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| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:Draw nigh to God and he will draw nigh to u |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by malachytochukwu(m): 8:54pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Forgive me, but I must say that your problem is that you think that the worst thing to happen to human being is death, the moment you come to terms that human existence doesn't end just here the earlier you will start appreciating that God exists. By the way, have you fared better believing that there is no God? Blaqsmith: |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Blaqsmith(op): 9:05pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
malachytochukwu:believe me, I'm at peace with my conscience and self dropping the beliefs rubbish. I'm free. |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by josephni12: 9:06pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
op are u a Nigerian because it is hard to see an atheist in Nigeria but my reply you is to ask yourself what if I believe in God even if I die and find put there isn't I've not lost but what if there is. my answer to atheist who thinks they can reason well is google this ( proofs that the bible is true) there are proofs that shows the bible is true 1 the bible for tells that the earth is spherical (it says the circle of the earth) this was long before scientists found it to be true 2 the bible also talks about God hanging the earth in nothing also scientists found this out later , these are just a little of it Now the same bible says the fool says there is no God brother think again I will like u to watch this movie God's not dead , also don't you think there are true miracles and juju really works this is to show you that spiritual realm really exit hope u will understand |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by malachytochukwu(m): 9:06pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
I wish I knew you personally. Because I would like you to tell me about your conscience. Where is your concience located in your body, what makes you think you are doing the wrong thing by deceiving her. Just being curious Blaqsmith: |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by temitopeking(m): 9:06pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Yaksson:This is the full text. comprehensive n completed... gbam |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by malachytochukwu(m): 9:08pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
OK, good luck Blaqsmith: |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Strawman: 9:09pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Mr. Blaqsmith I would like to point out that letting her go is for the best. If you intended on marrying her in the future, just think about the loads of problems a home divided between atheism and Christianity could face from time to time. You people would have different perspectives on things, different morals etc. Think about how it would affect the children who may be divided on whether taking mummy or daddy's side. At worst, it could lead to a broken home in future. Choosing to become an atheist was your own decision, you knew what you were getting yourself into; so you should be willing to face the problems that come with it already...just like this one. Find an atheist girlfriend or someone who doesn't care about her spouse's religion. |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by matrix600(m): 9:09pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
davien:I doubt no amount of videos can convince her, i'm also in the same situation as the OP, the girl i love just wont budge. She's scared of what people would say. It takes a questioning mind to step out of religion, if she's not the type then its impossible to win her over. My advice to the OP...do like i did.. Accept the possibility of not being with her, and dont hold anything against her, just be friends with her and not try to convince her. Let your light shine on its own into her life. Its the price you pay for being who you are, for freedom. Why am I quoting davien? |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by oshaosha2014(m): 9:17pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
you simply have not done your homework well. do you know that "God does not exist" could also be a lie are you saying your believe as an atheist is not also causing division why do you want the whole world to believe there's no God ? because u can't see him or feel his presence do you believe there's air ?? can you see air ?cloudgoddess: |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by goodnewscliff(m): 9:21pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:didNT dat SAME GOD ALLOW HIS SON TO SUFFER AND DIE 4 THE SINS HE DIDNT COMMIT?? DONT BLAME God 4 HUMAN SUFFERING AS WE OURSELVES ARE OUR OWN PROBLEM...GOD PERMITS AND ALLOW THINGS TO HAPPEN DOESNOT MEAN HE IS THE CAUSE..AND HE IS not TO BE BLAMED |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Rapsino(m): 9:24pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:I laf u. since you r an atheist why do u seek advice from people that worship God.? you should have kept it to urslf. better think deep. |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by goodnewscliff(m): 9:26pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
VampireeM:hey.....u re so nailing it on God....THERE AINT ANYTHING LIKE SOMEONES APPOINTED TIME TO DIE...;that would paint God who is far from wickedness black...WHAT OF ABORTED BABIES? Accident ?? HIV PATIENT WHEN GOD DETEST PREMARITAL SEX?? We are the cause of our own problem not GOD SO DONT BLAME HIM PLSSSSSSS....GOD AND CHRISTAINITY AINT A MISERY....God could be so close to anyone even more than a friend...his ways, standards, principles are written in the bible...i dont see any mystery in dat If u wanna knw more about GOD JUST READ UR BIBLE....its GODS WORD AND NOT DIFFICULT TO UNDERSTAND |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by RALPHOW(m): 9:26pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:May be you will be happy if your brother ran mad instead of death Do you blame a barber for allowing Prof Soyinka bear bear grow beyond your expectation. You talk about the hungry, do you expect God to give us land and rain and still come down to plan corn and yam for us. Don't be stupid hunger and poverty is human choice because of greed and mis management. If you leave food for your children and the eldest share the food with his girl friend, people should blame you abi? Please grow up!!! |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
I love you for this wonderful post! Thanks a bunch! Yaksson: |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Blaqsmith(op): 9:42pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
RALPHOW:Read the poo you typed up there and tell me why I should share ur god belief... are u guys so lost in religion that you've lost a touch of humanity ![]() are u m.ad ![]() |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by goodnewscliff(m): 9:42pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
RALPHOW:smokers die of cigar, na GOD...them abort unwanted pregnacy, them wan come talk say na the pikin wey dem abort appointed time to die when God hate pre marital sex Driver die 4 accident becos he no wan repair hin brake wey spoil...na him appointed time to die b dat PEOPLE SHUD STOP BLAMING GOD 4 THEIR OWN ERROR JOOR...WE RE OUR OWN PROBLEM |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
I've gotten tired of convincing Atheists that There is a God, these days, I just prove to them that Juju works, the next thing they will say is that it is perfected illusion. But it's said 'Who no come, no go know' they want to see before they believe. I don't blame them. I blame the demons in control of their lives josephni12: |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by cooluc(f): 9:49pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:My dear how did you feel after typing those words..the answer to whether there is God or not is deep within in your heart..you will get it some day. I don't think you need any one to convince you or talk you out of it. Religion as it may itsnt the ish here, it's all about KNOWING God for who He is, cos christ didn't die to give us religion. |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by goodnewscliff(m): 9:51pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
josephni12:I KNOW MY BROTHER WHEN I SEE ONE(JWIT)....WHAT CONGREGATION BRO?? @ |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Blaqsmith(op): 9:52pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
cooluc:I feel free. I hope you get to know someday that religion is all a lie. You must be a good person and I wanna believe you are not good because of the promise of heaven or threat of hell. Religion wouldn't make you more good. I hope you know the truth someday. |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Haven't you noticed that all these Atheists are just demon possessed humans who are looking for every opportunity to fault God? You claim God doesn't exist, yet you call him wicked, How can a being that doesn't exist be wicked? You claim God doesn't exist and you say he raped Mary, so what's that? You claim God doesn't exist, yet you say Christ wasted his life on the cross You say the Bible is a contradictry novel and you still draw quotations from it to fault God. It's clearly obvious that Jesus is the Truth, The Way and The life and the demons are out in human flesh to fault his existence just to draw more souls to hell. You promote Pre marital sex, masturbation, lying and you say you have a conscience. Why contradicting yourself? |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Miona: 9:58pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
@ OP; read Psalms 14 verse 1, and Psalms 53:1 then make your choice. I'll still suggest you stop seeking for approval from NLs, let her be and I pray that God will show Himself to you as He did to Saul renamed Paul (Acts 9:1-22)[color=#000099][/color] |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Begonia(m): 9:59pm On Jul 07, 2016*. Modified: 2:52pm On Dec 11, 2016 |
To be honest, I kind of believe this isn't about your girlfriend. It's just another thread opened by a so called atheist to purport the usual "theists are dumb, we are smart".. Lol! By the way, there are no atheists in Nigeria ..okay maybe few but the majority are just misotheists. This misotheism is a result of the hardship brought about by the failure of the government and inability to stand up for yourselves. This is also the main cause of religious fanaticism in Nigeria and most countries plagued by incompetent leaders. I've met quite a number of atheists and in fact had one as a housemate in my first year in uni, eventually became good friends. He's Irish, very self-possessed. He didn't spend his time trying so hard to convince everyone of "the foolishness of the religious." Most atheists that I know are cool and comfortable with themselves and everyone around them. This is different from the typical Nigerian "atheist" who seems to be drenched in some form of past bitterness and bile. Personally, I think everyone's belief.. or lack of it should be respected. If it's not harming anyone, why should it be a bother? Irrespective of religious beliefs, we all have brains. We all have hearts. Most of us have common sense. These are very important for peaceful and respectful coexistence. Now, I don't feel the need to comment on the main topic (pseudo ) because the solution is staring the op in the face.PS. I'm a christian and very thankful ![]() |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by angiography(m): 10:00pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
VampireeM:please, where and how can I meet and marry a lady like you! you're like a light tonight. |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by kemzyAjaks(f): 10:00pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Blaqsmith....there's God...it is He who created rhe heavens and the earthand all that's in it,.…He is the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate.. …likewise He is the Honorer and Dishonorer...He brings the living out of the dead and the dead out of the living.…He is the First and the Last...meaning He is the One who would assemble us all after we're dead. The liar and the thief would not go unpunished... Do you think those who do evil in this world and succeed and would not be called to account? My dear, trials come and they make us see His wonders...His existence , being and doings are mysteries..Every happenings come from Him. He is Supreme...it may be that He did it to prevent a worse scenario that you do not know about. Put your trust in Him and feel the sweetness of serving Him..…if you're confused about a particular doctrine, repent and pray to Him to show you the way...put sentiments aside and learn about other religion that wouldn't tell you distress is from man.My dear...the hereafter is eternal...imagine each grain of sand on the desert land as 1000 years ...I pray He leads you aright |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by cooluc(f): 10:04pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:Open your eyes and look around you, look beyond the ills but His creatures and get inspired, don't let lies!! Creep into your being and snatch your conviction..mind you it isn't about religion....it is HIS awesome presence, it's a state you see your self in not a tittle 'of being a Christian' or 'religious' it's well with you |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by allanphash7(m): 10:06pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Gbayi omo iya mi There are over 1000 religion in the world and no one kick against love Welcomme: |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by Blade21: 10:07pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:sweet your brother didn't die becuase God didnt answer you Jr died becuase he spoke but you were upset with your brother's health to listen am truly sorry about that big hugs, as for the children God can't come down to earth and start working that's y he created me and you we are gods on earth so dear start from your neighbourhood in your own little way help that child without slippers, help the hungry child that way you play your Godly roles please be happy and fine she won't leave you |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by spenpe: 10:12pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Blaqsmith:Believe it or not God exists no matter the circumstances. He's God. Pls don't let your hurt /pain make you think there's no God. Cos he exists beyond reasonable doubt. |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by goodnewscliff(m): 10:12pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
cloudgoddess:seriously u ve typed Craps...... if u study and read about himan DNA, the PRECISENESS AND CORRECTNESS OF PLANET EARTH, ITS ORBIT ROUND THE SUN, THE SELF PROTECTIVE POWER OF THE EARTH FROM SPACE HAZARD LIKE METEORS AND ASTERIODS , THE SELF SUFFICIENCY OF EARTH , THE INSTINT OF SOME ANIMALS LIKE ANTS LIZARDS BIRDS, PHOTOSYNTHESIS, OXYGEN AND CARBON DIOXIDE CIRCLE, THE HUMAN BRAIN , THE SUN , DIFFERENT VARIETIES OF FOOD , ANIMALS ,TASTES..TO MENTION BUT SO FEW........U WOULD BE A FOOOLLLLLLL TO CONCLUDE THAT THERES NO GOD EVEN FROM THE THINGS HE HAS MADE |
| Re: I'm Losing My Girlfriend Because Of My Disbelief... Am I Wrong? by freshcvvs: 10:15pm On Jul 07, 2016*. Modified: 5:19pm On Nov 10, 2016 |
I can bet that the OP is 90% more behaved, cultured, respectful, honest than most of the people castigating him, yet they think they are the ones to make heaven and hell or whatever for the OP. Nigerians and hypocrisy.. believing in God, yet living a fake life worse than that of pagans or whoever they call ungodly. mtcheewww |
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are you saying your believe as an atheist is not also causing division
) because the solution is staring the op in the face.