₦airaland Forum

HaneefahRN:

Jadekitana:
See don't correct me! Why didn't you speak up when he typed such silly thrash or u didn't see it? I bet u hit the like button.

omoharry:
the thin pain u well welll, so tey you go dig her previous post....you guys should learn how to swallow the bitter pills that you have always been giving to we ladies to swallow ever since..ee never pain you reach...this is what you guys are and that is the fact..why put your head in the sand as if what the op is saying does not exist among you Nigerian men..this what we women both Good and Bad come in contact with while dating you guys..it horrible.

netizenbuzz:
The thing is, this is the only excuse you as.sholes ever come up with. It clearly shows that you bi.tches have no other thing to offer than the little change in your pockets. Some of us don't want any of that but you fuc.k.boys have nothing else to offer. You will keep meeting golddiggers who would run you dry until you grow up and learn to behave like real men. Your forefathers took care of their wives and still respected them. Now we take care of ourselves yet you idiots will still not recieve sense. If all women are golddiggers like you claim, who are those I see working tirelessly day and night? Get out of here joor. You have no point.

HaneefahRN:
*yawns* what are you talking about?

See, I'm not interested in immature back and forth this afternoon, but I'll give a neutral reply anyway. In every gender we have the good, bad and ugly, what the OP talked about holds true for some men , what u're trying to imply also holds true for some women. Some guys on NL are known for their excitement to bash women esp Nigerian women, hear them call 'women' bitches, and all sorts of unprintable names, they are always on every female bashing thread, so a thread bashing some men overlooking the generalization now, and these same ones will still come and cry foul and generalize while insulting the entire or almost all the female population. Now what do we call that?

Fabulocity:
Disclaimer: This thread is not to insult anyone, it's just based in the few observations I've made and it doesn't also apply to every Nigerian guy. So take a moment to read before you release your venom(if this write up refers to you).

1) He is broke: The average Nigerian guy is Broke! Yes. It's either he has no job or he has a ridiculously low paying job. As a result of this, when their girlfriends make demands on them, they come on Nairaland to pour their anger and frustration over their inability to meet these demands. They tag them as hungry, money loving, gold digging sluts. And one way to know the jobless ones is that they spend a lot of time online on various social websites and it leaves one wondering when they actually work. The answer simply is, they have no jobs!

2) He is most probably a fůck boy : Most Nigerian dudes are fůck boys. You just meet a guy and you've barely talked for two days and he's already asking for nudes, like, Wth?? Or he's already trying to initiate a sex chat. That's how one of my friends got introduced to a guy online by a mutual friend. They had barely talked for a week and the goat was already asking her for X-rated Skype video Calls! Hian! You see them on social media, sending PMs,sliding into DMs, inboxing on Facebook to different girls hoping to get lucky with one of them. And from a lot of stories I've heard on NL, they want nothing but sex once they meet a hot girl. They strategise and plan all sorts of ways of luring a girl in to their homes on order to have their way with her. Guys, please stop this fůck boy behaviour of yours, don't try to get into a ladies panties without first trying to get into her heart.

3) He is polygamous in nature : "All Nigerian men Cheat! " This was implied proudly by one body builder who impregnated his ex girlfriend whilst still married to his celebrity wife. I can't count the number of times I've come across that statement both online and offline. I don't know if nigerian guys should be given a pat on the back for admitting their 'weakness' and saving lots of girls from heartache and high blood pressure from wondering if their boyfriends are faithful or not as they would already know there's another chick somewhere, or if they should be shot in the head for admitting such foolishness. And it amazes me that they always admit this with a tinge of pride. Well, it's up to you. It seems the spirit of our polygamous forefathers have not left the Nigerian men as they cannot cope with having just one woman in their life. Smh

4) Thinks he is God's gift to women : He thinks you're lucky to have him as there are several other girls that would kill to be in your place , therefore you should be grateful to God almighty for making you find such rare treasure like him . He thinks he is the black adonis fallen from heaven. He thinks you are highly fortunate to have someone like him and most of this time, they ain't worth shįt Girls, please find someone who would appreciate you, not someone that would depreciate your value

5) Poor Personal hygiene: Nigerian guys Stink! I don't know if they think it's manly to walk around looking unkempt and smelling nasty but please, that's an archaic way of thinking as we're in the 21st century. Nothing turns most ladies on more than a well groomed, nice smelling man. Most nigerian dudes have terrible body odour and bad breath. Please please and please deodorant or body spray is not that expensive. For those of you who actually take your bath, you should also think of deodorising as you tend to sweat a lot and bathing will not be enough to mask unwanted odours. You don't have to use expensive perfumes to smell good, no one is asking you to be a metrosexual, just practise simple hygiene and you're good to go. And please, it's not a crime to change your boxers and socks everyday instead of repeating them and creating horrific odours

6) Would most definitely cheat on you: Do I really need to talk about This? Number 3 has explained this.

7) Super inflated ego : All men tend to be egotistical, there's nothing wrong with that but when you have a super inflated ego, there's a problem. Yes, these group of men feel that we ladies should worship the ground they walk on and if that they leave us, that would be the end of our lives. They are very proud, arrogant and they tend to look down on ladies. They would never call you first, they believe you should be the one scrambling for their attention, you dare not argue or disagree with them If not your own had finished. In fact, it remains for you to start calling them 'sir'.

A big, fat liar: How do you know when a Nigerian guy is Lying? The answer is, when his lips are moving! Even the devil is flabbergasted at the way these men lie. They lie about everything and most especially when they are cheating on you. They can also deny for Africa, even when they are caught red handed. You see some very steamy and compromising text messages he sent to another girl and they swear to you it's their sister. Ndi okwu asi

9) Take you for granted: They tend to take their women for granted. They feel the average nigerian woman is a desperate gold digger looking for a man to ensnare into marriage. They don't know that you should be loved, respected, appreciated, treated like a queen that you are.. Instead, they disrespect, violate, abuse and demean their women. It's a pity indeed.

10) Very immature : Finally, they could be so immature! I always shake my head in disgust when I see grown ass men behaving like babies. What would make a grown ass man who has gone through formal education and the four walls of a university do immature things like releasing the nudes of an ex (again, fůck boy syndrome), beat up a woman, ask his babe to return everything he got her while they were dating after they break up. Like Seriously?? Just because they might have a penis and they grow beards doesn't mean they are mature individuals. They are just kids in adult clothing.

In conclusion, I did not do this to offend anyone oh, just for you guys to get a taste of your own medicine when you open your numerous female bashing threads and rain all sorts of profanities on nigerian girls. no one is perfect, even we ladies have our own imperfections.
Note: feel free to insult the Op, get offended, spew profanities,have hypertension because of this post. You're all welcome

SmoothCruiz:
Check the statistics. Foreign men do not consider black women attractive so they're less likely to settle with you except you're rich and maybe, fair-skinned . They are less likely to marry you.


All white women ,on the other hand, have a fetish for African men.
They, for some odd reason, consider us better in bed than white men. Heck! We're better hung and more masculine than the white, pale sissies.


It's more common to find a white woman cheating with a black man than a white man cheating with a black woman.

You all should be glad we roll with you.

For the record, we would easily eat a white woman's _vagina than a black woman's which is all dark, bumpy and smelly. Eewwwh!

omoharry:
[s]Babe thank you very much..give them back thier own bitter pill to swallow..you are sooooo on point about no 4, 7 and 9..God in Heaven. i have given up hope on these guys..honestly. Their naustiness is appauling..even when they meet women that would never bother them for anything, they will still misbehave and feel they are God sent....Secondly op..remember the matured and responsible guys are not here..they are busy with work and would never spend thier quality time to bash women..most guys here are are students from secondary schoool to polytechnic/ University ..We aslo have the guys that are employed with less task to do at thier work place & Unemployed..these guys are pretty immature ,fustrated, broke, insecured and heart broken..they lack respect for women that is why they always end up getting thier fingers burnt..you cannot be nausty to a girl and except her to give you joy and affection..it can never work. you must show a lady respect, love, &affection before she can commit to give you that joy and affection you ever wish for...you cannot be a dragon and be expected to be treated as a lamb..it does not work that way?..op you do well.every day you guys keep bashing women as if you all do not have your own flaws[/s]

Damfostopper:
Waiting for a counter thread (10 Reasons Why
You Shouldn't Date A Nigerian Girl Of Today) tosyne.2much come and see o.... I no go Everly leave u..... Many counter thread dey for u to enact

Baba, be like say na you go help us with the counter thread

jayhumble:
OP has been scammed... Sounds bitter like ur BF just dumped u. Well, blame it on the economy... Weather odikwa harsh... Government odikwa harsh... Employment market odikwa harsh... Even Devil sef don dey plan relocate comot from naija cuz the situation of the country don tough pass am. Sorry Bae... Take heart and all d best in finding your Knights in shining armor.

noblegrex:
what do you calle immaturity.I can see this word is common to NL girls maybe its a new way of wooing men I don't know. Define maturity so I'll know if you're the matured one or not.95% of wome here and out are not mattured. As a man,its our responsibility to keep trainning you girls. Yet its just a try and error stuffs cos its natural for women. Well,the tread she opened still compares to nothing than what those guys are saying. It still boils down to money ish and 95% of Nigerian women are guilty.no need to be detailed about that you've got an idea already. What she said only holds for road side mechanics not the Nigerian men she claim.even the mechanics are now posh.

adefizzy:
@Op I bet that is wot ur daddy was bt u mother still went ahead to marry him.

ILoveMakonen:
what is the purpose of this post?? *confused

MrCork:
...are you lightskin?

MrCork:
...see yorr treeangle healike jacker potato...so you wannto compare we Londoner (A.K.A fine boys no pimples) to those mechanic loookin homebase guys that looklike Falconey of nairaland. ...have you son falconey?..sweet hatt...do you have taste? ..GOAT!!(No oofense)

Stupedinluv:
You are so stup1d i dont even know where to start from. Which yeye statistics, they one conducted by pink swollen white american men? who no black woman wants. LMao. For your information, hate to say this but real whities/europeans have this fetish for african women. And guess what these ones are 100 times more attractive than those fat pigs.

Have you forgotten the only white women black men can "afford" are usually fat or obese? We see it all the time. The left overs of white men are your pride. If they were slim and good looking they wont even look at you twice BECAUSE MOST DON'T FIND BLACK MEN ATTRACTIVE. Sorry but that's the fvcking truth right there. You asked for it.

You should have kept quiet if i were you

One more thing white men often go for dark/caramel black women if they are going interracial. Now kill yourself monkey.

Black women are really doing black men s favour. Normally they should be the last pick of every woman.

Stupedinluv:
You are so stup1d i dont even know where to start from. Which yeye statistics, they one conducted by pink swollen white american men? who no black woman wants. LMao. For your information, hate to say this but real whities/europeans have this fetish for african women. And guess what these ones are 100 times more attractive than those fat pigs.

Have you forgotten the only white women black men can "afford" are usually fat or obese? We see it all the time. The left overs of white men are your pride. If they were slim and good looking they wont even look at you twice BECAUSE MOST DON'T FIND BLACK MEN ATTRACTIVE. Sorry but that's the fvcking truth right there. You asked for it.

You should have kept quiet if i were you

One more thing white men often go for dark/caramel black women if they are going interracial. Now kill yourself monkey.

Black women are really doing black men s favour. Normally they should be the last pick of every woman.

Fabulocity:
For the purpose of dullards like you, the topic was "Nigerian guys OF TODAY". Nigerian men of yesteryears were more dignified than the bunch of losers we have today that call themselves men

tjark1:
HEY! YOU ARE ONE UNFORTUNATE BI.TCH!!

I'M SURE U R FAT!

Fabulocity:
Look here, boy. Go and look for someone else to bore with your meaningless, unnecessary display of undiluted foolishness. I shall not indulge you. Your little opinion has been duly noted and flushed down the toilet of no-fvcks given
Be nice and I might actually get you a job
Bye, jobless, broke, dim-witted sham of a man

Fabulocity:
Amen!
Nigerian guys are full of bullshit

cyprus000:
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You're too small and feeble for my precocity, If I decide to spare little of my time on a repulsive. fanatic idiot lyk you.

Sincerely speaking, In punditry of sanity,your IQ will be equivalent to that of a donkey.

What a contemptible m0r0n.
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Doubleagent008:
then most guys can't be accepted as broke because you and I know that is not the basis of the definition in this write up. Broke here is considered as a guy who won't have the money to buy gowns, shoes, hair, nails etc anytime and every time they are requested and that means the word broke is subjective. Don't you think? And if we use this definition of the OP, then why would ask for something if u can afford it? so that means the lady too is broke. isn't it? so are we saying it's wrong for a guy to be broke ( in fact he should not be considered a REAL man if u ask some ladies) but acceptable if a woman is? I agree with your definition but a lot of people don't understand it, or fail to put it into perspective.