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Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by monex(m): 7:52am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Kachisbarbie: exactly. for me, I just enter friendzone (not friends with benefits zone o) and forcefully remain there even when you try to bring me out. the friendzone will become so strong that I will be able to gist you about other girls (usually imaginary) that i am asking out sef. |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by BlackMbakara1(m): 7:59am On Apr 23, 2016 |
This simple steps will help: 1. Don't reply her msgs immediately, maybe after 3 days of d last received msg with an apology n excuse that u were busy. 2. Don't take or return her calls immediately, maybe after 3 or 4 days that u were busy preferrably u were in a meeting n had it in mind to call bak but sumthg else cropped up... 3. Always give excuses e.g in a meeting or travelled etc Over time she will use her tongue to count her teeth...and anyday u see her, just be all frndly n receieve 1 fake call n give anoda excuse 2 leave. |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by Mbediogu(m): 8:17am On Apr 23, 2016 |
HateU2: Ah! that will keep her hoping and working harder on him. Just keep dodging until she gets tired. 'Hell knows no fury like a woman scorned'. Shakespeare. |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by tomdon(m): 8:21am On Apr 23, 2016 |
4C2215131: that's it @op don't reply her messages. if you continue replying her with sweet messages, then you're contradicting yourself |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by AntiWailer: 8:21am On Apr 23, 2016 |
SuperModz: Tell her to borrow you 5million that you are going for a course in UK for 4 years. |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by tomdon(m): 8:23am On Apr 23, 2016 |
BlackMbakara1: hahahahahahahahaha this one go work die |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by Kainene77: 8:28am On Apr 23, 2016 |
4C2215131: I don't think of it as brutal. I think it is honest and fair and helpful. |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by OneManLegion(m): 8:32am On Apr 23, 2016 |
geni340: Holy smokes!!! Wtf?!?! Are those melons on your chest? |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by emmanueleexpert(m): 8:36am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Sitting her down, talking to her calmly nd making her knw she means to you buh dat u can't just do it wl worsen the case, if u praise her nd later turn her down... She might move a bit away from dat feelings but wl surely come back. The best is sit her down, tell her u knw ao she feels buh dat dere's no way nd she shud take her mind off it totally cos it wl neva work cos u only like her n not love! Tell her u re engaged n dat u can neva cheat... If she's hurt, Fine.. She wl get over it soon. |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 8:36am On Apr 23, 2016 |
SuperModz: lol.... This is why I resolved to keeping my feelings in locks. Must guys want you to fall in love with them, but the moment you do you are on your own. The lady didn't just wake up on a pretty weekend to sending you love message. Falling in love is a continuous thing. You must have led her on to the point she. I doubt anyone will start falling for someone who has no interest in them. Try to avoid waking a womans feelings next time if you have no real interest . Because ones awake if you try to kill it it only makes her want you the more. She should quit killing herself over one sided love. Back to your question.. . Just share the link to this page with her, she will never disturb you again. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by ichommy(m): 9:08am On Apr 23, 2016 |
henrygale, Nice Point Sir. Thanks |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by 4labi: 9:22am On Apr 23, 2016 |
1. Ignore her BBM and/or Whatsapp msgs and even calls for a long while, she'll free u 2. Tell her you're getting married soon and don't want any distraction from the opposite sex 3. Tell her you have HIV and don't wana spread it (na joke oh) but it'll work fastest |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by abdullkabar(m): 9:26am On Apr 23, 2016 |
mrkay101:This is still the best answer so far........jst do nothing,with time her crush go fade(she will never chase you for life,so dnt get into your head,just be friend with her(she will eventually get d message),who knows,you guys might be best of friends |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by SirShymexx: 9:53am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Lol. I can't see any "green light" here but I can see yellow light. You can only call it "green light" when she communicates what she wants directly to you cos women play a lot of games and you can never tell what's on their minds. She might be doing it for other reasons and perhaps to get something else of you. If I were you, I would just play along and keep acting disinterested in whatever game she's playing, especially if chatting to her doesn't cost you anything and you don't mind being cool with her. However, when she summons the courage to communicate what she wants to you - you can just turn her down, the same way chics that're not interested in you always turn you down. She'll understand as long as you're not disrespectful cos she has probably turned down a few people as well. Rejection is part of life - everyone gets rejected. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by Minemrys: 10:00am On Apr 23, 2016 |
Just act indifferently, unc0ncerned, formal and boring while in her presence but the opp0site when with others. It works, that way it'll lo0k as if u never knew, u had alot going on or u just weren't ready for a relati0nship. Instead of hating u, she'll respect u. |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by ab2014(m): 11:29am On Apr 23, 2016 |
HateU2:. Waow! See over confidence. I doff for you sha |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by prinzfavian(m): 3:18pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
stubbornman:This got me cracking up real hard. OP there is no way you're gona tell her and she wudnt get hurt. Except she never really loved u for real. But telling her puts u both on a safe side than remaining silent or trying to play her. Prinzfavian. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by prinzfavian(m): 3:25pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
decollex:LOL, there are different humans on NL. So u mean. If the lady in question was very preety, OP wud av succumbed and never wud we av heard about it right? |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by prinzfavian(m): 3:29pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
SuperModz:My own nko? |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by geni340(f): 5:06pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
OneManLegion:nope sir,, they are on my stomach |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by OneManLegion(m): 5:59pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
geni340:They're quite literally on your stomach o. Your boobies are so large, they extend to your belly button. |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by akanbiaa(m): 6:24pm On Apr 23, 2016 |
Why dont you like her? |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 7:44am On Apr 24, 2016 |
HateU2:oti se mewa |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by SenatorJames(m): 1:40pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
The fact is no matter how you present it, so far that is not she wants to hear, but the way you present will determine how painful it will be. - Let your actions show you don't care for her - When she now confront you, tell her you cant date, than being a friend |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by rgee: 4:03pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
HateU2: You dey do plenty sef dear gurl! buh u re fun tho...life needs many more of u abeg! |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 4:15pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
KingAdeOluomo1: just reading ur post alone is refreshing n entertaining enof to make my day exciting gurl! dont knw whr u got so much vibes!!! |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by KingAdeOluomo1(m): 7:25pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
kkh2:HateU2 I need your help on this abeg |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 1:12pm On Apr 25, 2016 |
rgee:awwwwww Thanks love We need more peeps of ur type with gud sense of humour and fun too. Not all d saddists wey full nl |
Re: How Do You Turn A Lady Down Without Hurting Her by Nobody: 8:21am On Apr 26, 2016 |
kkh2:I'm blushing |
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