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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by patola080(m): 10:26pm On Jul 12, 2016
Work hard and many of her will cum 4u

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by don4real18(m): 10:27pm On Jul 12, 2016
Another sad tale of a heartbroken mugu.... she wants a graduate to marry but you only have Ordinary National diploma

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Kangol99(m): 10:29pm On Jul 12, 2016
Eeeeyah
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by ganiyu26(m): 10:30pm On Jul 12, 2016
Mine is six years hrtbroken relationship...guess we are in the same pool
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by DONFODIO(m): 10:30pm On Jul 12, 2016
OMG!
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

hmmmmmm
your case is the reverse of mine (female version)
He cheated n left after 5 years
now begging to come back
just let her go, with time she'll realise and you will heal

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Lexusgs430: 10:31pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders


She talk say she no do again, it might be difficult, but move on with your life.
Someone else is singing rhythm and blues, in her ear drums. You have been used and dumped.
If you married her and she started having other numerous sex partners, you would regret marrying her. Hope you enjoyed the ride? Time to catch a new bus !!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jul 12, 2016
Be delivered from the demons of fornication and infatuation in Jesus name. Thank God you are free now from a sin partner. Go and sin no more. Serve God and your genuine wife will locate you when you are ready for marriage

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by ofemigeorge(m): 10:32pm On Jul 12, 2016
My guy sorry o. But I no read all ur story...the beginning made me see something for that relationship. You say she text u Saturday,u ignore, no call at all till Sunday. Chairman.nnnn we need to hear the other side if the story. From her own point of view.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by ameezy(m): 10:33pm On Jul 12, 2016
Relationship goals grin grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Akinaukwa: 10:34pm On Jul 12, 2016
What a baaaaad investment? All you suffered for for good 5years just went down the drain just like dat. O di kwa egwu!

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by lewisege: 10:35pm On Jul 12, 2016
Exacly dsame thing happened to me,i almost died,i almost failed my first semester exam.....now she is begging me

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 10:35pm On Jul 12, 2016
slevin1:
Op if u can observe, all the advices given here is to bid her wish and move on and frankly, do just that. Then feel the pain that it drives u to make it in life and that it puts her in a position where she'll find herself monitoring ur dps and Facebook updates and wishing she never took that decision. But first, MOVE ON.
Thanks my brother, now that you mention the words "MOVE ON" my mind is free now...right now I think I need motivational speaker
Thanks bro God bless u

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by gboisgroups(m): 10:35pm On Jul 12, 2016
I swear them be witch, why won't man turn to gay. When a guy will all his life to you and later hurt him. I experience the same bro, I thank the lord for the kinds of friends I have that make me move on with my life with laughter. Have decided not to love a girl again but just like them.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by olagbemi118(m): 10:35pm On Jul 12, 2016
Never invest on a girl who isnt ur sis. Anyway, Sorry about dat, God knows best

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by chadwickcollins(m): 10:36pm On Jul 12, 2016
Una sorri o I come late guy jst take heart ok God will bring anoda 1

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Lataability(m): 10:36pm On Jul 12, 2016
hustle hard bro.. i ve car.. i ve a confortable apartment.. i ve 36 girlfrnds still counting if anyone messes up.. i replace her with anoda.. no time.. my advice 4 u is 2 hustle hard and become successful. u will see classic babes. . u neva see bae's bro.. hustle hard and make money.. u will thank me later.. sowi

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by owoshuyi(m): 10:36pm On Jul 12, 2016
Brother my advice 4 u. FORGET ABOUT HER AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. ALWAYS BE HAPPY BECOS SOMEONE BETTER, U WIL SURELY MEET. Evrything happens 4 a reason. Sorry 4 d heart break, pls take heart

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Odunharry(m): 10:36pm On Jul 12, 2016
Op sorry..
people wont learn.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by youmour(m): 10:37pm On Jul 12, 2016
Tell that ho to skitfuckingdaddle
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 10:37pm On Jul 12, 2016
don4real18:
Another sad tale of a heartbroken mugu.... she wants a graduate to marry but you only have Ordinary National diploma
I'm not a mugu bro...I was blindfolded by love

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by casspersteve: 10:37pm On Jul 12, 2016
Bro as long as your mama love you don't ever love a Women.....don't worry she will love you for your ambitions.....WORK HARD NOW AND PLAY HARD

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by keypad1: 10:38pm On Jul 12, 2016
Zambux:


Focus more on building urself, start up ur degree program or HND and don't forget to pray always and pls don't curse her with time it will be a story .... Time heals
dont curse her you say?

Do you know how many ladies have curse men with their Unclad va..ginal?


Guy abeg curse her

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by zeongeon: 10:39pm On Jul 12, 2016
No girl is mandated to stick with you for ever as long as she isn't your wife.

No man who is reasonable ties his happiness or build his world around a woman or a human being.

As a man you should be bothered about building a career, pursuing a dream or running a business of yours and not being bothered about a girl....

Having in mind that she did nothing wrong breaking up with you..YES she did nothing wrong...she gave u an opportunity to face your life squarely and make something out of your life so that at the end you xn decide to date or marry either a girl or many girls from any race, tribe or religion.

You will be a big fool if you try to figure out why she left you or if you try going to beg her to win her back...You will be wise if you make up your mind at this time to put woman aside and make a life for yourself.

Finally, "In woman was sin's beginning, and because of her we all die. Allow water no outlet, and be not indulgent to an erring wife. If she walks not by your side, cut her away from you"..SIRACH 25: 23-25

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by sleekyonyx(f): 10:39pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:

I'm finding it so difficult to forget about her
I'm sorry dear...I know someone who can help u move on ASAP

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by sleekyonyx(f): 10:40pm On Jul 12, 2016
Odunharry:
Op sorry..

people wont learn.
grin
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 10:41pm On Jul 12, 2016
Misskaycee21:

hmmmmmm your case is the reverse of mine (female version) He cheated n left after 5 years now begging to come back just let her go, with time she'll realise and you will heal
Sorry about that ok...I feel for u

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Mariojane(f): 10:42pm On Jul 12, 2016
You ve to move on. Life goes on. What I always tell myself is, I will try to be better than the way I was so that whenever I meet anyone from my pass I will be able to boast about what I have achieved without them and their unfortunate selves. But we need to hear the other Side of the story

I have a question though, you saw the message on Saturday nd none of you call each other until you call on Sunday,Is that how you run your relationship? I don't speak with my fiancé less than 4times in a day and it has been that way for years.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by klassykute(m): 10:42pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:

I'm finding it so difficult to forget about her
stop seeing her pic .. stop checkin her text .. delete dem all .. start a new life and wen u tink abt her put smtin else in ur mind ur good to go

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 10:42pm On Jul 12, 2016
ofemigeorge:
My guy sorry o. But I no read all ur story...the beginning made me see something for that relationship. You say she text u Saturday,u ignore, no call at all till Sunday. Chairman.nnnn we need to hear the other side if the story. From her own point of view.
Baba, this is not a one sided story, have never done anything bad for her infact I can screenshot her text msg here for u to see...I didn't cheat neither hurt her
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by AdexOmoby(f): 10:44pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

I am completely sorry about what you've been through. It's hurts and it's painful. Really sorry. Remember the pain would just be for a while and soon you'd be stronger for it.

You seem to be a good man who unfortunately had a bad babe, one who had your best interest at heart. I wish all ladies would know that there are still good and faithful guys like you around. Please don't stop being good. Continue to be yourself. Do not allow this make you become bitter or cruel. Aren't you blessed she broke it off now than later? 5 years may be long, but your courtship has been termed successful because it's achieved the aim for which it was started-to find out if you both are meant for eachother.

It's obvious she's no longer interested in the relationship. I wish I knew her reasons. I am a lady and a lady wouldn't break up a relationship that long without reasons. I believe she's invested 5 years of her life there too...but somehow, she picked someone else. Hence, you've got to move on somehow. Please cry all you can. Don't be deceived that men don't cry. Mourn all you can. Let yourself feel the pain. It's alright. It's okay to cry. Your pains are valid. But after mourning, rise up and move on. It would hurt once in a while but choose to see the good side of life. She only made you stronger and tougher for life's challenges.

You could delete everything that has to do with her. I think you're helping yourself heal faster. Go out and make friends. Join a church club or organisation of your choice. Go out and learn a skill. Ensure your mind is not ideal. You're busy which gives you less time to wallow in self pity. You may want to delete her contacts from all your social accounts handles.

Hugs bro. You'd be fine. Gradually, you'd fine life again. And perhaps love too. I wish you the best.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by FODA(m): 10:44pm On Jul 12, 2016
Bro,look for another club,you cannot keep Ronaldo on d bench because of giroud,u re giroud in this case,while d new guy ronaldo.never expect much from pple if u dnt want to be disappointed.

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