amaraedec:
forgive my nativity brother, we all learn each day

Some things are not permissible. One is dying for a woman be it a casual friend, girlfriend or wife. The truth about women is that they surely start cheating on you when someone, they assess is better emerges.

Dying is actually not a bad thing (it's a certain end for all mortals), however, should you want to truncate your life, I'd advise you seek out people who need vital organs to survive and donate yours to them rather than using insecticides or dying of depression like you are carrying the sins of the world.

amaraedec:
I have not spoken to anyone about my ordeal but I sincerely hope your advice will go a long way towards healing me and restoring back my sanity.

I started dating this lady whom I still love so much February 2013, few months before I lost my mummy. I was so cautious of the affair at first, knowing that it was the first time I am getting so emotionally entangled to a lady, but after I lost my mum, I was so hurt and the fact that she was the only person very close to me then, I threw caution to the wind and fell helplessly in love with her, hoping that it would help alleviate the pains of losing My mum and praying deep inside my heart that the relationship will lead to marriage. It did to a reasonable extent alleviated the pains of losing my mum.

Even while I was in school, I gave her everything that I somehow lived in deprivation. Her friends were complaining to me that I spend a lot on her and it might backfire one day. I ignored their advice. I buy her handouts, clothes, Mobile gadgets and even give her certain amount of money on monthly basis to add up to her feeding money, I made sure she lived above her peers in school .

The whole problem started late 2014, when I was about leaving for my NYSC. she started acting quite strange, I respected her privacy that I don't even touch her phones, even though I give her the freedom to handle my phones and answer my calls. I noticed she wouldn't pick up her calls while with me. Like I said, I respected her privacy that I never gave so much thoughts into her actions, I loved and gave her my all believing that she will never cheat on me. Then on her birthday, I had got lots of surprising gifts for her and even arranged a little get together without her knowledge. To my greatest surprise, she surfaced at the venue of the party with the excuse that she was going on an errand for her parents. I handed over to her the gifts I got for her, she collected them and left the venue. Little did I know she had gone to see her erstwhile lover. Depression had started creeping in and I was losing my sanity apparently.

To cut the whole story short, when her girlfriend opened up to me that my girl was having affairs elsewhere, I never believed her at first, but after I confronted her, then I was looking so sick and pale, completely lost in thoughts and pains. She eventually opened up and was really sorry to the best of my knowledge . I couldn't help the pains, I. Started taking anti depressants, I have already vowed never to cheat in my life, knowing that prosperity has a way of rewarding Fidelity.

After I was mobilized for NYSC, I left for my Camp, but the ghost of a failed relationship was already hunting me, I had lost interest in living. Shortly after I returned back from my Orientation camp, everyone knew something was wrong with me, I only told them that it was the stress from Camp. Well, I was battered emotionally, that on 31st December 2014, I hit the rock button and decided to end my life and end the pains, I took insecticides and collection of anti depressants in over dose and battery acid, I cheated on death as I was in Coma for 4 days, I was referred to a psychologist for rehabilitation after I was discharged on the 12th of January 2015. I spent 6 months in rehabilitation Center here in Lagos State, where I was also serving then.

After the whole incident, I made up my mind to forgive her and give her a second chance since she was really sorry. The whole scenario started replaying itself, that she started acting strange again, already my friend had told me that she was seeing someone else. My family knew I was slipping into depression again and had wanted to fly me out of the country, but I was denied Visa when I least expected it. I had to leave Enugu for Lagos so as to keep away from her and the environment. but she still calls me on phone, saying that she still loves me, I truly love her so much. Am totally lost of words, lost of ideas. Am terrified to say the least. Am losing my sanity again. Please friends, depression is getting better of me at the moment.. I need a sincere advise

RIP in ADVANCE brother.

Kill yourself for a woman and go to hellfire! I cannot do that for any woman with toto! Is she an angel from God?

andysnoopy:
All these people advising you to change your phone number reareally need to shove it! Men are naturally made to be strong emotionally and if you happen not to be strong, changing your number as a quick fix to your emotional problem will be nothing but a short term solution.

The girl in question is cheating and is a serial cheater.. The advice for you on situation like this is to move on to the next girl... No matter what you have invested in the relationship, it still doesn't change the fact that she is not your wife! So stop acting like you have no choice!

You are lucky that you discovered this before marrying her.. A cheat is a cheat, killing yourself won't change her!! She even brag to her children that a man once died for her in the future so quit being a mugu and man up!!

The joy of her calling you while you are in a relationship is enough punishment for her.. so quit acting like you have no choice man... You do!! And the fact that there are more beautiful girls with values should be the encouragement you will need to put your life in order man!!

Man up!!

God bless you bro. This is how to advice a man.

amaraedec don't ever drink insecticide nobody is worth drinking it 4

Its simple, u are the cause of ur own problem.
U need a distraction.
U are over emotional, the fastest way to get rid of her is to focus on another. Have sex with another and u would be surprised ur love for the own that broke ur heart would be diverted to the one u banging. Why do u think married couples are advised not to cheat. Its bcoz of this. So drill another. Its normal with ladies to cheat, break up heart and come back when they wish to haunt u again. The guy wen dey suck her bobby don chop belle full and the babe eye don open to see say she be penis massager. Its y she's desperately trying to get back with u. Abi u be spare Tyre?

A man once said "love is nice,good ,kind plus care" love can trick d heart a lot wen you tink u find the right person . My bro love is fucking tempotary it changes. And wen it change u move on to find d permant site. I dnt blame d gal we all are humans, we follow fresh at timee .

You just let her go just confuse of what love is she just finding her permant as well I guess everytin happens for a reason

But u killing yourself is fucking out of place wen gals fill is world d ratio of gals to boys is like 65 : 35. You won come kill yourself for one gal. Rethink

Hmmm! What a long thread anyways there are three sides to every story, wen I war ur bae's side of the story no bi person wey call police dey always win case.

amaraedec:
I have not spoken to anyone about my ordeal but I sincerely hope your advice will go a long way towards healing me and restoring back my sanity.

I started dating this lady whom I still love so much February 2013, few months before I lost my mummy. I was so cautious of the affair at first, knowing that it was the first time I am getting so emotionally entangled to a lady, but after I lost my mum, I was so hurt and the fact that she was the only person very close to me then, I threw caution to the wind and fell helplessly in love with her, hoping that it would help alleviate the pains of losing My mum and praying deep inside my heart that the relationship will lead to marriage. It did to a reasonable extent alleviated the pains of losing my mum.

Even while I was in school, I gave her everything that I somehow lived in deprivation. Her friends were complaining to me that I spend a lot on her and it might backfire one day. I ignored their advice. I buy her handouts, clothes, Mobile gadgets and even give her certain amount of money on monthly basis to add up to her feeding money, I made sure she lived above her peers in school .

The whole problem started late 2014, when I was about leaving for my NYSC. she started acting quite strange, I respected her privacy that I don't even touch her phones, even though I give her the freedom to handle my phones and answer my calls. I noticed she wouldn't pick up her calls while with me. Like I said, I respected her privacy that I never gave so much thoughts into her actions, I loved and gave her my all believing that she will never cheat on me. Then on her birthday, I had got lots of surprising gifts for her and even arranged a little get together without her knowledge. To my greatest surprise, she surfaced at the venue of the party with the excuse that she was going on an errand for her parents. I handed over to her the gifts I got for her, she collected them and left the venue. Little did I know she had gone to see her erstwhile lover. Depression had started creeping in and I was losing my sanity apparently.

To cut the whole story short, when her girlfriend opened up to me that my girl was having affairs elsewhere, I never believed her at first, but after I confronted her, then I was looking so sick and pale, completely lost in thoughts and pains. She eventually opened up and was really sorry to the best of my knowledge . I couldn't help the pains, I. Started taking anti depressants, I have already vowed never to cheat in my life, knowing that prosperity has a way of rewarding Fidelity.

After I was mobilized for NYSC, I left for my Camp, but the ghost of a failed relationship was already hunting me, I had lost interest in living. Shortly after I returned back from my Orientation camp, everyone knew something was wrong with me, I only told them that it was the stress from Camp. Well, I was battered emotionally, that on 31st December 2014, I hit the rock button and decided to end my life and end the pains, I took insecticides and collection of anti depressants in over dose and battery acid, I cheated on death as I was in Coma for 4 days, I was referred to a psychologist for rehabilitation after I was discharged on the 12th of January 2015. I spent 6 months in rehabilitation Center here in Lagos State, where I was also serving then.

After the whole incident, I made up my mind to forgive her and give her a second chance since she was really sorry. The whole scenario started replaying itself, that she started acting strange again, already my friend had told me that she was seeing someone else. My family knew I was slipping into depression again and had wanted to fly me out of the country, but I was denied Visa when I least expected it. I had to leave Enugu for Lagos so as to keep away from her and the environment. but she still calls me on phone, saying that she still loves me, I truly love her so much. Am totally lost of words, lost of ideas. Am terrified to say the least. Am losing my sanity again. Please friends, depression is getting better of me at the moment.. I need a sincere advise

It's either she doesn't love you anymore (it's a hard pill to swallow but you just have to) or she enjoys seeing you cry and beg, which some girls like!

I advise you slowly withdraw yourself from her, be the heartbreaker, summon courage and call the shot! Tell her you are done, that you wanna allow her go live her life the way she wants it! Trust me, she will be the one begging to stay! she will realise she's about loosing diamond while collecting stones.

My friend used to do same thing to her boyfriend, always telling the guy it's over at any drop of hat, till the guy called the shot oneday! My friend nearly died of heart pain, we all went begging this guy who finally accepted her back. Thankfully they are happily married now with one kid.

If the above doesn't work, just move on with your life!
It always feels like there is just one person in this world to love, and then you find somebody else, and it just seems crazy that you were ever worried in the first place.

baby what?

UEDIBO:

CAN YOU BE MY BABY MAMA?

amaraedec:
I have not spoken to anyone about my ordeal but I sincerely hope your advice will go a long way towards healing me and restoring back my sanity.

I started dating this lady whom I still love so much February 2013, few months before I lost my mummy. I was so cautious of the affair at first, knowing that it was the first time I am getting so emotionally entangled to a lady, but after I lost my mum, I was so hurt and the fact that she was the only person very close to me then, I threw caution to the wind and fell helplessly in love with her, hoping that it would help alleviate the pains of losing My mum and praying deep inside my heart that the relationship will lead to marriage. It did to a reasonable extent alleviated the pains of losing my mum.

Even while I was in school, I gave her everything that I somehow lived in deprivation. Her friends were complaining to me that I spend a lot on her and it might backfire one day. I ignored their advice. I buy her handouts, clothes, Mobile gadgets and even give her certain amount of money on monthly basis to add up to her feeding money, I made sure she lived above her peers in school .

The whole problem started late 2014, when I was about leaving for my NYSC. she started acting quite strange, I respected her privacy that I don't even touch her phones, even though I give her the freedom to handle my phones and answer my calls. I noticed she wouldn't pick up her calls while with me. Like I said, I respected her privacy that I never gave so much thoughts into her actions, I loved and gave her my all believing that she will never cheat on me. Then on her birthday, I had got lots of surprising gifts for her and even arranged a little get together without her knowledge. To my greatest surprise, she surfaced at the venue of the party with the excuse that she was going on an errand for her parents. I handed over to her the gifts I got for her, she collected them and left the venue. Little did I know she had gone to see her erstwhile lover. Depression had started creeping in and I was losing my sanity apparently.

To cut the whole story short, when her girlfriend opened up to me that my girl was having affairs elsewhere, I never believed her at first, but after I confronted her, then I was looking so sick and pale, completely lost in thoughts and pains. She eventually opened up and was really sorry to the best of my knowledge . I couldn't help the pains, I. Started taking anti depressants, I have already vowed never to cheat in my life, knowing that prosperity has a way of rewarding Fidelity.

After I was mobilized for NYSC, I left for my Camp, but the ghost of a failed relationship was already hunting me, I had lost interest in living. Shortly after I returned back from my Orientation camp, everyone knew something was wrong with me, I only told them that it was the stress from Camp. Well, I was battered emotionally, that on 31st December 2014, I hit the rock button and decided to end my life and end the pains, I took insecticides and collection of anti depressants in over dose and battery acid, I cheated on death as I was in Coma for 4 days, I was referred to a psychologist for rehabilitation after I was discharged on the 12th of January 2015. I spent 6 months in rehabilitation Center here in Lagos State, where I was also serving then.

After the whole incident, I made up my mind to forgive her and give her a second chance since she was really sorry. The whole scenario started replaying itself, that she started acting strange again, already my friend had told me that she was seeing someone else. My family knew I was slipping into depression again and had wanted to fly me out of the country, but I was denied Visa when I least expected it. I had to leave Enugu for Lagos so as to keep away from her and the environment. but she still calls me on phone, saying that she still loves me, I truly love her so much. Am totally lost of words, lost of ideas. Am terrified to say the least. Am losing my sanity again. Please friends, depression is getting better of me at the moment.. I need a sincere advise

Kii ya self ... Yeye talk ..

Every guy should read David Deangelo's "Double your Dating" and doclove's articles. Both are online.
Get some relationship intelligence. Don't let women sell you short.

we have our experiences... Hmmmmmmmm. its well. I will chat u on watsapp

Nasri100:
I stopped reading when you wanted to kill yourself? For what? A woman? Blood, ass and legs? Are you s tupid?

u don't need to ask!!! he is..... wtf is wrong wit some niggazzzz. instead of making more money to attract bannies u fall in love. don't worry am praying for u.. u need understanding

kill urself over a woman naa, it's ur choice.

torqque7:


Anytime Bro..just try to take our advices seriously o not just to read them and get weak when time comes for action .

Lmao , reality check

My bro, do not kill yaself! I'm actually speechless for ya case. Look at this: there is this lady, i spent a lot on her, she said she loved me but did not. There was a day she was ill, i took her to a hospital but the doctor said we should do a pregnancy test first, the test proved she was pregnant. But for who? Some one else. She had told me she was a virgin. I had never touched her! Look at that one. So, don't die, the fish that you will eat is at the tip of ya trousers

I just laugh when l hear that a guy wants to kill himself over a lady!

Nothing in this world can be more foolish than that!.
If l set my eyes on you, l go follow flog you well-well sef.

If she cheats on you, cheat on her as well (2 cut 2) .... or if you dont want to, just abandon her and get another girl.
Are you so fugly that you think another lady cant want you?

Well, l guess you are one of those over-pampered Mummy's boy!
Dem even want to get visa for you so you can "overcome depression"?

See me see nonsense.

Abeg, bath and deck up like Oyooyo and see how ladies go dey follow you.
who send dem?



Lastpage!

Irishrena1:


Haba. What has his birth month got to do with this?

it got a lot to do with his emotions and his perception of what a relationship should look like thereby influence his level of commitment to relationship.
for example, one who sees relationship more as a partnership will be more committed to the relationship with the a mind set that it is as good as he has failed should the relationship fails and with this kind of mindset, such persons will likely bear a lot of injuries to keep the relationship moving hence can be easily perceived as being desperate and taking for granted by his/her partner

May everlasting father intervene and provide solution for your problem!!!

Now, I believe what my brother is passing through. ... ....love is real!

iike seriously, I always thinking of settling with a girl that truly want me even though, I don't show her much of love Cox I have this " never to fallen in love" mindset '
I don't wanna love but only to be love.... yea its quite possible but dunno weather it gonna last. ONLY GOD CAN HELP ME NOW BECAUSE IT S BEYOND HUMAN BEING UNDERSTANDING .



N.B! = IF U WANT TO REMAIN HAPPY DON'T EVEN TRY TO "FALL IN LOVE" !!
LOVE IS EMOTIONAL BLACKMAILER IN DISGUISE!!!!

My own simple advice is for u to give your life to Christ, after you might have done that, Pray fervently for God's guidance, pls your life is too precious for u to lose it for someone that seems not to care about you and even the bible says per adventure you got married and discover that your spouse is unfaithful sexually, u can divorce such fellow but u must remain unmarried, which I don't wish for you, Thank God that her attitude is manifesting now, a failed courtship is far better than a failed marriage. My aunt was once in your shoes in fact had it been she was far from my mum during that period, I would have lost her to death, but she is happily married now and the man dat disappointed her is regretting deeply even till tomorrow. I just thank God DAT my aunt took to the Godly advise from men of God. pls just let her be for now. I pray for you that the lord that answered my aunt prayers will heal you emotionally and give to you the bone of your bone. Amen

Hmm

Becos of women

amaraedec:
I have not spoken to anyone about my ordeal but I sincerely hope your advice will go a long way towards healing me and restoring back my sanity.

I started dating this lady whom I still love so much February 2013, few months before I lost my mummy. I was so cautious of the affair at first, knowing that it was the first time I am getting so emotionally entangled to a lady, but after I lost my mum, I was so hurt and the fact that she was the only person very close to me then, I threw caution to the wind and fell helplessly in love with her, hoping that it would help alleviate the pains of losing My mum and praying deep inside my heart that the relationship will lead to marriage. It did to a reasonable extent alleviated the pains of losing my mum.

Even while I was in school, I gave her everything that I somehow lived in deprivation. Her friends were complaining to me that I spend a lot on her and it might backfire one day. I ignored their advice. I buy her handouts, clothes, Mobile gadgets and even give her certain amount of money on monthly basis to add up to her feeding money, I made sure she lived above her peers in school .

The whole problem started late 2014, when I was about leaving for my NYSC. she started acting quite strange, I respected her privacy that I don't even touch her phones, even though I give her the freedom to handle my phones and answer my calls. I noticed she wouldn't pick up her calls while with me. Like I said, I respected her privacy that I never gave so much thoughts into her actions, I loved and gave her my all believing that she will never cheat on me. Then on her birthday, I had got lots of surprising gifts for her and even arranged a little get together without her knowledge. To my greatest surprise, she surfaced at the venue of the party with the excuse that she was going on an errand for her parents. I handed over to her the gifts I got for her, she collected them and left the venue. Little did I know she had gone to see her erstwhile lover. Depression had started creeping in and I was losing my sanity apparently.

To cut the whole story short, when her girlfriend opened up to me that my girl was having affairs elsewhere, I never believed her at first, but after I confronted her, then I was looking so sick and pale, completely lost in thoughts and pains. She eventually opened up and was really sorry to the best of my knowledge . I couldn't help the pains, I. Started taking anti depressants, I have already vowed never to cheat in my life, knowing that prosperity has a way of rewarding Fidelity.

After I was mobilized for NYSC, I left for my Camp, but the ghost of a failed relationship was already hunting me, I had lost interest in living. Shortly after I returned back from my Orientation camp, everyone knew something was wrong with me, I only told them that it was the stress from Camp. Well, I was battered emotionally, that on 31st December 2014, I hit the rock button and decided to end my life and end the pains, I took insecticides and collection of anti depressants in over dose and battery acid, I cheated on death as I was in Coma for 4 days, I was referred to a psychologist for rehabilitation after I was discharged on the 12th of January 2015. I spent 6 months in rehabilitation Center here in Lagos State, where I was also serving then.

After the whole incident, I made up my mind to forgive her and give her a second chance since she was really sorry. The whole scenario started replaying itself, that she started acting strange again, already my friend had told me that she was seeing someone else. My family knew I was slipping into depression again and had wanted to fly me out of the country, but I was denied Visa when I least expected it. I had to leave Enugu for Lagos so as to keep away from her and the environment. but she still calls me on phone, saying that she still loves me, I truly love her so much. Am totally lost of words, lost of ideas. Am terrified to say the least. Am losing my sanity again. Please friends, depression is getting better of me at the moment.. I need a sincere advise

I av had my own fair share of whores bro,i know hw betrayed u feel for now...for u to move on get it into ur head she didn't cheat on u bro but she was cheating on d oda guy wit u..nd 1 more booster..jst think of her as an old sex mate u nid to change ..it gets better

ebbybest:
My first advice to you is Never kill your self for something that will never make you make heaven at last.
I was inside a keke nepep reading your story and when i read you drank insecticide i shouted Jesus!, and every one in the keke looked at me.
Guy am a lady and i knw wat it takes for a lady to hurt a guy that loves her so much.
The same way a lady feels when a guy she loves so much hurts her.
Move on with your life, life is too beautifull to be cut short that way.
Many have died without expecting it, some died in accident, some died in a bomb balst and God gave you the previllage of been counted amoung the living you should be greatfull to God.
Your family expect so much from you in future.
Know this: " when the wrong people leave your life the right things start happening".
I knw its hard, but please move on and you will be glad you did.
Thank you.

WOW! Seems you were just talking to me. Thanks for this piece of advice babe

predatorX:


Are you serzly asking "the witch-doctor of NL" that question?

na so witch plenty for your village?
anyway have you ever head of temperament and the zodiac sign, do u believe in them?

lastpage:
I just laugh when l hear that a guy wants to kill himself over a lady!

Nothing in this world can be more foolish than that!.
If l set my eyes on you, l go follow flog you well-well sef.

If she cheats on you, cheat on her as well (2 cut 2) .... or if you dont want to, just abandon her and get another girl.
Are you so fugly that you think another lady cant want you?

Well, l guess you are one of those over-pampered Mummy's boy!
Dem even want to get visa for you so you can "overcome depression"?

See me see nonsense.

Abeg, bath and deck up like Oyooyo and see how ladies go dey follow you.
who send dem?



Lastpage!

Lmao....wicked truth

[quote author=iPopAlomo post=46879193]Depression is real, depression is a dark place... Sank into one last month for 0.01 second and vowed never to return... I now understand depression better... Be strong OP... Live life and be hopeful... Optimism has its perks... They keep you afloat... Keep your chin up and don't drink as alcohol is a temporary fix... Yeah i pop alomo but i haven't popped one in six months... All in all... Stay safe...

Yeah... Shag a few girls... You spread your emotions everywhere and become a Yoruba Demon... Like me... ... I crack joke... Haha...[/quot
You killed it. Lol

I empathize with you bro. Can you send me mail on adex2000ng@gmail.com? Your challenge will be over as you will find a permanent solution to the problem. You will thank me later

amaraede:
I have not spoken to anyone about my ordeal but I sincerely hope your advice will go a long way towards healing me and restoring back my sanity.

I started dating this lady whom I still love so much February 2013, few months before I lost my mummy. I was so cautious of the affair at first, knowing that it was the first time I am getting so emotionally entangled to a lady, but after I lost my mum, I was so hurt and the fact that she was the only person very close to me then, I threw caution to the wind and fell helplessly in love with her, hoping that it would help alleviate the pains of losing My mum and praying deep inside my heart that the relationship will lead to marriage. It did to a reasonable extent alleviated the pains of losing my mum.

Even while I was in school, I gave her everything that I somehow lived in deprivation. Her friends were complaining to me that I spend a lot on her and it might backfire one day. I ignored their advice. I buy her handouts, clothes, Mobile gadgets and even give her certain amount of money on monthly basis to add up to her feeding money, I made sure she lived above her peers in school .

The whole problem started late 2014, when I was about leaving for my NYSC. she started acting quite strange, I respected her privacy that I don't even touch her phones, even though I give her the freedom to handle my phones and answer my calls. I noticed she wouldn't pick up her calls while with me. Like I said, I respected her privacy that I never gave so much thoughts into her actions, I loved and gave her my all believing that she will never cheat on me. Then on her birthday, I had got lots of surprising gifts for her and even arranged a little get together without her knowledge. To my greatest surprise, she surfaced at the venue of the party with the excuse that she was going on an errand for her parents. I handed over to her the gifts I got for her, she collected them and left the venue. Little did I know she had gone to see her erstwhile lover. Depression had started creeping in and I was losing my sanity apparently.

To cut the whole story short, when her girlfriend opened up to me that my girl was having affairs elsewhere, I never believed her at first, but after I confronted her, then I was looking so sick and pale, completely lost in thoughts and pains. She eventually opened up and was really sorry to the best of my knowledge . I couldn't help the pains, I. Started taking anti depressants, I have already vowed never to cheat in my life, knowing that prosperity has a way of rewarding Fidelity.

After I was mobilized for NYSC, I left for my Camp, but the ghost of a failed relationship was already hunting me, I had lost interest in living. Shortly after I returned back from my Orientation camp, everyone knew something was wrong with me, I only told them that it was the stress from Camp. Well, I was battered emotionally, that on 31st December 2014, I hit the rock button and decided to end my life and end the pains, I took insecticides and collection of anti depressants in over dose and battery acid, I cheated on death as I was in Coma for 4 days, I was referred to a psychologist for rehabilitation after I was discharged on the 12th of January 2015. I spent 6 months in rehabilitation Center here in Lagos State, where I was also serving then.

After the whole incident, I made up my mind to forgive her and give her a second chance since she was really sorry. The whole scenario started replaying itself, that she started acting strange again, already my friend had told me that she was seeing someone else. My family knew I was slipping into depression again and had wanted to fly me out of the country, but I was denied Visa when I least expected it. I had to leave Enugu for Lagos so as to keep away from her and the environment. but she still calls me on phone, saying that she still loves me, I truly love her so much. Am totally lost of words, lost of ideas. Am terrified to say the least. Am losing my sanity again. Please friends, depression is getting better of me at the moment.. I need a sincere advise

To be frank with u I wil advice you let her go diz iz nt d end of d world....soldier go soldier com barrack go stil remain....I tink it because u were lonely at 1st dat was y u so much trusted nd loved ha so much.....wil advice u make urself a social person....try tinz u avn't don dat makes people lively nd nt somtin ungodly......a cheating person wil alwayz b a cheating person unless he or she ax made up hiz or her mind to b fateful,to my own opinion I tink she iz nt d woman 4 u.....I knw it somtin difficult to do.....but wil advice u give ha a break.....and give urself a break to try somtin new...... datz mi advice 4 u

alizma:

it got a lot to do with his emotions and his perception of what a relationship should look like thereby influence his level of commitment to relationship.
for example, one who sees relationship more as a partnership will be more committed to the relationship with the a mind set that it is as good as he has failed should the relationship fails and with this kind of mindset, such persons will likely bear a lot of injuries to keep the relationship moving hence can be easily perceived as being desperate and taking for granted by his/her partner

Okay can you tell me my own? How I will treat a relationship and respond to a breakup? My birth month is February, 14th precisely

op I don't really know what to say but I know it hurts so much to love and someone will just turn it away like that.
That Lady is wicked, no doubt about that, the truth is she used you, she still sees what she needs in you and won't let you go till she sucks you dry and empty.
the solution lies in your hands, realise no one is indispensable.
see a counsellor and I'll recommend you talk to @SolaAdio and @lekeAlder....trust me, they'll help you