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Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Liquid2Metal: 7:08am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Hmmm... just because your husband sign up on a dating site, you decided to allow your site to be explored by another? What a twisted life... Pls move on and forget about your past, because it will brew hate, betrayal and doubt. |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by MdRabx(m): 7:09am On Jan 21, 2016 |
even if his going to forgive you, , he would never trust you anymore and in no time the relationship would end cuz of insecurity. .my girlfriend did same and somehow got to know sometime ago..i felt like ve been dating a LovePeddler and deceiving myself, you girls sef....una too mumu |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by menxer: 7:31am On Jan 21, 2016 |
So boy friends are different from male friends? Interesting. |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by ozo13(m): 7:33am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Diddyydiva:lol. On her profile personal text.she said she love cool and handsome guyS.babes ehn.smiling |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by drdee4cash: 7:36am On Jan 21, 2016 |
msjanet: She has made the mistake, all she need is just an advice and not insult. Let just give her advice that we think will be better for her, cos we all make mistakes. I can bet it that many of us have done more than that, what of those that even went ahead to have sex that same day they broke up, so mistake are met to happen all we could do is to learn from them. And for you I have two advicc for you 1, you could tell him if you ready to face the music of breakup with him 2, don't tell him and avoid breakup for now cos he could still hear it somewhere else and again your conscience will always disturb u when ever u with him. But which ever you think of doing my final conclusion is that what will surely be will be and what is yours will never pass you by. So if you guys are actually met to be together forever it will surely come to pass. |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by seyimm: 8:06am On Jan 21, 2016 |
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Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by LVStone(m): 8:12am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Haven read a lot of comments, I felt like dropping my own golden coin. It is better to have a spoilt roof than a faulty foundation, when a doctor forgets a piece of equipment in someone during operation the fellow can never have peace until its removed,truth told is problem averted and truth hidden is problem postponed. Many families today are in crises because of an hidden issue before marriage. OP don't build your life on a faulty foundation. The first evil that men do finds them. Please tell him,the worse he will do is to quit the relationship but at least you are sure you are not building on a faulty foundation. let me remind you that their is no way you can escape from the judge of your soul (Conscience) that constantly and continuously judges. Why do you want to remain a slave of your soul while you are still living. Do you know that even when you are married and you see that your friend with your husband you suddenly grow worries. More importantly,your post shows you love your boyfriend and you afraid lossing him but have you thought of Jesus whose heart you have broken?have you thought of the relationship between you and the saviour Jesus that has been broken? You fear the consequences of men but can you escape the consequences of sinning against your maker by communing formication. I can not blame you because Jesus has not condemned you,all you need is repent of your sin and confess to your boyfriend if you must continue with the relationship. Our generation has been spiritually degenerated that youth like me sees nothing wrong in formication. Lord have mercy on our generation! For the sake of next time,it is better to seek advice from old and experienced ones than Young's ones who has just seen Little bit of life. God bless you! |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by LVStone(m): 8:13am On Jan 21, 2016 |
heryourdayji: Haven read a lot of comments, I felt like dropping my own golden coin. It is better to have a spoilt roof than a faulty foundation, when a doctor forgets a piece of equipment in someone during operation the fellow can never have peace until its removed,truth told is problem averted and truth hidden is problem postponed. Many families today are in crises because of an hidden issue before marriage. OP don't build your life on a faulty foundation. The first evil that men do finds them. Please tell him,the worse he will do is to quit the relationship but at least you are sure you are not building on a faulty foundation. let me remind you that their is no way you can escape from the judge of your soul (Conscience) that constantly and continuously judges. Why do you want to remain a slave of your soul while you are still living. Do you know that even when you are married and you see that your friend with your husband you suddenly grow worries. More importantly,your post shows you love your boyfriend and you afraid lossing him but have you thought of Jesus whose heart you have broken?have you thought of the relationship between you and the saviour Jesus that has been broken? You fear the consequences of men but can you escape the consequences of sinning against your maker by communing formication. I can not blame you because Jesus has not condemned you,all you need is repent of your sin and confess to your boyfriend if you must continue with the relationship. Our generation has been spiritually degenerated that youth like me sees nothing wrong in formication. Lord have mercy on our generation! For the sake of next time,it is better to seek advice from old and experienced ones than Young's ones who has just seen Little bit of life. God bless you! 1 Like |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by executioner27: 8:29am On Jan 21, 2016 |
heryourdayji: Lets look @ This..... 1) You were angry with your BF because he joined a dating site. 2) Because of 1) you broke up with him....short break like you said. 3) You went out of your way to sleep more like have sex with your friend because of 1). 4) You feel bad, he called you, you have made up and back together. 5) You forgive him for 1) and thinks 1) is equal to 3) as you want him to forgive u too. 6) Hmmm....women and rationalisation Honey...it doesnt work like that. He will be furious. He might even break up with you again or totally. Nevertheless...you still have to tell him. It was your moment of weakness (but expect lots of moments of weakness from him). Talk it over and stop whatever you need to stop and move on. If it leads to end of relationship...OK.If it leads to many more years....OK. If it leads to alter....OK. All in all....Oluwa is involved. I say this honestly and with sincere gesture....I hope you guys make it. With jokes....if you have that down time again...holla me. I'll make you feel 'best' not worse than u were. That your male friend no sabi do. |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by akinsmyk(m): 8:40am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Truth is the best, any time, any day. You have to tell hm yourself coz if he fnds out later himself, it would be more worse. It gives the impression that you would do it again if you don't inform him and he finds out one way or the other. You still have to apply wisdom. Now is not the right time to tell him. The truth will do your relationship more harm than good at the moment, so you have to be patient for now. Make sure everything is workng perfectly btwn u guys. Be sure the love is back and real. Maybe 6months after or if you feel he is psychologically ready for the truth before then, tell him. While u're waiting for d right time, pray he doesn't find out on his own. Your male friend will always want more of your body. Deal with it |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Funjosh(m): 8:41am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by danielmichael(m): 8:48am On Jan 21, 2016 |
ds is wat we kall archiostical revelation of tribalistical referendum via egoistical emotions..wat a drastic mumbo jumbos....hw cn yu not control yur insipid emotions for jus a short term break..hmmm so wat if de guy travels awt n ure in town alone..o boy dt will be resto-resto ad quivelinder vivendi...sex in a jack pot..mtcheew.. |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by killerweezy(m): 9:08am On Jan 21, 2016 |
chimkaire:Hnm, I smell lies.., Aint in support of anyone of them but anyways abeg leave trash for lawma |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Cylas(m): 9:08am On Jan 21, 2016 |
I see a gal with gud conscience nd dat is something a guy shld look up to, other gals wil sleep wit 10 guys while in a relationship bt dnt feel any remorse of dat. 1 Like |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:13am On Jan 21, 2016 |
killerweezy:I don't care what you smell. Am I still on this issue ? Eeeeeeeeish |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by AbuadStudent(m): 9:21am On Jan 21, 2016 |
niggi4life: I for say..cuz dah pix to fine mehn |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Ojochegbe1(m): 9:42am On Jan 21, 2016 |
msjanet:BIRD OF D SAME FEATHER |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 9:47am On Jan 21, 2016 |
@Daretodiffer, hehe. You're looking for trouble. My post was not directed to you. Are you also a bitchh? |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by COLDMIND(m): 9:49am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Di babe u be werey... See wut she even wrote on her personal text on her profile. I love cool and handsome guys. So no be today sh don dey trip for fine guys. Thunder wey go fire u still dey do press up |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by mavaakiti(f): 9:54am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Gelengelen:why are you so pained! |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Gelengelen: 9:57am On Jan 21, 2016 |
mavaakiti:and how is it ur business? |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:09am On Jan 21, 2016 |
heryourdayji: Before I comment,let me assume you posted this on behalf of a friend.If no,My first advice is for you to remove your profile pix. No one is a SAINT.We all make mistakes. There is this cliche," some secrets are made to kept as secrets till death". From your post,you really BETRAYED THE TRUST OF YOUR BF,though you thought you guys won't come back together. The question I would ask you is that WHY DO YOU THINK A RELATIONSHIP WILL JUST END BECAUSE YOUR BF IS ON A DATING SITE.....I can see LACK OF UNDERSTANDING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. I would advice that YOU MAKE IT A DUTY TO MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP WORK WELL THIS TIME BY BEING THE MOST LOVING PARTNER TO YOUR BOYFRIEND.....When you see that YOU GUYS ARE NOW REALLY COMMITTED TO EACH OTHER,then you can tell him asking for forgiveness.But if you can keep it as a secret,ask God for forgiveness and to give you the grace to remain faithful. Go read books online and hard copy on how to make relationship works.From my own experience ,the basic QUALITIES guys need from ladies are :LOYALTY( you need work more on this ),HONESTY,SUBMISSIVENESS,GOOD CULINARY SKILLS,etc. Pls next time GIVE YOUR SELF BOUNDARY and WORK MORE ON YOUR SELF-DISCIPLINE . On the lighter note,most we guys here wen dey blast this babe,if we do survey now how many of us never do corner markis/run bed things with another girl even though we get serious babe.i just visualize the survey result go talk sey 80% dey unfaithful to their girlfriend.....Noh just bother to ask whether I dey that 80%. 1 Like |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by austertee01(m): 10:10am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Diddyydiva: But seriously, are u from this planet? You're damn too intelligent... The dating site was an excuse to checkout her friend and the guy is far below what she expected in a man reason for going back to the lovely innocent man. @Op just tell him already what u did, his choice to forgive u or not. |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by austertee01(m): 10:12am On Jan 21, 2016 |
DBriteLitehouse: But guy, on a lighter mood U are a badt guy... Chai! |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by mavaakiti(f): 10:17am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Gelengelen:Kill yourself |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Iamthoney(m): 10:22am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Obioraaa:URCHIN...that is really a harsh word dude. |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by 2sex(m): 10:24am On Jan 21, 2016 |
AccaPack:spot on BUT you all have been responding to a fake handle... check HIS profile. |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Iamthoney(m): 10:24am On Jan 21, 2016 |
tubouncen:Offer advice not insult...peace |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Iamthoney(m): 10:26am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Ab025:epic |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by 2sex(m): 10:27am On Jan 21, 2016 |
mavaakiti:hello mavaakit? |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Nobody: 10:27am On Jan 21, 2016 |
Iamthoney:he earned it |
Re: I Slept With My Male Friend During Our Short Break Up, Shld I Tell My Boyfriend? by Skmoda360(m): 10:27am On Jan 21, 2016 |
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