Truckpusher:
You're feeling like my teacher abi?

SINNZ:
She's the only smart muslim girl I know that's how!!!!!


Where tha F have u been hiding?? And why did you deactivate without telling me?

Really?
Are you a Nigerian?

I didn't tell anyone

Pele!

daretodiffer:

Really?
Are you a Nigerian?

I didn't tell anyone

Pele!

Haba, is it cos I said you're the smartest muslim girl I know? Ofcourse I'm Nigerian.

I'm sinnzu.


So how many monikers have u switched since Insidous?

daretodiffer:

Truckpusher:

I don't have strength

But I know my chemistry and I understand the power of money

You brother is just capitalising on what isnt an issue.

But sha thank God for Islam and my prophet.


He clearly stated it that any woman should retain her maiden name anytime, anywhere.........


I hope you people will take pain of reading this article and digest. Thanks in advance

QUESTION>
Many Muslim women take their husband’s last name (surname) when they marry. I have heard different views on this; some say it is Haram and others say it is necessary. I am confused and would like to know the correct Shari’ah ruling on the matter please?

<ANSWER>
In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful,
A wife adopting the last name (surname) of her husband upon marriage is neither unlawful (haram) nor required in Shari’ah. As such, both positions – i.e. to say it is haram or that it is necessary – are incorrect and extreme in one way or another.

In order to understand this issue properly, it is important to first realize that one of the central aims (maqasid) of Shari’ah is the preservation of one’s lineage (nasab). It is unlawful and a major sin to change one’s lineage and ascribe one’s self to other than one’s biological father. Many texts of the Qur’an and Sunna mention this explicitly; for example:

Allah Most High says, “… And He [Allah] did not make your adopted sons your [real] sons. That is [merely] a word uttered by your mouths. And Allah says the truth and He shows the [right] way. Call them by [the name of] their [real] fathers; It is more equitable in the sight of Allah. And if you do not know their fathers, then they are your brothers in faith and your friends…” (Qur’an 33: 4-5)

Continue here...........http://jamiat.org.za/wife-changing-her-last-name-after-marriage

SINNZ:


Haba, is it cos I said you're the smartest muslim girl I know? Ofcourse I'm Nigerian.

I'm sinnzu.


So how many monikers have u switched since Insidous?

Yes!

How much are you willing to pay for the information?

daretodiffer:

Yes!
How much are you willing to pay for the information?

Not a dime

It'll only prove to me that you are whom you say you are. C'est fini.

SINNZ:


Not a dime


It'll only prove to me that you are whom you say you are. C'est fini.

How so?

daretodiffer:


How so?

I know a few of her (insidous) older monikers . A lil birdie told me.

SINNZ:
I know a few of her (insidous) older monikers . A lil birdie told me.

That would be me

Or

Jacksparrow

You brother should realize that this is just the beginning. He will still make more concessions in this marriage. She is probably doing this not out of disrespect for her fiancé but out of respect for her late father.

If they cannot agree on this issue, then they should place the wedding preparations on hold. A person's identity is very fundamental and the decision to bear any name should not be taken lightly. He should consider her cos she's the one to bear the name.

daretodiffer:


That would be me

Or

Jacksparrow

Definitely not you or Mr Stfu.



I've got a feeling you've got reservations. Well if you do then forget about it. Forget we even spoke.

SINNZ:


Definitely not you or Mr Stfu.



I've got a feeling you've got reservations. Well if you do then forget about it. Forget we even spoke.

About what?

Who? You are allowed to whisper

No big deal.I am not dropping my surname when I get married too

daretodiffer:


About what?

Who? You are allowed to whisper

So u know about "whispering" too? . Anywayz.. I whispered.

daretodiffer:


About what?

Who? You are allowed to whisper

kindly wipe out "yandex" n replace it with gmail. Can't seem to login that acct.

SINNZ:
kindly wipe out "yandex" n replace it with gmail. Can't seem to login that acct.

Okay

SINNZ:
kindly wipe out "yandex" n replace it with gmail. Can't seem to login that acct.

There is no email address

daretodiffer:

There is no email address

Whisper.

SINNZ:
Whisper.

daretodiffer:

tempix:
You brother is just capitalising on what isnt an issue.

But sha thank God for Islam and my prophet.


He clearly stated it that any woman should retain her maiden name anytime, anywhere.........


I hope you people will take pain of reading this article and digest. Thanks in advance

QUESTION>
Many Muslim women take their husband’s last name (surname) when they marry. I have heard different views on this; some say it is Haram and others say it is necessary. I am confused and would like to know the correct Shari’ah ruling on the matter please?


In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful,
A wife adopting the last name (surname) of her husband upon marriage is neither unlawful (haram) nor required in Shari’ah. As such, both positions – i.e. to say it is haram or that it is necessary – are incorrect and extreme in one way or another.

In order to understand this issue properly, it is important to first realize that one of the central aims (maqasid) of Shari’ah is the preservation of one’s lineage (nasab). It is unlawful and a major sin to change one’s lineage and ascribe one’s self to other than one’s biological father. Many texts of the Qur’an and Sunna mention this explicitly; for example:

Allah Most High says, “… And He [Allah] did not make your adopted sons your [real] sons. That is [merely] a word uttered by your mouths. And Allah says the truth and He shows the [right] way. Call them by [the name of] their [real] fathers; It is more equitable in the sight of Allah. And if you do not know their fathers, then they are your brothers in faith and your friends…” (Qur’an 33: 4-5)

Continue here...........http://jamiat.org.za/wife-changing-her-last-name-after-marriage

it depends on which line is traced- the mother's line or the father's I guess.

SINNZ:
. Juss lemmie know when u seen it.

Okay

daretodiffer:

Okay

Estharfabian:
First of all...Permit me to Say Your brother is an "Asshole".... Threatening to call off the wedding coz of a Lil issue as this?? Ridiculous!



Anyways...i also wouldn't wanna Throw my surname away Too..."Fabian" Is just to dope to be replaced by one "Ebuka" Or "Obiorachukwu" Or "Suleiman".... that ain't happening abeg!

Mitcheeeeeeew.....apart frm d *a55hole* U've not made any sense as far as masef & orda NLanders are concerned.....seems U've not read d part bible said a man & woman wud leave deir parents & start a family of deir own? So y carrying ur fada along?

If u can't accept ma name as urs & urs alone den kip ur luv & wife material to ursef....after all itz called Marriage not attendance

daretodiffer:

Id.iot!

Where in your culture was it stated that women take their husbands name after marriage? And not all Western cultures agree to that BS at least not in Belgium

Dis is africa specifically nigeria....wat happens in Belgium stays dere.......

daretodiffer:

Id.iot!

Where in your culture was it stated that women take their husbands name after marriage? And not all Western cultures agree to that BS at least not in Belgium

Dis is africa specifically nigeria....wat happens in Belgium stays dere.......but in as much as ure here u must bear d name

NemzySeries:

Dis is africa specifically nigeria....wat happens in Belgium stays dere.......

This is Nigeria

And where I come from, there is nothing like surname. What we have is ‘Jane Doe' the daughter of this, the wife of that, the lover of this, the mother of that

NemzySeries:

Dis is africa specifically nigeria....wat happens in Belgium stays dere.......but in as much as ure here u must bear d name

Must?

Are you okay at all?

NemzySeries:

Dis is africa specifically nigeria....wat happens in Belgium stays dere.......

This is Nigeria

And where I come from, there is nothing like surname. What we have is ‘Jane Doe' the daughter of this, the wife of that, the lover this, the mother of that