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Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by gazilion: 4:27pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
thornapple: The reason you should not assume or fearfully imagine it could happen to you! Please reject the thoughts and do not concretise the imageries in your writings! ! |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by inchristalone(m): 4:32pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
Well, what I will do is that I will not do anything because its not my portion. Op find another beta thing talk jaree. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by Kolabalogun(m): 4:34pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
are you kidding me! so if you were aware that shes barren,will you marry her in the first instance? hmmm Nigerians!!! Always trying to be what we ain't...#able God |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by Alphamale2017(m): 4:41pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
Tuham: I know the kind if person I am. should I Iet out a little of what I have experience d in relationships ?? the fact that its hard does not make it impossible. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by mekyno777(m): 4:50pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
thornapple:It is very easy. It a pure deceit/ cover up with evil intent. The marriage was not suppose to stand in the first place. In catholic church, which is one of the strictest in such a case, dissolution (or a word lyk dat is used to separate the marriage), not divorce, is used for it because it lacks all the requirements/ingredients to stand as marriage before it took place/ the wedding. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by Nobody: 4:55pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
married couple make love while God make babies so allow God to take control. . it's not a big deal |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by Frolic: 4:57pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
I would just take a walk e sp if she deceived me into seeing her as who she not. I'm that kinda person that if it were that I've known her problem aforehand, I could work around the predicament with her before tying the nuptial knot when we finally get a solution, which is IVF. . .AND, we'd have to reach a resolution that I may get a second wife cos I don't see how I can father as many kids as I'd always fantasized using IVF ; It's damn expensive! |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by roeb1987(m): 4:58pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
just passing-by! so, i go comment after washing my bum-bum!! |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by morkaz(m): 5:12pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
ikp120: make una dy read post wella b4 commenting. I thnk d op makes it clear dt he marries "for the love of family" and 2ndly, u ddnt marry her 4 who she is but who she pretends to be. Tell me, will you have married her if u knw she cnt conceive? Social media is full of fake pple. 2 Likes |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by chuks34(m): 5:14pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
ikp120:E dey easy to type sha 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by chuks34(m): 5:15pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
roeb1987:u go shit for Bush? |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by Nobody: 5:16pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
divorce. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by ikp120(m): 5:17pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
morkaz: Yes I will! Take it or get lost! Because someone doesn't reason the way you do doesn't make them fake. Make you dey reason wella before you quote someone. #MyChoice #MyLife #NotYourBusiness |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by Nobody: 5:18pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
Alphamale2017: Ain't saying its impossible dear brother buh its gonna be a lil bit tough. Whah am simply trying to point out izz " 80% of those who said they can do it might not be able todo it once it happened " |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by Alphamale2017(m): 5:23pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
Tuham: yea very true . it also depends on the kind of wife they marry sha 1 Like |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by ikp120(m): 5:26pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
chuks34: That's how I live my life everyday. I rate everyone based who they are, not who they were. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by Caseless: 5:27pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
ikp120:lover man, nawa! |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by chuks34(m): 5:30pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
ikp120:Ok. But not wen dey are pretending to be who u think they are. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by YemyTemmy: 5:36pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
ikp120: you must be kidding shey? you better be serious and pray you dont come near such...even those who have delay sef dey hear whien, let alone living with the condition that child bearing can never happen....................its easier said than experienced #maythatnotbeyourportion |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by EzeeYFB(m): 5:45pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
yomi007k:lol I go buy Nairaland and change all the mods n put u as head of Mods on Nairaland Hw u take see am? |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by ikp120(m): 5:48pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
chuks34:People change but their pasts never change. The past is a painting that CAN NEVER be altered. So you want them to continue living the bad life even after turning a new leaf (so that it won't be like they're pretending)? That's awkward mehn! They're not pretending. It's a dirty past that NO ONE, not even you, will be proud of. It's a scar that's gonna stay with them all through their lives. So what da fvck do you expect them to do? Commit suicide and leave this world for "holy" people like you? They CANNOT comfortably let out their past because of the hypocritical, "holy" and self righteous nature of most folks. A good example of such gross hypocrisy is right here on this thread. Just read the comments and you'll understand. Imagine a fraudster or an ex fraudster will still be throwing stones at her, even though he himself no go fit tell the world that he defrauded Mary in New York, Victoria in Australia, and 20 other babes on dating site. That one na hustler ba? Mtcheww Abeg leave matter for Matthias! No body holy pass. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by ikp120(m): 6:00pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
YemyTemmy:Bro e get some things wey no dey even cross my mind at all because they're dead on arrival. Eg. "What if this girl no sabi cook?"- Very simple, we go hire maid or I teach her how to cook "What if she no sabi fvck well?"- Very easy; we go watch porn and use better "viagra" "What if she no get womb again?"- Better sef; I go fvck her carelessly without worry about family planning. Then adopt at least 2 children. Shikina "What if she don start to dey fat?"- Wetin people dey go do for gym ni? Na akara dem dey go chop there? There're only two real problem I CAN EVER have with my wife. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by chuks34(m): 6:39pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
ikp120:OK o but believe me I did not read the above too long for a quote |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by wale0911: 6:44pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
Is marriage only about procreation? |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by Nobody: 7:04pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
ikp120: Easier said than Done |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by Nobody: 7:08pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
lemme come and be going |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by ikp120(m): 7:18pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
JPENG:The opposite is the case with me; It's easier done than said. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by baba4thegehs: 7:18pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
ikp120: Fucck go tire you one day. Its just like using temporary amusement to ease a lifetime pain which will definitely not last |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by ikp120(m): 7:22pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
baba4thegehs:Pain ke? The thing no go pain me at all. There are motherless babies everywhere na. Haba! |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by baba4thegehs: 7:26pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
We can only give our own personal intuition based on our perception of life at the moment which will not be entirely satisfactory. But when faced with this disturbing predicament in real time every one will react differently which will be subject on our accumulated perception and how deeply and satisfying your relationship is with your spouse is at that moment. So generally our belief systems and perception of life will determine how we approach such life threatening issues. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by baba4thegehs: 7:55pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
ikp120: You're looking at it from a man like point of view, the major reason she got married to you is to procreate with you and that goal seems defeated ESP when the problem is from her side. She begins to scramble around for solutions even when you the husband understands and not creating pressure on her. Every woman wants her own baby. I'm not talking of ladies that aren't married. But once you decided to settle and start a family of course you start thinking of making children. Go to Redeem and MFM and you'll understand. Makke God no let us experience this kind predicament. |
Re: In All Sincerity, What Will You Do If You Find Yourself In This Situation?. by ilevic(m): 7:59pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
marriage is a black market. |
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