lwanibeauty:
Be sincere with yourself....
and this goes to all real men on Nairaland...
Can you get married to a lady that's older than you ? like she collected 3 or 4 yrs from you....but she's very humble...

I went out with an older woman.
we dated for several years till she left for post graduate studies overseas. That was how it ended.
She was 6 years older than me.

she was good to me, took care of me without being disrespectful. Friends of mine were mocking me but I really didn't pay too much attention to it since I was in a relationship that didn't cause too much drama.

It's all about understanding between yourselves. We have this mindset that older women boss younger lovers. Plus our society frowns at the notion of a man being younger than a woman in a relationship.
If you can survive the stigma, I personally have no problems with it.

lwanibeauty:
Be sincere with yourself....
and this goes to all real men on Nairaland...
Can you get married to a lady that's older than you ? like she collected 3 or 4 yrs from you....but she's very humble...

Yea, so far she is good looking naturally or by means of make up.

iAmCharis:
Epp me answer am

Hope I'll help you marry her too ?

My ex was 6 years older than I am....though she doesn't look the age, when the relationship was 3 years, the wrinkles began to show, I had to ball out...I can't imagine keeping my Aunt as Wife.

Right now I can't date a girl I'm just a year or 2 older than...I want someone I'm at least 4 years older than.

nigeriafilm:
Yes. Honestly, I'm currently searching for one. I'm 28, simple and easy going. If I can get a good looking, simple and easy good bae, praise d Lord, we wil make it to altar before the end of the year. Financial independence is an added advantage. Must be able to communicate in English language atleast to some extend

Go for Linda Ikeji

nigeriafilm:
Yes. Honestly, I'm currently searching for one. I'm 28, simple and easy going. If I can get a good looking, simple and easy good bae, praise d Lord, we wil make it to altar before the end of the year. Financial independence is an added advantage. Must be able to communicate in English language atleast to some extend

GO for Linda Ikeji

ehix89:
Boss you are wise, some brothers issues is from the village, dating or marrying older ladies is some weird idiosyncrasy

Check most of the governors wives and rich men and see how young and fresh they are...

Some that their wives are old result marrying a younger woman. To prevent me from having an option of getting a younger woman after certain years of marriage, I better marry a young and fresh woman.

There is something about younger women some guyz don't know. Having sex with a younger woman has a empowering your mind, make you look fresh and energising your system.

Why do you think most old men go after young babes. Some are even advised by a doctor to go for them.

Any woman of same age with me is even too old for me talkless older than me...

lwanibeauty:
Be sincere with yourself....
and this goes to all real men on Nairaland...
Can you get married to a lady that's older than you ? like she collected 3 or 4 yrs from you....but she's very humble...

Yes...I can marry a lady that is 3 to 4 years older . it doesn't make any difference. What matters is mutual respect

And in Igbo land woman doesn't senior a man ....


A man will always be head of the house

Sorry but please are people collecting age from each other now? cause I just don't understand OP's vocabulary anymore.

artsoft1:

Go for Linda Ikeji

You no hear watin wizkid talk

Sugar mummy matterz....... Not age...... You stand to be corrected...... By the time the rinkles set in. , the tommy starts folding and the gray hair appears then that your neighborz young daughter would be good for a DP on ur phone

Senatorkelvin:
Yes, I can get married to a lady with such age gap. I personally understand older ladies than the younger ones. In fact, I'm getting married to my girl in June and she is 2 years older than me lol

Your life... your choice...

YOUNGKAHUNA:
My ex was 6 years older than I am....though she doesn't look the age, when the relationship was 3 years, the wrinkles began to show, I had to ball out...I can't imagine keeping my Aunt as Wife.

Right now I can't date a girl I'm just a year or 2 older than...I want someone I'm at least 4 years older than.

Your ex has pre mature aging


I have seen women that are 20s but look 40s

It depends on genes

Look at Kate henshaw she is in her late 40s but looks 30
Look at Genevieve and compare her with that your small 20 something year girl

Gene is younger

It depends on genes and maintenance

Some women age faster
Look at omotola she looks pretty and yet she is in her late 30s

SunsetAve:
A wife should be 5 to 10 years younger than her husband. A 25 year old guy should marry a 20 year old girl . 30year old should marry 24 years old girl. Any female above 25 is an old cargo. An ideal age for female to get married is 20 to 25 . An Ideal age for a male to get married is 25 to 30.

Archaic view at best.
Age will not be a matter in relationships with adults. Love, understanding, tolerance and patience are the key to successful relationships.

You really need to get off this silly mentality where you categorize people as cargo by virtue of their age.

enshi:
Sugar mummy matterz....... Not age...... You stand to be corrected...... By the time the rinkles set in. , the tommy starts folding and the gray hair appears then that your neighborz young daughter would be good for a DP on ur phone

When a lady is 3-4yrs older or younger than you ..you guys are within age bracket

Pray neve to marry a lady that age faster ....take a look at her mum before you marry


I have seen small girls of 25 looking 39
Fatness makes women old
Stressful work makes women old
Too much sperm from different men make woman old
Bleaching makes woman old ..it shrinks the skin and burns the face


Genetics and maintenance

recipe for disaster

valdes00:
Am 26 n Bae will b 30 by November...... n we r balling strong... she hasn't giving me any reason to back out sins 2yrs ago till now...... I pray we gt married... I don't av a problem with age, so far she GATS all d qualities a man could ever wish for in a woman....

when I saw balling in your comment ,I tot something else

My wife is older than me with 2yrs .we love each other

Bonapart:
Only if she fear God and has a lot of money

ole, moneydigger. if u sef fear God u no go ask make she gets a lot of money

if she like make she collect 10yrs from me, if she meet the physical, mental and emotional mindset, I go rush marry her, Wetin sef

krak101:
No No for me. Can't have my woman looking like ma mum. I can't have her looking like my daughter either. Either am slightly older or we're mates.



Another FTC. Change

You dunno what you're missing if you don't want her looking like your daughter.... Sex is sweeter for Men who climb young girls cos their pvssy is tighter and d instinct of man is to dominate while women love to be dominated.

YOUNGKAHUNA:
My ex was 6 years older than I am....though she doesn't look the age, when the relationship was 3 years, the wrinkles began to show, I had to ball out...I can't imagine keeping my Aunt as Wife.

Right now I can't date a girl I'm just a year or 2 older than...I want someone I'm at least 4 years older than.

ladies see ya lives. this one break up because of wrinkles, when he dey knack toto he no think of wrinkles

lwanibeauty:
Be sincere with yourself....
and this goes to all real men on Nairaland...
Can you get married to a lady that's older than you ? like she collected 3 or 4 yrs from you....but she's very humble...

No! For what?

valdes00:
Am 26 n Bae will b 30 by November...... n we r balling strong... she hasn't giving me any reason to back out sins 2yrs ago till now...... I pray we gt married... I don't av a problem with age, so far she GATS all d qualities a man could ever wish for in a woman....

Marry "bae" na. Marry her first!

Most if the Gals I've had serious relationship with are older

nigeriafilm:
You no hear watin wizkid talk

,

christopher123:


Your ex has pre mature aging


I have seen women that are 20s but look 40s

It depends on genes

Look at Kate henshaw she is in her late 40s but looks 30
Look at Genevieve and compare her with that your small 20 something year girl

Gene is younger

It depends on genes and maintenance

Some women age faster
Look at omotola she looks pretty and yet she is in her late 30s

It's not just gene jare... it's more of money. The ladies you mention above are all rich. Do you know how much they spend to remove and burn excess fat from their body and body maintenance.

If his bae has the money, those wrinkles will be gone overnight. Money make you look Young and fresh

Speakdatruth:

ladies see ya lives. this one break up because of wrinkles, when he dey knack toto he no think of wrinkles

not every relationship involves sex

lwanibeauty:
Be sincere with yourself....
and this goes to all real men on Nairaland...
Can you get married to a lady that's older than you ? like she collected 3 or 4 yrs from you....but she's very humble...

where can i find her please.. I'm being serious

:Pdid u know me? Hum hun
Did u know my name? No
Did u know where I from? No
Thank GOD
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YOUNGKAHUNA:
not every relationship involves sex

taah go siddon
na cartoon una dey watch be dat for 2years

lwanibeauty:
Be sincere with yourself....
and this goes to all real men on Nairaland...
Can you get married to a lady that's older than you ? like she collected 3 or 4 yrs from you....but she's very humble...

Age is nothing but a number. Older women have seen it all. A younger man is more secured with his emotions with them.