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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Uchesis: 7:48pm On Mar 07, 2016
[/quote]Stop forming shakara ooo, cuz time will come wen u will be visiting Canaanland to pray for husband... accept d one u see nw grin[/quote]

Guy dem plenty 4 MFM and Synagogue.

If u dey tell dem nw, dem no go hear

tank God say my bae get sense
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by lordyugo: 7:53pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:
I know some people would come out and say Jade has smoked her morning weed but like it or not a serious relationship isn't meant for students.

Imagine an average student who still depends on his parents for pocket money to buy handout talking about love, what do you understand by love? This generation has birthed people who now prefer actions to shakespare tales.

Your folks send you 5k to buy handouts,that money also includes pocket money to buy beans and t-fair, now tell me where does expenses for your so called babe come in? Oh u didn't think she would ask for recharge card right? She's always looking pretty and yours is to compliment not knowing those weekends she sneaks out is to go see her real boyfriend while you claiming love. After deceiving you, you rush here to create threads "the b.itch asked for recharge card,am I her father"

You think the scholars don't know what they are doing by not having relationships until after landing that chevron job? Girls are not smiling these days,its the hard truth. She would stick to you when she isn't yet exposed but once that exposure comes due to friends or peer pressure forget it! Love is a game don't be deceived,the highest bidder gets it all,while you are cursing and swearing she's having fun.

Cut your coat according to your size! Your wives are still in secondary school not the babes you are parading presently. If u ain't from affluent homes, not a yahoo boy, not into any business while schooling, you have no business having a serious relationship! You can have friends with benefits or flings as far as you play your game well.

80percent of relationships don't work after graduation, your so called bae may see a better bae and flee because time isn't on her side,stop wasting your emotions on fruitless relationships that would end at the gate. Read very well, f.uck that bff and come out with excellent grades, thank me later! I'm tired of seeing heartbroken childish threads from broke guys complaining about cheating girlfriends when you ain't worthy of having one the first place.

PS: the smart ones would see some truth here, the dumb ones would come here defending their naivety.



best advice I ever got is nvr try to argue a girls logic cos its also confusing for dem

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Jadekitana(f): 7:54pm On Mar 07, 2016
So many guys here are really sensible i'm impressed cheesy as for the others well I ignored those sadistic mentions, it only shows some level of frustration and I totally understand.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by ewizard1: 7:56pm On Mar 07, 2016
evegran:


Says another faceless loser displaying pride on NL? You'll pass. Like I offered myself to you? I'd rather die.
Nigerian losers are the loudest in the world.
I'll resist the urge to reply anything posted by another loser. smiley
smiley

Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Marlvin(m): 7:58pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:


Or so you are Naijaboy the Uniben student? Naaah I don't bash guys from my school, if not you for hear am lol.


cc: is used to draw the attention of someone. like a 'quote tag' amaro m ihe ina eme onwe gi here.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 8:03pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:


A very big amen to that prayer hahaha

Hahaha. smiley
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 8:05pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:


Wow wow wow, babe you are well brought up

Thanks dear smiley

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 8:08pm On Mar 07, 2016
lordyugo:



so in ur twisted mind God will answer ur prayer
u dnt really hv respect for God


Come and beat me then.
Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Marlvin(m): 8:10pm On Mar 07, 2016
Doxie69:
Same old story, Op said male undergraduates shouldn't be in a relationship because they can't finance it,so wrong. Using my sister as an example in her 200 level in UNEC she had a boyfriend, haa the Op talked about the guy living on #5000 and soaking garri, my sister's boyfriend fits that scenario. It still didn't make my sister to leave him, there are times she's going back to school and she will package beans, rice, garri, yam and palm oil which she will give the guy.Mind u she wasn't sneaking it out of the house my mum was aware of it. Fast forward this 2016 on 29th March she will be getting married to her university boyfriend, The guy was in the same class as her ( ACCOUNTACY). We still don't treat him bad because of his background. The same guy is presently working in Dubai, his relationship with my sister still didn't disturb his studies as portrayed by the Op in her post.
I also know of a guy that's a bookworm, he graduated from UNN in 2010, he still kept a girlfriend and that didn't deter him from been the best graduating student from Electronics department and overall best graduating in UNN that year. There are still people who are not in relationship that are not passing well in school,someone also said guys should focus on their books since is what they came for. Whether you choose to have a girlfriend or not, it doesn't justify the grades u will graduate with.




such lopsided assertion coming from someone her age is really baffling. #b.t.w wish your sis a blessed Union.
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by chigoizie7(m): 8:10pm On Mar 07, 2016
osedvgirl:
grin

student will only bleep you, buy you chewing-gum, 100 recharge card, buka; or rather collect the little you have. grin

100% correct


pls students, go and read your books

quote me and your pepeye will shrink tongue


It seems only boys are referred to as students dese days.

If I may ask, what has d female student got to offer?
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by demzylahot(m): 8:14pm On Mar 07, 2016
all the guys on OP's side are ass lickers..... what is good for the goose is also good for the gander

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by arki(m): 8:20pm On Mar 07, 2016
The thing that pisses me off about Nigerian girls is their gold-digging mentality in relationships. Is it a must that guys will be the one paying for all your bills and then the u sit ur lazy ass and joy all? One thing dat nowadays ladies fail to take to cognizance is that the more u keep on collecting frm guys d more u lose worth and value. I like ladies dat are so independent in relationships, it makes me beg to spend on them. Pls o nobody shuld quote me

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by yusufyusuf1: 8:24pm On Mar 07, 2016
for new jade dey no make sense jade wat is it own definition of relationship maybe then i can make sense out of this issue
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by yusufyusuf1: 8:24pm On Mar 07, 2016
for me jade dey no make sense jade wat is it own definition of relationship maybe then i can make sense out of this issue
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by yusufyusuf1: 8:25pm On Mar 07, 2016
for me jade dey no make sense jade wat is ur own definition of relationship maybe then i can make sense out of this issue
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by morganwizzy55(m): 8:31pm On Mar 07, 2016
I pity naija gals cos dey have a long way to go.. So ur parent send u to school to do prostitution.if only what u think as a girl in d college is to sleep with men, this op is just a classic LovePeddler. Let me asked the idiot, so when u are in secondary school u Av been fucking bizness men instead of ur class prefect ? Now u manage scale through to high college or university u are now having sugar daddy. The same you will wear show body, show breast, seducing young dude that came to achieve their aim in institution will come hia in NL to deny them to stay away from relationship in the school. The sweetest relationship on earth can be found in d school. Go to America, even comon Ghana self is more tolerance and well behaved than nija bae. All u all focused on is how to cheat on d guy, he must pay for everything. It a general course for all nija gals...i schooled in Plymount University USA, bsc computer science, the first girl I dated was so amazing. Only the caring can never make u attempt to cheat on her. Sometimes I keep wondering if I'm d one dating her or she is d one asking me out. Oboi everything she insist it must be 50 50. We didn't end up in marriage cos it's not guarantee that every relationship must end up in marriage.. So if u are a broke ass bitch, don't post nonsense to downgrade undergraduate. No wonder why working class niggaa don't take nija female student serious because they know that she is green snake on green glass. Also they take them as their atm machine

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by demzylahot(m): 8:33pm On Mar 07, 2016
chigoizie7:


It seems only boys are referred to as students dese days.
If I may ask, what has d female student got to offer?
punna

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by HardMirror(m): 8:35pm On Mar 07, 2016
arki:
The thing that pisses me off about Nigerian girls is their gold-digging mentality in relationships. Is it a must that guys will be the one paying for all your bills and then the u sit ur lazy ass and joy all? One thing dat nowadays ladies fail to take to cognizance is that the more u keep on collecting frm guys d more u lose worth and value. I like ladies dat are so independent in relationships, it makes me beg to spend on them. Pls o nobody shuld quote me
Just want to tell u not to be afraid of people quoting you. You are a man.
Good post any way
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by morganwizzy55(m): 8:36pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:
I know some people would come out and say Jade has smoked her morning weed but like it or not a serious relationship isn't meant for students.

Imagine an average student who still depends on his parents for pocket money to buy handout talking about love, what do you understand by love? This generation has birthed people who now prefer actions to shakespare tales.

Your folks send you 5k to buy handouts,that money also includes pocket money to buy beans and t-fair, now tell me where does expenses for your so called babe come in? Oh u didn't think she would ask for recharge card right? She's always looking pretty and yours is to compliment not knowing those weekends she sneaks out is to go see her real boyfriend while you claiming love. After deceiving you, you rush here to create threads "the b.itch asked for recharge card,am I her father"

You think the scholars don't know what they are doing by not having relationships until after landing that chevron job? Girls are not smiling these days,its the hard truth. She would stick to you when she isn't yet exposed but once that exposure comes due to friends or peer pressure forget it! Love is a game don't be deceived,the highest bidder gets it all,while you are cursing and swearing she's having fun.

Cut your coat according to your size! Your wives are still in secondary school not the babes you are parading presently. If u ain't from affluent homes, not a yahoo boy, not into any business while schooling, you have no business having a serious relationship! You can have friends with benefits or flings as far as you play your game well.

80percent of relationships don't work after graduation, your so called bae may see a better bae and flee because time isn't on her side,stop wasting your emotions on fruitless relationships that would end at the gate. Read very well, f.uck that bff and come out with excellent grades, thank me later! I'm tired of seeing heartbroken childish threads from broke guys complaining about cheating girlfriends when you ain't worthy of having one the first place.

PS: the smart ones would see some truth here, the dumb ones would come here defending their naivety.




I pity naija gals cos dey have a long way to go.. So ur parent send u to school to do prostitution.if only what u think as a girl in d college is to sleep with men, this op is just a classic LovePeddler. Let me asked the idiot, so when u are in secondary school u Av been fucking bizness men instead of ur class prefect ? Now u manage scale through to high college or university u are now having sugar daddy. The same you will wear show body, show breast, seducing young dude that came to achieve their aim in institution will come hia in NL to deny them to stay away from relationship in the school. The sweetest relationship on earth can be found in d school. Go to America, even comon Ghana self is more tolerance and well behaved than nija bae. All u all focused on is how to cheat on d guy, he must pay for everything. It a general course for all nija gals...i schooled in Plymount University USA, bsc computer science, the first girl I dated was so amazing. Only the caring can never make u attempt to cheat on her. Sometimes I keep wondering if I'm d one dating her or she is d one asking me out. Oboi everything she insist it must be 50 50. We didn't end up in marriage cos it's not guarantee that every relationship must end up in marriage.. So if u are a broke ass bitch, don't post nonsense to downgrade undergraduate. No wonder why working class niggaa don't take nija female student serious because they know that she is green snake on green glass. Also they take them as their atm machine
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 8:41pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:
I know some people would come out and say Jade has smoked her morning weed but like it or not a serious relationship isn't meant for students.

Imagine an average student who still depends on his parents for pocket money to buy handout talking about love, what do you understand by love? This generation has birthed people who now prefer actions to shakespare tales.

Your folks send you 5k to buy handouts,that money also includes pocket money to buy beans and t-fair, now tell me where does expenses for your so called babe come in? Oh u didn't think she would ask for recharge card right? She's always looking pretty and yours is to compliment not knowing those weekends she sneaks out is to go see her real boyfriend while you claiming love. After deceiving you, you rush here to create threads "the b.itch asked for recharge card,am I her father"

You think the scholars don't know what they are doing by not having relationships until after landing that chevron job? Girls are not smiling these days,its the hard truth. She would stick to you when she isn't yet exposed but once that exposure comes due to friends or peer pressure forget it! Love is a game don't be deceived,the highest bidder gets it all,while you are cursing and swearing she's having fun.

Cut your coat according to your size! Your wives are still in secondary school not the babes you are parading presently. If u ain't from affluent homes, not a yahoo boy, not into any business while schooling, you have no business having a serious relationship! You can have friends with benefits or flings as far as you play your game well.

80percent of relationships don't work after graduation, your so called bae may see a better bae and flee because time isn't on her side,stop wasting your emotions on fruitless relationships that would end at the gate. Read very well, f.uck that bff and come out with excellent grades, thank me later! I'm tired of seeing heartbroken childish threads from broke guys complaining about cheating girlfriends when you ain't worthy of having one the first place.

PS: the smart ones would see some truth here, the dumb ones would come here defending their naivety.


Your thread title mentions "Students" but you ended up talking against male students. If a male student who still receives money from his parents can't be deemed good enough for a relationship while should a girl who also still receives pocket money from home be?

If a guy's pocket money is 5, 000 naira and his girl's is 5- 6000 naira, isn't that 10000+ naira for both of them for that month? Or you think a relationship MUST be one-sided when it comes to finances? If the guy does all the spending, what should the girl bring into the relationship? Her body?

In relationships, whether marriages or university relationships, those involved should compliment each other both financially and emotionally. In this age, it is shocking to see that a lady would even think about this, let alone make a post out of it.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 8:45pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:


A very big amen to that prayer hahaha
And you must be very stvpid for typing amen to a trash directed at me. if you like reply or not, thats your business. If you also like you can as well tag me among the "frustrated guys" according to you just because our opinions differ from yours.
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by baddooski: 8:50pm On Mar 07, 2016
zicoraads:

Foolishness at its Peak.
Just like Peak Milk...'It's in You.'
i swear her caliber of f00lishness is legendary.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by hadaydoyin(m): 8:50pm On Mar 07, 2016
whoever started this thread must b demented as F#ck!
B#tch Alert! B#tch Alert ! B#tch alert!
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by baddooski: 9:01pm On Mar 07, 2016
babasolo:




This is the bitter truth I have heard so far on NL...babe I wish u for be my sister.....I have come to learn dis truth in a hard way...it is a game of highest bidder
"game of the highest bidder" so so on point, no time for any silly relatnship, na to chop clean mouth to quench konji.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Rukkydelta(f): 9:03pm On Mar 07, 2016
iceberylin:
Is it ya Garri the girls are drinking with their student BFs? undecided

Yes o....that's what me and my boo eats most times but i still loves him to the moon cheesy
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Obiwiz(m): 9:24pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:
I know some people would come out and say Jade has smoked her morning weed but like it or not a serious relationship isn't meant for students.

Imagine an average student who still depends on his parents for pocket money to buy handout talking about love, what do you understand by love? This generation has birthed people who now prefer actions to shakespare tales.

Your folks send you 5k to buy handouts,that money also includes pocket money to buy beans and t-fair, now tell me where does expenses for your so called babe come in? Oh u didn't think she would ask for recharge card right? She's always looking pretty and yours is to compliment not knowing those weekends she sneaks out is to go see her real boyfriend while you claiming love. After deceiving you, you rush here to create threads "the b.itch asked for recharge card,am I her father"

You think the scholars don't know what they are doing by not having relationships until after landing that chevron job? Girls are not smiling these days,its the hard truth. She would stick to you when she isn't yet exposed but once that exposure comes due to friends or peer pressure forget it! Love is a game don't be deceived,the highest bidder gets it all,while you are cursing and swearing she's having fun.

Cut your coat according to your size! Your wives are still in secondary school not the babes you are parading presently. If u ain't from affluent homes, not a yahoo boy, not into any business while schooling, you have no business having a serious relationship! You can have friends with benefits or flings as far as you play your game well.

80percent of relationships don't work after graduation, your so called bae may see a better bae and flee because time isn't on her side,stop wasting your emotions on fruitless relationships that would end at the gate. Read very well, f.uck that bff and come out with excellent grades, thank me later! I'm tired of seeing heartbroken childish threads from broke guys complaining about cheating girlfriends when you ain't worthy of having one the first place.

PS: the smart ones would see some truth here, the dumb ones would come here defending their naivety.
one question: must girls always make a living out of love? Are they now all prostitutes? What happened to mutualistic rships? Well,all i can say is dat a guy should never involve emotions wen dealing with a woman. Do not abuse, do not slander, do not insult, do not assault but also never ever succumb to being answerable to any woman-weda before u succeed or afta u succeed. Ur success is urs. Respond to dia needs while dey are with u, be superficially loyal bt deep down, never let a woman stake claim to u or ur success. Be a man. A real man must suppress emotions successfully.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by babasolo(m): 9:26pm On Mar 07, 2016
baddooski:
"game of the highest bidder" so so on point, no time for any silly relatnship, na to chop clean mouth to quench konji.


Bros ur head dey there,, imagine she go comot go de flex wit de guy, me I go dey houz de get PHD in mumuism, she go even get mind de tell me sey she love me..babes get mind sha...dis days I de behave lyk I de chop food wit devil oooo, use long spoon
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by donnyattelo(m): 9:33pm On Mar 07, 2016
[color=#000000][/color][i][/i]it saddens my heart when I see girls with such mentality.. Take a cue from the hardworking independent ladies you see around and give up that silly/lazy notion that a guy is meant to be your secondary ATM. Directed at the op nd every lady in support of this BS..
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by kaziblake(f): 9:33pm On Mar 07, 2016
evegran:


Guys who refer to females as "bches" clearly lacked proper home training or maybe grew up without mothers and sisters. Because no sensible guy with a mother and sisters or sister will refer to a female as a btch.

Just thought you show know that, in case you're here feeling like a rapper whilst displaying your poor upbringing. smiley
1000 likes for your comment.
Don't mind those small boys.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by baddooski: 9:35pm On Mar 07, 2016
babasolo:



Bros ur head dey there,, imagine she go comot go de flex wit de guy, me I go dey houz de get PHD in mumuism, she go even get mind de tell me sey she love me..babes get mind sha...dis days I de behave lyk I de chop food wit devil oooo, use long spoon
lol
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by babasolo(m): 9:37pm On Mar 07, 2016
baddooski:
lol

Guy suppose knw when u don enter one chance na ,,, de surprising thing is dat she does not knw dat I already knw...
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 9:39pm On Mar 07, 2016
kaziblake:
1000 likes for your comment.
Don't mind those small boys.


Thanks jare. I won't mind them. smiley

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