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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by adanny01(m): 9:39pm On Sep 06, 2016

Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

My 2 cent.

Only you can decide to keep or delete the pregnancy. Whatever you decide, don't do it alone. Tell his parents if you decide to keep it. If you are not keeping it, let him take you to proper hospital and abort it.ni wish you will keep it but o know it's not easy being a baby mama and it will affect your prospects of getting hitched.

You need to break off any relationship with him immediately.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Funkybabee(f): 9:39pm On Sep 06, 2016

as I can go through your story, I have saw your mistake is to irrational for your age.first you are a graduate, to work and make your family to happy about you. but now you have disappoint them although mistake has no master,but I have to condemn you first for these action. now my advice for you is too choose between two, is either you terminate the pregnant just for you to close that shame,make that child to be fatherless so that it won't keep to hunt you back or accept the fate to keep the child just to save a little life and still hurts her with her fatherless fate. just choose between two because you are the mum who will determine her fate

no common sense I pity the little girl or boy

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by femi4: 9:39pm On Sep 06, 2016

naniawini:
wats ds one saying

English please!

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by naniawini(f): 9:40pm On Sep 06, 2016

OLUJOSHINS:

U are a terrible counsellor.

Do U know that she could DIE during the abortion?

so u xpect her 2 kip it even wen it's soo glaring dat d guy doesn't hv any plans 4 her.

My sista pls get rid of it b4 1 useless guy subject u 2 pains

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by goingape1: 9:40pm On Sep 06, 2016

Tobyshegz:
Ooh!!. All men are senseless and cruel— except me

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by damton(m): 9:41pm On Sep 06, 2016

Berbierklaus:
No seriously,we know most men are irrational and incapable of thinking with their brains once they are in heat,but what about the ladies?

You know you will be get the bigger hit if anything happens,yet you did not use your brain in heat? what happened to condom #100 or how much is gold circle again?

Now you are considering commiting murder,when you could have avoided abortion(which is costlier) with morning after pill or condom? A graduate for that matter?

Not feeling self righteous,but things like this should not be happening,just know that you are commiting murder if you dare abort that baby.

What will be will be

sighted.

how is you doing?......

inaruwa na. shocked

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Tinalex(f): 9:41pm On Sep 06, 2016

@ Op,please get rid of that thing before one guy will spoil your life. Don't mind all those guys forming saint on their comment most of them already aborted 7pregnancies for their so called girlfriends and still did not marry her they will now come to this forum forming "pillar of truth and uprightness".

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by NONNYG: 9:41pm On Sep 06, 2016

naniawini:
wats ds one saying

you seconded she get rid of the pregnancy, 2nd idiot. and ur baby will soon be 1, u should have aborted urs

www.nairaland.com/2887116/baby-soon-1

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by BE811APP: 9:42pm On Sep 06, 2016

reminds me of a story of a guy that got a lady pregnant a fuel attendant.. meanwhile he has a beautiful babe a graduate that he was to marry..

when the fuel attendant heard his plans for his marriage..

she went straight to the church the guy was supposed to marry and reported the case...

the wedding was put on hold...

he served his suspension in the church.. he will soon get married to the graduate babe while the fuel attendant still dey carry the baby..

I truly wonder what will become of the child when he pops out!!!

OP all i can tell u is that..
U have already made up ur mind on what u want to do..
all i will tell u is to follow ur heart...

angry

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Tinalex(f): 9:42pm On Sep 06, 2016

@ Op,please get rid of that thing before one guy will spoil your life. Don't mind all those guys forming saint on their comment most of them already aborted 7pregnancies for their so called girlfriends and still did not marry them. They will now come to this forum forming "pillar of truth and uprightness".

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by OLUJOSHINS(m): 9:42pm On Sep 06, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
So? sometimes in life you just have to sacrifice something for the benefit of many, it's called logic it will result to peace and prosperity

U murder an innocent baby & U expect peace grin

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by femi4: 9:43pm On Sep 06, 2016

CrazyQuinn:

oya tell me......how many have you

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by naniawini(f): 9:43pm On Sep 06, 2016

femi4:
English please!

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by pheyimen: 9:43pm On Sep 06, 2016

God i hate dis cos its mess u got ursf in2. D God fearing part in me keep telin me its a sin 2 abort coz u might b killing next wizkid bt d street mind is sayin d step goin 2 b easy. Ur mum cant kill ya coz its a 9month tin. Face it chick it might b ur 1st or last baby

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by muller101(m): 9:43pm On Sep 06, 2016

Look young woman If u touch that future nairaland mod. Oga seun won't take it easy on u o

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by thedarkside: 9:43pm On Sep 06, 2016

NONNYG:
I wish your mother got rid of u. idiaaat

is she really that wrong??....

i really dont understand why women dont understand that their is no such thing as love.....

since we were banned from the garden of eden,adam and eve are unbalanced....their is no such thing as love...

its,scratch my back,i scratch your back!!....simple...forget this love thing!!!...

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Stevosty: 9:44pm On Sep 06, 2016

And the op opened her legs for a boy who is not ready to marry her, without protection, without drugs to prevent pregnancy, now you are in, the baby wants to be victim, you better keep the baby. If God saved from aids dont put yourself to another risk.

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:44pm On Sep 06, 2016

Amen

WebSurfer:

You are just talking nonsense all through.. How dare you openly advice someone to get rid of a baby without thinking of the consequences that might come with it, you didn't even bother to ask how long the prenancy was and the likes..

May God forgive you

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by femi4: 9:44pm On Sep 06, 2016

Tinalex:
@ Op,please get rid of that thing before one guy will spoil your life. Don't mind all those guys forming saint on their comment most of them already aborted 7pregnancies for their so called girlfriends and still did not marry them. They will now come to this forum forming "pillar of truth and uprightness".

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by PunterTim(m): 9:45pm On Sep 06, 2016

thorpido:
Shouldn't you have asked yourself all these questions before rolling in the sack with your bf?
I'm sure you know he doesn't really want to marry you and you can't really force him.

By the way,how come you chose to date a 'yoruba demon'?Are you a demon too?

Guy,wetin na grin

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by naniawini(f): 9:45pm On Sep 06, 2016

NONNYG:
you seconded she get rid of the pregnancy, 2nd idiot. and ur baby will soon be 1, u should have aborted urs

www.nairaland.com/2887116/baby-soon-1

look at yhu if I had my way I wud have! Now swerve, person angry

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by ohenhen1: 9:45pm On Sep 06, 2016

Keep the baby. Don't get married to him. Collect child support.

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Incrizz(f): 9:45pm On Sep 06, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

Babe, have you looked at the pictures in this link posted by chubhie?
http://clinicquotes.com/abortion-at-10-weeks-pictures/
Cc tega4b

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:46pm On Sep 06, 2016

ikiller:
u idiot, do u know that baby can give her open doors

which dirty open doors abeg go and sit down grin

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by thedarkside: 9:46pm On Sep 06, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
Amen

i like you...

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:47pm On Sep 06, 2016

thedarkside:

i like you...

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by krissconnect(m): 9:47pm On Sep 06, 2016

Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

Bring me d baby leme. Keep. But pls dnt come bak wen he/she bcoms popular life

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 9:47pm On Sep 06, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

If by any chance, all you wrote above there are real??, I love you. As a matter of fact, i would love to marry you. Others wont understand me, but i know you would...

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by thedarkside: 9:47pm On Sep 06, 2016

CrazyQuinn:

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by twinskenny(m): 9:47pm On Sep 06, 2016

Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

dont get rid of the baby... i will advice you keep it. hope he will agree to take care of you and the baby when u deliver... there is more to life after that.. dont commit sin.

Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Spirit1(m): 9:48pm On Sep 06, 2016

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

Get rid of a human being ? Why don't you say it better; KILL YOUR CHILD ASAP.

How wicked and heartless. God forgive you

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