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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 7:05pm On Jan 26, 2016
naijaboiy:

You post your private online for fun. You talk about your father and friends online for fun. For people to jeer at you and laugh.

And when they do,you rant on every thread disturbing everybody.

Now someone brings his own private life out because he needs help and you are going off point,talking about how the girl will feel.

Have you wondered how he will feel if he makes the wrong decision?

Can you see how demented and slow your thinking faculty is?

Please get a life ASAP!

Just stop dis!

enof of dis madness nd attack!

Its ok av heard u tank u !
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by astrid97(f): 7:06pm On Jan 26, 2016
you shouldnt be really bothered about that bro, my mum has one too and she gave birth to 4kids
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by femi4: 7:08pm On Jan 26, 2016
sickstars:


M nt claiming tough stop saying dat to me

I cant get all crios nd giv advise to sumone matured enof to tink on his own!

U tink its normal but its not to b sincere it doesnt make sense

Ow wud d girl in question feel wen she told her man d truth only for him to publish it world wide if she was ur sister wat will u do?

Cos u fink its good to expose in d public wat a girl in tears secretly told u smh
What a sick comment. Sickstar indeed
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by grandstar(m): 7:08pm On Jan 26, 2016
[quote author=sickstars post=42348850][/quote]

I support marraige.

Its the poster who condemned the OP for bringing the topic to the forum rather than going to his relatives. Of course his relatives especially his parents will reject her

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Eteriayaoba(f): 7:08pm On Jan 26, 2016
[quote author=Michellla post=42346861]you have nothing to worry about.just be glad she was honest with you.it is possible to have a baby even though you had one fallopian tube removed. The fallopian tube (women generally have 2), is the tube that allows the egg to travel from the ovary to the uterus. Where it can be fertilised. Even in cases where one ovary has been removed,
the remaining one still produces an egg every
month. So it is still possible for a woman to conceive with one tube.[/quote]

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by redcliff: 7:08pm On Jan 26, 2016
joborskill:



I understand your point but my concern is how much damage could have been done. This might affect our chances of having kids even tho i believe in miracles

i think you should try to impregnate her since you say you want to get married to her later this year. Its this simple my man

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jan 26, 2016
I am very sorry op deeply sorry

cry cry cry cry i mean it so sorry i hope u accept my apologies
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Maser: 7:10pm On Jan 26, 2016
joborskill:



I understand your point but my concern is how much damage could have been done. This might affect our chances of having kids even tho i believe in miracles

To address these your concerns, see a gynaecologist and ask him to run tests to determine the state of her reproductive organs. This may cost you some cash but will convince you on what you are going in for. You may be surprised she will give you the most beautiful kids on the planet with so much ease.

You may also wanna run some tests to be sure you too are okay so that when there are little hitches prior to pregnancy, which sometimes happen, your mind doesn't put all the blame on her without looking inwards.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by ogaprime(m): 7:10pm On Jan 26, 2016
naijaboiy:

You post your private online for fun. You talk about your father and friends online for fun. For people to jeer at you and laugh.

And when they do,you rant on every thread disturbing everybody.

Now someone brings his own private life out because he needs help and you are going off point,talking about how the girl will feel.

Have you wondered how he will feel if he makes the wrong decision?

Can you see how demented and slow your thinking faculty is?

Please get a life ASAP!

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Cuneddy(m): 7:10pm On Jan 26, 2016
That she has jst one fallopian tube doesn't mean she can't give birth. she's can still give birth jst like every other women. Her case was actually a case of ectopic pregnancy. If ‎​you love her so much as ‎​you claim,then nothing stops ‎​you from marrying her. Remember,Love conquers all
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by naijaboiy: 7:11pm On Jan 26, 2016
noblegrex:
haba man!without being told,you should know that you have to visit a doctor before marriage.that's the mistake most parent make.expecially in the old days may be because they're not civilized sha or because of love. Even if she didn't come out straight with you,open up or confess,don't tell me you don't intend to see a doctor.don't be so blinded with LOVE.act normal,don't let her feel you're seeing a doctor because of that.even if she suspects,don't mind.its your future here. Go to a doc,make your inquiry,and if its inline with what she told you,then I don't think there's any course for alarm.unless you want more than 3kids of which I'm not sure of.its a simple thing man.don't be panich,and as for those comments,just ignore them.you'll always have something like that.don't be offended but it makes the forum more lifely. Enjoy
Lool,but I'm not the guy in question na! cheesy
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by naijaboiy: 7:13pm On Jan 26, 2016
sickstars:


Just stop dis!

enof of dis madness nd attack!

Its ok av heard u tank u !
Your headache!

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by iomoge2(f): 7:13pm On Jan 26, 2016
ladyF:

This statement coming from a female is really disturbing. So he should get her pregnant without her consent out of wedlock and bring disgrace to her? What if OP is impotent sef angry
why will it be without her consent?
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by chrisgozie2020(m): 7:14pm On Jan 26, 2016
First of all, I find it hard to believe that the doctors told her she can only have 3kids. Pregnancy is very possible with only one fallopian tube but there is some disparity in fertility for those with one tube compared to those whose tubes are intact, If you truly love the woman, I suggest u go ahead. After all, In vitro technology is becoming commoner, safer, and cheaper
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by tpiar: 7:15pm On Jan 26, 2016
cringe worthy thread.

"Confessed" she has one fallopian tube- "confessed" like how? Is that a criminal offence and you are the judge and jury?

and, "help me"


with what?

the person you opened the thread about nko? Who needs the help more, you or her?

Abi you have fallopian tubes with your male moniker ni?

semi literacy is not good.

if oyinbo people did not tell you fallopian tubes are two in number would you know how many are supposed to be there?

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jan 26, 2016
sickstars:


Suite ko skirt nd blouse ni
Eyin lemo (na u sabi)
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by naijaboiy: 7:15pm On Jan 26, 2016
tpiar:


one day one day, the op go marry unless he is a hardcore gay.

till then, he should continue opening senseless threads and being a jackass!

he is feeling funky!

same goes for "funky-feeling" mod!!!!!!
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by ogaprime(m): 7:15pm On Jan 26, 2016
sickstars:
I am very sorry op deeply sorry
cry cry cry cry i mean it so sorry i hope u accept my apologies
So you can swallow back your words??

Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by bebe2(f): 7:17pm On Jan 26, 2016
joborskill:
I have been in a relationship with a lady since March last year and all has been going smooth until a revelation popped out earlier today via our chat on whatsapp and it has been troubling my mind. We had a discussion about our past and after sharing series of experiences, she started begging me to forgive her for not telling me this earlier. She claims the month of February has always been a terrible month for her as it brings back some bad memories.

After persuading her for a while about what the issue is, she said she was pregnant for her EX in 2013 and she didn't know until it resulted in a terrible sickness which led to her been rushed to an hospital where the doctor confirmed she is 5 months pregnant. She said the doctor recommended surgery to terminate the pregnancy because the baby was in her right fallopian tube instead of her womb.

She confirmed to me that her right fallopian tube has been removed while all she has now is her womb and left tube. she claims the doctor told her she can only have a maximum of 3 kids when ready due to the surgery. I acted like everything is fine so as not to hurt her feelings any further but i'm seriously disturbed by this.

This is someone i love so much and i intend getting married to later this year. I need advices on what to do next as i am confused right now. What are the implications of having any of the tubes removed? would it affect fertility or child bearing in marriage? Do you think i should move on with my life and look for someone else as i cannot determine the level of damages that has happened to her reproductive system? Kindly drop your comments. embarassed



Nothing to panick about,

My friend has one fallopian tube and she had 3kids wit it.

Love is way matters

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by gbeseun(m): 7:18pm On Jan 26, 2016
Appreciate the singular fact that she told you, what of if otherwise is the case. Manage the situation as if u have two ti three kids at least it's better than none but before ur wedding ensure she is pregnant first before moving her down to the alter. My candid advice
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jan 26, 2016
Cuneddy:
That she has jst one fallopian tube doesn't mean she can't give birth. she's can still give birth jst like every other women. Her case was actually a case of ectopic pregnancy. If ‎​you love her so much as ‎​you claim,then nothing stops ‎​you from marrying her. Remember,Love conquers all
I keep imagine how you people just come up with medical answer even if you are not a doctor!

the OP didn't see any medical statement of her given by the doctors (or Nigeria doctors don't give medica statement and agreement to proceed any surgery undecided ). this is a talked over whatapp and ya all just jumping into conclusion undecided


jezzzz! I'm sorry but common sense is not so common anymore. I swear to it
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by noblegrex: 7:18pm On Jan 26, 2016
naijaboiy:

Lool,but I'm not the guy in question na! cheesy
oh!! Skip of hand. Just transfer it to him.ahahahahaha. You're freed.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by naijaboiy: 7:20pm On Jan 26, 2016
noblegrex:
oh!! Skip of hand. Just transfer it to him.ahahahahaha. You're freed.
Got that sir! cheesy
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by emzila(m): 7:21pm On Jan 26, 2016
joborskill:



I understand your point but my concern is how much damage could have been done. This might affect our chances of having kids even tho i believe in miracles
You guys will have kids but limited number just as she confess the doctor's report. if you truly love her, pls give her a chance, remember she could choose not to tell you at all since she stand chances of given you kids. her confession is an indication that she wants to build a home with you and also want you to love her for who she is and not for your own interest alone.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by ladyF(f): 7:21pm On Jan 26, 2016
iomoge2:
why will it be without her consent?
So he should ask her to agree to get pregnant out of wedlock in a bid to prove that sha is not infertile?

The guy will sound very heartless and unsympathetic.
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by LaRoyalHighness(f): 7:22pm On Jan 26, 2016
If your fear is about the Fallopian tube..... Don't worry! I have one and I have two children...

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Nobody: 7:24pm On Jan 26, 2016
tpiar:
cringe worthy thread.

"Confessed" she has one fallopian tube- "confessed" like how? Is that a criminal offence and you are the judge and jury?

and, "help me"


with what?

the person you opened the thread about nko? Who needs the help more, you or her?


abi you have fallopian tubes with your male moniker ni?

semi literacy is not good.
you know you are confusing many people here!

are you against it or you just don't want to hear hear about fallopian or .............

what are you against of?
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by uyogabie(f): 7:24pm On Jan 26, 2016
In as much as I don't support pregnancy before marriage, I think it will really be helplful in op's case.I knew a girl who was jilted because of the one fallopian tube ish.Every one knew in my villa about the girl but fortunately the girl is of good behavior.Guys ran away from her but eventually she got married.last I heard of her,she was heavily pregnant. At least she opened up to u. I pray u give her a chance.The devil u know is better than the angel u don't know.

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by doyinisaac(m): 7:24pm On Jan 26, 2016
sickstars:
anoda dummy spotted

U dont av matured relatives to ask?

Wow d mumu people in naija increases daily
Where are all these animals crawling from??is it by force you must comment??if you know you have nothing reasonable to say then just shut that your dirty gutter you call mouth up.....after all your ranting you still did not give any reasonable solution or advice....you just kept on barking.....am not like some other guys that are ass lickers that will not tell you the truth because you are a lady,as for me I will always point out your stupidity whenever I see it....have a nice day.......


@op she can still give birth to kids,stay calm....I personally know a woman with a single falopian tube and she has two kids and currently pregnant...

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by Xplicit1(f): 7:25pm On Jan 26, 2016
joborskill:
I have been in a relationship with a lady since March last year and all has been going smooth until a revelation popped out earlier today via our chat on whatsapp and it has been troubling my mind. We had a discussion about our past and after sharing series of experiences, she started begging me to forgive her for not telling me this earlier. She claims the month of February has always been a terrible month for her as it brings back some bad memories.

After persuading her for a while about what the issue is, she said she was pregnant for her EX in 2013 and she didn't know until it resulted in a terrible sickness which led to her been rushed to an hospital where the doctor confirmed she is 5 months pregnant. She said the doctor recommended surgery to terminate the pregnancy because the baby was in her right fallopian tube instead of her womb.

She confirmed to me that her right fallopian tube has been removed while all she has now is her womb and left tube. she claims the doctor told her she can only have a maximum of 3 kids when ready due to the surgery. I acted like everything is fine so as not to hurt her feelings any further but i'm seriously disturbed by this.

This is someone i love so much and i intend getting married to later this year. I need advices on what to do next as i am confused right now. What are the implications of having any of the tubes removed? would it affect fertility or child bearing in marriage? Do you think i should move on with my life and look for someone else as i cannot determine the level of damages that has happened to her reproductive system? Kindly drop your comments. embarassed






My Aunty has one fallopian tube and she has 2 children. The first child's father told her to get pregnant first cos of d fallopian ish, she did, but he didn't marry her. The second child's father said same & she GOT PREGNANT again though he married her & now she has 2 children.

So yes, she can give birth with one tube.

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Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by captainjoh(m): 7:25pm On Jan 26, 2016
sickstars:
anoda dummy spotted
U dont av matured relatives to ask?
Wow d mumu people in naija increases daily

receive brain
Re: My Fiancee confessed she has one fallopian tube. Help me by mamaafrik(m): 7:25pm On Jan 26, 2016
I guess the other guy ran away becos of this,appreciate her dat she was truthful to you,it wont be bad if you start test-running ur product now,dont waste much time?

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