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Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by montezz(f): 10:16am On Oct 02, 2016
Naturalwaves what do you think
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Synzu(m): 10:25am On Oct 02, 2016
VajanahDischaj:
guy! we dey the same shoe. I use my left leg boot am out. na later I come dey understand why her CUNTinent too dey smell like oily kwandom, cod liver oil. #I be guyoh, foRoger

gringrin


A friend of mine complained of the same thing once. His babe always stank of condom oils n stuff. The girl was a serial cheat!
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Nobody: 10:29am On Oct 02, 2016
Toks2008:


You are very right.

My ex left after 12 years of sweet union and walked back after 3 years of exploit and i said to myself "Well being her very first guy i think its fair enough for her to see the world and her coming back by herself means she still finds me indispensable"

But then after she came back i had to break up the affair for good when i realized she is still not sure of what she wants and not because of whatever she must have done while we were apart...according to the guys's code...."what we do not see do not hurt "

I so much believe that breaking up with your man or woman because of sexual infidelity is not the best especially if the erring party is truly repentant because if you leave someone you truly desire because he or she cheats on you then you are only pushing that person away to be with the other party for good and to me that is foolishness...furthermore what is the guaranty that the next babe is not even worse than the one you left?

But cheating with impunity and adding arrogance is what i can never ever condole.

Exactly you made a fantastic point because you are willing to forgive and try to make things work doesn't mean they are. Some people need time and some people lose trust and once that's gone it's hard to go back

Public Humiliation for me is a nononooooo

Arrogance is very annoying too.
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Synzu(m): 10:30am On Oct 02, 2016
blueeyes1:
Have you ever cheated? Be honest please.


Yes. On the same girl.
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by SexyStrawberry(f): 10:32am On Oct 02, 2016
Synzu:
The first and only chic whom I caught cheating on me got kicked out of my house right after I landed her a resounding slap for touching me when I asked her to keep her distance!


Cheating? That's one thing I will never forgive.

Furking hoes wanna eat their cake and still have it. undecided

but it's OK to cheat on her and she forgives and take u back right ?

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Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Synzu(m): 10:36am On Oct 02, 2016
misspicy:

Wow,what a strong man smiley

Let's give him a standing ovation please grin

I didn't hit her cos she cheated. I hit her cos she kept touching me even after I told her not to.
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Synzu(m): 10:39am On Oct 02, 2016
SexyStrawberry:


but it's OK to cheat on her and she forgives and take u back right ?

I only cheated on her when she did same to me. Not before then. I never cheated on her even once in our 3 year old relationship.
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by misspicy(f): 10:43am On Oct 02, 2016
Synzu:


I didn't hit her cos she cheated. I hit her cos she kept touching me even after I told her not to.
Once again,bravo smiley

You really did well,how dare her touch you with her dirty cheating hands.
What a hoe angry

Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Synzu(m): 10:46am On Oct 02, 2016
misspicy:
Once again,bravo smiley
You really did well,how dare her touch you with her dirty cheating hands. What a hoe angry
Wetin be your own seff? grin
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by SexyStrawberry(f): 10:54am On Oct 02, 2016
Synzu:

I never cheated on her even once in our 3 year old relationship.
hmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmm mmmmmmmmmmmmm
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Toks2008(m): 11:03am On Oct 02, 2016
solasoulmusic:


Exactly you made a fantastic point because you are willing to forgive and try to make things work doesn't mean they are. Some people need time and some people lose trust and once that's gone it's hard to go back

Public Humiliation for me is a nononooooo

Arrogance is very annoying too.

My experience has shown me that there is really no decent man or woman out there but all you can do is to close your eyes and settle with one with great hope that the person does not stray.

Before now when i hear baby mama i always se them as loosed and indecent but not anymore...infact i would choose a hot baby mama over a single lady with no child cos statistics have shown that 7 out of every 10 ladies in their late 20s have had at least one abortion so for a babay mama i guess she chose to keep the baby.

The more you grow the more you come to understand the complexity of man woman affair and what you may never thought of condoling today may be the least of what you can tolerate tomorrow which is why i laugh out real loud when i see many young ladies on nairaland curse and lash out at me when i create factual threads that may surpass their understanding at the moment but will make real sense to them latter in the nearest future.
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by misspicy(f): 11:04am On Oct 02, 2016
Synzu:

Wetin be your own seff? grin

Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Nobody: 11:10am On Oct 02, 2016
If a woman can forgive her man after cheating, I see notting wrong wt a man 4giving his woman after cheating nd taking her back
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by clickwtB(m): 11:40am On Oct 02, 2016
Forgiving is cool but can take back if she has verified Kids for me,Please try to forgive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! grin :DAllmighty ONE forgive us tooooooooo!!!
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Seanjay(m): 12:31pm On Oct 02, 2016
dollyjoy:


I have never cheated on someone i lovesmiley


But you've cheated on someone you don't love abi?


Well if your partner cheats and you forgive them things will never be the same the trust will be shattered and unamendable and no matter how you guys tried to work things out it will still leads to your break up, no lovers cheats and still stay together cause it will be remembered always by the one cheated on and that moments in his/her heart it a sour that will never heal, most times setting your eyes on such person that is what will first come to your mind that he or she cheated on you, the best way is each parties goes their separate ways..
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by amiskurie(m): 12:35pm On Oct 02, 2016
Omoabejide:
The baba that gave her that charm is ogbologbo . Power of efo riro
What in the world is that?!
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Nobody: 12:45pm On Oct 02, 2016
Etinosajay:


Actually I would think you forgave him, because you now have license to cheat too. Just in case it happens, you'll beg and say remember I forgave you last time.

I am not like that
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by antieverything(m): 12:47pm On Oct 02, 2016
Foolz full 9ja sha..gal wen fit dash u hiv,herpes or God knows what? or mayb d guy is just too broke or ugly to get oda gals..or mayb dem nark m jarz angry
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by ElsonMorali: 12:50pm On Oct 02, 2016
Cully408:

Is possible bro, i knw of a man who is rich neighbour slept wit his wife for 7 times at the man place and 8 times in their matrimonial home making it (15) times, the man had to approach the man after he caught dem red handed and the neighbour slap the man for confronting him. The man still forgive his wife and dey re together but the man family disown him for accepting her back

The things we do for love... undecided
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by abbey621(m): 1:13pm On Oct 02, 2016
There's just no logical reason to accept such a person back. The trust is gone, it's never coming back! The only type of men who could ever accept such a thing are those who are serial cheaters. A man with a guilty conscience will always find a way to rationalize his actions, forgiving and accepting her back is a way to please his own conscience. In addition, speaking strictly in the Nigerian context. The amount of decent, attractive ladies looking for a husband is so high,couple that with the recession and you have yourself a battalion of girls to choose from grin grin grin
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Nobody: 1:33pm On Oct 02, 2016
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Toks2008:


My experience has shown me that there is really no decent man or woman out there but all you can do is to close your eyes and settle with one with great hope that the person does not stray.

Before now when i hear baby mama i always se them as loosed and indecent but not anymore...infact i would choose a hot baby mama over a single lady with no child cos statistics have shown that 7 out of every 10 ladies in their late 20s have had at least one abortion so for a babay mama i guess she chose to keep the baby.

The more you grow the more you come to understand the complexity of man woman affair and what you may never thought of condoling today may be the least of what you can tolerate tomorrow which is why i laugh out real loud when i see many young ladies on nairaland curse and lash out at me when i create factual threads that may surpass their understanding at the moment but will make real sense to them latter in the nearest future.


Or maybe like me they just didn't get pregnant or abstained from sex you can't generalize

Your preference is your preference I want a man who compliments me not one who looks down and is doing clinical tests with me
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by nocosomia: 1:37pm On Oct 02, 2016
I don't get the gist, how can he claimed taking her back still calling her ex-girlfriend?
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by jojosweet(f): 2:08pm On Oct 02, 2016
Synzu:
The first and only chic whom I caught cheating on me got kicked out of my house right after I landed her a resounding slap for touching me when I asked her to keep her distance!


Cheating? That's one thing I will never forgive.

Furking hoes wanna eat their cake and still have it. undecided
ah! shocked
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by 3rdeye1(m): 2:28pm On Oct 02, 2016
ClassCaptain:
If ma boo get a boo, na that day she go sori bu

If he Forgives, Can he forget !!!??
even if he forget, can he forget why he 'forgive'?
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by NobleG1(m): 2:55pm On Oct 02, 2016
I cannot do that rubbish! I will forgive but not take her back.

If you must cheat on me, then also prepare to leave me. I would respect a woman who leaves me for another ma, than the one that cheats on me and still wants to be with me!
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by spamgod: 3:17pm On Oct 02, 2016
u forgive am so u can lash am again what is there? u even said u guys are no longer together means you didn't truly frgive
Me I can forgive only to dump her later sweet t0t0 must not waste
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by VajanahDischaj(f): 4:04pm On Oct 02, 2016
Synzu:


gringrin


A friend of mine complained of the same thing once. His babe always stank of condom oils n stuff. The girl was a serial cheat!
just because of that I had to delete anything about ladies as a priority, till my time reach for relationship. right now, I wan try survive this jungle.
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by JayJayGee: 5:13pm On Oct 02, 2016
her baba strong
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Nobody: 6:00pm On Oct 02, 2016
vectoh:
so,u can cheat..naija girls and cheating be lyk 5&6.. abeg make una hlp me wt dat pic..i knw u knw d pic.
zuma never fails grin

Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by BIDOO(m): 6:44pm On Oct 02, 2016
dollyjoy:
I can only beg my man for forgiveness if caught cheating but never will i beg to be taken back because thing wont be the same again.

Forgiving and accepting her back isn't the issue but how happy he is with her after then, the thought of someone else on the one you deeply care about is killing.
You must be a serial cheatergrin. With this ur write up it can be deduce that,You are not remorseful because of your act but because of your been caught .
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Swissheart(f): 7:33pm On Oct 02, 2016
Toks2008:


My experience has shown me that there is really no decent man or woman out there but all you can do is to close your eyes and settle with one with great hope that the person does not stray.

Before now when i hear baby mama i always se them as loosed and indecent but not anymore...infact i would choose a hot baby mama over a single lady with no child cos statistics have shown that 7 out of every 10 ladies in their late 20s have had at least one abortion so for a babay mama i guess she chose to keep the baby.

The more you grow the more you come to understand the complexity of man woman affair and what you may never thought of condoling today may be the least of what you can tolerate tomorrow which is why i laugh out real loud when i see many young ladies on nairaland curse and lash out at me when i create factual threads that may surpass their understanding at the moment but will make real sense to them latter in the nearest future.

Thanks for writing this. I don't understand why people think it is hard to forgive. I know of a guy,a medical doctor by profession (cute,comfortable,learned and in all ramifications decent) whose girlfriend got pregnant for an older man who could bore her. The man accepted the baby but not the lady. That led to a breakup btwn them. The guy was disappointed that he refused to see her for a long time. Few years later,the guy came back to her and made it known that he had forgiven her a long time and that he gave her time to get herself together ,that he never left. Her response was shocking....she said he was too good for her blah blah. They aren't dating now because she refused. Things are happening,people are getting better daily. Life is too short to love with conditions. Your life,your love.
Re: This Nigerian Man Forgave & Took Girlfriend Back After She Cheated &got Pregnant by Nobody: 8:33pm On Oct 02, 2016
Cully408:

Is possible bro, i knw of a man who is rich neighbour slept wit his wife for 7 times at the man place and 8 times in their matrimonial home making it (15) times, the man had to approach the man after he caught dem red handed and the neighbour slap the man for confronting him. The man still forgive his wife and dey re together but the man family disown him for accepting her back
Humilation of the highest order cheesy.No doubt all the men in that neighbourhood must have slept with the wife.The wife is really a cheerful giver cheesy.

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