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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 9:42pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:


So you call yourself a man, and u waiting for a woman to spend on you? What the difference between you and a gigolo? I'm ashamed of this your comment.
Is there anything wrong in a woman spending on a man? Or a woman paying for a date?
I agree that a man has to bring something to the table, financially or otherwise; but a woman shouldn't be barred from spending on her man.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by baddooski: 9:43pm On Mar 07, 2016
babasolo:


Guy suppose knw when u don enter one chance na ,,, de surprising thing is dat she does not knw dat I already knw...
hehehe

remindz me of my ex, i gat nice plans for her but she took me for a fool,

i bleep the living day light outta her then i told her i'm no longer interested, mehn it pained me errrn ever since then i'v vowed never to trust a lady coz they ain't worth it.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by hadaydoyin(m): 9:44pm On Mar 07, 2016
shoro niyen?
please how is home training related to dis topic now.. all dis babes dey claim FEMINIST now anyhw!!

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by babasolo(m): 9:47pm On Mar 07, 2016
baddooski:
hehehe

remindz me of my ex, i gat nice plans for her but she took me for a fool,

i bleep the living day light outta her then i told her i'm no longer interested, mehn it pained me errrn ever since then i'v vowed never to trust a lady coz they ain't worth it.

Right now am not in for serious issue ooo,,,wen I go service come bak, get a job,, ehnnnnn, I will be ready to give love and trust a second chance, cos all de love nd trust I gave out came back empty handed,,,targeting 4:58CGPA...

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by baddooski: 9:49pm On Mar 07, 2016
babasolo:


Right now am not in for serious issue ooo,,,wen I go service come bak, get a job,, ehnnnnn, I will be ready to give love and trust a second chance, cos all de love nd trust I gave out came back empty handed,,,targeting 4:58CGPA...
alright,, i wish u well bro.

Peace!
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by babasolo(m): 9:51pm On Mar 07, 2016
baddooski:
alright,, i wish u well bro.
Peace!

Amin!!! We go buy buggatti Amin!!!.tnks bro leta tinzzz
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Armstrong34(m): 9:58pm On Mar 07, 2016
because Linda ikeji get 2 head shey. no b girl lyk unagrin

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Jadekitana(f): 9:58pm On Mar 07, 2016
kinginvalhala4:

And you must be very stvpid for typing amen to a trash directed at me. if you like reply or not, thats your business. If you also like you can as well tag me among the "frustrated guys" according to you just because our opinions differ from yours.

Sorry did you see an instance where I ever replied your mentions? That's what I do to idiots! Now you really need to respect yourself and quit this foolish display you have on here. You have been fooling yourself from page 1 to the last, showing how uncultured you were brought up. Lack manners and self control, displaying foolishness and trying so hard to prove a point whilst showing the world the idiot you really are. I will stop here,needed to remind you to adopt some decorum like your mates and stop showing your great level of barbarism.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by austino677(m): 10:02pm On Mar 07, 2016
vizkiz:
this is one of the dumbest thread I have come across on nairaland

Still waiting to meet that person that started the idea that guys are the only one to do the spending in a relationship.

It is suppose to be a relationship not a meal ticket or a source of income... Nigerian women makes me sick sometimes

*modified*
Nigeria has a very long way to go if we keep think as shallow as this...you saying students shouldn't fall in love, but you have been opening your legs for men ever since you were in ss1

Abeg Who is fooling who





It is obvious this thread was channelled to insult male undergraduates...by hoes who run after sugar daddies... Any mod that delete my post go fall inside well before 8pm undecided

abeg make everybody go check his/her well grin angry
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Luckygurl(f): 10:22pm On Mar 07, 2016
Just maybe the title of our thread had an iota of truth in it but the write up is complete BS.
You made it look as if the sole purpose of the female student getting into a relationship is purely based on the material benefits she'd be getting, says who?? And then the male being the maga #SMH

If you talked about the distractions, misplaced priorities etc then perhaps you're right, but from the angle you came from, a complete miss.

And don't forget! There's a lot more to gain in a purposeful school relationship aside the material benefits.
I know of some guy who made his highest GP in his finals and this was solely because he got serious with a girl that was the best in her faculty. That alone motivated him to work harder and the result was evident.


I must add at this point, majority of the school relationships going on now come crashing immediately one of the parties involved graduates, a relationship with no destination from the onset.

It all boils down to the persons involved and what they want...

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Luckygurl(f): 10:26pm On Mar 07, 2016
Doxie69:
Same old story, Op said male undergraduates shouldn't be in a relationship because they can't finance it,so wrong. Using my sister as an example in her 200 level in UNEC she had a boyfriend, haa the Op talked about the guy living on #5000 and soaking garri, my sister's boyfriend fits that scenario. It still didn't make my sister to leave him, there are times she's going back to school and she will package beans, rice, garri, yam and palm oil which she will give the guy.Mind u she wasn't sneaking it out of the house my mum was aware of it. Fast forward this 2016 on 29th March she will be getting married to her university boyfriend, The guy was in the same class as her ( ACCOUNTACY). We still don't treat him bad because of his background. The same guy is presently working in Dubai, his relationship with my sister still didn't disturb his studies as portrayed by the Op in her post.
I also know of a guy that's a bookworm, he graduated from UNN in 2010, he still kept a girlfriend and that didn't deter him from been the best graduating student from Electronics department and overall best graduating in UNN that year. There are still people who are not in relationship that are not passing well in school,someone also said guys should focus on their books since is what they came for. Whether you choose to have a girlfriend or not, it doesn't justify the grades u will graduate with.

A super lion spotted..

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by DifferentBoy1(m): 10:39pm On Mar 07, 2016
What are you saying
wetin concern love with pocket money
True love don't need a dime.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Johnsown1(m): 10:46pm On Mar 07, 2016
#end time gold digger,so in ur shallow mind spending is meant for the guy only. What if she has cash naturally.so u don't have the rights to love her becos ur an undergraduate or ur nt working. Hmmm dumb brain

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by tarzaansin(m): 11:00pm On Mar 07, 2016
adepeter26:
I no the ladies will rush in here now & stat complimenting the Op
don't mind them... In school when you don't keep any they would still be the ones showing intentions. If you claim not to decode, they become so frustrated. Again, nowadays ladies don't wait for guys to make the move. Give them this reason (money) and you get a shocking response ha ha ha.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by noblegrex: 11:03pm On Mar 07, 2016
Fraih:

This is pointless!
that will be pointless when a lazy and shameless bitch like you just came out to defend your promiscousity. You girls are supposed to cover your eyes in shame. Yet you claim what a man can do. A woman ca do better. The right a man has, is the right a woman has. But when it comes to spending,women no longer has equall right with men.its a shame.sorry for the poor guys though.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 11:05pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:


Naaah it's the truth bro, don't sweat it by looking for cheap likes. I noticed that's what you do!

Urm... nigga got his likes :d
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Fraih(f): 11:16pm On Mar 07, 2016
noblegrex:
that will be pointless when a lazy and shameless bitch like you just came out to defend your promiscousity. You girls are supposed to cover your eyes in shame. Yet you claim what a man can do. A woman ca do better. The right a man has, is the right a woman has. But when it comes to spending,women no longer has equall right with men.its a shame.sorry for the poor guys though.
Seriously!!!
You just proved that you dont know the meaning of Pointless
Since you have access to the internet, please use google and then check your comment.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 11:16pm On Mar 07, 2016
Jadekitana:


Sorry did you see an instance where I ever replied your mentions? That's what I do to idiots! Now you really need to respect yourself and quit this foolish display you have on here. You have been fooling yourself from page 1 to the last, showing how uncultured you were brought up. Lack manners and self control, displaying foolishness and trying so hard to prove a point whilst showing the world the idiot you really are. I will stop here,needed to remind you to adopt some decorum like your mates and stop showing your great level of barbarism.
All the above u mentioned is still better than a pr@stitute dat u re. A pr@stitute whose father sowed poverty but u re looking for a rich guy to reap what ur father didnt sowed. Come take money na, Ashaw@. Dont go and work, instead follow ur poor father's footstep nd expect to reap frm a rich guy.

Poor thing!

Pr@stitute!

Na ashaw@ go kill you.

You want money to help your poor family? Go and WORK!

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by 3rdlegxxx(m): 11:24pm On Mar 07, 2016
osedvgirl:

sharraap, i dont date students, am only saying what is real, take it or leave it, i know you are doing it currently, leave all those sugar daddies and face your school boyfriend, drink garri with him, stick with him, he will become great tomorrow tongue

I like it when girls say, I don't date students' it usually tells you, she's been there, dated a few, got experienced and is not trying more matured guys, guys and love, commitment, need to be loved, need to be called, need to be straffed n all, a pro like moi can easily decipher where there is more to a comment, a guy or girl venting more than once on a topic says a lot... Dearie love u tho
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by tylerbraid(m): 11:27pm On Mar 07, 2016
Truth be told here, she's right & nothing she said was wrong... Most of those abusing her are obvious victims, Kindly read your books instead.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by 3rdlegxxx(m): 11:38pm On Mar 07, 2016
Cutehector:
I had lots of kpekus and graduated with a good grade osedvgirl..

Am also havin a lot of kpekus while working


And I also intend to hav a lot of kpekus wen I put a ring on ur finger cheesy

Dude preach and tell them, I have been reading from the sidelines, watching you maintain your stance and points, I have been having lots of kpekus thru second,sch to uni till date when I didn't have ish, the greedy girls look for reasons to want more, now with peer pressure and need to stay at par, in vouge, looking flashy, nice and sexy, I get some of their points but they need to learn to offer something, they don't, the guys u are leaving school lovers d only thing u give them is ur good looks, naughty plays and good loving ... Nice biased one sided topic tho..
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 11:50pm On Mar 07, 2016
Votukpa:


U got 81 likes. She got 29 likes.
There are still reasonable people in Nigeria.

Lived in many countries, and the ladies in these countries simply tell u they have bfs.

They rnt poverty striken like naija girls.
And the ladies are also reluctant to give a guy their number if they have boyfriends, except the guy in question is a co-worker.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Jadekitana(f): 11:51pm On Mar 07, 2016
tylerbraid:
Truth be told here, she's right & nothing she said was wrong... Most of those abusing her are obvious victims, Kindly read your books instead.

And the more they bash the more I say the truth cheesy as far as the brilliant ones get the message.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Jadekitana(f): 11:54pm On Mar 07, 2016
Sacluxpaint:


Urm... nigga got his likes :d

Yea from peeps like him, it's not new.
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Jadekitana(f): 11:55pm On Mar 07, 2016
kinginvalhala4:

All the above u mentioned is still better than a pr@stitute dat u re. A pr@stitute whose father sowed poverty but u re looking for a rich guy to reap what ur father didnt sowed. Come take money na, Ashaw@. Dont go and work, instead follow ur poor father's footstep nd expect to reap frm a rich guy.

Poor thing!

Pr@stitute!

Na ashaw@ go kill you.

You want money to help your poor family? Go and WORK!

It's "sow" not "sowed" thank me later.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by ghostofsparta(m): 11:57pm On Mar 07, 2016
@Jadekitana
What's the inspiration behind your moniker ? MK?
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by ghostofsparta(m): 11:57pm On Mar 07, 2016
@Jadekitana
What's the inspiration behind your moniker ? MK?
Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by ghostofsparta(m): 11:57pm On Mar 07, 2016
@Jadekitana
What's the inspiration behind your moniker ? MK?

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Jadekitana(f): 11:59pm On Mar 07, 2016
ghostofsparta:
@Jadekitana

What's the inspiration behind your moniker ? MK?

I used to play mortal kombat, I love jade and kitana especially jade cheesy

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 12:16am On Mar 08, 2016
Jadekitana:


It's "sow" not "sowed" thank me later.
It doesnt change the fact that you re a cheap PR@STITUTE from a home where your mother feeds, shelter, cloth and sponsor your jobless and poor father.
If thats the case in your home, why then do you turn into a mad woman whenever a guy mentioned that a gf should also contribute financially in her relationship?

Fvck You Later!

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Nobody: 12:19am On Mar 08, 2016
Jadekitana:

I used to play mortal kombat, I love jade and kitana especially jade cheesy
A customer spotted i guess? Go give him your pvssy for #500 for 3 days.

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Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by Jadekitana(f): 12:34am On Mar 08, 2016
kinginvalhala4:

It doesnt change the fact that you re a cheap PR@STITUTE from a home where your mother feeds, shelter, cloth and sponsor your jobless and poor father.
If thats the case in your home, why then do you turn into a mad woman whenever a guy mentioned that a gf should also contribute financially in her relationship?

Fvck You Later!

Hahaha this is pure frustration! I blame buhari for this.

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