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Dear Bunmi,
I’ve been married to my husband for over 20 years and we have four lovely children. He’s always had series of affairs that I’ve lost count. I’ve stopped talking to him about them and when friends did, he told them smugly that he must be doing something right or I would have left.
He says his affairs are really for the sex and he would never leave me for another woman. Big deal!
I’m quite an attractive woman myself and still wear a size 14 dress. I have a good job and dress well and recently I started looking at other men the way my husband might look at other women and wondered what it would be like to have sex with them. You know what?
My husband was right, you can have good sex without getting emotionally involved as I’ve since found out. I don’t know if he suspects anything, but lately he’s been showing signs of being jealous, why should he have all the fun?
Halimat, by e-mail.

bobolizim:
Dear Bunmi,

I’ve been married to my husband for over 20 years and
we have four lovely children. He’s always had series of
affairs that I’ve lost count. I’ve stopped talking to him
about them and when friends did, he told them smugly
that he must be doing something right or I would have
left.

He says his affairs are really for the sex and he would
never leave me for another woman. Big deal!

I’m quite an attractive woman myself and still wear a
size 14 dress. I have a good job and dress well and
recently I started looking at other men the way my
husband might look at other women and wondered
what it would be like to have sex with them. You know
what?

My husband was right, you can have good sex without
getting emotionally involved as I’ve since found out. I
don’t know if he suspects anything, but lately he’s
been showing signs of being jealous, why should he
have all the fun?

Halimat, by e-mail.

End time things

Something is wrong with the man and his wife...

U av it in mind to do it u just cover urself under d umbrella of what ur husband did

End time couples. Kontinue ur kids will follow ur steps

Push ni pull kor
Enjoy na ,the punnani no be your own again?

Blah Blah Blah

Lies

Following. Hope u dont stop until u contact diseases

End time couples

After 20 years in marriage??
Haba!!!!!!
Dats terrible.

May God deliver ur family

END time married woman

I won't advice u to cheat while u're still in his house cus if d alarm is raised, culture here would pounce on u more than him. So if u really wanna cheat or enjoy urself, ask for dissolving d marriage 1st..that will make him know d gravity of what he's doing afterall u have ur job too. Then u'll be free to have ur own men.

The woman is as good as gone if she's caught.

What ar u tryin to do, do me i do u matter, rememba if he catch u...no come here and ask for solution

SMH for the children SMH for the children

so who's BUNMI ?

This is crap
They both need psychiatric attention.
WORLD PEOPLE NA WA O

This is crap
They both need psychiatric attention.
WORLD PEOPLE NA WA O

It's a free world. No one has the monopoly of seeking for fun even in marriage. A lot of people see women only as objects used in making babies. For crying out loud they are humans too. F**k tradition!

Nonsense...

Sept20:
Blah Blah Blah

Lies

must u say that?

Hmmmmm.... End time couples..

1-1

unfortunate husband + unfortunate wife = unfortunate marriage.

Adultery is now your marriage vows.

Can anything good ever come out of adulterous home?



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Bulllllshittttttttt.

Two wrongs don't make a right. This is what happens when a wrong padlock is matched with a wrong key. They won't fit. The key begins to look for other padlocks to unlock. The padlock has now taken to looking for other keys to unlock it.

Purulent!!!!

Onikaluku loni tie lara

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Hmm ,confused couples.