misspicy:

okay bro

i pirru him too

illustration 101 :
so I have a bf,he locks his phone and doesn't care about my phone too,in short he doesn't touch it,I later discovered I was the side chick......
I would have saved myself the relationship stress if I had snooped earlier

AfroKnight:


Lol. Nor be my fault. If I check her phone now, na den I go dey see all d kurukere movement and I nor go fit take am. All the happiness will now turn to fight.

Make she hold her phone.

Odunharry:

lol.. fight ke? u dey try o.
The only time I noticed that didn't even act as if anything happened.. we were sitting together and d messages came in..
It was in her front self I opened it and we read together.

She was thinking I will shout or do something crazy but me no get time..We continued our gist.

frankay430:
very wrong

AfroKnight:


Fight must shele. Why? Because I go ask simple question and she go wan dodge the question. And na that dodging go vex me...small time, quarrel don start.

PS: By fight, I no mean physical fight o. Just quarrel.

Odunharry:

Lol. .I know.
Atimes when people start misbehaving we will know.
When they don't pick calls in front of you and even when they do, they reply with one or two words like yes I no, fine etc or switch off their Fone

AfroKnight:


Lol. I just wan clear myself make all these amateur feminists no face me ni.

If babe cannot pick call in my presence, I normally keep quiet. I try not to bring it up until I see other corresponding signs. It's too much stress to be investigating a woman. There will always meet more interesting guys who are richer, more fascinating and more handsome. Normal tin. Once the signs are obvious to me, I'll prepare my mind for a break up.

Odunharry:

very true bro..
lack of trust and suspicions can lead to insecurity.

Do you think it's right?

Favolly:
First time I did it....

Found out he had a babymama and another ex that had done 4 abortions for him.

Did I regret doing it? Nope

Will I do it again? Of course

That Caveat is very valid; anyone that wants to do it should be prepared to face anything he/she may discover

Acidosis:
I don't see any harm in reading through one's chats...

You're only trying to know things your partner won't ordinarily tell you.

However, I won't recommend this to those whose partners are perpetual flirts. You will always find something devastating (could be sex chat, sharing nu.de, exchanging foul terms, or promising to visit some guys at their homes, etc.).

Some people already know their partners can't be trusted, in that case, I won't recommend snooping and exchanging phones. We only pretend to be dating saints and angels.

A girl whose boyfriend is always around girls has no business checking his boyfriend's phone. You're only trying to confirm what you already know.

A guy whose girlfriend has over 1000 male friends and always acting like "we're just friends, my boyfriend trust me", has no business checking her partner's phone. What you're trying to confirm by checking her phone is already known to you. If the exchange of Smiley (kisses) with every tom dic.k and harry don't upset you, something terrible will.

Lastly, relationship problems will end when individuals involved fulfill their roles appropriately.

AfroKnight:
Me I have not done it before. I nor wan see wetin go pain me. My phone is accessible to my babe. But she too doesn't care about my messages and chats.

She be woman. I know there are guys who would be toasting her, sending love messages and all and me I don't want to see that nonsense make I no I vex curse somebody destiny. (just kidding).

Abbykem:
I hate that shit. I don't do it. Anybody can check my fone. If we are dating, u are not in prison infact u ar free. The way we chat is just different.

MzPecs:
I don't have a problem with my partner going through my phone.

I only have a problem with checking my partner's phone cos who never can tell, I don't wanna have heart attack biko!

Slimzybaby:
No biggie! Infact my babe do initiate convo with my side chicks sef! Can you imagine?

The babe believe me die and i'm not ready to cheat on her. We're just paddies

Odunharry:
Do you think going through your partner's phone once a while is right and can you allow your partner go through yours??

As for me , use to hate the habit though I don't have problem with anyone going through my phone until I discovered something years back..

My opinion is simple, Check if you want to check especially if you feeling suspicious or you getting less affection and time from ur partner.

Only people who have something to hide will not allow you check and I don't see what's there to hide form my partner except I have an ulterior motive

why I think it's right if you want to is simple..
It can save from cheating partner, deceitful relationship, heartbreak, disease, forced pregnancy etc etc

CAVEAT Be prepared and be strong to take or face anything you see..

YourMain:
There's actually no need. Why would you be insecure in your relationship ? Communication is key.

Odunharry:
Do you think going through your partner's phone once a while is right and can you allow your partner go through yours??

As for me , use to hate the habit though I don't have problem with anyone going through my phone until I discovered something years back..

My opinion is simple, Check if you want to check especially if you feeling suspicious or you getting less affection and time from ur partner.

Only people who have something to hide will not allow you check and I don't see what's there to hide form my partner except I have an ulterior motive

why I think it's right if you want to is simple..
It can save from cheating partner, deceitful relationship, heartbreak, disease, forced pregnancy etc etc

CAVEAT Be prepared and be strong to take or face anything you see..

suwalee:
it's wrong if u respect dem u won't do that communication nd trust is the key to lasting relationship mind u fine he's cheating wat are u gonna do about it ladies steer clear frm their phones to avoid tears nd aches

naijaboiy:

I don't think periodic checks results to insecurity.