kambili999:
i'm just here to see the wonderful men in nairaland who can actually do this

No matter how good or bad she may be, knowing how to cook is my priority.

If a woman can't cook, wash or iron, what exactly differentiates her from a chick on the streets. Well I guess there's a difference between a woman and a wife. Any wife worth anything would know how to cook, wash and/or iron, you might not be the best at it, you might not do it all the time but knowing you've got those essential skills makes you more than just a piece of flesh! Thank Goodness with modernization, most people take the stress out of cooking by going to restaurants or buying food outside maybe once or twice a week. With modernization we have washing machine and dryers, so no excuse!

Uncletony:


No matter how good or bad she may be, knowing how to cook is my priority.

lol. please don't take that comment serious.

If you're a woman and can't manage simple house chores, cooking especially..... Then you're so fuuuuucked up.

But she can Bleep saaa... Na DAT one dey important o

kambili999:
i'm just here to see the wonderful men in nairaland who can actually do this

.... mtscheeew if a lady can't cook ....I ask my self what has she been learning from her mother for over 15 years

Naija men can do this na, just not for naija babes

Personally I want a pretty, well mannered and educated girl, not a cook, not a maid and not a worshipper.

no be food I come chop for this world, i can afford dry cleaners for my clothes.

Acidosis:


So who is going to cook for her children?


When her relatives come visiting, you mean the husband should take his stupidlty to the kitchen to slice onions and tomatoes for his in-laws, while the wife engage them with Tonto Dike gists in the living room?

He obviously has a plan & knows what he is doing if he is willing to accept her as she is, without any domestic skills. And besides, it's not all lost, if he is experienced in the kitchen himself, he can always coach her until she's capable to prepare meals on her own. Problem solved.

This scenario is too far-fetched to be realistic anyway

vosquare:


Cc:lalasticlala

be like say bomb dey your head oh, so i go marry her to dey observed me 4 house. she's duty bound okkk

If cooking, ironing and washing something are the only issues she has, why not?

In less than three months she can learn how to cook. I will hire a great cook to tutor her or simply send her to a good catering school to learn. If she's willing and ready to learn, it's a done deal!

My opinion though.

no

sapiosexual1:
I'm a very good cook and I do my chores myself (I don't even allow my gf to lift a broomstick whenever she comes visiting). We may be dating but she owes me nothin.. However marriage is an entirely different kettle of fish, we're gonna have a home and not a house. Inasmuch as I wouldnt cross my legs and expect her to do all the chores, it's out of place for me to go down with a lady who can't do nothing, what am I marrying, a s.ex /reproductive machine? If I love her soo much, I would have to send her to a cooking /grooming school, or better still give her a one month vacation with mumsy. WTF

haba, mumsy again?
can't u just let the woman be?
she bin no lock kitchen door or put curfew 4 kitchen when the babe bin dy grow up oo..... just send her to d cooking sch or something make her fellow women yarb her tire small....

kambili999:
i'm just here to see the men in nairaland who can actually do this

kambiliki I'll even do more for you..

ideatoprince18:
.... mtscheeew if a lady can't cook ....I ask my self what has she been learning from her mother for over 15 years

when you see such ladies ask them

PunkyVeer:


He obviously has a plan & knows what he is doing if he is willing to accept her as she is, without any domestic skills. And besides, it's not all lost, if he is experienced in the kitchen himself, he can always coach her until she's capable to prepare meals on her own. Problem solved.

This scenario is too far-fetched to be realistic anyway

WTF. i disagree, if she can't cook no need to marry her. i don't care what u have to say, i simply don't care!"

oh pulease.

a wife that can't cook?

no damn way.


the point is, i wouldn't even be dating her in the first place. i bond with ladies in the kitchen. #fact.

PunkyVeer:


He obviously has a plan & knows what he is doing if he is willing to accept her as she is, without any domestic skills. And besides, it's not all lost, if he is experienced in the kitchen himself, he can always coach her until she's capable to prepare meals on her own. Problem solved.

This scenario is too far-fetched to be realistic anyway

Hahahaha. Bliv me d guy in ops topic is just blindly in love. Reality is just giggling at the corner waiting to spring into action

washingtonklef:
kambiliki I'll even do more for you..

no thanks. I don't have a problem with domestic duties

Blyzz:
WTF. i disagree, if she can't cook no need to marry her. i don't care what u have to say, i simply don't care!"

Huh? Nobody is forcing you to. WTH indeed.

cyprus000:

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Lol.. Very funny.

You actuall think that I care if you call me wonderful or not..hehehe

I think you really need to know my kind of person. Maybe a little scroll on my previous post will slough ur ignorance.

Cyprus don't care about what people think,say or claim about me. (I'm one man mopol) so why should I care?

If you were able to deduce my post properly. You would have noticed that I didn't feel attacked nor insulted lyk u felt. I only debunked your claim,cos I think you are discriminating against certain people.

Don't forget my input on the subject matter. I said "I can marry such woman" which is same view as your's. so why should I feel attacked..mrs kambili
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k. FYI I'm not Mrs.

vosquare:


Cc:lalasticlala

If a girl cannot cook, wash, iron, how are we gonna train our kids. Lemme assume I'm ok with it, how will my children take it when they start coming. Don't be surprise, this girl cud even go on to say "I can't bath my kids, feed them, etc"

I can't never marry this kind of lady simply because her own mum cooked for her, washed her cloths etc( my assumptions). She is not just lazy, she is a family killer!

bettercreature:
END TIME poster

End Time Composer

bettercreature:
END TIME poster

Inasmuch as I do not see the wife as a maid and will never use my le adorable as a maid but I will never marry a woman such as the one in the picture for so many reasons.

One of them - As a man, I am the bread winner for the family and the woman is supposed to be my helper. She can't cook? She can't wash? I am to do everything? Even Oyinbos actually cook for their husbands.

Only hypocrites and people who have bought into the lies they watch in those useless meaningless soap operas and those novels ( no, I mean someone'e meaningless imagination ) will create a meme such as this.

kambili999:
lol. please don't take that comment serious.

Nofin do u babe.

Never - Oyinbo style for Oyinbo.
Our people sef, wanting to copy the crap they see on TV.
Even proper Oyinbo man is very similar to an African man not these hen pecked so called sensitive men being portrayed on TV.

kambili999:
k. FYI I'm not Mrs.

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End time proposal

bettercreature:
The fact still remains i can not propose to a girl i have been fucccking for a very long time
It doesn't make any sense to me
why not simply fix the introduction and wedding date instead of this bullcrap

No mind the daft dunces.

Pessin wey you don tear yansh finish for na him dey go come do public show for.

But the girls also feign spurprise very well though. As if they haven't been shpping for rings and her nagging him ad nuseum

PunkyVeer:


Huh? Nobody is forcing you to. WTH indeed.

kk, i heard you. one never can imagine, maybe you too don't know how to cook oh. Indomie things

benedictnsi:



This is actually your first reasonable sense












*chop Knuckle

Lol see this guy ooo, i always make beta sense jor, it's only that I'm somewat esoteric.
#chops the knuckle

No!!