doyinbaby:
your moniker (peniscap) disqualified you.......

Hmmm how?.. my monika is not waht u think dear.. except u hav dirty mind

PenisCaP:



Hmmm how?.. my monika is not waht u think dear.. except u hav dirty mind

by their fruits you shall know them

I'm 90% sure that I'm going to marry from another. My generations came from the same local government, and I don't like the idea, so I'm just going out of my tribe to marry. My mum doesn't care who I marry so far she is beautiful and of good character.

doyinbaby:
by their fruits you shall know them

Exactly.. thats why u spit hatred!.
"By their fruits u shall know them" indeed

PenisCaP:


Exactly.. thats why u spit hatred!.
"By their fruits u shall know them" indeed

if you have accepted the Lordship of Jesus Christ you will not use this moniker

Very desirable but not easy.


You will have to work harder to make it work. Especially if one or both party's parents are against it.

Should things go awry, you will have to bear a lot of poo in silence. Just to avoid "I told you so" from the anti/suspicious side.

I have noticed the poo the majority of female relatives who married into other tribes have had to put up with. They went into these marriages with much naivety and enthusiasm, brushing aside concerns raised by some people. Their usual position was "people within our tribe do these things too".

They have put up with worse things they initially said they wanted to avoid within tribe. Such as the hubby impregnating other women, hubby secretly using joint property deeds to secure loans without wife knowing, reckless behaviour of covering corruption of a female colleague at work and getting fired from a very lucrative job without benefits/pay off, making wife sole provider for family, secretly taking unsecured loans that wife has to be paying back all over the place later, etc.

Those guys did just about every stupid thing possible and even surpassed the fears of some family members.

About half got divorced but the rest soldiered on, albeit not happily most times. Very unfortunate.

Going into inter-ethnic marriage, please go in with a VERY thick skin. The odds may already be against you ab initio.

I suppose if it works, it can be very sweet. Like the lovely ladies from other tribes married into our family.

Of course they might have worked hard to endear themselves in the beginning. Once they proved their loyalty, it has been all love.

Most have blended in so well that they are not distinguishable from natural born daughters of the family.

A lot of Africans are tribalist. This is the issue.

If you have a girl/guy that is from another tribe and immediate family accepted you, it doesn't end there unless you will prefer to keep your family outreach very small.

Friends of your bae, friends of your in-law, your extends family and that of your in-law... Are they inline? If not, you are running a risk of broken marriage. People can easily be influenced negatively. If there is a little mishap, the outside immediately relates it to the tribe. And like that it's you vs some stupid myths, superstitions and assumptions.

doyinbaby:
if you have accepted the Lordship of Jesus Christ you will not use this moniker

I dnt know why u find monika offensive.
I hav told u its not what u think.

I can still answer tbjoshua here but make worsts comments cnt u underatand its not abt monika? .
The monika is not what u think

Hmmm.
it is easier said than done....

PenisCaP:


I dnt know why u find monika offensive.
I hav told u its not what u think.

I can still answer tbjoshua here but make worsts comments cnt u underatand its not abt monika? .
The monika is not what u think

alright.....have a blessed day....good night

1Rebel:
In all honesty, I do not see myself marrying from another tribe. I would want my kids to have pure Igbo genes. Mixing their genes with some other dirty oily cowardly genes just doesn't seem right.

Besides, Igbo girls got it all; beauty, brains and everything else.


**Yes I'm a proud tribalist, deal with it.

mtschww Abeg take a seat, Ibo girls wey na dem full olosho business.

Fresia01:
I'm Igbo dating a Yoruba guy.. .i love him BUh I'm still scared.. ...

You should be. But it looks like you're from Imo state...ala wu otu.

1Rebel:
In all honesty, I do not see myself marrying from another tribe. I would want my kids to have pure Igbo genes. Mixing their genes with some other dirty oily cowardly genes just doesn't seem right.

Besides, Igbo girls got it all; beauty, brains and everything else.


**Yes I'm a proud tribalist, deal with it.

Nwoke
You are crazy

Imagine having somebody like 1Rebel or Kellibae as an in-law or family friend, the marriage is doomed.

If small minded people like these do not exist on both side of the family, everything is cool. But if there is at least, hmm....

doyinbaby:
alright.....have a blessed day....good night

N u too. Take care

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steppin:

You should be. But it looks like you're from Imo state...ala wu otu.

Abia state

Kellibae:

Its more rampant in yoruba land both men and women

Igbo men cheat a lot too, it's not about tribe.
All those married men in owerri hotels as we speak are what? Herdsmen?

CaptainKool15:

Which comment u quote sef?

obikirinoni:


I met a girl on nairaland, she works in Ibadan with a telecommunications company, I work in Lagos with an international organization.

I liked her despite her tribe, when she heard my tribe, she said hell noooooooooooooo.

That was the end of the fairytale.

I don't even bother myself. It's always a probability. Most of the ladies believe you're never gonna marry them, so why waste their time on you?

Exactly! I'm Yoruba. The thought of having an Igbo partner, for example, is disgusting. I wouldn't want to marry a man that would be taking me and the kids to the village every easter. It'd be really irritating hearing him speak his akunakuna language with his folks.

1Rebel:
In all honesty, I do not see myself marrying from another tribe. I would want my kids to have pure Igbo genes. Mixing their genes with some other dirty oily cowardly genes just doesn't seem right.

Besides, Igbo girls got it all; beauty, brains and everything else.


**Yes I'm a proud tribalist, deal with it.

AreaFada2:
Very desirable but not easy.

You will have to work harder to make it work. Especially if one or both party's parents are against it.

Should things go awry, you will have to bear a lot of poo in silence. Just to avoid "I told you so" from the anti/suspicious side.

I have noticed the poo the majority of female relatives who married into other tribes have had to put up with. They went into these marriages with much naivety and enthusiasm, brushing aside concerns raised by some people. Their usual position was "people withing our tribe do these things too".

They have put up with worse things they initially said they wanted to avoid within tribe. Such as the hubby impregnating other women, hubby secretly using joint property deeds to secure loans without wife knowing, reckless behaviour of covering corruption of a female colleague at work and getting fired from a very lucrative job without benefits/pay off, making wife sole provider for family, secretly taking unsecured loans that wife has to be paying back all over the place later, etc.

Those guys did just about every stupid thing possible and even surpassed the fears of some family members.

About half got divorced but the rest soldiered on, albeit not happily most times. Very unfortunate.

Going into inter-ethnic marriage, please go in with a VERY thick skin. The odds may already be against you ab initio.

I suppose if it works, it can be very sweet. Like the lovely ladies from other tribes married into our family.

Of course they might have worked hard to endear themselves in the beginning. Once they proved their loyalty, it has been all love.

Most have blended in so well that they are not distinguishable from natural born daughters of the family.

Are you trying to say that if they had married within their own ethnic group, they would not have met people with such dubious traits? Guy, free your mind. The good, bad & ugly exist in every single tribe, in every district and on every single street. Wake up and smell the coffee.

I know a couple who had an inter-ethnic marriage, and are still going strong after 37 years! They are already grand-parents, and their home has always been an example of harmony, peace and well-being. And there are many others, like them. I also know a couple who hailed from the same local govt area, but different villages. Their marriage lasted only 8 months, despite the fact that both families speak the same language and were all in support of the union right from the start! If you look hard enough, you would also notice couples from the same ethnic background whose marriages did not work out, too. So free your mind.

Ugosample:

Igbo men cheat a lot too, it's not about tribe.

All those married men in owerri hotels as we speak are what? Herdsmen?

Which married men in owerri hotel?

Ugosample:
Igbo men cheat a lot too, it's not about tribe.

All those married men in owerri hotels as we speak are what? Herdsmen?

Na true word you talk! But most of them do not like hearing the truth...

Nazeren:
Exactly! I'm Yoruba. The thought of having an Igbo partner, for example, is disgusting. I wouldn't want to marry a man that would be taking me and the kids to the village every easter. It'd be really irritating hearing him speak his akunakuna language with his folks.

Notice how he refrained from mentioning any tribe? But guilty conscience no gree you. You know your people are dirty and oily. chai

StraightSetter:
Imagine having somebody like 1Rebel or Kellibae as an in-law or family friend, the marriage is doomed.

If small minded people like these do not exist on both side of the family, everything is cool. But if there is at least, hmm....

Whateva u like say.. but first of all go and correct ur igbophobia attitude.. is it a new thing that your parents tell u bad things not to marry igbo especially ur women!?

So why are u complaining now?

AreaFada2:
Very desirable but not easy.


You will have to work harder to make it work. Especially if one or both party's parents are against it.

Should things go awry, you will have to bear a lot of poo in silence. Just to avoid "I told you so" from the anti/suspicious side.

I have noticed the poo the majority of female relatives who married into other tribes have had to put up with. They went into these marriages with much naivety and enthusiasm, brushing aside concerns raised by some people. Their usual position was "people withing our tribe do these things too".

They have put up with worse things they initially said they wanted to avoid within tribe. Such as the hubby impregnating other women, hubby secretly using joint property deeds to secure loans without wife knowing, reckless behaviour of covering corruption of a female colleague at work and getting fired from a very lucrative job without benefits/pay off, making wife sole provider for family, secretly taking unsecured loans that wife has to be paying back all over the place later, etc.

Those guys did just about every stupid thing possible and even surpassed the fears of some family members.

About half got divorced but the rest soldiered on, albeit not happily most times. Very unfortunate.

Going into inter-ethnic marriage, please go in with a VERY thick skin. The odds may already be against you ab initio.

I suppose if it works, it can be very sweet. Like the lovely ladies from other tribes married into our family.

Of course they might have worked hard to endear themselves in the beginning. Once they proved their loyalty, it has been all love.

Most have blended in so well that they are not distinguishable from natural born daughters of the family.

Things go South even when you marry from same tribe. Shit don't matter,what matters is strong personality and good character. It's crazy we even think about these things,if it's difficult marrying your fellow countryman or woman then we are in deep trouble in this country.

Fresia01:

Abia state

Same thing. Your people and imolites marry from any tribe. If the man's parents are not Muslims, you don't have anything to worry about.
Like someone said earlier, be ready to deal with whatever comes later from the man.

jiinxed:


Notice how he refrained from mentioning any tribe? But guilty conscience no gree you. You know your people are dirty and oily. chai

Lol neva knew u noticed that too

Kellibae:


Which married men in owerri hotel?

Go to Owerri and see for yourself.

Kellibae:

Which married men in owerri hotel?

You will not understand
I be Nwafot dia, I know as e dey go