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| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:09am On Sep 19, 2016 |
the last guy that sent me a dm and we dated for a while kept insisting I always say yes to every dm /pm I get,so just imagine if I was the one that sent him a dm first, e kukuma use me do mop self, because he will think I send dm to every cute guy I see.Ladies please don't try this in naija, you will only get used and dumped, he sends you a dm first yet still dumps you,what will happen if you send him a dm first, you just fueled his ego and cornered yourself into a position to be used and dumped |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by CosmicJames(m): 7:09am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Cutehector:Yea sure, but that's secondary. We are concern about the primary - how it all started. Without that initial DM, trust me they wouldn't have got there. |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by henrimoto(m): 7:15am On Sep 19, 2016 |
soberdrunk: ![]() |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:16am On Sep 19, 2016 |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by ngobaby2264: 7:18am On Sep 19, 2016 |
I'd never try it again. I'm kind of an unconventional person. Very open minded but from the experiences I've had I won't try it again. Most guys would just take the opportunity to break your heart and say after all, where you not the one that made the first move. First time, I had this close guy friend. I started developing feelings for him, after much effort I opened up to him on how I felt about him, he lied that he felt the same way about me. He just saw that as an opportunity. Until later I realized he had a girlfriend and he didn't deny it. Previously I asked if he had a girlfriend and he said no. The two other guys I tried to dm don't even notice me. So I've just given up on love for now. If it happens fine, if it does not life goes on. I'd just keep on being the best version of myself. P. S please is there a special way to understand guys? Especially when they tell you they love you but don't want to commit at the same time? |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by ngobaby2264: 7:19am On Sep 19, 2016 |
2dugged:yes most guys are opportunists |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:22am On Sep 19, 2016 |
michael142:are you one?,you keep using "we" |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Gracito(f): 7:23am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Cutehector:lool, aba, but a student at awka. |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:25am On Sep 19, 2016 |
2dugged:We nor talk too much. |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by deiikonac(m): 7:25am On Sep 19, 2016 |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:26am On Sep 19, 2016 |
ngobaby2264:I can dm a guy, but the Nigerian factor in naija guys is the issue, they will see it as a escape route to avoid commitment and make it seem like you forced your self on him |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:29am On Sep 19, 2016 |
michael142:make I kukuma dm you then, found my celebrity boyfriend, Nairalanders join me to rejoice, I am gonna be popular and my occupation is gonna be "girlfriend of a celebrity", just like some people we know, ![]() |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:31am On Sep 19, 2016 |
2dugged:Abeg oh. Go for normal guys who are not in the limelight oh. Celebs for Naija too dey get high expectations oh. |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by UIA04(f): 7:34am On Sep 19, 2016 |
soberdrunk:I didn't know your stupidity was in this magnitude So a girl shouldn't ask how a guy got HER OWN PIN let me tell you if you know your conscience is clear and you have nothing to hide why not tell the truth. How can you start a relationship on lies Only ugly girls ask guys out by the way or those with low self esteem |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:35am On Sep 19, 2016*. Modified: 9:15am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Cutehector:Lwkmd! .Some people here are mere kids while some adults are actually senseless. Have had similar experiences myself. |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:36am On Sep 19, 2016 |
michael142:That's a depressing thing to reply a lady who built up her confidence to hit on you. This is rejection on a coded level, now you see why ladies don't dm guys first |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Kay17: 7:43am On Sep 19, 2016 |
HungerBAD:Is that a universal value? |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:44am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Sincere4u:Lolz... You are right though |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:46am On Sep 19, 2016 |
2dugged:When you are searching for a guy, go for the shy ones cause them nor sabi say NO. Secondly, if you are searching on somewhere like face book, go for the guys that have from 100 to 195 friends on face book. If you dey look for guys when dey shine online, them get reach 2k friends and they might not turn up. Most shining guys na girl when fine like omotola them dey like. Just dont go for the very handsome guys sha. And make sure say na shy guy. Those with few face book friends are normally shy. Sorry if i came off harsh previously. |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by PrinceEvolution(m): 7:46am On Sep 19, 2016 |
hungerbad first time u av impressed me but her dressing is not my worry here..my worry is whatever happened to the saying meat is for men and bones for dogs..i swear if dem remove that girl skull,she go weigh 0..that kind girl nor need xray naaaa just naked am sample for sun u go see all internal organs..abi she grow for south sudan niii wetin be all dis.. ?for pete sake dis guy dey joke with him life cuz e wan save tailor money.. cuz dis kind girl so she go dey buy clothes for kiddies section..use only 1yard so kaftan.. make GOD nor let me marry who will go dey stroll jejeli bingos go start dey bark..AMEN.HungerBAD: |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:47am On Sep 19, 2016 |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by soberdrunk(m): 7:50am On Sep 19, 2016 |
UIA04:My dear sister when you made this comment did you 'forget' you have your picture in your profile? On behalf of myself and the other multitude of guys on Nairaland, i just want to "thank you" for showing us only half of your face..... |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by UIA04(f): 7:58am On Sep 19, 2016 |
soberdrunk:You have made another senseless comment again. For your info, one of the reasons nairaland was created like this is for one to air their views with some level of anonymity as they please. That's what I choose to maintain I'm not answering pm's from anyone so I don't owe anyone any obligation You sound like a Bleep boy by the way |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by soberdrunk(m): 8:04am On Sep 19, 2016 |
UIA04:Thank you, i understand your condition. |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by ladyF(f): 8:07am On Sep 19, 2016 |
uzobaby:Hello, can you check the link on my signature please? It's explained in details... ![]() Let me know if you have further questions. |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Okeikpu(m): 8:10am On Sep 19, 2016 |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by ToySoldier2: 8:11am On Sep 19, 2016 |
emeijeh:Please don't kill me with laughter ![]() |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 8:17am On Sep 19, 2016 |
michael142:from your last statement, I can deduce that you already think I am not pretty like omotola, and I can also draw a conclusion that you think only girls with low self esteem hit on guys, so you then think they only deserve shy guys who have no much option,right?,well that still takes me to the first comment I made on this thread, ladies now you know the impression you will be making when you make the first move, don't ever try this with a naija guy |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by ladyF(f): 8:23am On Sep 19, 2016 |
cassidy1996:Lol... Don't mind the dog in the pics o... ![]() Coming out to meet you now... |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by bravetentewa(m): 8:24am On Sep 19, 2016 |
ladyF:We need to talk. Add me on what'sapp (08072116905) |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 8:28am On Sep 19, 2016 |
EgunMogaji:How u take know. |
| Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Ishilove: 8:30am On Sep 19, 2016 |
PrinceEvolution:Rotfl! |
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