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DIKEnaWAR:
Trust me dear, I have met a lot of girls; the good, the bad, the wolf, the hyena. I speak from experience.

Infact, a drama is playing out here, I already know how it will end but I am just acting like I don't; enjoying the show.

[size=14pt]bia nwokem! must u say everything??

Allow the guy to keep enjoying his ignorance! he thinks relationship with women is the same as what you watch in india film or telemundo!

That his woman go soon clear his doubt!

the m-u- doesn't know that once they call you everyday, then put in all your chips - cause something is definitely going on behind your back - she is just not sure yet if the other guy is serious or just out on a fling hence the reason why she is still keeping you on the leash!

let her be certain that the other guy is for keeps, then this slowpoke will receive a call one day telling him that she cant continue with the distance relationship he should just look for another girl to keep him company! [/size]

Smellymouth:
OP, I admire your courage.But trust me, it also takes the courage of Samson to trust a lady.

My advice? She is just your GF, not your wife.
The only woman you should ever lose your mind over is your MOTHER or your wife.

Other than that- Get your education up, stay fit, stack ur money up to the ceiling and mess around with many chicks as you can

Life is too short, no one gets out alive!!


Stvpid reasons ladies cheat and I won't be surprised if your GF hadn't cheat on you::
1) The grass looks greener on the other side.
2) A bit of excitement and an ego boost.
3) Pure sexual desire.
4) To feel wanted and attractive to other men.
5) Revenge.
6) To fulfill what they consider is lack of attention from their spouse.
7) Sometimes they do it just because they can.

The oldest excuse is that "something is " in the marriage.

A cheat is a cheat no matter of what sex or why.


Patiently waiting for the feminists and their As5lickers to quote me

Not all girls CHEAT! Please, deal with it...Not all girls are after a guy's money, MY brother please deal with that...Some of us hustle hard, real hard! Not like we don't love sex but we have self-discipline! The hasty généralisation is getting tiresome.....

It's funny how much many humans base their reactions on other people's actions first. So, it's an offense for the OP to do what he perceives as right even just for his own sake?? It was okay for him to go down to the worst despicable level if his girlfriend was cheating on him? Or that he was a fool to let go of such an opportunity if he wasn't sure of his girl friend's loyalty?? How about him not going ahead because of the self respect he has for himself and for values, girl friend aside??

What's really wrong with our society's morals today? What has really gone wrong? I wonder the kind of parents a lot of you would make.

kenonze:
Its a matter of what u believe.
If u attach much importance to s e x then it rules your world but if otherwise Its not a big deal.
Mutual respect is what i hold so high.


U may think your action is an award winning stunt but you forgot that u are the one that invited the Innocent girl and treated her like a cancer.

U don't have respect for people feelings.
Mind u u are not married yet. tomorrow same you will come up with another thread on how ur so called girl dumped u

I guess that's why u uploaded that pics

livinbygrace:
Your Girlfriend not your wife!!You sure say you dey alright?You know wetin ur so called girl friend dey do where she dey?Abeg how old are you?Most guys like u always fall victim(Jilted)at the end of the day..Talking from experience.

if my husband is a cheat, does dat mean i should do d same? even while we were dating, i will not do such, everybody gat their own life. i just dnt undastand NL guys. u asked if she's is wife, so bcus dey are dating he can cheat eh? dnt 4get, an unfaithful bf wil b an unfaithful husband

suzan404:
ahan,i'm sorry about that.

Tanx

Jadeite:
Not all girls CHEAT! Please, deal with it...Not all girls are after a guy's money, MY brother please deal with that...Some of us hustle hard, real hard! Not like we don't love sex but we have self-discipline! The hasty généralisation is getting tiresome.....

Speak for your self hun

kaziblake:
it's called "love".

It's stupidity and I can belt it the guy go regrets his action when hm eye clear.

Smellymouth:
OP, I admire your courage.But trust me, it also takes the courage of Samson to trust a lady.

My advice? She is just your GF, not your wife.
The only woman you should ever lose your mind over is your MOTHER or your wife.

Other than that- Get your education up, stay fit, stack ur money up to the ceiling and mess around with many chicks as you can

Life is too short, no one gets out alive!!


Stvpid reasons ladies cheat and I won't be surprised if your GF hadn't cheat on you::
1) The grass looks greener on the other side.
2) A bit of excitement and an ego boost.
3) Pure sexual desire.
4) To feel wanted and attractive to other men.
5) Revenge.
6) To fulfill what they consider is lack of attention from their spouse.
7) Sometimes they do it just because they can.

The oldest excuse is that "something is lacking" in the marriage.

A cheat is a cheat no matter of what sex or why.


Patiently waiting for the feminists and their As5lickers to quote me

I disagree wit u. Wat op did was d best. Evn if his gal happn to cheat on him, he'l knw dat he did his best n d fault wasn't frm him. U also questioned his reason of stoppn d act dat she's his gal n nt wifey, I want to let u knw dat he hu is faithful in little tns will b faithful in bigger ones. Tnx

Angelberry:
yeah same here, I woke up this morning looking forward to see you here. what are you eating this morning

am still lazying around . Although am done with my laundry but I don't know what to eat. Reason? I can't cook..

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bennymcnonny:
I guess that's why u uploaded that pics

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Do you have problem with that?

Smellymouth:
Speak for your self hun

So what did I just do?? I spoke 4 my grand ma, abi?...

kaziblake:
You don't know how "love"wrk until you fall in love.

ilo!

Smellymouth:
am still lazying around . Although am done with my laundry but I don't know what to eat. Reason? I can't cook..

I'm still laying on my bed you don't know how to cook I can teach you if that's the case

If u hv never cheated on ur date, be the first to criticise. we all have cheated bt wen someone cums out open to say it, everyone becomes a saint....Let's change our mind set .....Thanks..

obiekunie1:
[size=14pt]bia nwokem! must u say everything??

Allow the guy to keep enjoying his ignorance! he thinks relationship with women is the same as what you watch in india film or telemundo!

That his woman go soon clear his doubt!

the m-u- doesn't know that once they call you everyday, then put in all your chips - cause something is definitely going on behind your back - she is just not sure yet if the other guy is serious or just out on a fling hence the reason why she is still keeping you on the leash!

let her be certain that the other guy is for keeps, then this slowpoke will receive a call one day telling him that she cant continue with the distance relationship he should just look for another girl to keep him company! [/size]

Thanks my bro.The Op is still a mugun..So because he talks on phone everyday with a girl means she is faithful..I laugh in Swahili ..most girls of such nature always have things plan B.They just call often to keep you intact while they do their own parole.
I pray it will not be too late for Op to realize .I would rather cheat to protect the one u love ..Talking from experience .

In youth we learn in ages we understand.u never reach dat level bro.when a woman is ryt by myside she is my gfrnd my everytin.bt d moment she move away frm me to anoda state.she aint my grnd my nobody.cus I dnt wanna knw what is happenin @ d oda end.sum bitch wil b bleepin anoda man n when u call dem dey ll be like hey baby av missd u.na dat moment d guy wey dey bleep her go cme dey do her harder harder so dat mek u for hear say sumtin like cryin...me no go lie I dey do am wella.I trust u wen u here with me bt I cnt trust when u are out der.simple.

Jadeite:
So what did I just do?? I spoke 4 my grand ma, abi?...

Nah, you spoke for my great grand ma

D way some guys on NL think is just 2 shallow. What advice do we have 4 our kids? I guess d next generation will b worse

Chop knuckle my guy.no swallow am ooo.

To slap this Op dey hungry me. Imagine the disgrace menfolk.

corperscorner:
Its been a couple of months since my girlfriend traveled and the frequent rain fall haven't really been helping matters. I initially felt I could contain my urge but sometimes it gets out of hand (GUYS WOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER).

So yesterday, I decided to invite a particular girl over, she happens to have been hoping I would do that a long time though.

To cut the long story short, the touching began and it got to the stage where she gave in and allowed me pull off her entire outfit.....like down to the last. At this point, it must have been so certain to her that we were going to get down.....

But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed through my mind how my girlfriend would call frequently and how she would often profess her love for me.......the fact that we've grown to become an item over time made me feel a prick in my conscience and all of a sudden I started feeling disgusted with myself. While these activities were going on in my head, this particular girl that came over had already arrived cloud 9....waiting for me to 'enter the place'. But somehow, I was able to knock senses into my head and attempted to help her back into her outfit while she completed the process herself. (IT TOOK AN EFFORT - BLIV ME)

She turned to me and asked? 'Whats the problem?'...........I said 'nothing, its not happening'. Then she pulled away hurriedly and vowed never to visit me again. I was really glad but concealed this so it would not be obvious though.

Anyways, with all that past me now........one thing I can say is that. I have no regrets and if any at all, it would be inviting her to come over in the first place. I realized we guys can be faithful, it only takes a little effort towards self control. I called my girlfriend a few minutes after the drama and we spoke at length for close to an hour..............and from the conversation, all I could deduce was......I care about her feelings much more than I thought.

Don't be deceived. It is wrong to have sex with your so called girlfriend or any other girl so don't beat your chest yet until you achieve that. Wait till u marry.

livinbygrace:
Thanks my bro.The Op is still a mugun..So because he talks on phone everyday with a girl means she is faithful..I laugh in Swahili ..most girls of such nature always have things plan B.They just call often to keep you intact while they do their own parole.
I pray it will not be too late for Op to realize .I would rather cheat to protect the one u love ..Talking from experience .

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well guess OP is among the few good men that exists,i have never supported the school of thought that all men are the same,atleast the johnny are not all the same size ,on a serious note it takes will power to have self control,it can sap all of you physical and even mental strength to pull away ,we ladies can coordinate ourselves better in such situation,coming from a guy all i can say is your girlfriend is a lucky lady

livinbygrace:
Thanks my bro.The Op is still a mugun..So because he talks on phone everyday with a girl means she is faithful..I laugh in Swahili ..most girls of such nature always have things plan B.They just call often to keep you intact while they do their own parole.
I pray it will not be too late for Op to realize .I would rather cheat to protect the one u love ..Talking from experience .

the poor boy na learner. am sure he is just 20 or maybe 23! at that age guys always think life is telemundo!

its natural to pass thru this phase

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Eureka123:
It's funny how much many humans base their reactions on other people's actions first. So, it's an offense for the OP to do what he perceives as right even just for his own sake?? It was okay for him to go down to the worst despicable level if his girlfriend was cheating on him? Or that he was a fool to let go of such an opportunity if he wasn't sure of his girl friend's loyalty?? How about him not going ahead because of the self respect he has for himself and for values, girl friend aside??

What's really wrong with our society's morals today? What has really gone wrong? I wonder the kind of parents a lot of you would make.

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I Don't care if he cheats or not.
We are human. We shld show respect to one another.
Put yourself in the shoes of the Innocent girl he invited, undressed and fingered only to tell the girl he cant finish up what he started

Now this is what am talking about.

My only problem with it is that sometimes, despite all those things, they still don't believe in your faithfulness.

Thinks you've been messing around simply they thinks all men must be dogs.

Mtcheeeeeew.

corperscorner:
Tnx for the encouragement bro......but she ain't that type..........we made our acquaintance some 6 years back. Trust me....shez that type who would tell me everything....I mean everything. She would even go as far as giving my number to guys bugging her - just for them to try calling and hearing a male voice over the phone. We've been like a team and it felt awkward trying to ruin what we've had coming a long way. The attempt is what I regret.

Angelberry:
I'm still laying on my bed you don't know how to cook I can teach you if that's the case

Can I join u on ur bed? Lol.
I won't mind u teaching me how to cook .it is really embarrassing and annoying Cox I love good food. The problem is I can't learn without watching you cook

That akward moment when he go tink say he dey watch television bt na d televison dey look am like oga ade...

gloria34:
if my husband is a cheat, does dat mean i should do d same? even while we were dating, i will not do such, everybody gat their own life. i just dnt undastand NL guys. u asked if she's is wife, so bcus dey are dating he can cheat eh? dnt 4get, an unfaithful bf wil b an unfaithful husband

Op eyes go soon clear!!

corperscorner:
Its been a couple of months since my girlfriend traveled and the frequent rain fall haven't really been helping matters. I initially felt I could contain my urge but sometimes it gets out of hand (GUYS WOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER).

So yesterday, I decided to invite a particular girl over, she happens to have been hoping I would do that a long time though.

To cut the long story short, the touching began and it got to the stage where she gave in and allowed me pull off her entire outfit.....like down to the last. At this point, it must have been so certain to her that we were going to get down.....

But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed through my mind how my girlfriend would call frequently and how she would often profess her love for me.......the fact that we've grown to become an item over time made me feel a prick in my conscience and all of a sudden I started feeling disgusted with myself. While these activities were going on in my head, this particular girl that came over had already arrived cloud 9....waiting for me to 'enter the place'. But somehow, I was able to knock senses into my head and attempted to help her back into her outfit while she completed the process herself. (IT TOOK AN EFFORT - BLIV ME)

She turned to me and asked? 'Whats the problem?'...........I said 'nothing, its not happening'. Then she pulled away hurriedly and vowed never to visit me again. I was really glad but concealed this so it would not be obvious though.

Anyways, with all that past me now........one thing I can say is that. I have no regrets and if any at all, it would be inviting her to come over in the first place. I realized we guys can be faithful, it only takes a little effort towards self control. I called my girlfriend a few minutes after the drama and we spoke at length for close to an hour..............and from the conversation, all I could deduce was......I care about her feelings much more than I thought.

personally I think you are a fvck boy for two reasons;

1. the fact that you invited someone over with the intention of indulging in activities of a sexual nature because you couldn't bare the weather and your girl is not around. fvck boy traits.

2. the fact that you think you haven't cheated even though you went more than "halfway" already is disgusting. another fvck boy trait.

after it happened and you called your baby why didn't you tell her what happened?

see you niggas kill me. if you in it gat damn it nigga be in it. If you not don't even bother.

I hope she finds out and breaks up with your punk ass for someone better.

Op u be mumu.