Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,152,974 members, 7,817,870 topics. Date: Saturday, 04 May 2024 at 09:46 PM

He Is Too Shy - Romance (6) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / He Is Too Shy (53918 Views)

Many Guys Are Too Shy To Land The Girl Of Their Dreams / Shy Bride Refuses To Kiss Groom At The Altar In Port Harcourt. Photo / When A Man You Love Is Too Shy To Woo You, What Do You Do? (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (14) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: He Is Too Shy by tiptopy03(m): 2:48pm On Jan 05, 2016
Dont ask him out, but grant him all the needed signs and assurance that if he approaches you he wont meet disappointment.


Some facts about our MTN data
1) It is ever reliable
2) It has full (30 days) subscription, the least sub of ours is 29 days
3) It takes maximum of 5minutes to have it on your sim
4) You can do data rollover (data been added to the previous balance)
5) It is legal and It is not a cheat
6) You can have it round the clock (I.e 24hrs services)
7) You can assess your data subscription by dialing *461*7#
cool It can work on iPhone, Window phones, Android phones, HTC, and modems
9) You can have the best MTN data services by contacting Tiptopy consult.
Contact us today on 08067867807 and 08138421163... A trial will convince you
Re: He Is Too Shy by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jan 05, 2016
oloworulz:
op beware, the lady above me are the kind of ladies that will tell u there is nothing in marriage. They are the ones who will remain single all their lives. They see nothing in sex. But they know how to lock the door to their room just to finger theirselves. Go after the guy u like, leave pride and move on
Be swearing for Your generations o!gringrin



Re: He Is Too Shy by Holyfield1(m): 2:49pm On Jan 05, 2016
Estharfabian:
gringrinYou people Suck nah!grin


You all claim to be superior Buh can't approach a girl right?undecided
I just hope you are not a lesbian with this your attitude toward guys
Re: He Is Too Shy by xtervaganza(m): 2:50pm On Jan 05, 2016
joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.
if you like him and you're sure he truly likes you just stylishly ask him out. Seriously it's nothing since you're already close to him, there are people who will think you guys are dating sef.




Just ask him one day if he knows people believe you're dating and then ask him what he felt about it......it should be easy from their
Re: He Is Too Shy by Nobody: 2:51pm On Jan 05, 2016
marieolae:
Shy guys are normally shy around people they are not 100% comfortable with. How can you conclude that he'll be shy in all areas? At the end of the day if she wants to toast him, there's nothing wrong with that. Not all guys are born with confidence, does it make them less human than other men? I just don't understand most of your posts, they honestly refuse to make sense. As you said, we shouldn't take you seriously, so i'll take your advice for once. smiley
hahaha!grin


Alright! glad we got that settled...most Of my comments Are Sarcastic..manly to steer trouble!grin

the earlier You get used to that...the better!cheesy

Re: He Is Too Shy by Adonis3: 2:52pm On Jan 05, 2016
Estharfabian:
Unconventional Nairaland folks would probably tell You to Ask him out...grin

please don't...If he's shy now? He'll probably be SHY in all Areas of his Life....cry

eg.intimacy??lipsrsealed


This girl againgrin
Re: He Is Too Shy by Nobody: 2:52pm On Jan 05, 2016
Adonis3:


This girl againgrin
I'm sorry?cry
Re: He Is Too Shy by Nobody: 2:54pm On Jan 05, 2016
ademoladeji:

You get bad mouth
Thankyou!!cheesy

Re: He Is Too Shy by cassyrooy(m): 2:55pm On Jan 05, 2016
Estharfabian:
Tah!grin


issalie! Op heed to my advice..,You'd be glad you did..grin
[size=45pt]SADIST[/size]
Re: He Is Too Shy by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jan 05, 2016
cassyrooy:
[size=45pt]SADIST[/size]
gringringrin
Re: He Is Too Shy by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jan 05, 2016
joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.
The guy use to take shayi, shy to ask this beautiful lady. Meanmwhile, since he is shy, I am not and I love U. But the problem lady, I am thousand kilometres away, I wish I am close by.
However, I was told distance is not a barrier to love. Mail me.....via PM
Re: He Is Too Shy by cassyrooy(m): 2:57pm On Jan 05, 2016
Estharfabian:
gringringrin
[size=45pt] I'VE GOT YOU ON RADAR grin grin grin grin[/size]
Re: He Is Too Shy by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jan 05, 2016
DavidEsq:

Now that's how u know someone absolutely bereft of experience. Who said she is a virgin? @Obiorathesubtle, u said it all.
gringringrin
Re: He Is Too Shy by kaboninc(m): 2:58pm On Jan 05, 2016
Laveda:
...Engage him in a convo.....you might grow old while waiting for him to voice out since he's shy....Tell him you like him....and try giviing him some funny signals ...no biggie there .....that would give him the guts to spew out. Since its obvious he likes you too

i SEE
Re: He Is Too Shy by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jan 05, 2016
cassyrooy:
[size=45pt] I'VE GOT YOU ON RADAR grin grin grin grin[/size]
Stalking me??undecided?

isn't that Nice?cool

Re: He Is Too Shy by cassyrooy(m): 2:59pm On Jan 05, 2016
joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.
[size=45pt] CHANGE YOUR WHOLE BULBS TO GREEN but IN A MATURED WAY, if HE FAILS TO DO THE NEEDFUL, PUSH ON MY DEAR![/size]
Re: He Is Too Shy by xMrPx(m): 3:00pm On Jan 05, 2016
joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

Pls, don't ask him out pls' I like u aswell' not shy @all to ask u out grin grin'
Re: He Is Too Shy by kaboninc(m): 3:00pm On Jan 05, 2016
Nadoson1:
My dear sister, i had a similar issues like that back then in school and also where i worked, when the lady packed into my lodge I liked her but too early to say it out but later on a guy was frequenting her house which kept me mute but after I graduated she called me a WICKED FELLOW with reason i never approached her while she was waiting for me to say I LIKE YOU not even LOVE YOU that she was ready to sleep on my bed so My dear, I think you've said one of the reasons he might be shy( YOU ARE WORKING WHILE HE IS STILL IN SCHOOL) some of us guy do find it difficult to approach a lady beyond us financially. also some ladies use to look down on guys they feels he wont have something to offer them(girls). So my dear poster, pls keep ego and pride behind you and go for what you want, just get close to him and study his character you might be amazed that you both are compatible. to me i don't buy the ideology that all guys will look down on girls who approach them first because to me, I will always have such girl who approached me first on a high esteem/respect so go ahead and pour out your mind. GOODLUCK.

lOL.

sEE aDVISSSEE...

yA HEAD DEY THERE1
Re: He Is Too Shy by Okies27(m): 3:01pm On Jan 05, 2016
joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.
. Because you're working class n him a student doesn't mean you're older. Bae, ask him out sharperly. He's a nice dude.
Re: He Is Too Shy by cassyrooy(m): 3:01pm On Jan 05, 2016
Estharfabian:
Stalking me??undecided?

isn't that Nice?cool

[size=45pt] YOU'LL WISH I DO, NA BEGINNING OF 2016 I WAN TAKE DEY STALK PERSON?







GERRARAHIA SADISTICESTHER[/size] grin grin grin grin grin

1 Like

Re: He Is Too Shy by madjnr: 3:02pm On Jan 05, 2016
joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.
so you're older than him
Re: He Is Too Shy by Afam1103(m): 3:04pm On Jan 05, 2016
My dear, the heart wants what the heart wants. If you like him then go for him.

You: am sure you know by now that I really like you. And I feel you do too. How come you never asked me out?

Thats a simple way to know what's on his mind.
He may feel you would never go out with him cos you have a job and he is in school and worse still, he may be afraid to loose the friendship cos he thinks you may stop being friends with him if he asks you out.

Don't think back on this time in your life and wish you had tried to find out what could have become of a life of love with him.

Take a leap of faith and see where it takes you.

Best of luck dear. I like your courage.
Re: He Is Too Shy by lordC(m): 3:04pm On Jan 05, 2016
While u won't ask him out, there ar othr tins u can do 2 knw ur nxt mov.

Follow d advice on throwin mor green light, making him mor confindent & @ ease around u, etc.
D choice of words u use in addressin him cld giv him a clue whethr u want him or not

Aftr all attempts 2 make him talk & he stil doesn't, u myt av 2 put words in his mouth.

Som1 suggestd u put him in a tyt corner wit u alone & ask him som questions. Der u can put up a convo lyk:

"I see d way u look @ & relate wit me, but u're yet 2 say anytin as 2 hw u feel about me & what u want from me (don't allow him say anytin, at dis point), pls wait & listen 2 me( u av 2 say all dis in a lovely humour, since u love & want him 2u). Do u love me? Yes or no? (If he says yes) why av u bn shy 2 tell me all dis while? (Or) why havn't u tld me all dis whyl? (...). So, u intend 2 have an affair wit me & u'v kept it 2 urself all dis whyl, am only tryin 2 read u, cos its showing all over u.(By nw he shld av a fast hrt beat). Calm down, relax, u know u can always b free wit me & u can share almost anytn wit me, so be free 2 tell me how u feel abt me & what u want wit me, at least do dat first b4 concludin on my response (do dis wit all d lov u feel 4 him). So?.... Am listening (mke sure he speaks)( d rest is up 2 u if he speaks ur mind, as in hw u intend 2 giv him ur yes, u can choos a little shakara lyk u gals always do evn whn u av concludd in ur hrt)

Wish u gud luck.

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: He Is Too Shy by HardMirror(m): 3:05pm On Jan 05, 2016
joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.
Why rush things?
Take it easy, you have something going already. What do you mean by ask him out when it is obvious you've met each other several times.
Take your time with him.
Not bad to hold his hands when alone with him, put your head on his shoulders etc just don't be too forward. If he does not catch on, then just continue with your friendship as it is.
Re: He Is Too Shy by kaboninc(m): 3:06pm On Jan 05, 2016
joliyp:
I met this guy not quite long on a social media, we are friends and I think he wants me but too shy to express his desire. He barely looks into my eyes and whenever am close to him, he tends to develop cold feet: I think I like him but how long do I wait for him ...maybe because we are not on the same level ? am a working class Lady and he is still in school





Should I ask him out or wait for another guy? I like him alot.

I doubt if you're real here.....

Maybe looking for attention...
Re: He Is Too Shy by cassyrooy(m): 3:07pm On Jan 05, 2016
joliyp:
green on green light !!! yet his not responding
[size=45pt] I THINK YOU'VE GOT TO START small TOUCH TOUCH, unshy HIM[/size] grin grin grin grin
Re: He Is Too Shy by HardMirror(m): 3:09pm On Jan 05, 2016
Afam1103:
My dear, the heart wants what the heart wants. If you like him then go for him.

You: am sure you know by now that I really like you. And I feel you do too. How come you never asked me out?

Thats a simple way to know what's on his mind.
He may feel you would never go out with him cos you have a job and he is in school and worse still, he may be afraid to loose the friendship cos he thinks you may stop being friends with him if he asks you out.

Don't think back on this time in your life and wish you had tried to find out what could have become of a life of love with him.

Take a leap of faith and see where it takes you.

Best of luck dear. I like your courage.
Good one there
But he does not have to ask her out, they are already friends and it's obvious they have some alone time together for her to have noticed how he looks at her. All they need now is to define their friendship. Taking her out wld only come natural. I take ladies I am not dating out.

1 Like 1 Share

Re: He Is Too Shy by smartwilly4eva: 3:10pm On Jan 05, 2016
He is shy because of different in levels or because he afraid you might not accept his proposal. If you love him and can handle it then go for him but fear those kind people in bed o
Re: He Is Too Shy by HardMirror(m): 3:11pm On Jan 05, 2016
cassyrooy:
[size=45pt] I THINK YOU'VE GOT TO START small TOUCH TOUCH, unshy HIM[/size] grin grin grin grin
Funny but you are right. Just wat I advice too. They are already friends, why rush him? Seems she wants some, you know...
Re: He Is Too Shy by Orangina(m): 3:14pm On Jan 05, 2016
Estharfabian:
Unconventional Nairaland folks would probably tell You to Ask him out...grin

please don't...If he's shy now? He'll probably be SHY in all Areas of his Life....cry

eg.intimacy??lipsrsealed
. This is where you got it all wrong.
Re: He Is Too Shy by coltaine(m): 3:14pm On Jan 05, 2016
Estharfabian:
gringrinYou people Suck nah!grin

You all claim to be superior Buh can't approach a girl right?undecided
dis gal nids to get laid

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (14) (Reply)

Man Boldly Collects Girl’s Phone Number In Her Father's Presence (Video) / The New Way Bachelors Look For Wives In Warri! / Lady Smokes In Pre-Wedding Photo As Her Man Looks On

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 59
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.