your around her'. Please look else where before ur wound deepens

God created man on d 6th day and rested,He created woman afterwards and no one rested....i bet if God Himself understands women wella......dis moment its A,d nxt its Q.......d only reason i still respect and lov women is cos my lovely mom and two sisters are women.

Let her go

I always wish guys would Get it early on in their lives. Ure still in school, focus on ur development and career and leave all this love matter Abeg. Women are attracted to men of substance and men that have a lot to offer, Start planning ur future, focus more on ur education and aim to be extremely successful in your field, Girls go tire u. And theres no such thing as Love, it was only created to sell books, movies and music

mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter.

Receive brain bro,how on earth will you toast a girl for four years?, is she the only girl on earth?. Better give yourself brain.

mrlaw93:
We use to live in the same neighborhood. She is a very decent lady, a good wife material. I love her so much and it took 4yrs for her to finally say yes. Four good yrs for her to accept to have a relationship with me. Now the relationship is about to crash in less than a year. Let me go in details...

During the 1st month of our relationship. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. It was full of love and i knew it will be a disaster to loose her. Our love life started during one of her long school holiday. She told me her last relationship was with a guy in her school, how they broke up due to irreconcilable differences. After few weeks of her resumption back to school i started seeing photo mixed by the guy on facebook tagged to her. Whenever i call regarding this issue she always say the guy does that just to gain her attention.

Weeks later, the photo mix grew into real photoshoot involving the both. She no longer call as she used to. She even ignore most of my calls. I started having this feeling that i have lost her but i still played along. She is again on holiday, we have met to discuss this issue. She told me she is now dating the guy due to his aunt's intervention. She said her feelings for me only come when am around her..

I dont know what to do.. I feel she as just used me to pass time. I feel cheated yet i dont wanna loose her. Pls nairalanders i need your advice. What should i do?

Lalasticlal.a, abeg reason my matter.

why crying foul here please move on bro............woman matter no need too much attnetion jorrrrr

You're just an assistant-boyfriend to her.
If you're comfortable with that, ride on.

Real men don't bother about such. Just keep bleeping her until she says good bye

You have to let her go cause she's only using u as an assistant boyfriend. I'm sure there are so many girls out their that will love and appreciate you.

mrlaw93:
Gerrarra here jhor

The truth hurts Bro