darkmata:
She bin gav me her Laundry 2 do, I refused to do it, den she started Givin me attitude.

LMFAO...
You should punish her a55 for such a brazen behaviour abi you be wash man/ washing machine?
Hope the laundry no include panties and bra?

Seriously you must have ridiculed or belittle yourself or maybe you just Mr Nice Guy.

[quote author=RedCapChief post=41914229]

Impulse80 has a point tho, you are not playing the game right. Women will usually try to assert some form of dominance over a man; that is just the way they are. It was even written in the Bible
This doesn't mean you should be a wicked guy and be claiming boss 24/7. You'll just push her away. After rejecting to do her laundry, do something nice for her on your own terms. For instance, after my father finished whupping me, he may take us out to ice-cream the next day.

I've also read something that works about conditionality game i.e you'll do something for her if she'll do something for you. If you do her work for free every time, you are nothing but her house boy.
So next time she asks, ask her what the reward will be. That way, the value of your service doesn't diminish in her eyes. You have to be the boss o![/q
uote] i decided 2 giv myself space from her a little.

RedCapChief:


Impulse80 has a point tho, you are not playing the game right. Women will usually try to assert some form of dominance over a man; that is just the way they are. It was even written in the Bible
This doesn't mean you should be a wicked guy and be claiming boss 24/7. You'll just push her away. After rejecting to do her laundry, do something nice for her on your own terms. For instance, after my father finished whupping me, he may take us out to ice-cream the next day.

I've also read something that works about conditionality game i.e you'll do something for her if she'll do something for you. If you do her work for free every time, you are nothing but her house boy.
So next time she asks, ask her what the reward will be. That way, the value of your service doesn't diminish in her eyes. You have to be the boss o!

i decided 2 space myself a little from her.

As she started Givin me attitude, I distanced myself from her, I haven't called her for like 3 days now n she haven't called back too

darkmata:
As she started Givin me attitude, I distanced myself from her, I haven't called her for like 3 days now n she haven't called back too

first off I think you are doing it wrong. I see no reason why a girl I am dating self should give me her laundry to do, is she high? lol even my mum the only woman I am allowed to do her laundry for legitly would not give me hers.

I feel if u hadn't downgraded yourself to an extent she wouldn't have the mind to give you her laundry. I have some female frnds who will not even give me a bag too heavy for them to carry cos they know I probably won't not to talk of doing her laundry.

like I said though, it was probably your presentation, and she felt she could tell you to do anything and you would.

the only time you are allowed to do your babes laundry IMO is if she sick and dying and her hands are getting shriveled. Any other reason Is No.

although I don't know how you guys relate, does she do yours as well?

pcoolioz:


first off I think you are doing it wrong. I see no reason why a girl I am dating self should give me her laundry to do, is she high? lol even my mum the only woman I am allowed to do her laundry for legitly would not give me hers.

I feel if u hadn't downgraded yourself to an extent she wouldn't have the mind to give you her laundry. I have some female frnds who will not even give me a bag too heavy for them to carry cos they know I probably won't not to talk of doing her laundry.

like I said though, it was probably your presentation, and she felt she could tell you to do anything and you would.

the only time you are allowed to do your babes laundry IMO is if she sick and dying and her hands are getting shriveled. Any other reason Is No.

although I don't know how you guys relate, does she do yours as well?

D tin is Dat d gal is kinda lazy sha. 2 get dis gal 2 cook wen she's hungry na war sef.

darkmata:

D tin is Dat d gal is kinda lazy sha. 2 get dis gal 2 cook wen she's hungry na war sef.

lol....guy na one chance u enter so oo, u beta come down and run for ur life nw u have the chance to.

chidexxy007:

lol....guy na one chance u enter so oo, u beta come down and run for ur life nw u have the chance to.

martoz:
i approached 4 ladies today,got two number...I tried rite,no easy o...buh d prob b,d 1st one dey talk about ha bf,I tink she get one,and d second one senior me wit one level,xo gamers n d house...how u tink say I can game both of dem....pls urgent advice plssss...

boss


playing a double game is risky ooooo



you could focus on one ....but put the other one on a long thing... make the other one think she's the one


Bro most of the times this babes that shout boyfriend.... they don't have boyfriends it's just a way of feeling among or telling you to back off



but if you play your game well.... she'll fall for you like a leaf..

trust me.

darkmata:
She bin gav me her Laundry 2 do, I refused to do it, den she started Givin me attitude.

first of all

Guy... you Bleep up oooooo



washing a babes clothes!!!!



well... the problem here is she's been the boss.... you've not called her for three days!!
call her


then the next time she gives you laundry... here's what you do



bring out your laundry too and exchange

or


Tell her to wash it herself... tell her you'll pay her.... but don't ooooooo

or



fucking leave the relationship and start a new one.... simple

I need advice.. Okay me nd dis cute girl I've fallen in love with.we lived close bt now dy relocated nt too far from whr I stay.. She's 15.I dnt tink she's had a bf b4.. We strtd off cool nd now we are 2geda nd I've told her hw I feel already. So guys pls tell me tins I need to know and do to keep it flowing nd make her invest more .yesterday I even smooched her upon say she still dey do shy shy.. I've bin using sum tricks lk. Makin her jealous, on and off feelings.. Not showing up for days... Etc nd its been working.. Bt I just need to know more. I hope u understand what I ask of u guys.. Tnks a lot. Be expecting ur replies

NLjona:
I need advice.. Okay me nd dis cute girl I've fallen in love with.we lived close bt now dy relocated nt too far from whr I stay.. She's 15.I dnt tink she's had a bf b4.. We strtd off cool nd now we are 2geda nd I've told her hw I feel already. So guys pls tell me tins I need to know and do to keep it flowing nd make her invest more .yesterday I even smooched her upon say she still dey do shy shy.. I've bin using sum tricks lk. Makin her jealous, on and off feelings.. Not showing up for days... Etc nd its been working.. Bt I just need to know more. I hope u understand what I ask of u guys.. Tnks a lot. Be expecting ur replies

unless you are 15 yourself this is child abuse

Aspireahead:

unless you are 15 yourself this is child abuse

Bros actuali shes 16. if u see her u fit mistake cal her aunty. Jx kiding bt u knw wat i mean. I jx need advice dats all nt bashing. Tnks

There is one girl in my department. I so much love the girl though we don't talk to each other, but i want to make her my girlfriend. How do i go about it??

Junathy1:
There is one girl in my department. I so much love the girl though we don't talk to each other, but i want to make her my girlfriend. How do i go about it??

your dpt.....same level

Eleniyan15:


your dpt.....same level

xxxtedyxxx:

bro, I am dying. You promised we will meet. I have called your line tire u no dey pick. Please buzz me as soon as u see this.

NLjona:
I need advice.. Okay me nd dis cute girl I've fallen in love with.we lived close bt now dy relocated nt too far from whr I stay.. She's 15.I dnt tink she's had a bf b4.. We strtd off cool nd now we are 2geda nd I've told her hw I feel already. So guys pls tell me tins I need to know and do to keep it flowing nd make her invest more .yesterday I even smooched her upon say she still dey do shy shy.. I've bin using sum tricks lk. Makin her jealous, on and off feelings.. Not showing up for days... Etc nd its been working.. Bt I just need to know more. I hope u understand what I ask of u guys.. Tnks a lot. Be expecting ur replies

Please! Please!! and Please!!!
D guys in charge of this thread SHOULD NOT reply this guy. How can u be thinking of dating a 15/16yrs old girl, no matter how developed her body is.
Like d other guy said, UNLESS u r also 15/16yrs old, but anything above this is actually CHILD ABUSE and NAPTIP is looking for you.

Really into this girl in my faculty... She is in her final year and am 300lv..hw do I go abt it. We r jst hello hi friends for now.

jesfrosh:





first of all

Guy... you Bleep up oooooo



washing a babes clothes!!!!



well... the problem here is she's been the boss.... you've not called her for three days!!
call her


then the next time she gives you laundry... here's what you do



bring out your laundry too and exchange

or


Tell her to wash it herself... tell her you'll pay her.... but don't ooooooo

or



fucking leave the relationship and start a new one.... simple

I think I'll take ur last advice. Lemme giv relationships a break a little, after all I dey my final year. Lemme go Face my book

I normally have dis problem wit d ladies they all tink am a player n dangerous maybe becos am tall dark and a bit handsome so am told but the thing is am nt and am so lonely even though I don't show it i carry myself with pride but how can I convince the ladies that I seriously want them and am nt dangerous without getting rejected based on that becos am 21 and am still yet to experience wat it feels like to have a girlfrnd somtyms I jus get angry wit myself wen ever I see my frends wit their babes while I don't' have any .....and funny enough if I tell anyone that am single they tink am d biggest liar

xxxtedyxxx:
More stuffs coming up..right away...u can post ur dating issues or sticking points.

Guy, you dey try o.

I will disguise my request shaa. We stay in Lagos. She is a smart nairalander though not always active. We have been seeing lately after a long break cause she travelled. Before the yuletide, i spent much buying her stuffs against my old self that would hardly spend N1k. She didnt believe i could get her such gifts. To say she is beautiful is an understatement. We talking marriage already, but there is something. She hadly agrees to a thing if i initiate it. Like sex, she was like, i am rushing her. I withdrew, lol, i don score finally, now she says i am rushing her for marriage. Again, since i was generous in december, out of happiness, that she came back, she Started asking for a 6 digit cash figure from me now as assistance for her travel which i declined. I tried laundering my image to her last week why i cant meet her request, but it back fired. We still talk shaa.

How do i take it easy ? And manage her financial demands..

Hey Bro. I came across this thread today. There is this girl I like a lot but the problem is we've never even spoken before even though there have been chances. My problem is actually starting a conversation with her. Don't know if you could fix something up

JohnieWalker:
there is dis gal im dating ryt nw bt d prob is dat i found out dat a guy name wuz her 2go password nd also on her contact nd fb bt she told me he wuz her bf bt nw a close frnd dat d guy moved 2 anoda city. Nw she is sending me dat i should nt break her heart dat she luvs me

Once a woman says she loves you. ITS TRUE.

Ask her anything you want. Dont panic.

jesfrosh:






boss


playing a double game is risky ooooo



you could focus on one ....but put the other one on a long thing... make the other one think she's the one


Bro most of the times this babes that shout boyfriend.... they don't have boyfriends it's just a way of feeling among or telling you to back off



but if you play your game well.... she'll fall for you like a leaf..


trust me.

baba I tot d rule of d game z approach,more girls,chat wit more girl which z wot I start doing...and wots d tip to make ha fall for me lyk a leaf...dats d koko I nid...

callydon:

Please! Please!! and Please!!!
D guys in charge of this thread SHOULD NOT reply this guy. How can u be thinking of dating a 15/16yrs old girl, no matter how developed her body is.
Like d other guy said, UNLESS u r also 15/16yrs old, but anything above this is actually CHILD ABUSE and NAPTIP is looking for you.

gerrarrahea mehn... And shut the Bleep up!.

NLjona:
gerrarrahea mehn... And shut the Bleep up!.

No Comment... Ah jst hope d guys in charge will listen to me.

Op.....maybe u can help me......I just deleted one girl I still love to bleep....met her, took her out to see a movie....tot she was a mature chick n mistakenly told her how I feel about her.....the babe only said she has heard me....that was all.....called her one day she said she is making her hair....n called back tried to to tease her DAT am coming to see what her new look is like.....omo....d babe said I shudnt come....it was not funny.... I had to abruptly end d call. She pickt an offence with DAT......n she doesn't pick my calls until wen she picked n told me how angry she was....I apologized..... N we made up.....dis babe doznt pick ma calls again....though she works in a bank .....buh called towards evening.... She didn't pick....she has only called me just once since we met......DT was before I gisted her.deleted her no.....she is yet to call me...knwz her bank ....can walk in dia so we could still see.....buh I dunno if DT wud b wrong.

udemzyudex:

its good to always ask a girl if she have a bf..u can ask her in a funny way but not on the first day,week ..

sure u wouldn't want her to double date and won't want to share her with another guy..
don't ask her directly .
and learn how to handle rejection by just walking away..
don't put all ur eggs into one basket..
my opinion

Wrong.

Just act like her boyfriend and she will dump her real boyfriend for you in 2 months. I have experienced that at least twice.

Dont monitor, suspect, fidget or act jealous with a girl. She will always come back to you. Act like a king and she will submit.

Naughtysite:



Wrong.

Just act like her boyfriend and she will dump her real boyfriend for you in 2 months. I have experienced that at least twice.

Dont monitor, suspect, fidget or act jealous with a girl. She will always come back to you. Act like a king and she will submit.

if u no get sense make i naked baff. Coret guy. D oda guy doesn hav a clue

NLjona:
I need advice.. Okay me nd dis cute girl I've fallen in love with.we lived close bt now dy relocated nt too far from whr I stay.. She's 15.I dnt tink she's had a bf b4.. We strtd off cool nd now we are 2geda nd I've told her hw I feel already. So guys pls tell me tins I need to know and do to keep it flowing nd make her invest more .yesterday I even smooched her upon say she still dey do shy shy.. I've bin using sum tricks lk. Makin her jealous, on and off feelings.. Not showing up for days... Etc nd its been working.. Bt I just need to know more. I hope u understand what I ask of u guys.. Tnks a lot. Be expecting ur replies

gosh! this is disgusting... don't tell me u're a paedophile guy.... u re using her brain and its not only fair but a crime cos she's a MINOR MINOR MINOR for God sake.... u could end up in jail guy.
wetin b all these na, must u get gf?..

Hybrid01:
Hey Bro. I came across this thread today. There is this girl I like a lot but the problem is we've never even spoken before even though there have been chances. My problem is actually starting a conversation with her. Don't know if you could fix something up

Chukwudi718:
Really into this girl in my faculty... She is in her final year and am 300lv..hw do I go abt it. We r jst hello hi friends for now.

Y'all need to read pages 1 - 5, then come back