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I met this beauty damsel in a child dedication in my home town in Anambra State on 2nd of January 2016.
We started talking until we fell in love and i decided to marry her. Though am still awaiting for her parents consent before i fix the date for formal introduction.
She had directed me to different pastors for this purpose and i had done my own part.
The issue now is that she told me that she had done an operation for lumb in her breast which did not go down well with my mum. My mum has said "i will not marry her"
The major issue i solicite for an advice is that i took her to a doctor who told me she has a kidney issue.
We really love ourselves and i want to marry her not just because she is still a virgin but she is a good girl.is there anything that can be done because she is just 21.
I need an advice please ignore my written English.
Thanks

hmmmm love conquers all.


if you truly love her and you find happiness with her, helping her is like helping yourself.

Hmmm! If you really love her stand firm with her,you both can see this temptation through together but I'll advise you to wait until a remedy is found to her current health situation. I believe that they can be a cure to her kidney problems I just pray it's does not lead to a kidney transplant. And lastly pray without ceasing...Good luck

My friend.. Be careful oo

Lalasticlala Come And Help A Nigga!

Vickyydera:
Lalasticlala Come And Help A Nigga!

Lalasticlala na beg i dey ooooo, i need advice asap to avoid stories that touches........

hmm, you love her for marriage, cool; she is a good girl, great, did you ask the doctor the risk of the lump operation she did and you know you'll need a lot of money for her kidney operation, she's just21 how come she is unfortunate like that?

MightyPee:
hmm, you love her for marriage, cool; she is a good girl, great, did you ask the doctor the risk of the lump operation she did and you know you'll need a lot of money for her kidney operation, she's just21 how come she is unfortunate like that?

Bro/sis na so i see am oooo, even the mum was just diagonized of kidney peoblem, am just confuse. I love her and wouldnt want anything to happen to her. She is an angel. All my siblings are advicing me to back out. Hekp me mod plsssssss

Mothers are right, 90% of the time

Meanwhile, don't add another luggage to the one you're struggling to Carry.

Chronic Kidney disease is one of the most expensive illnesses to manage.

Hmmm. Good luck

cases of "easier said than done" will flood this thread no doubt but bro, all i can say is follow your heart. January - June to me is extremely short. give yourself time and think deeply on this subject.

Run away my brother but if you have a spare kidney you can marry her

Help her with her kidney problems if you can.
Also, I will advise you marry her

go ahead

ask Google ,?

Oga thread carefully oh
Give more time into the relationship first
Afterall you guys just met in January

put am for Google ,?

See gobe

donate one of your kidney to her then marry her

Love conquers all

OMG! This is a serious issue that needs to be addressed in a serious way. When ever I hear the word lump in the breast, am scared coz that's what sent my beloved cousin sister to grave. She was buried last week. Pls man u shud first watch how her health turns out, always continue to support her emotionally. And then knw wat to do

Ezinwa120:
Bro/sis na so i see am oooo, even the mum was just diagonized of kidney peoblem, am just confuse. I love her and wouldnt want anything to happen to her. She is an angel. All my siblings are advicing me to back out. Hekp me mod plsssssss

Eleyi gidi gan.
This one is Strong

This is serious
If her mum has it and she also has it,I hope it's not hereditary?

Visit prophet tb jushua. I believe she can be healed and both of u can marry and ve lovely children with good blessing from God. Don't give up

You needn't announce that she's a virgin. Besides, how bad is her situation cos I've heard and seen people with one kidney live long

Put yourself in her shoes and answer the question.

G

No be small thing

I no just know wetin I go talk

I advise u tread carefully, sit back and think... Is it worth the risk? Her mum was diagnosed with same kidney stuff so I guess its hereditary. Are u willing to put your future kids in that risk of inheriting kidney issue and lumps? If yes toohh




Dats how couples who fully know their genotype aint compatible but go ahead to produce a sickler, later they will blame God....
My thoughts tho...