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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by dokilolo: 9:22am On Mar 19, 2016
OP shld com clean about why he actually stopped the act afta undressing d babe. if na cos of ur gf u wuld av remembered her luv while kissing nd touching d babe.
the truth is, u stopped because after removing her clothes, rotten fish smell enveloped ur room nd u lost ur erection. .......yea I said it, d babe had smelly punna......dts d only reason a guy wuld nt bleep an unclad babe.
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Epatty(f): 9:22am On Mar 19, 2016
corperscorner:


Tnx for the encouragement bro......but she ain't that type..........we made our acquaintance some 6 years back. Trust me....shez that type who would tell me everything....I mean everything. She would even go as far as giving my number to guys bugging her - just for them to try calling and hearing a male voice over the phone. We've been like a team and it felt awkward trying to ruin what we've had coming a long way. The attempt is what I regret.
Op, wat u did was d best n I commend u. Only dos wit concience wil do wat u did. I lv ur type, unfortunately, my guy was an idiot bt gd riddance
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by sweetcocoa(f): 9:22am On Mar 19, 2016
OP you already cheated but who am I to act all saintly? grin

It's commendable what you later did because you were almost at the finish line but had to give yourself brain. Then there's the lady you humiliated, nigga you have to find a way to appease her.

It also helps, defining what kind of a person you want to be to yourself, this helps you, should you find yourself in such situations, know your values and do your best to stick to them. Deciding not to cheat, is not even a decision we should make because of our partners, it should just be something we do, because we know it is wrong to cheat others, that's just how I see it, because believe me, there will be dozens of people, who will make you want to question your values (if you have any)but then, if you know where you stand, it is easier to stand firm.

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by kaziblake(f): 9:22am On Mar 19, 2016
Lexusgs430:


Have you fallen in love?
Yes I have.
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by kaziblake(f): 9:24am On Mar 19, 2016
livinbygrace:


It's stupidity and I can belt it the guy go regrets his action when hm eye clear.
when you fall in love you will do worst than the op.
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by kaziblake(f): 9:25am On Mar 19, 2016
Epatty:
Op, wat u did was d best n I commend u. Only dos wit concience wil do wat u did. I lv ur type, unfortunately, my guy was an idiot bt gd riddance
To bad rubbish.

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by TalentManager: 9:28am On Mar 19, 2016
corperscorner:
Its been a couple of months since my girlfriend traveled and the frequent rain fall haven't really been helping matters. I initially felt I could contain my urge but sometimes it gets out of hand (GUYS WOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER).

So yesterday, I decided to invite a particular girl over, she happens to have been hoping I would do that a long time though.

To cut the long story short, the touching began and it got to the stage where she gave in and allowed me pull off her entire outfit.....like down to the last. At this point, it must have been so certain to her that we were going to get down.....

But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed through my mind how my girlfriend would call frequently and how she would often profess her love for me.......the fact that we've grown to become an item over time made me feel a prick in my conscience and all of a sudden I started feeling disgusted with myself. While these activities were going on in my head, this particular girl that came over had already arrived cloud 9....waiting for me to 'enter the place'. But somehow, I was able to knock senses into my head and attempted to help her back into her outfit while she completed the process herself. (IT TOOK AN EFFORT - BLIV ME)

She turned to me and asked? 'Whats the problem?'...........I said 'nothing, its not happening'. Then she pulled away hurriedly and vowed never to visit me again. I was really glad but concealed this so it would not be obvious though.

Anyways, with all that past me now........one thing I can say is that. I have no regrets and if any at all, it would be inviting her to come over in the first place. I realized we guys can be faithful, it only takes a little effort towards self control. I called my girlfriend a few minutes after the drama and we spoke at length for close to an hour..............and from the conversation, all I could deduce was......I care about her feelings much more than I thought.
Nics one cos you would have made a habit with the strange girl and might wreck your personality overall n lose your lover
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Aviero: 9:28am On Mar 19, 2016
esejessy:
so na only edo girl they tie man down?
their own de well pronounced.
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Nobody: 9:28am On Mar 19, 2016
livinbygrace:


Op eyes go soon clear!!
at least he knows he tried 2 do d right tin. if d girl cheats on him, dats her biz perhaps we'll always have d gud and d bad
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by DonBobes(m): 9:28am On Mar 19, 2016
oh God anoda abdooLIE 4rm LIEberia on d loose! Ds kin cold mrnin na in u drop ds kin thin 4rm ur mouth. Fear God o.
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by DonBobes(m): 9:29am On Mar 19, 2016
oh God anoda abdooLIE 4rm LIEberia on d loose! Ds kin cold mrnin na in u drop ds kin thin 4rm ur mouth. Fear God o.

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Demainman1: 9:29am On Mar 19, 2016
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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by lodphil(m): 9:29am On Mar 19, 2016
Would have commended you if you had don it because u didn't want to fornicate,because your girlfriend might be the one to turn you into a player tommorrow.
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Lexusgs430: 9:30am On Mar 19, 2016
kaziblake:
Yes I have.
Are you still in love?
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by livinbygrace: 9:31am On Mar 19, 2016
kaziblake:
when you fall in love you will do worst than the op.

My dear have done that many years ago,am 35 so take my words to the bank.The guy ll surely regret it.Most guys with such attitude re always losers at the end.Take it or leave it.

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Nienie(f): 9:31am On Mar 19, 2016
ClassCaptain:

kiss me instead pls ..lol:*
Lol..gerrara here
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Skmoda360(m): 9:32am On Mar 19, 2016
cattyvince:
@OP, unsmart guy. You saying that you trust an ordinary girl friend 100%? grin grin. Again that is unwise.
u better call the said girl again and....
i reason with you small.
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by cybriz82(m): 9:34am On Mar 19, 2016
D p**sy is never ours,is just a turn by turn.
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by sweetcocoa(f): 9:35am On Mar 19, 2016
Eureka123:
It's funny how much many humans base their reactions on other people's actions first. So, it's an offense for the OP to do what he perceives as right even just for his own sake?? It was okay for him to go down to the worst despicable level if his girlfriend was cheating on him? Or that he was a fool to let go of such an opportunity if he wasn't sure of his girl friend's loyalty?? How about him not going ahead because of the self respect he has for himself and for values, girl friend aside??

What's really wrong with our society's morals today? What has really gone wrong? I wonder the kind of parents a lot of you would make.
I wonder too my dear.

People no longer have any values, it's saddening.

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by lomprico(m): 9:35am On Mar 19, 2016
corperscorner:
Its been a couple of months since my girlfriend traveled and the frequent rain fall haven't really been helping matters. I initially felt I could contain my urge but sometimes it gets out of hand (GUYS WOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER).

So yesterday, I decided to invite a particular girl over, she happens to have been hoping I would do that a long time though.

To cut the long story short, the touching began and it got to the stage where she gave in and allowed me pull off her entire outfit.....like down to the last. At this point, it must have been so certain to her that we were going to get down.....

But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed through my mind how my girlfriend would call frequently and how she would often profess her love for me.......the fact that we've grown to become an item over time made me feel a prick in my conscience and all of a sudden I started feeling disgusted with myself. While these activities were going on in my head, this particular girl that came over had already arrived cloud 9....waiting for me to 'enter the place'. But somehow, I was able to knock senses into my head and attempted to help her back into her outfit while she completed the process herself. (IT TOOK AN EFFORT - BLIV ME)

She turned to me and asked? 'Whats the problem?'...........I said 'nothing, its not happening'. Then she pulled away hurriedly and vowed never to visit me again. I was really glad but concealed this so it would not be obvious though.

Anyways, with all that past me now........one thing I can say is that. I have no regrets and if any at all, it would be inviting her to come over in the first place. I realized we guys can be faithful, it only takes a little effort towards self control. I called my girlfriend a few minutes after the drama and we spoke at length for close to an hour..............and from the conversation, all I could deduce was......I care about her feelings much more than I thought.
You still cheated!
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Nobody: 9:38am On Mar 19, 2016
corperscorner:
Its been a couple of months since my girlfriend traveled and the frequent rain fall haven't really been helping matters. I initially felt I could contain my urge but sometimes it gets out of hand (GUYS WOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER).

So yesterday, I decided to invite a particular girl over, she happens to have been hoping I would do that a long time though.

To cut the long story short, the touching began and it got to the stage where she gave in and allowed me pull off her entire outfit.....like down to the last. At this point, it must have been so certain to her that we were going to get down.....

But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed through my mind how my girlfriend would call frequently and how she would often profess her love for me.......the fact that we've grown to become an item over time made me feel a prick in my conscience and all of a sudden I started feeling disgusted with myself. While these activities were going on in my head, this particular girl that came over had already arrived cloud 9....waiting for me to 'enter the place'. But somehow, I was able to knock senses into my head and attempted to help her back into her outfit while she completed the process herself. (IT TOOK AN EFFORT - BLIV ME)

She turned to me and asked? 'Whats the problem?'...........I said 'nothing, its not happening'. Then she pulled away hurriedly and vowed never to visit me again. I was really glad but concealed this so it would not be obvious though.

Anyways, with all that past me now........one thing I can say is that. I have no regrets and if any at all, it would be inviting her to come over in the first place. I realized we guys can be faithful, it only takes a little effort towards self control. I called my girlfriend a few minutes after the drama and we spoke at length for close to an hour..............and from the conversation, all I could deduce was......I care about her feelings much more than I thought.
That is cool and it seems like you're deeply in love with your baby. You're very unique and write so well but with a little bit bad boy trait. It's all good man. You're a cool guy. grin cheesy

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by macof(m): 9:39am On Mar 19, 2016
corperscorner:
Its been a couple of months since my girlfriend traveled and the frequent rain fall haven't really been helping matters. I initially felt I could contain my urge but sometimes it gets out of hand (GUYS WOULD UNDERSTAND BETTER).

So yesterday, I decided to invite a particular girl over, she happens to have been hoping I would do that a long time though.

To cut the long story short, the touching began and it got to the stage where she gave in and allowed me pull off her entire outfit.....like down to the last. At this point, it must have been so certain to her that we were going to get down.....

But to the glory of God, it suddenly flashed through my mind how my girlfriend would call frequently and how she would often profess her love for me.......the fact that we've grown to become an item over time made me feel a prick in my conscience and all of a sudden I started feeling disgusted with myself. While these activities were going on in my head, this particular girl that came over had already arrived cloud 9....waiting for me to 'enter the place'. But somehow, I was able to knock senses into my head and attempted to help her back into her outfit while she completed the process herself. (IT TOOK AN EFFORT - BLIV ME)

She turned to me and asked? 'Whats the problem?'...........I said 'nothing, its not happening'. Then she pulled away hurriedly and vowed never to visit me again. I was really glad but concealed this so it would not be obvious though.

Anyways, with all that past me now........one thing I can say is that. I have no regrets and if any at all, it would be inviting her to come over in the first place. I realized we guys can be faithful, it only takes a little effort towards self control. I called my girlfriend a few minutes after the drama and we spoke at length for close to an hour..............and from the conversation, all I could deduce was......I care about her feelings much more than I thought.


Mr. lemme tell you.

You kissed her, you undressed her, probably touched her in sensitive places. .

oga, you sir are a CHEAT

if you think otherwise, imagine another guy doing all you did to your GF where she is

TELL UR GF AND APOLOGIZE

at least you had the courage to stop yourself from the Penetration

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by berryice(f): 9:42am On Mar 19, 2016
U did d right tin op...forget d people saying she will cheat on you,if all guyz can belike u d world will b a better place wink
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by benedictuyi(m): 9:42am On Mar 19, 2016
macof:



Mr. lemme tell you.

You kissed her, you undressed her, probably touched her in sensitive places. .

oga, you sir are a CHEAT

if you think otherwise, imagine another guy doing all you did to your GF where she is

TELL UR GF AND APOLOGIZE

at least you had the courage to stop yourself from the Penetration


tell gf what? better leave story where it is.. op if u like go do mumu report urself
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by jojothaiv(m): 9:49am On Mar 19, 2016
delishpot:
Exactly. That is what I have been saying. Both genders are influenced by the society to be a certain way. Guys are made to believe that they can sleep around and not feel bad about it cos after all, they are men. With time and with society not minding this behaviour, boys get adjusted to the lifestyle
You're the MVP!
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by macof(m): 9:50am On Mar 19, 2016
benedictuyi:
tell gf what? better leave story where it is.. op if u like go do mumu report urself

grin but honesty is the best o

unless both of them are just playing with each other with no real intimacy
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Nobody: 9:51am On Mar 19, 2016
Smellymouth:


Can I join u on ur bed? Lol.
I won't mind u teaching me how to cook embarassed.it is really embarrassing and annoying Cox I love good food. The problem is I can't learn without watching you cook grin
You can join me at the table not bed
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by sweetcocoa(f): 9:51am On Mar 19, 2016
OP please I beg you in the name of whatever you hold so dear, don't listen to these ones telling you how you are a F00l for the decision you made, you did the right thing at the point you were, and you should know that, doing the right thing is not about others only, it's about you first, what do you believe? How much do you respect yourself? How would you feel if someone did what you were about to do, to you? These are the questions you ask yourself when you are at cross-roads.


Now whether your gf decides to cheat or leave you tomorrow, that's on her, you don't turn bad because someone made you, you do, because you allowed yourself to. So please, don't let the fear of the unknown make you into a bad person.


I read you saying your girlfriend is not the type to cheat, she tells you everything and so on. Well, I can't say she doesn't tell you everything cos I don't know that for certain, but what I can say is, never make the mistake of saying you know exactly everything a person can do, cos the bitter truth is, you don't, none of us do, we can only hope that people remain/be the person we want them to be, while keeping in mind that such things are not guaranteed, still this shouldn't change the fact that we should try to be better persons, if we all made an effort, the world would be a much healthier place.

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Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by bikefab(m): 9:51am On Mar 19, 2016
Is this a testimony or something?
Re: Never Knew How Much I Care About My Girl Until I Tried To Cheat by Nweike1: 9:54am On Mar 19, 2016
Smellymouth:
OP, I admire your courage.But trust me, it also takes the courage of Samson to trust a lady.

My advice? She is just your GF, not your wife.
The only woman you should ever lose your mind over is your MOTHER or your wife.

Other than that- Get your education up, stay fit, stack ur money up to the ceiling and mess around with many chicks as you can grin cheesy

Life is too short, no one gets out alive!!


Stvpid reasons ladies cheat and I won't be surprised if your GF had cheated on you::
1) The grass looks greener on the other side.
2) A bit of excitement and an ego boost.
3) Pure sexual desire.
4) To feel wanted and attractive to other men.
5) Revenge.
6) To fulfill what they consider is lack of attention from their spouse.
7) Sometimes they do it just because they can.

The oldest excuse is that "something is lacking" in the relationship

A cheat is a cheat no matter of what sex or why.


Patiently waiting for the feminists and their As5lickers to quote me grin
in fact, the only person you should trust that way and love that way is your MOTHER!!!!

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