tpiar:
the mod who moved this to front page, please stop making the forum look bad.

why would you move a half baked thread like this to front page? Not even changing the title, nothing.

joborskill:



do u really need to insult me if u have no positive contributions? This is an anonymous forum and i did not mention names nor revealed anyone's identity. No one is an island of knowledge. You should grow up

joborskill:
I have been in a relationship with a lady since March last year and all has been going smooth until a revelation popped out earlier today via our chat on whatsapp and it has been troubling my mind. We had a discussion about our past and after sharing series of experiences, she started begging me to forgive her for not telling me this earlier. She claims the month of February has always been a terrible month for her as it brings back some bad memories.

After persuading her for a while about what the issue is, she said she was pregnant for her EX in 2013 and she didn't know until it resulted in a terrible sickness which led to her been rushed to an hospital where the doctor confirmed she is 5 months pregnant. She said the doctor recommended surgery to terminate the pregnancy because the baby was in her right fallopian tube instead of her womb.

She confirmed to me that her right fallopian tube has been removed while all she has now is her womb and left tube. she claims the doctor told her she can only have a maximum of 3 kids when ready due to the surgery. I acted like everything is fine so as not to hurt her feelings any further but i'm seriously disturbed by this.

This is someone i love so much and i intend getting married to later this year. I need advices on what to do next as i am confused right now. What are the implications of having any of the tubes removed? would it affect fertility or child bearing in marriage? Do you think i should move on with my life and look for someone else as i cannot determine the level of damages that has happened to her reproductive system? Kindly drop your comments.

Adaezeagu:
Infact Na u be the MUGU. Read book you no gree ABAYA

joborskill:



what is half baked about the thread? you expect me to upload pics of the woman and her tubes before believing?

ogaprime:


Did he mention anybody's name?? And mind you, I have learnt something new

tpiar:


basically, you are saying a five month pregnancy was in a fallopian tube.

isnt that s.tupid?

sonofananimal:
Bros!

Which doctor will tell a woman to terminate the baby because of fallopian instead tell will put her in an intensive care unit when is due time to deliver.

Your queen did an abortion and she is telling you lies and you on the other hand (MUGU ) is buying it.

Guys make una dey use una brain SOMTIMES na!

You dey hear about NAIJA WOMEN and there evils life style but yet still fall prey to them.

MUGU!

sickstars:


M nt claiming tough stop saying dat to me

I cant get all crios nd giv advise to sumone matured enof to tink on his own!

U tink its normal but its not to b sincere it doesnt make sense

Ow wud d girl in question feel wen she told her man d truth only for him to publish it world wide if she was ur sister wat will u do?

Cos u fink its good to expose in d public wat a girl in tears secretly told u smh

You are just a big hypocrite.

Are you not the same girl who brings your private life on the Internet? The same girl who talks about her father's waywardness when he was young and probably the cause of her suffering?

Are you not the same girl that rant up and down about what people have done to you even when it's clear that nobody gives a flying fûck?

Please just shut the fück up and sit the fùck down! You are nothing but a numb skulled hypocrite.

Nonsense!

joborskill:



I understand your point but my concern is how much damage could have been done. This might affect our chances of having kids even tho i believe in miracles

joborskill:



everyone has a past bro and that is her past. my concern is how the past wont affect our future. please dont judge every naija women badly. there are still many good ones out there and my woman happens to be one. thanks

nefertitiram:


Maybe she meant 5 weeks

joborskill:



everyone has a past bro and that is her past. my concern is how the past wont affect our future. please dont judge every naija women badly. there are still many good ones out there and my woman happens to be one. thanks

naijaboiy:

Negative comments like that will definitely come up so you have to be careful so you don't get swayed by such comments.

sickstars:
anoda dummy spotted

U dont av matured relatives to ask?

Wow d mumu people in naija increases daily

naijaboiy:

You are just a big hypocrite.

Are you not the same girl who brings your private life on the Internet? The same girl who talks about her father's waywardness when he was young and probably the cause of her suffering?

Are you not the same girl that rant up and down about what people have done to you even when it's clear that nobody gives a flying fûck?

Please just shut the fück up and sit the fùck down! You are nothing but a numb skulled hypocrite.

Nonsense!

naijaboiy:

Look at what this one is typing when someone needs an important advise.

Just say you are not capable of helping instead of displaying how crass your stupidity is.

What is wrong in asking for advise on a forum?

You sounded like the dummy with that post of yours.

octopusfreaky:
sad stories everywhere.. At least she opened up to you in time,,she's indeed truthful to you..[s]You guys should seek counseling from a doctor and a good pastor "prophet'' [/s]..

sickstars:


dats too mch
Tanx anyways u a cyber bully

Bt i wont let u bully me

Op still shdnt av said it

I post my life for fun nt demand any silly advise!

iomoge2:


3 kids is ok for a family.
She can still have kids.

But if am you, I would start sleeping with without condom to get her pregnant.

The devil u know.......

sickstars:
yes I wrote d shii any problem

joborskill:



do u really need to insult me if u have no positive contributions? This is an anonymous forum and i did not mention names nor revealed anyone's identity. No one is an island of knowledge. You should grow up