As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? - Romance (5)

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Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by mykerg: 9:13pm On Nov 20, 2015

Rubbish.U cant cook.GOD KII U.

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by urchman101(m): 9:14pm On Nov 20, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Maybe he's rich enough to afford a MAID or is actually capable of doing all the washing, cooking & ironing himself. Being married doesn't render you paralysed nor does it make your wife a surrogate mother that should take care of all your needs, short of bathing you & wiping your ass.

I have no problem with washing or cooking but I hate ironing, so a guy I'm with would have to do that himself because I refuse to do it. Plain & simple. Now that's partnership. Taking over the duties your mate can't/won't do. Ain't nobody is here to serve you.

I love you for this. Partnership is the main thing.

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by dayotheone(m): 9:14pm On Nov 20, 2015

I don't know why you guys, are so concerned about the picture, in the first place....
you see, the white culture,.. where we have the highest rate of divorces like water...

and for those thinking, about accepting a maid... have u not learnt your lesson all this while,.. of what humanly maid could do to your house, children or your marriage itself..

I pity your condition, it's better you do the rightful or needful

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by patani(m): 9:14pm On Nov 20, 2015

African Man, copying white men from 1800...why will an African man kneel down for a woman to marry him..no wonder divorce rate is going higher by day... .

Leave it or love it women prefer a man who can actually man up!

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Alezy(m): 9:14pm On Nov 20, 2015

stupidity:
Cooking is ma hobby,

We go buy washing machine or drycleaner go do the laundary.

So far the lady can take care of my home(except from what the topic is saying) and she's got all I want inna lady and most importantly, she can fvck satan out of me, damn!!!!! Am good.

OMG. ...Ur just what Ur moniker says.

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Toks2008(m): 9:16pm On Nov 20, 2015

A lady who can not cook the desired meal of her hubby excellently has failed maritally.

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Nobody: 9:17pm On Nov 20, 2015

Sunshinelady:
. 10 hugs

Received with joy grin

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Emasel(m): 9:17pm On Nov 20, 2015

kambili999:
i'm just here to see the men in nairaland who can actually do this

I doubt if there is any!

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Pidggin(f): 9:20pm On Nov 20, 2015

You will know the mature and intelligent ones by their answers

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by basty: 9:20pm On Nov 20, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Maybe he's rich enough to afford a MAID or is actually capable of doing all the washing, cooking & ironing himself. Being married doesn't render you paralysed nor does it make your wife a surrogate mother that should take care of all your needs, short of bathing you & wiping your ass.

I have no problem with washing or cooking but I hate ironing, so a guy I'm with would have to do that himself because I refuse to do it. Plain & simple. Now that's partnership. Taking over the duties your mate can't/won't do. Ain't nobody is here to serve you.

God bless your future

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Roks(m): 9:23pm On Nov 20, 2015

I'm a very good cook and I wash as well so I don't need my woman to help me with something like dat

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Nov 20, 2015

Malakh:
whats your purpose if you cant serve your husband oh i remember she's from the West

Only men I'll serve are my father & the man upstairs. That's it. Not saying a husband will be disrespected, however, I believe marriage is team work in all aspects. You can't clap with only one hand. If I'm weak in one area & he's strong, then as my husband, I don't see why it should pain him to cover for me. We're a tag team now. We're suppose to have each other's backs.

I can never be with a guy that feels my purpose is to serve him. I'm NOT his mother. I need an equal. Someone that's independent & capable of doing things without waiting up on me to do them for him. I don't want no big baby. That's a turn off.

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Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Nov 20, 2015

hypocrites
see all dis woman wrapper forming because of the END TIME PVSSY DEM WAN FVCK!
shiiioooo
if u like fvck like u wan get money
fine like say u be lucifer pikin
if u cant do all house chore a woman should be able to do...na north korea u dey so be dat oo

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Nov 20, 2015

Nigeria is a society that oppresses women and turns them into man all rather domestic slaves! That nation is too backward and full of primitive human beings. We need to do something about it very quickly.

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Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Timijo(m): 9:31pm On Nov 20, 2015

Olorun maje, God forbid, tafiakwa.

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Sunshinelady(f): 9:32pm On Nov 20, 2015

sapiosexual1:
Received with joy

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Nobody: 9:33pm On Nov 20, 2015

urchman101:
I love you for this. Partnership is the main thing.

I'm glad we're seeing it through the same lense. It's that
simple really, team work. They say doing things together as a couple brings you closer & strengthens the bond. Yes, please!

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Nobody: 9:36pm On Nov 20, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Only men I'll serve are my father & the man upstairs. That's it. Not saying a husband will be disrespected, however, I believe marriage is team work in all aspects. You can't clap with only one hand. If I'm weak in one area & he's strong, then as my husband, I don't see why it should pain him to cover for me. We're a tag team now. We're suppose to have each other's backs.

I can never be with a guy that feels my purpose is to serve him. I'm NOT his mother. I need an equal. Someone that's independent & capable of doing things without waiting up on me to do them for him. I don't want no big baby. That's a turn off.

bravo!
good for you bt it will be very funny if you re otherwise offline...
you knw...women sabi form 4 africa
may ur dream cum true!!

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Malakh: 9:42pm On Nov 20, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Only men I'll serve are my father & the man upstairs. That's it. Not saying a husband will be disrespected, however, I believe marriage is team work in all aspects. You can't clap with only one hand. If I'm weak in one area & he's strong, then as my husband, I don't see why it should pain him to cover for me. We're a tag team now. We're suppose to have each other's backs.

I can never be with a guy that feels my purpose is to serve him. I'm NOT his mother. I need an equal. Someone that's independent & capable of doing things without waiting up on me to do them for him. I don't want no big baby. That's a turn off.

i get what u saying you make sense to an extent but from a spiritual angle serving me does not necessarily mean being a mother to your husband but as a modern woman you won't be able to relate, just thought i threw it out there I already knew the response I would get, but you did make sense until the last paragraph alright Miss 20th century

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Nov 20, 2015

Blyzz:
wow. that's you anyway. as for me, i deserve real food. but u know d funny thing, I don't bother cos i can cook on my own. but any woman i may marry must be capable on how to cook well, whether a western woman. she must cook

lol @ you deserve. Well, those are your expectations & you're entitled to them since this is someone you'll be spending forever with.

Btw, I also believe a woman, any woman, should be able to cook, wash & clean. Not because of a husband, just for their own independence/wellbeing. I can't stand lazy & dirty people. It irks me & I'm very judgmental about it. If I go to someone's house & it's dirty, it makes me wonder how they are able to live surrounded by filth like a pig. I truly don't get it.

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Anamachi3(m): 9:46pm On Nov 20, 2015

Well the truth has to be said no matter hw bitter it may sound. If one ev entually marries a lady who hasn't got any cooking skills, it will be a wise idea to help her to learn how to cook and also marriage is about partnership. A husband can still train his wife to cook if he knows how to cook and the wife will be glad to learn how to do so and she will enventually become a pro. But am begging ladies not to distance themselves from kitchen when they are still@home,they should try to learn how to cook delicious meals from their Mother becoz it will be useful in their marital home. But it pains me to see dat some ladies will prefer to see telemundo movies while there mum is at the kitchen or their elder sister is cooking at the kitchen, that is not really good. That's my humble submission

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Damfostopper(m): 9:51pm On Nov 20, 2015

at my age...i dnt comment on stupid post....does it luk like im stupid in love to accept u..wen u cant cook n bla bla bla

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by misspicy(f): 9:56pm On Nov 20, 2015

catlova:
Oh my day was good and ended perfectly. The road was very free and i didnt spend much time getting home

got home not long ago and am just settling down....come and eat cheesy

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Brightology2(m): 9:56pm On Nov 20, 2015

U sabi look for trouble

sapiosexual1:
Keep looking for 'wonderful' which is an adjective, infact an abstract adjective. Wonderful men go on to marry wonderful women, not women who would end up as a liability. just saying.

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Ekaka1(m): 10:00pm On Nov 20, 2015

stupidity:
END TIME creature

Bia end time stupidity and end time creature una no go kill person o grin

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by urchman101(m): 10:02pm On Nov 20, 2015

PunkyVeer:
I'm glad we're seeing it through the same lense. It's that
simple really, team work. They say doing things together as a couple brings you closer & strengthens the bond. Yes, please!

Sure, I agree with you

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by DaegiiWealth(m): 10:03pm On Nov 20, 2015

How can I marry her because of pussy.. Sha na go dae kitchen go cook for her everytime? #IHateMaid

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Young03(m): 10:03pm On Nov 20, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Maybe he's rich enough to afford a MAID or is actually capable of doing all the washing, cooking & ironing himself. Being married doesn't render you paralysed nor does it make your wife a surrogate mother that should take care of all your needs, short of bathing you & wiping your ass.

I have no problem with washing or cooking but I hate ironing, so a guy I'm with would have to do that himself because I refuse to do it. Plain & simple. Now that's partnership. Taking over the duties your mate can't/won't do. Ain't nobody is here to serve you.

I go just overlook wetin u type cus say u no be naija u from...I will teach u wat mehn do in naija if u won leave long

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by cutepaul(m): 10:04pm On Nov 20, 2015

PunkyVeer:
Then we'll grow old & wrinkled together

Hahahahahahahahahahhaa.......lwkm

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by slam7000(m): 10:07pm On Nov 20, 2015

kambili999:
i'm just here to see the men in nairaland who can actually do this

How about inviting and paying for orchestra to sing for us while I asked they question.

Nansense. I won't do that shyte and if I had my way, I would flog any man who does that. My parents didn't and I would not. That's not how we marry.

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Kam0007: 10:12pm On Nov 20, 2015

stupidity:
shat ap my fiend

So all these pvssys you have been gonking, nor be person go marry them?

U better shove your dlck inside a padlock and deposit the key to UBA till you ready to marry.

Iffa hear say you fvck chidiebere again, ama cut your dlck.

OKAY HERE'S A LITTLE SOMETHING TO AID YOUR UNDERSTANDING: NOW NOTE THAT HE DIDN'T HE WOULDN'T MARRY A GIRL HE HAS GROUND LONG TIME, HE JUST WON'T TAKE PART IN THAT KINGCRAP OF GOING DOWN ON ONE KNEE WITH A RING HELD UP, BUT HE WOULD STRAIGHTAWAY SET A DATE FOR THE WEDDING RATHER!
YOU NEEDED THIS.

Re: As A Nigerian Man, Can You Do This?? by Nobody: 10:12pm On Nov 20, 2015

PunkyVeer:
lol @ you deserve. Well, those are your expectations & you're entitled to them since this is someone you'll be spending forever with.

Btw, I also believe a woman, any woman, should be able to cook, wash & clean. Not because of a husband, just for their own independence/wellbeing. I can't stand lazy & dirty people. It irks me & I'm very judgmental about it. If I go to someone's house & it's dirty, it makes me wonder how they are able to live surrounded by filth like a pig. I truly don't get it.

yeah, you're correct. thumbs up 4 u. i don't like dirty environment, but i find myself in such environment. yet, that doesn't stop me for being neat. I make sure my house is vary clean, it irritate me wen i visit people that don't have good housekeeping.

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