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Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by HardMirror(m): 12:34am On May 24, 2016
Amusaopeyemi:
smiley
Go and sleep joor
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 1:06am On May 24, 2016
HardMirror:

Go and sleep joor
I hardly sleep.
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by plaetton: 2:05am On May 24, 2016
lawnreigh:
Thanks brother, I went through your profile and I can see you are an atheist, Well I‘ve been looking for how to become an atheist since and want to know more about their philosophy, I will like to know more on books to read, how to go about it an all that because religion is a disaster in Nigeria and the world at large especially Abrahamic Religions (Islam, Christianity and Jews). Islam is built on conscription, use of force all, Christianity is Hypocrisy and deception , Dont even talk about the Zionist which is built on Vengeance, Hate etc which gave birth to terrorism, poverty & hunger(due to gullible followership) etc. Thanks in anticipation

Lol.
There is no method or philosophy needed to become an atheist.

Based on your post, you're already an atheist.
It's a state of mind,..which you already have.

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Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by HardMirror(m): 2:10am On May 24, 2016
Amusaopeyemi:
I hardly sleep.
Same here. I sleep for just 3 hours a day. Could be boring overnight
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by HardMirror(m): 2:11am On May 24, 2016
plaetton:

Lol. There is no method or philosophy needed to become an atheist.
Based on your post, you're already an atheist. It's a state of mind,..which you already have.
Up late too?
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by plaetton: 2:17am On May 24, 2016
UyiIredia:


I dont expect u to start chasing them. How u go chase I dem when dem no fine reach. If na to look for outside NL na die you go just die o. Cuz I sure say u no go fit find any atheist 9ja chic for real life.

It's a lie Uyi.

Atheism is a state of mind, not a badge the people wear.

There are far more Christians , men and women, suspicious of their religious beliefs, who just need someone to give them a gentle nudge to free them from the mental slavery of religion.

Once a woman falls in love, it's very very easy, if deemed necessary, for her to also fall out of religious ritual and religion entirely.
Trust me. I seen it many different times.

The reason that women flock sheepishly to religion is their biological or should I say, chronic psychological need for social validation. It is a need as greater or even greater than food.

However, if the OP is looking for a lady wearing a badge of atheism in Nigeria, it would be tough search.

Just find an intelligent lady, socially validate her , and then Viola!, you become her Lord and Savior, her God.
No middle East bullshytes required.

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Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by plaetton: 2:18am On May 24, 2016
HardMirror:

Up late too?

I am in a different time zone.

wink
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by HardMirror(m): 2:22am On May 24, 2016
plaetton:

I am in a different time zone.
wink
Okidoki
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by edetty(m): 6:04am On May 24, 2016
dollyjoy:
what is your definition of a Christian

Because i know you are a church goer not a Christian.
and u are his periscope or wat, how do u know him so much based on his internet activities,or are u God to judge?
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by sillyNLmods: 7:02am On May 24, 2016
HardMirror:

You guys think life revolves around Nairaland. Smh.
So because I know some nairaland ladies that are atheist, you expect me to start chasing them around for relationship?
Damn! You need to grow up.
somebody suggested a quicker route to your search for a weird relationship and this was how you thanked her?
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by Alokendra(m): 7:14am On May 24, 2016
HardMirror:
I am a very choosy man so you have to be intelligent, not older than 30, believe in commitment, any tribe or Nationality is ok, you must have ambitious life goals (I hate mediocre)

Just send a PM.

Thank you

Note: For the Ladies, Please don't comment here so has to protect your identity
Boss, I'm an avid follower of your threads in the religion section. I enjoyed all of it. Now to the topic, finding an atheist lady is like finding a needle in a haystack. Why not mingle with a christian or liberal christian lady? I'm a free thinker, but my babe is a christian. She knows I'm a free thinker, and she has a very high level of tolerance. Sometimes, she invites me to her church sometimes, and I'm happy to go with her. Not because I want to go, but it's part of what we do for love. Infact, I don't mind going to church with my wife once in a while. My children can be Christians if they want to, and when they grow up to think for themselves, they'll see the light.

Boss, it ain't easy coming across an atheist lady. Infact, it's on Nl here that I've seen female atheist.

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Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by Lanceslot(m): 9:41am On May 24, 2016
Amusaopeyemi:

I hardly sleep.
You just dey form boss lady... I'm feeling your way shaaa.
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 9:47am On May 24, 2016
Lanceslot:
You just dey form boss lady... I'm feeling your way shaaa.
Hahahaha. Boss lady kwa? Not really. I've been like this since my secondary school. I hardly sleep, even when i'm with friends.
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 9:52am On May 24, 2016
HardMirror:

Same here. I sleep for just 3 hours a day. Could be boring overnight
Not really. Not when Food and Books or Food and good movies are involved.
I eat in the midnight. (I eat a lot)
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by HardMirror(m): 11:57am On May 24, 2016
sillyNLmods:
somebody suggested a quicker route to your search for a weird relationship and this was how you thanked her?
You mean after insulting them and branding them as ugly?
Thank my foot.
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by HardMirror(m): 12:01pm On May 24, 2016
Amusaopeyemi:

Not really. Not when Food and Books or Food and good movies are involved.
I eat in the midnight. (I eat a lot)
You seem to be a female copy of me. Kinda scary sad
Those are things I do all night too. My gfs always complain about my cooking over night and watching tv or just surfing the web, instead of sleeping.
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 12:02pm On May 24, 2016
HardMirror:

You seem to be a female copy of me. Kinda scary sad
Those are things I do all night too. My gfs always complain about my cooking over night and watching tv or just surfing the web, instead of sleeping.
Are you my Brother?
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 12:08pm On May 24, 2016
HardMirror:

You mean after insulting them and branding them as ugly?
Thank my foot.
Erm, he didn't call us ugly actually. He typed that in pidgin which was tricky sort of (read it about 3times before I understood it too) it translates to (AmusaOpeyemi, Reallest and all the other atheist chicks on Nairaland are not cute enough for you?)
smiley

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Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by HardMirror(m): 12:10pm On May 24, 2016
Alokendra:

Boss, I'm an avid follower of your threads in the religion section. I enjoyed all of it. Now to the topic, finding an atheist lady is like finding a needle in a haystack. Why not mingle with a christian or liberal christian lady? I'm a free thinker, but my babe is a christian. She knows I'm a free thinker, and she has a very high level of tolerance. Sometimes, she invites me to her church sometimes, and I'm happy to go with her. Not because I want to go, but it's part of what we do for love. Infact, I don't mind going to church with my wife once in a while. My children can be Christians if they want to, and when they grow up to think for themselves, they'll see the light.

Boss, it ain't easy coming across an atheist lady. Infact, it's on Nl here that I've seen female atheist.
Thanks bro. I have the same "live and let live" approach to life too.

You would be surprised how many ladies are freethinkers, rare, but they are there. Guess what many of them are pretty and smarter than the average 9ja babes.
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by HardMirror(m): 12:13pm On May 24, 2016
Amusaopeyemi:

Erm, he didn't call us ugly actually. He typed that in pidgin which was tricky sort of (read it about 3times before I understood it too) it translates to (AmusaOpeyemi, Reallest and all the other atheist chicks on Nairaland are not cute enough for you?)
smiley
Check his next post. I understood him very clearly. He was shading u ladies
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by HardMirror(m): 12:18pm On May 24, 2016
Amusaopeyemi:

Erm, he didn't call us ugly actually. He typed that in pidgin which was tricky sort of (read it about 3times before I understood it too) it translates to (AmusaOpeyemi, Reallest and all the other atheist chicks on Nairaland are not cute enough for you?)
smiley
Read his next post
UyiIredia:


I dont expect u to start chasing them. How u go chase I dem when dem no fine reach. If na to look for outside NL na die you go just die o. Cuz I sure say u no go fit find any atheist 9ja chic for real life.
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 12:22pm On May 24, 2016
HardMirror:

Read his next post
Maybe he was just being sarcastic sha.
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by lepasharon(f): 5:43pm On May 24, 2016
GSKing:


You actually did not make any sense in your comment above.

So, what if I was trying to "move to" a guy? Isn't that what gay people do? Were you asleep when you quoted and replied me?

I would like it if as a homosexual, women tried to "move to me" cos that would make me a lesbian or a bisexual female.

Homosexuals make you hate gays?

Ohmyfackin'gad! grin

Hope you know how to use pronouns now? Go to a fackin' school, they'll teach you pronouns, tolerance and maturity.

Permission to go back to my homosexual partner...?

Sorry I spoke in slang.The OP didn't say he was looking for a man. That's all I'm saying.. Shittt..
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by GSKing: 9:39pm On May 24, 2016
lepasharon:


Sorry I spoke in slang.The OP didn't say he was looking for a man. That's all I'm saying.. Shittt..

Are you the OP? Stop sounding pained and irritated. Go get busy with something that'll enable you mind your business.

angry
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by GSKing: 9:40pm On May 24, 2016
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by sweetsensation1(m): 7:01pm On May 25, 2016
Op, check Sacora on Nairaland. I think she's atheist
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by udysweet(f): 7:17pm On May 25, 2016
Aaaaawwwn my dear friend has begun his search. But wait a min,you changed ur mind about a foreigner or smtn? Anyways like I wld always say,goodluck(that's all I can wish u cos u may not accept my prayers,lol)
But wait,you got so many options,just pick already jo,lol!
How are you by the way?hope doing great?
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by Sall(m): 2:23am On May 26, 2016
Amusaopeyemi:

Honestly I don't care, me i'm just carefree. I even mess with people sef. Like whenever I tell them i'm an Atheist, they gave me this "what? you're doomed" look and I just say "Yes, I mean the devil is currently using me and it's been fun all the way. I'm enjoying recruiting more souls for him." since that's what they want to hear.
My pastor uncle understands me and won't even judge me or force religion on me, but "so called" church goers won't let me be, they call me names and bully me on social media but I've grown to develop thick skin just like my friend Imoh David. I mean whats the use of explaining certain things to people who tell me "i'm a lost soul"
I feel you. Honestly religion has turn Africans into something else.

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Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by ArinzeAlec(m): 3:13am On May 26, 2016
Amusaopeyemi:

Lol! Yes I was born and raised in Nigeria and Religion never did make sense to me, there were some questions I had that no-one could answer. It was just crazy. Attended different churches and most of them all had different doctrines which was even more weird.
And I don't believe in marriage either, why should we sign a piece of paper or wear a stupid jewellery to prove our love for each other? Let's just live together, have kids and give my kids legal protection.

Wow! I thought i was the literally the only one against the paper signing bullshit. To me, thats some waste of ink because even most marriages that got paper signing proceedure got divorced on a daily. Now, i'm loving this chick. Bring it on baby.

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Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by ArinzeAlec(m): 3:19am On May 26, 2016
Amusaopeyemi:
Hi fellow GOT fan. Lol!
You got a brother here too.
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by Nobody: 4:52am On May 26, 2016
ArinzeAlec:


You got a brother here too.
Hi Brother cheesy cheesy
Re: I Need An Atheist/freethinker For A Serious Relationship by HardMirror(m): 8:00am On May 26, 2016
sweetsensation1:
Op, check Sacora on Nairaland. I think she's atheist
Let her express interest herself. By the way I have met a lot of interesting freethinkers already.

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