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Would you forgive your husband who got your maid pregnant?

ON JANUARY 23, 2016
Angela had worked for our family for two years. She’s hard working and fond of kids. I treated her like a younger sister. Recently, I discovered she was pregnant, and guess who she said was responsible? My loving husband, Deji. When I confronted my husband, he didn’t deny it. I never suspected Deji had been having sexual relations with the maid. I probably should have been more vigilant. Do I even have to blame the girl? What about my husband who could not keep his hands off her? If he had gotten another woman pregnant apart from my maid, it would have been bearable. But how could he stoop so low as to do it with our maid? Right under my nose? Hhmmm…. Now, he’s asking me to forgive his infidelity, claiming that it was the devil’s handiwork. I’m so confused even though I feel so betrayed and tempted to leave the marriage. What would you do if you were in my shoes?

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It’s his responsibility, so I won’t get involved. I will send her back to her family and ask them to contact her ‘baby papa’. As for my husband, we’ll definitely have a lot of issues and argument. So, it depends. I may walk out of the marriage or stay back and forgive his mistakes.


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Ill forgive him — Doris Simeon, Actress
I’ll forgive him and make sure he assumes responsibility for the child. That’s all I care about really.
I won’t kill anyone — Vanessa Nzediegwu, Actress
I’m not quite sure what I’ll do, but definitely not kill anyone.

I’ll raise the child as my own — Ella Daniels, Actress
Initially, I’m going to be very mad and would do some nasty things. But I won’t leave my house for the maid. I’ll send her packing but will take care of her till she delivers. Then, I’ll assume responsibility for the child because it’s my husband’s. So, I’ll forgive my husband and raise the child as my own.

I won't ever forget no matter how hard I try so why delude myself that I've forgiven him? There is no two ways about it, the marriage would definitely be over

Different tori if it was the wife that got impregnated by the gateman...

Chai.. it's a man's world

God is love, so why not. Our wives will always forgive us when we make such inevitable mistake.

I call it inevitable because the wife dey craze to allow a grown up cum sexy lady in her home as a maid. Nonsense

SirJeffry:
God is love, so why not. Our wives will always forgive us when we make such inevitable mistake.

I call it inevitable because the wife dey craze to allow a grown up cum sexy lady in her home as a maid. Nonsense

Ode.. A 14 yr old girl can get pregnant... So what r u saying.?

kilokeys:
Different tori if it was the wife that got impregnated by the gateman...

Chai.. it's a man's world

Hmmm let's hear from lalasticlala....

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kilokeys:
Ode.. A 14 yr old girl can get pregnant... So what r u saying.?

Wise one, didn't you see the "sexy" there?

SirJeffry:
Wise one, didn't you see the "sexy" there?

Not all 14 yr Olds are square and flat.. So are u saying maids should be selected by attractiveness?

SirJeffry:
God is love, so why not. Our wives will always forgive us when we make such inevitable mistake.

I call it inevitable because the wife dey craze to allow a grown up cum sexy lady in her home as a maid. Nonsense

Unadulterated bs!

I hate dvorce mehn


I got to b careful with who i marry

But i wont hurt him

I will not i wont hurt d girl

Accept d baby i love children so mch

Wud nt send d girl away totally she wud still av accesz to her child

But u d husband i wont divorce bt in d hme every one is at their own pace

kilokeys:
Not all 14 yr Olds are square and flat.. So are u saying maids should be selected by attractiveness?

Even Jesus said "thou shalt not tempt the Lord thy God" so why tempt your husband with a grown girl housemaid?

Why does a woman need a househelp in the first place? Is she handicapped?

When that time come i would know

Speechless3:
When that time come i would know

best reply so far.

SirJeffry:
God is love, so why not. Our wives will always forgive us when we make such inevitable mistake.

I call it inevitable because the wife dey craze to allow a grown up cum sexy lady in her home as a maid. Nonsense

Ode!


Forgive you for ruining someone else's daughter and you reeall think your own daughter is going to go as scot free. Her life is going to be destroyed to.

daretodiffer:
Ode!


Forgive you for ruining someone else's daughter and you reeall think your own daughter is going to go as scot free. Her life is going to be destroyed to.

Thats wat they dont kno wat goes around comes arond

Ever wonder why guys dat flirts too mch always av a female child as their first issue!

It means karma as set a table before those daughters

Na d daughters dey suffer am wen i cry of heart breaks i remembered my dad's attitude towards girls bck in d days am d one reaping all d man has sowned d tears he kept in dose innocent girls eyes back then


karma is real now wen dad sees me cry he is helpless

Guys b careful of wat u do to girls ur daughter is d one to suffer for it d most nd u wud b helpless den!

sickstars:
Thats wat they dont kno wat goes around comes arond

Ever wonder why guys dat flirts too mch always av a female child as their first issue!

It means karma as set a table before those daughters

Na d daughters dey suffer am wen i cry of heart breaks i remembered my dad's attitude towards girls bck in d days am d one reaping all d man has sowned d tears he kept in dose innocent girls eyes back then


karma is real now wen dad sees me cry he is helpless

Guys b careful of wat u do to girls ur daughter is d one to suffer for it d most nd u wud b helpless den!

What did your fada do to innocent babes

SmartChoices:
What did your fada do to innocent babes

Same thing every yoruba guy is gifted at doing

TRY TO BREAK AND RUIN EVERY GIRL'S LIFE

MEHN DAD WAS A CERTIFIED PLATNIUM PLAYER


Imagine ow he met my mum

my mum was living close to my dad's dem gf's hse d gf was now actin up dad just use my mum as a back up plan

d man no ever feel heart break for hin life!

Now he sees wat guys do to me he grows weak nd regrets it

sickstars:
Same thing every yoruba guy is gifted at doing

TRY TO BREAK AND RUIN EVERY GIRL'S LIFE

MEHN DAD WAS A CERTIFIED PLATNIUM PLAYER


Imagine ow he met my mum

my mum was living close to my dad's dem gf's hse d gf was now actin up dad just use my mum as a back up plan

d man no ever feel heart break for hin life!

Now he sees wat guys do to me he grows weak nd regrets it

Come for deliverance

SmartChoices:
Come for deliverance

I dont need one day God will realise m innocent of dad's sin nd redeem me

sickstars:
I dont need one day God will realise m innocent of dad's sin nd redeem me

Seriously babe you need one.... By giving your life to Christ and living a holy life.... Gbam old things must pass away....

Yeah i can but I won't forget and that'll destroy everything eventually I guess.

will the man forgive his wife if she gets impregnated by their gateman? I don't think so .As for me,I won't deceive myself I will call it QUIT because I like justice in everything.

SmartChoices:
Seriously babe you need one.... By giving your life to Christ and living a holy life.... Gbam old things must pass away....

I av christ in me

sickstars:
Thats wat they dont kno wat goes around comes arond

Ever wonder why guys dat flirts too mch always av a female child as their first issue!

It means karma as set a table before those daughters

Na d daughters dey suffer am wen i cry of heart breaks i remembered my dad's attitude towards girls bck in d days am d one reaping all d man has sowned d tears he kept in dose innocent girls eyes back then


karma is real now wen dad sees me cry he is helpless

Guys b careful of wat u do to girls ur daughter is d one to suffer for it d most nd u wud b helpless den!

I just dey look them

Who are the girls that go about with sugar daddies, datng several guys because of money, harrassed for sex and so many more.

That 14 year old might become affected. She could develop insatiable thirst for sex, see sex as a weapon etc. And some idi.ot is going to come out tomorrow and start chatting shit about women and would expect us to go along with his BS.


I am sorry about your experience. I pray you find that man that won't make your cry

sickstars:
I av christ in me

Then ask him to free you.....

daretodiffer:
I just dey look them

Who are the girls that go about with sugar daddies, datng several guys because of money, harrassed for sex and so many more.

That 14 year old might become affected. She could develop insatiable thirst for sex, see sex as a weapon etc. And some idi.ot is going to come out tomorrow and start chatting shit about women and would expect us to go along with his BS.
K

I am sorry about your experience. I pray you find that man that won't make your cry

looooooool tank u

daretodiffer:
I just dey look them

Who are the girls that go about with sugar daddies, datng several guys because of money, harrassed for sex and so many more.

That 14 year old might become affected. She could develop insatiable thirst for sex, see sex as a weapon etc. And some idi.ot is going to come out tomorrow and start chatting shit about women and would expect us to go along with his BS.
K

I am sorry about your experience. I pray you find that man that won't make your cry

WORD!
looooooool tank u

SmartChoices:
Then ask him to free you.....

I am asking him o he wud free me wen he wants to

Buy d way m happier dis days esu pofo

D devil sees me smiling he wana commit sucide to b a spirit nd find me

sickstars:
I am asking him o he wud free me wen he wants to

Buy d way m happier dis days esu pofo

D devil sees me smiling he wana commit sucide to b a spirit nd find me

All the best