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Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:09am On Sep 19, 2016
the last guy that sent me a dm and we dated for a while kept insisting I always say yes to every dm /pm I get,so just imagine if I was the one that sent him a dm first, e kukuma use me do mop self, because he will think I send dm to every cute guy I see.Ladies please don't try this in naija, you will only get used and dumped, he sends you a dm first yet still dumps you,what will happen if you send him a dm first, you just fueled his ego and cornered yourself into a position to be used and dumped
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by CosmicJames(m): 7:09am On Sep 19, 2016
Cutehector:
It's not a matter of who should first send a message.



She only said yes because he met her standards. grin




He only asked her to be his wife because she met his standards as well. cool
Yea sure, but that's secondary. We are concern about the primary - how it all started. Without that initial DM, trust me they wouldn't have got there.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by henrimoto(m): 7:15am On Sep 19, 2016
soberdrunk:
Nigerian girls go gree hear!!!?? All dem sabi nah "how did you get my number", "how did you get my pin" like say dem buy phone to dey call and ping themselves". The number of girls way don miss der husband cos of "how did you get my number" "how did you get my pin" eheen, after dem go dey roll 4 ground 4 Shiloh like say husband go fall from up! Them go see fine boy, instead make them make move, dem go dey wait make man come toast them like say them be 'shoprite bread'............... angry angry
grin
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:16am On Sep 19, 2016
crotonite:
The only thing Nigerian girls are good at is 'k kk kk'
Bros I tire for them o grin grin
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by ngobaby2264: 7:18am On Sep 19, 2016
I'd never try it again. I'm kind of an unconventional person. Very open minded but from the experiences I've had I won't try it again. Most guys would just take the opportunity to break your heart and say after all, where you not the one that made the first move. First time, I had this close guy friend. I started developing feelings for him, after much effort I opened up to him on how I felt about him, he lied that he felt the same way about me. He just saw that as an opportunity. Until later I realized he had a girlfriend and he didn't deny it. Previously I asked if he had a girlfriend and he said no. The two other guys I tried to dm don't even notice me. So I've just given up on love for now. If it happens fine, if it does not life goes on. I'd just keep on being the best version of myself. P. S please is there a special way to understand guys? Especially when they tell you they love you but don't want to commit at the same time?
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by ngobaby2264: 7:19am On Sep 19, 2016
2dugged:
the last guy that sent me a dm and we dated for a while kept insisting I always say yes to every dm /pm I get,so just imagine if I was the one that sent him a dm first, e kukuma use me do mop self, because he will think I send dm to every cute guy I see.Ladies please don't try this in naija, you will only get used and dumped, he sends you a dm first yet still dumps you,what will happen if you send him a dm first, you just fueled his ego and cornered yourself into a position to be used and dumped
yes most guys are opportunists
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:22am On Sep 19, 2016
michael142:
Guy, celebrities full nairaland. The fun be say we don't use our photo. We are here to read what people say about us. If only you know who you dey mention so. I gave her the best advice.
are you one?,you keep using "we"
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Gracito(f): 7:23am On Sep 19, 2016
Cutehector:
they are very big na. Where do u stay
lool, aba, but a student at awka.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:25am On Sep 19, 2016
2dugged:
are you one?,you keep using "we"
We nor talk too much.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by deiikonac(m): 7:25am On Sep 19, 2016
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:26am On Sep 19, 2016
ngobaby2264:
yes most guys are opportunists
I can dm a guy, but the Nigerian factor in naija guys is the issue, they will see it as a escape route to avoid commitment and make it seem like you forced your self on him
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:29am On Sep 19, 2016
michael142:
We nor talk too much.
make I kukuma dm you then, found my celebrity boyfriend, Nairalanders join me to rejoice, I am gonna be popular and my occupation is gonna be "girlfriend of a celebrity", just like some people we know, grin
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:31am On Sep 19, 2016
2dugged:
make I kukuma dm you then, found my celebrity boyfriend, Nairalanders join me to rejoice, I am gonna be popular and my occupation is gonna be "girlfriend of a celebrity", just like some people we know, grin
Abeg oh. Go for normal guys who are not in the limelight oh. Celebs for Naija too dey get high expectations oh.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by UIA04(f): 7:34am On Sep 19, 2016
soberdrunk:
Nigerian girls go gree hear!!!?? All dem sabi nah "how did you get my number", "how did you get my pin" like say dem buy phone to dey call and ping themselves". The number of girls way don miss der husband cos of "how did you get my number" "how did you get my pin" eheen, after dem go dey roll 4 ground 4 Shiloh like say husband go fall from up! Them go see fine boy, instead make them make move, dem go dey wait make man come toast them like say them be 'shoprite bread'............... angry angry
I didn't know your stupidity was in this magnitude


So a girl shouldn't ask how a guy got HER OWN PIN
let me tell you if you know your conscience is clear and you have nothing to hide why not tell the truth. How can you start a relationship on lies

Only ugly girls ask guys out by the way or those with low self esteem
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody:
Cutehector:
who is dis one.. can't u quote me without posting smth senseless?
Lwkmd! grin.
Some people here are mere kids while some adults are actually senseless.
Have had similar experiences myself.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:36am On Sep 19, 2016
michael142:
Abeg oh. Go for normal guys who are not in the limelight oh. Celebs for Naija too dey get high expectations oh.
That's a depressing thing to reply a lady who built up her confidence to hit on you. This is rejection on a coded level, now you see why ladies don't dm guys first cry
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Kay17: 7:43am On Sep 19, 2016
HungerBAD:
I am happy for them honestly.

I try as much as possible not to judge people's taste,in who they date or even get married to.

Because as they say,beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Would HungerBAD be caught with a lady dressed like the one I am seeing in this pictures in Public?no.

Let alone even making her a wife.

There are a lot of things the White people took from us Africans when they Colonized us. They took us as slaves,they stole our artifacts,they forced their religions on us,they forced us to speak their languages.

But one thing they did not take from us is our Culture and Beliefs. The African Culture teaches our women how to dress respectfully by covering themselves up decently.

Ishilove come here.

I have started gathering money to move from Sango to Agege for us. If this is how you dress,tell me make i use my money start pure water business.
Is that a universal value?
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:44am On Sep 19, 2016
Sincere4u:
What's noooooooooooo?.
I can imagine your mouth when you say that.
Some girls shakara are without limits
This works real good and I'm a witness. Almost magical but only when your idiosyncrasies and inclinations direct you to the right guys.
Lolz... You are right though
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:46am On Sep 19, 2016
2dugged:
That's a depressing thing to reply a lady who built up her confidence to hit on you. This is rejection on a coded level, now you see why ladies don't dm guys first cry
When you are searching for a guy, go for the shy ones cause them nor sabi say NO. Secondly, if you are searching on somewhere like face book, go for the guys that have from 100 to 195 friends on face book. If you dey look for guys when dey shine online, them get reach 2k friends and they might not turn up.

Most shining guys na girl when fine like omotola them dey like. Just dont go for the very handsome guys sha. And make sure say na shy guy. Those with few face book friends are normally shy. Sorry if i came off harsh previously.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by PrinceEvolution(m): 7:46am On Sep 19, 2016
hungerbad first time u av impressed me grin but her dressing is not my worry here..my worry is whatever happened to the saying meat is for men and bones for dogs..i swear if dem remove that girl skull,she go weigh 0..that kind girl nor need xray naaaa just naked am sample for sun u go see all internal organs..abi she grow for south sudan niiihuhwetin be all dis..huh?for pete sake dis guy dey joke with him life cuz e wan save tailor money.. grin cuz dis kind girl so she go dey buy clothes for kiddies section..use only 1yard so kaftan.. grin make GOD nor let me marry who will go dey stroll jejeli bingos go start dey bark..AMEN.
HungerBAD:
I am happy for them honestly.

I try as much as possible not to judge people's taste,in who they date or even get married to.

Because as they say,beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Would HungerBAD be caught with a lady dressed like the one I am seeing in this pictures in Public?no.

Let alone even making her a wife.

There are a lot of things the White people took from us Africans when they Colonized us. They took us as slaves,they stole our artifacts,they forced their religions on us,they forced us to speak their languages.

But one thing they did not take from us is our Culture and Beliefs. The African Culture teaches our women how to dress respectfully by covering themselves up decently.

Ishilove come here.

I have started gathering money to move from Sango to Agege for us. If this is how you dress,tell me make i use my money start pure water business.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 7:47am On Sep 19, 2016
HungerBAD:
You cannot destroy my happiness.

How is she married?
Hahahaha grin grin grin
I was beginning to wonder o.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by soberdrunk(m): 7:50am On Sep 19, 2016
UIA04:
I didn't know your stupidity was in this magnitude


So a girl shouldn't ask how a guy got HER OWN PIN
let me tell you if you know your conscience is clear and you have nothing to hide why not tell the truth. How can you start a relationship on lies

Only ugly girls ask guys out by the way or those with low self esteem
My dear sister when you made this comment did you 'forget' you have your picture in your profile? On behalf of myself and the other multitude of guys on Nairaland, i just want to "thank you" for showing us only half of your face.....
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by UIA04(f): 7:58am On Sep 19, 2016
soberdrunk:
My dear sister when you made this comment did you 'forget' you have your picture in your profile? On behalf of myself and the other multitude of guys on Nairaland, i just want to "thank you" for showing us only half of your face.....
You have made another senseless comment again.

For your info, one of the reasons nairaland was created like this is for one to air their views with some level of anonymity as they please. That's what I choose to maintain


I'm not answering pm's from anyone so I don't owe anyone any obligation

You sound like a Bleep boy by the way
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by soberdrunk(m): 8:04am On Sep 19, 2016
UIA04:
You have made another senseless comment again.

For your info, one of the reasons nairaland was created like this is for one to air their views with some level of anonymity as they please. That's what I choose to maintain


I'm not answering pm's from anyone so I don't owe anyone any obligation

You sound like a Bleep boy by the way
Thank you, i understand your condition.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by ladyF(f): 8:07am On Sep 19, 2016
uzobaby:
Lady f..this skrilll fund,please what is it all about ?been seeing it on your posts
Hello, can you check the link on my signature please? It's explained in details... grin

Let me know if you have further questions.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Okeikpu(m): 8:10am On Sep 19, 2016
mercichoco:
I have sent alot of dm, pm or whatever but i don't seems to get response
grin grin grin grin
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by ToySoldier2: 8:11am On Sep 19, 2016
emeijeh:
What is she wearing sef?




But also know that what works for you might not work for another girl
Please don't kill me with laughter cheesy
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 8:17am On Sep 19, 2016
michael142:
When you are searching for a guy, go for the shy ones cause them nor sabi say NO. Secondly, if you are searching on somewhere like face book, go for the guys that have from 100 to 195 friends on face book. If you dey look for guys when dey shine online, them get reach 2k friends and they might not turn up.

Most shining guys na girl when fine like omotola them dey like. Just dont go for the very handsome guys sha. And make sure say na shy guy. Those with few face book friends are normally shy. Sorry if i came off harsh previously.
from your last statement, I can deduce that you already think I am not pretty like omotola, and I can also draw a conclusion that you think only girls with low self esteem hit on guys, so you then think they only deserve shy guys who have no much option,right?,well that still takes me to the first comment I made on this thread, ladies now you know the impression you will be making when you make the first move, don't ever try this with a naija guy
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by ladyF(f): 8:23am On Sep 19, 2016
cassidy1996:
i like you, but dat giant dog and grab man on your Dp keeps scaring me away, please am outside your gate....
Lol... Don't mind the dog in the pics o... grin

Coming out to meet you now...
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by bravetentewa(m): 8:24am On Sep 19, 2016
ladyF:
S£UN this could be us o, biko reply my PM kiss kiss kiss



It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin
We need to talk. Add me on what'sapp (08072116905)
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Nobody: 8:28am On Sep 19, 2016
EgunMogaji:
I wish them the best but sadly this isn't marriage material girl.
How u take know.
Re: "Ladies, Sometimes DM Him First Because You Might End Up Getting Married". PICS by Ishilove: 8:30am On Sep 19, 2016
PrinceEvolution:
hungerbad first time u av impressed me grin but her dressing is not my worry here..my worry is whatever happened to the saying meat is for men and bones for dogs..i swear if dem remove that girl skull,she go weigh 0..that kind girl nor need xray naaaa just naked am sample for sun u go see all internal organs..abi she grow for south sudan niiihuhwetin be all dis..huh?for pete sake dis guy dey joke with him life cuz e wan save tailor money.. grin cuz dis kind girl so she go dey buy clothes for kiddies section..use only 1yard so kaftan.. grin make GOD nor let me marry who will go dey stroll jejeli bingos go start dey bark..AMEN.
Rotfl!
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