Benita27:
This is solely ur opinion, ur answers have already given, u didn't have to read meaning to my point of view, which is typical of some of u here.

I don't care abt the car, else i would have forgiven him.

Thanks.

So before you where expecting a certain type of opinion?I have the rights to read meaning into such issues especially when you the affected lady is as confused as your thread. Hahahahah I don't have to read meaning to your point of view? So I for do what to understand this your confused thread?

You dumped him and still want to know his source of income....this is incredible,mind you here you're dealing with different types of brains so expect different types of opinion for your own good,anyway according to your parents you're still too young to read meaning into relationship issues,you need 1 or 2 serious heartbreaks before you can understand it.

aloobright17:


So before you where expecting a certain type of opinion?I have the rights to read meaning into such issues especially when you the affected lady is as confused as your thread. Hahahahah I don't have to read meaning to your point of view? So I for do what to understand this your confused thread?

You dumped him and still want to know his source of income....this is incredible,mind you here you're dealing with different types of brains so expect different types of opinion for your own good,anyway according to your parents you're still too young to read meaning into relationship issues,you need 1 or 2 serious heartbreaks before you can understand it.

You're still reasoning narrowly, and is of this opinion that i'm asking because i want to get back with him, hmm!, ur headache.

He's not the first rich guy that has proposed marriage to me, and i still had a way of knwing we were nt compatible.

Don't see me as ur exes, my thread is a confuse one and you're on it commenting, you must be confuse as well.

A typical character of an igbo man when he's desperately looking for money and got it by crook...every other thing will become primary to him...a man who can go discreet on his girl to this level and hid his source of financial income is capable of using you for money ritual (ogbu ego)...op move on pls.

firstking01:
A typical character of an igbo man when he's desperately looking for money and got it by crook...every other thing will become primary to him...a man who can go discreet on his girl to this level and hid his source of financial income is capable of using you for money ritual (ogbu ego)...op move on pls.

Thank you, that's even what i'm scared of the more.

Benita27:
I will try to make this as explicit as possible.

My bf and i have been having episodic misunderstanding, we've been dating for 2yrs now which was serious at some point, i knw he loves me, but all these while i have come to realize that he's an unstable person and whenever life happens he shuts me out, no matter how much i plead to be let into wat's happening.

He moved late last year to his state after he was given a job offer there, Imo State to be precise, and was suppose to be working with a company that's into movies production in Onitsha, though have never followed him up, i suppose he knws wat's good for him.

He kept asking me to pay him a visit at Owerri, and knowing the kind of family i'm born into, going where i will have to spend days isn't possible, without their consent, so i kept telling him why which he understood, then last month he transfered money into my account after he said he need to see me, even if it's one day, i was free so i headed for Owerri.

He picked me up in company of his friend, who dropped us off in his house, on our way there he said, " his friend's car was bashed by a keke driver and it piques him", while they were on their way to pick me up, i jst waved the subject, because i didn't see any damage.

We got to his place, he went out and came back smelling alcohol, i asked and he said he had a bottle, he asked of a friend of mine he knew and while i was talking i noticed he was glued to his laptop and stopped responding, i enquired why and he suddenly said he's business just crashed, i asked him to fill me in, but said i won't understand, the question i had in mind was, what kind of business will crash online, at abt 9pm.

He stopped talking to me, went to bed early, i felt neglected and blamed myself for going to see him, sincerely because i'm extremely emotional, i wept that nyt. as early as 6:00 i was ready to leave, he walked me out, gave me some money and started apologising, i jst told him everything was ok, though!, he could sense the anger facially, i got home, he never called to knw if i was home.

I ignored for a month plus, weighed my options, called him he didn't pick, then dropped a message on his inbox and ended the relationship since it was pending.

He has been apologising on watsapp, since i don't take his calls, but this is where my worries are: he has a cousin that likes me alot, who told me that dis my bf who jst got a job that's barely a year old bought a car, i went to his facebook account and confirmed it, i don't think he earns upto a 100k on that his movie job(guess work), i never asked him his salary cos i felt i will be asking too much, just got an apartment, and suddenly bought a car, although is fairly used, which he claims the source of the income is legitimate, i called a friend to knw wat his opinion might be, and he said my bf could be into yahoo business, i don't have the intentions of going back to him, even though he won't stop bothering me with love, but i sense he's into something bad.

Since then have been feeling uneasy towards him, and feel badly for his widow mother, though i'm not sure.

What do you think?.

the points I tool note of
1.you broke up with him
2.you thinking of the cousin that have feelings for you
3.you have moved on since he is now your ex
4.you are worried if he is yahoo guy cus of the source of his recent wealth.
5.you are confuse and thinking of going back

my advice; pls kindly move on with your life like you already did and there are other guys out there ok..my only worry is why did you have to bring up the cousin talk, seems you have feelings for him.

schumastic:


the points I tool note of
1.you broke up with him
2.you thinking of the cousin that have feelings for you
3.you have moved on since he is now your ex
4.you are worried if he is yahoo guy cus of the source of his recent wealth.
5.you are confuse and thinking of going back

my advice; pls kindly move on with your life like you already did and there are other guys out there ok..my only worry is why did you have to bring up the cousin talk, seems you have feelings for him.

If i did, i would have said so, no one will spank me right?, the relationship i have with the cousin is Godly, and most times wen we have issues he reports me to the cousin, the cousin was just a mediator and can't do that poo of betraying him with the cousin, there are guys out there you knw.

firstking01 spoke half of my mind about d ritual thing. u wan marry person wey no d respct ur opinion nd feelings abi? 4rm ur story dat guy luks childish. IMO. "wisdom is d principal tin, get wisdom nd with all thy gettings, get understanding" HOW CAN SUMONE KIP REPORTN U 2 HIS COUSIN WEN U HAVE MISUNDERSTANDING. NA D COUSIN JOIN UNA 2GEDA? what a misknown.

Benita27:
You're still reasoning narrowly, and is of this opinion that i'm asking because i want to get back with him, hmm!, ur headache.

He's not the first rich guy that has proposed marriage to me, and i still had a way of knwing we were nt compatible.

Don't see me as ur exes, my thread is a confuse one and you're on it commenting, you must be confuse as well.

Now you're creeping out from your hole,can't you see that my narrow reasoning has brought a lot from you,Read this line and tell me what I have to understand here...........and is of this opinion that i'm asking because i want to get back with him, hmm!, ur headache. is that a question or statement?.Ohhh So you want me to shout before you know that I'm confused with this ur tales by moon light confused thread?

Nne I pity your confused mind though I blamed it on ur inability to know what moving on means.You want to know if he is into Yahoo,Your parents don't want you and him because you're still young,his cousin wouldn't let you in,He never called you 1 month after you left,you're even the person that called to check if he had a safe trip something he suppose to do... blah blah blah hahahahah...Who in your state of mind will not get confuse?You have a lot to deal with,that's why your headline is showing Advise needed,while what you need is a dirty slap so that your brain will start functioning normal.

aloobright17:


Now you're creeping out from your hole,can't you see that my narrow reasoning has brought a lot from you,Read this line and tell me what I have to understand here...........and is of this opinion that i'm asking because i want to get back with him, hmm!, ur headache. is that a question or statement?.Ohhh So you want me to shout before you know that I'm confused with this ur tales by moon light confused thread?

Nne I pity your confused mind though I blamed it on ur inability to know what moving on means.You want to know if he is into Yahoo,Your parents don't want you and him because you're still young,his cousin wouldn't let you in,He never called you 1 month after you left,you're even the person that called to check if he had a safe trip something he suppose to do... blah blah blah hahahahah...Who in your state of mind will not get confuse?You have a lot to deal with,that's why your headline is showing Advise needed,while what you need is a dirty slap so that your brain will start functioning normal.

Just to clear you of ur accusations, read my post again?, i never started i called him wen i got home, until a mnth after wen i was ready to end the relationship.

Don't take my thread personal, if you don't have anything meaningful to say, or a sage advice, just F*ck off my thread.

Benita27:
If i did, i would have said so, no one will spank me right?, the relationship i have with the cousin is Godly, and most times wen we have issues he reports me to the cousin, the cousin was just a mediator and can't do that poo of betraying him with the cousin, there are guys out there you knw.

i don't know o but all i know is that the cousin is wooing you in godly way

schumastic:


i don't know o but all i know is that the cousin is wooing you in godly way

He doesn't look at me that way, that i knw of.

You're just assuming.

Benita27:
He doesn't look at me that way, that i knw of.

You're just assuming.

don't blame me cus life has taught me to always prepare for the worst situation you can check my siggy for more knowledge

aloobright17:
fuckkk off ur confused thread.wonder what the owner of the forum will be saying to dumbass like you.Na madness dey worry u .Onye ara,ur thread.

You want to know if the guy that dumped you is into Gmail confused little girl

Sorry!, i dumped him, and he's still begging.

You're pained because?, you're a yahoo guy. So now you knw wat my question is.

Stop quoting me on other threads, if that insanity isn't evolving in ur generation already.

Benita27:
Sorry!, i dumped him, and he's still begging.

You're pained because?, you're a yahoo guy. So now you knw wat my question is.

Stop quoting me on other threads, if that insanity isn't evolving in ur generation already.

Yes am pained not only as a yahoo guy but also Gmail,hotmail and every other mails u can think of.
Meanwhile quoting u will never stop which will also come with bashing and heavy name calling if the need arises just to correct that your fish brain.

Reporting me to the mods for banning no dey fear me,because creating a new moniker is very easy,thank God am in a country where surfing the internet is as cheap as ur pants and bras put together.

Keep lying to yourself that you dumped a guy and still dying to know his work.When he was busy surfing ur hole u never bothered till he got tired of u.U dumped a man who never called to check on u after such a long journey despite spending night with him...LAIR. U dumped him and still come here to create a thread? lie muhammed daughter.onye ashi.

Shey yahoo come be bad thing ni ....

heddiebanks:
Shey yahoo come be bad thing ni ....

Chepy1:

How var., hope ur client dey do u well sha ..?

heddiebanks:

How var., hope ur client dey do u well sha ..?

Bro I dey fyn o....Clients dey do well ni, what of yours ?

Chepy1:
Bro I dey fyn o....Clients dey do well ni, what of yours ?

I bless God ...wich work dey hot for ur side ., make we share money ..

heddiebanks:


I bless God ...wich work dey hot for ur side ., make we share money ..

The normal magas wey dey fyn love online ni, but I dey think of to enter money wire, I just need better computer guru.

Chepy1:

The normal magas wey dey fyn love online ni, but I dey think of to enter money wire, I just need better computer guru.

Ok ,. Make I hook you up ., I get one bad hacker ...but me no get time for long thing ...na quick money I dey hustle ., and allah has been good ...must make money . ..

heddiebanks:


Ok ,. Make I hook you up ., I get one bad hacker ...but me no get time for long thing ...na quick money I dey hustle ., and allah has been good ...must make money . ..

Thanks bro

Chepy1:
Thanks bro

Welcome man ....

Benita27:
I will try to make this as explicit as possible.

My bf and i have been having episodic misunderstanding, we've been dating for 2yrs now which was serious at some point, i knw he loves me, but all these while i have come to realize that he's an unstable person and whenever life happens he shuts me out, no matter how much i plead to be let into wat's happening.

He moved late last year to his state after he was given a job offer there, Imo State to be precise, and was suppose to be working with a company that's into movies production in Onitsha, though have never followed him up, i suppose he knws wat's good for him.

He kept asking me to pay him a visit at Owerri, and knowing the kind of family i'm born into, going where i will have to spend days isn't possible, without their consent, so i kept telling him why which he understood, then last month he transfered money into my account after he said he need to see me, even if it's one day, i was free so i headed for Owerri.

He picked me up in company of his friend, who dropped us off in his house, on our way there he said, " his friend's car was bashed by a keke driver and it piques him", while they were on their way to pick me up, i jst waved the subject, because i didn't see any damage.

We got to his place, he went out and came back smelling alcohol, i asked and he said he had a bottle, he asked of a friend of mine he knew and while i was talking i noticed he was glued to his laptop and stopped responding, i enquired why and he suddenly said he's business just crashed, i asked him to fill me in, but said i won't understand, the question i had in mind was, what kind of business will crash online, at abt 9pm.

He stopped talking to me, went to bed early, i felt neglected and blamed myself for going to see him, sincerely because i'm extremely emotional, i wept that nyt. as early as 6:00 i was ready to leave, he walked me out, gave me some money and started apologising, i jst told him everything was ok, though!, he could sense the anger facially, i got home, he never called to knw if i was home.

I ignored for a month plus, weighed my options, called him he didn't pick, then dropped a message on his inbox and ended the relationship since it was pending.

He has been apologising on watsapp, since i don't take his calls, but this is where my worries are: he has a cousin that likes me alot, who told me that dis my bf who jst got a job that's barely a year old bought a car, i went to his facebook account and confirmed it, i don't think he earns upto a 100k on that his movie job(guess work), i never asked him his salary cos i felt i will be asking too much, just got an apartment, and suddenly bought a car, although is fairly used, which he claims the source of the income is legitimate, i called a friend to knw wat his opinion might be, and he said my bf could be into yahoo business, i don't have the intentions of going back to him, even though he won't stop bothering me with love, but i sense he's into something bad.

Since then have been feeling uneasy towards him, and feel badly for his widow mother, though i'm not sure.

What do you think?.

@herbie

This is "PureSolutions" by theway the guy has too many baggages,though he haad good intent to let you see inside his life,like too many men not fathered properly they tend to develop baggages,but as we form into men from boys baggaes ought to be dealt with nau.Never date anyone for more than 6months without information about their core..it's not really dating it's mere calendering cause we assume we know them so much but we don't marriage thesedays scarces me cos lots of ppl are not who they claim to be,In your next date pls check up on him on people dat have influence on him

supersystems:


@herbie

This is "PureSolutions" by theway the guy has too many baggages,though he haad good intent to let you see inside his life,like too many men not fathered properly they tend to develop baggages,but as we form into men from boys baggaes ought to be dealt with nau.Never date anyone for more than 6months without information about their core..it's not really dating it's mere calendering cause we assume we know them so much but we don't marriage thesedays scarces me cos lots of ppl are not who they claim to be,In your next date pls check up on him on people dat have influence on him

Sure!, thanks!.

brightalo1010:


Yes am pained not only as a yahoo guy but also Gmail,hotmail and every other mails u can think of.
Meanwhile quoting u will never stop which will also come with bashing and heavy name calling if the need arises just to correct that your fish brain.

Reporting me to the mods for banning no dey fear me,because creating a new moniker is very easy,thank God am in a country where surfing the internet is as cheap as ur pants and bras put together.

Keep lying to yourself that you dumped a guy and still dying to know his work.When he was busy surfing ur hole u never bothered till he got tired of u.U dumped a man who never called to check on u after such a long journey despite spending night with him...LAIR. U dumped him and still come here to create a thread? lie muhammed daughter.onye ashi.

It takes two to tango.

Keep quoting me around, and dis one will go on another ban.

heddiebanks:
Shey yahoo come be bad thing ni ....

Na good thing.

Benita27:
Sure!, thanks!.

how's it with you... and whats it wit 27 and you... ?

herbie27
benita27 ?

supersystems:


how's it with you... and whats it wit 27 and you... ?

herbie27
benita27 ?

That's my birth day.

I don't play with it, wat's up?, you've been away for somedays now.

Benita27:
That's my birth day.

I don't play with it, wat's up?, you've been away for somedays now.

dont tell me it's apr 27th.Improving on my work life jare hoping to make more money ultimately now all my old disciples have left me