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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 7:57pm On Jul 12, 2016
Vikky014:
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. pls tak hrt. the girl is tired of d relationship and wants to marry. free her by moving on wt ur Life
Thank you. check your mail
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 8:00pm On Jul 12, 2016
sirusX:


Read again and be mindful of his tone... He is trying to advise him to be good, and in the end he reminded him that being all goody goody might not pay.

Though I am not in support of the double dating, but I feel there are some things he should do different next time. I hope he figures it out
Pls don't fight ontop this matter, you guys have been making sense so far, I just need your counseling
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by sirusX(m): 8:03pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:

Pls don't fight ontop this matter, you guys have been making sense so far, I winkjust need your counseling

Sorry about misreading my tone. I have no intention of fighting, just helping her understand the message from AfroKnight

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by AngelAhnie(f): 8:06pm On Jul 12, 2016
sirusX:


Read again and be mindful of his tone... He is trying to advise him to be good, and in the end he reminded him that being all goody goody might not pay.

Though I am not in support of the double dating, but I feel there are some things he should do different next time. I hope he figures it out
When a guy breaks up with a girl it seems normal, once the Lady do the breaking up you hear different stories.

I was her father Christmas

I paid her school fees

I paid for her upkeep

I bought Christmas cloths for her

I did this, I did that...bla bla bla

op even mentioned miscellaneous expenditures..
learn to move on guys, ladies suffer worst in the hands of some (monsters) guys.

I'm just saying op don't take this to heart

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by AngelAhnie(f): 8:08pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Thank you. check your mail
gringrin
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 8:11pm On Jul 12, 2016
sirusX:


Sorry about misreading my tone. I have no intention of fighting, just helping her understand the message from AfroKnight
Ok bro
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 8:12pm On Jul 12, 2016
AngelAhnie:
gringrin
Why are u laughing? :-
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by ucheHapers(m): 8:13pm On Jul 12, 2016
Nice guys eat no meat..u were suppose to build urself up first...life is never fair...until u get married, take care of urself first before anybody. In essence be selfish...love urself first...and always know dat people would always disappoint u

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by AngelAhnie(f): 8:14pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Why are u laughing? :-
You know why I laughed, don't you
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Zambux(f): 8:16pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:

my education is very important to me at the moment, the worst part of it is that I applied to her school, same faculty same course though she will graduate this year.
Lalasticlala
Deres no big D, same school or not
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Bwaal(m): 8:17pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:

No

She thought she has found her safe heaven brother she used u in her tiny thought u cant fit in her levels u knw ordinary national diploma compare to higher national diploma u knw she will be going to service this year u knw next thing on her mind is marriage which u cant b ready for in the next 4years like u said u aint financially bouyant.....

Have this in mind thier is never a late comer in anything in life let ur pay back b complete go bag BSC not a bleeping HND
let go of sentiments...

GARCIA MY 2CENT KEEP THE CHANGE

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by sirusX(m): 8:21pm On Jul 12, 2016
AngelAhnie:
When a guy breaks up with a girl it seems normal, once the Lady do the breaking up you hear different stories.

I was her father Christmas

I paid her school fees

I paid for her upkeep

I bought Christmas cloths for her

I did this, I did that...bla bla bla

op even mentioned miscellaneous expenditures..
learn to move on guys, ladies suffer worst in the hands of some (monsters) guys.

I'm just saying op don't take this to heart

I try not to generalize that one side suffers more. I'd rather say meeting the wrong person can be a disaster for any guy or lady.

Some things hurt more and can get you bitter, saying things you never thought you'd say

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jul 12, 2016
What the heck did I just read, if only you had sense and used your head you won't be lamenting now @ Op. You used money for your handouts to buy her foodstuff what sort of nonsense is that.

If only you used the money for her 2 years fees to start up a business or even dash it out to your siblings or mum, instead you chose to be father Christmas so she is happy,see how your kindness has killed u @ Op I have no regrets for what u passing through

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Excelboi(m): 8:34pm On Jul 12, 2016
Nawa o
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Vikky014(f): 8:35pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Thank you. check your mail
i didnt see ur mail. resend it pls
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Vikky014(f): 8:40pm On Jul 12, 2016
AngelAhnie:
gringrin
babe dnt do Amebo here ooo. check my signature

tongue
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by haywhy59(m): 8:53pm On Jul 12, 2016
Time heals bro.... Av been in ur shoes.... Tkia
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 8:59pm On Jul 12, 2016
AngelAhnie:
You know why I laughed, don't you
No I don't
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 9:01pm On Jul 12, 2016
Vikky014:
i didnt see ur mail. resend it pls
Sent again
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Vikky014(f): 9:13pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Sent again
stil didnt see it
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by AngelAhnie(f): 9:16pm On Jul 12, 2016
Vikky014:
babe dnt do Amebo here ooo. check my signature

tongue
Me no dey do amebogrin

what about your siggy
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Kenneth205(m): 9:22pm On Jul 12, 2016
I feel your pain bro! You just have to move on with your life.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 9:25pm On Jul 12, 2016
Vikky014:
stil didnt see it
check your mail now
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Vikky014(f): 9:40pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:

Ok kindly send me a text on here or better still flash me I will give u a call, I will soon modify this post so be quick
jst add d number dt will flash u on whatapp. dnt call. it ends wt 234
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by slevin1(m): 9:45pm On Jul 12, 2016
psucc:
5years is not 5days or 5 months. Having 'served' you for that long without any glimpse of hope of marriage, she has to move on.

Guy truly you no try at all.
Guy you no try. Why would you say such a thing. What matters is not just how long they've been together because you don't know when they met. She's simply seeking something that the op cannot offer at the moment. Your comment rubbish jare.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by slevin1(m): 9:51pm On Jul 12, 2016
Doxie69:
What the heck did I just read, if only you had sense and used your head you won't be lamenting now @ Op. You used money for your handouts to buy her foodstuff what sort of nonsense is that.

If only you used the money for her 2 years fees to start up a business or even dash it out to your siblings or mum, instead you chose to be father Christmas so she is happy,see how your kindness has killed u @ Op I have no regrets for what u passing through

The op is in his right mind. Lovestruck sometimes is beyond our control. I used to believe that i can never be one of those who does such things for a gal but I did...... and a lot at that and I think I'm still doing. The op was just unlucky and got someone undeserving of his attention and affection.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by slevin1(m): 9:57pm On Jul 12, 2016
Op if u can observe, all the advices given here is to bid her wish and move on and frankly, do just that. Then feel the pain that it drives u to make it in life and that it puts her in a position where she'll find herself monitoring ur dps and Facebook updates and wishing she never took that decision. But first, MOVE ON.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by nathie007: 9:59pm On Jul 12, 2016
You want a little sense in that dumb head of yours? Here it is-
Never build a relationship on pity, as pity is the most fragile foundation for lasting love.
Learn from your experience and move on. Who knows, a better girl might just be reading your post. Shalom! (by the way, the above is a quote from my 265 page love guide. If I were you, I d order a copy....

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by visijo(m): 10:23pm On Jul 12, 2016
suicide...

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Jidhey1(m): 10:23pm On Jul 12, 2016
This one is strong ooo!

Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by AntiWailer: 10:24pm On Jul 12, 2016
Pick urself up.


Be motivated to succeed.

That is the only way to get back at her.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by anochuko01(m): 10:26pm On Jul 12, 2016
OP SEE THIS BIBLE PASSAGE;

''Even if my father and mother abandon me, the LORD will hold me close.'' -Psalm 27:10

I assure that God has a better plan for you... you'll remember this incident in years to come, and you'll appreciate God that she dumped you!
It could take a while but you'll be surely fine!

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