BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

Lataability:
hustle hard bro.. i ve car.. i ve a confortable apartment.. i ve 36 girlfrnds still counting if anyone messes up.. i replace her with anoda.. no time.. my advice 4 u is 2 hustle hard and become successful. u will see classic babes. . u neva see bae's bro.. hustle hard and make money.. u will thank me later.. sowi

eddy1212:
There is a saying, chase money get money and women will chase you. Sorry for your heartbreak but move on and focus on being successful. You will see the real woman for you. Things happen for a reason and if your a positive person believe that its best for you what has happened.

AfroKnight:
She believes has seen a better offer somewhere. Let her go. Nowadays, young ladies are temporary slippery lovers.

I would like to tell you to continue to be a faithful guy to the next chick you meet but honestly, good guys finish last. You need to have substitutes when dealing with women.

Sorry.

brownjulie:
I don't understand why guys are like this... Tie a girl down for 5yrs in the name of relationship without any sign of marriage, not even engagement..... That's the highest point of wickedness haba!

M2dX:
don't trust any girl, don't love any women ,they have an octopus behavior. ,.trust your GOD and LOVE JESUS CHRIST .to avoid heart break

brownjulie:
I don't understand why guys are like this... Tie a girl down for 5yrs in the name of relationship without any sign of marriage, not even engagement..... That's the highest point of wickedness haba!

psucc:
5years is not 5days or 5 months. Having 'served' you for that long without any glimpse of hope of marriage, she has to move on.

Guy truly you no try at all.

richez25:


Aunty Dove or Vulture, or wateva u call urself. Am not the OP.. Am just tryna console the guy ok.. Keep ur attitude to urself, aiit.. Tanz. And u can stop climbing my molehill, will appreciate that.. Remain blessed as u become positive to life and reduce the attitude, seems u had a terrible one too. PEACE..

BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

Banter1:
my brother dated his wife for 13 good years before they got married. Her leaving the guy has nothing to do with the years of their courtship. Girls of nowadays Aint loyal. That's why some of them end up marrying the wrong person.