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uyiekpen26:
Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in, send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within and outside the country.

I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice. So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I just came to check up on her.

I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the following week I opened an account for her and closed the account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of coming to remove everything in that same house by the weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself. Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and family members have been disturbing my phone begging. Saying I'm taking things too far.

Terryindeed:
listen mr man, what is yours it's yours, and the Good Lord will not stop more from happening if you take it back. Jesus Christ, what is to gain from breaking his heart nothing, but he lost everything, is hearth, is trust for women, his love, and finally his kindness, bcus next time he meet with another girl , he will be to heartbroken to move on or to love her , bcus he fear she might alway cheat even if she won't. Bro it's your property, don't alllow anyone tell u to leave it for God or for her and move on, bcus when you did it for her, it was from your heart with love, and now she's turn against you , why should you still be kind to her? Why didn't she think about the repercussions before cheating? I can bet my soul that she's be doing it long ago. Haba get her to the gutter. Some people never appreciate Good friends, and my advice is this , Cut Ties and be with better people. So op forgive but get your self away from her and your stuff. To be honest those type of people don't change, they always want to test new things. Okay you want him to leave it for her and the next girl he meet, will do the same and he will still leave it for her too, over and over, after this experience, i bet he will think twice before doing anything for the next girl even if she's an angel, because of what his ex has done. Men have emotions, these scars don't leave easily, it even make us hate women and turn into a womanizer, just to have sex and go , because of experience like this.

davdjayj:
You are a man i suppose. The same thing i said is what i will tell any of my sons. When you GIVE someone something it no longer belongs to you. Giving is different from lending. Dont let emotions cloud your sentiments. You cant wint such a case in any court. What is yours is yours, what has been given out is no longer yours son!

uyiekpen26:
you don't expect them to.

abokibuhari:
God bless you bro, you just made my day sire. more grease to your manhood




after recession fear WOMEN

Talk2Bella:
Nah she cannot eat sand another man will just take your place

Terryindeed:
My brother God bless you too, please do one thing for me before you leave the house, spit on her face and walk away, don't exchange a word, don't say I have heard you, just pack everything, then when she comes to you , get hold of her face and spit on her forehead. That will make her in her life never cheat with even a dog. What I just said will follow her to her entaph (grave) . Brother Friday is too far, what happens tomorrow? Abeg I don't want u to forgive her o.

JoyChinwe22:
...BECUASE PORN IS NOT HARMLESS
(Your Love life and Pornography)

Pornography is the portrayal of sexually explicit contents on pictures, magazines, videos and so on for the sole purpose of arousing anyone who views them. Pornography is also called porn.
Several years back however, porn was not really accessible to everyone in the form which they are these day. Back then, you had only play boy magazines with pictures of scantily clad models. Things started to get bolder by the day and got even worse with the advent of the internet.
In as much as porn is said to have helped couples build and continuously revive their sex life, it also has a few negative effects on one's love life which cannot be over emphasized. Such effects include:

Porn gives room for unrealistic expectations: Constant viewing of pornography makes you crave to have sex in ways which ordinarily you would find repulsive. You always want to do something different and insanely wild. I'm totally not against spicing things up in the bedroom; but when you want to do that because you have programmed your brain to believe that, 'the weirder, the sexier', then something is seriously wrong.

Porn never satisfies: Porn instils lust and lust is never satisfied. The amazing thing is, lust doesn't crave for more, it craves for something 'different'. This is the reason why someone will have a very wonderful partner and still cheat on them; not because their partner is not attractive. The other person in question may not even be as attractive as their partner, but they just needed something different.
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davdjayj:
You are a man i suppose. The same thing i said is what i will tell any of my sons. When you GIVE someone something it no longer belongs to you. Giving is different from lending. Dont let emotions cloud your sentiments. You cant wint such a case in any court. What is yours is yours, whats# has been given out is no longer yours son!

abokibuhari:
chinwe, why all these sermons ?

JoyChinwe22:
so ppl will change...lol

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Funny how all the Nairaland girls have gone silent. [/color]

AngelAhnie:
Don't tell me you believe this story.

Snow5:
Lols... OP I feel your pain oo...


Mine is a different direction.. I felt for the guy that was dating the lady.. So dat night.. I couldn't touch her cos I have a conscience...

NOW THE STORY..


we were good friends(I and the lady) .. Last time we saw ourself was way back 2010,..so I was serving in benin 2014 /2015 when I saw this my old time friend... We hugged each other and almost kissed while on the road self.. We got talking and she said she is a student in uniben.. I was too eager to visit her or she visits me... Either ways.. What was on my mind was to kpansh her(enjoy a night with her)..

We got to a point when we discussed almost everything... And I got to realise that she already has a fiancee.. And that finance graduated 2yrs before I graduate... And was doing a meager job... And from that meager job that nigga was doing... He rented an apartment for this my lady friend.. Bought everything that was literally in that house... The lady was comfortable.. And the nigga visits every Saturday jst to satisfy his fiancee in all ramification..

She visited me in my room.. Where I was serving and she passed the night in my house... Immediately she came in.. We hugged but dint kiss at all(she was even surprised at my attitude).. I cooked for her.. She ate... And she quickly took a shower... It was about 7pm then.. She came and sat on the bed NAKED.. jst only panties on..

I was busying pressing my phone and doing nothing inside my phone... Lols...she was like "Patrick what's wrong? Are u angry at me?.. I said no oo.... I moved closer and and we started gisting again oo... I in initiate almost all the stories that night... Jst to make her tired and weak...


She eventually fell asleep I dint even kissed her... I couldn't even romance her... Cos my minid nor let me do the thing... Because I WAS FEELING FOR THAT NIGGA THAT THought HE HAS A GIRL HE WANT TO MARRY ALREADY... I couldn't do it.. I slept on the floor that night..

She woke up the next morning and left about 7am to catch up with lectures.. That evening... Her watsapp status was "dem give you knife and yam you nor fit do anything"... I knew that status was for me... I jst shook my head and till I left that Benin... Na twice we see and na for road we take talk and chat..

Almost all ladies act like this.. I don't know why... What will it take u to be loyal? U see someone that does almost visually everything for you... U still cheat on him... As in... Wetin u dey find? SMH..

bro take heart jor

uyiekpen26:
Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in, send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within and outside the country.

I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice. So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I just came to check up on her.

I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the following week I opened an account for her and closed the account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of coming to remove everything in that same house by the weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself. Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and family members have been disturbing my phone begging. Saying I'm taking things too far.

uyiekpen26:
Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in, send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within and outside the country.

I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice. So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I just came to check up on her.

I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the following week I opened an account for her and closed the account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of coming to remove everything in that same house by the weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself. Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and family members have been disturbing my phone begging. Saying I'm taking things too far.

abokibuhari:
and you had to quote me with that story abt porn making it to look like I'm a porn monger, its no fair ma

uyiekpen26:
thanks brother. Even the phone she's been using to disturb me was bought by me. I'm going to collect everything including the phone and everything in that house. After all, I bought them with my own money not hers.

uyiekpen26:
Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in, send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within and outside the country.

I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice. So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I just came to check up on her.

I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the following week I opened an account for her and closed the account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of coming to remove everything in that same house by the weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself. Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and family members have been disturbing my phone begging. Saying I'm taking things too far.

uyiekpen26:
satisfy what? Don't say what you don't know. She should go and meet that other guy to satisfy her.