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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by RealHaute: 11:32pm On May 01, 2017
pocohantas:
@point1...Learn to say no ke?
The urge to insert prick dey make them mumu steady cheesy.
That's why I like my guy, correct guy...im no dey think with prick and he is a Nairalander. Dude just change my mindset sha kiss

By the way I show weakness to fellow women, very few men get my sympathy. I rather fling 100 men into River Nile than fling 1 sister. Nobody should quote me o.


Chai! You've turned into a bad gyal. BTW... you're lying about your guy since we already discussed the spine. I know what you need.
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by jonero4(m): 12:06am On May 02, 2017
One man's food is another man poison
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Mimienudles(f): 1:10am On May 02, 2017
boiz2men:
op

1. sex = > i am sapiosexual... girls with no brains are a turn off.. no matter how pretty u are... if u like nakked, u dont turn me on and if you think u have a power over me cos u have a vaginaa and boobs... i just make u see a photocopy of my license hanging in my house. doctors not only see too many vaginnas, they also use their hands to examine them... lol

2. Being the one to ask her out => i would ask her out if and only if shes smart and if she tries any of those feminine gimmicks on me... i simply bow out.. no time to be waste.. patients are dying in the hospital and one girl is feeling larger than life....

3. Showing weakness on purpose: many girls have often said im not a gentleman lol... the thing don tire me self..... a girl can be carrying a heavy load and i may not help her depending on my mood tho. i dont impress people.. guy or girl.. u like me, u like me, u hate me, u hate me.. chikena.


4. Crying over an issue: lol.. theres this babe in my workplace who has repeatedly cried into my ears that she need a place to stay... she must be thinking i would be weak enough (becos she fine die and guys dey always wan talk to am) to tell her to come stay in one of the rooms at my place or the BQ. on tuesday, when we resume again.. she go still cry kon tell me say she sleep for under bridge.. i will tell her what i have always told her.


5. Stirring jealousy: ok, i give up... any intellectually sound girl (that i like) who does this to me is killing me... i cant take it.. im defenseless against jealousy but only for a while, i would get over it. i always do.

6. Petting and flattery: nah.. petting names dont get me.. but theres this girl who calls me MUMU RAT... my dear, this thing dey burst my head oo.. another one calls me BIG HEAD... d thg dey sweet me somehow...

7. Playing the guilt card: ALthough, i am quick to say sorry if when im wrong or not (guys and babes alike)... But it doesnt make you boss, i just dont like too much talk.. if i dont wanna say sorry... i walk away..





















ehen.. so na cos of that guy u dey do gra gra anyhow..... cry


@green you on heels, watch ya step, so u dont fall.. not gonna be funny if u do




I really don't know what to think about you angry
I think... in fact ehn, Iduno what to say lipsrsealed

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by ideology(m): 4:42am On May 02, 2017
I know all these things, I just pity guys who dont know ...

I know what I want in a lady, immediately I see a girl I can tell which category she belongs.

I dont do trial and error neither do have I time to waste.

The highest thing between me and some ladies will always be ...

hi! hello! Good morning! Good day! Good evening! Good nite! cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy







Odunharry:

Lol... Ladies.

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by ideology(m): 4:46am On May 02, 2017
I know all these things, I just pity guys who dont know ...

I know what I want in a lady, immediately I see a girl I can tell which category she belongs.

I dont do trial and error neither do have I time to waste.

The highest thing between me and some ladies will always be ...

hi! hello! Good morning! Good day! Good evening! Good nite! cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy







Odunharry:

Lol... Ladies.

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Nobody: 6:12am On May 02, 2017
importexpert:
Guys, am I making sense here?

No.

You're manufacturing brain....in thousands

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Nobody: 6:16am On May 02, 2017
The no. 7 in you has gone full MOAB hun. Your comment lays it bare.
Your profile picture says it all about number 1. I wonder how many pms you've received to date for that. I'd like to see the stats if you don't mind.



Caricature:
Some of you who write these lists or ways have never seen the underwear of a woman ...
This one is very easy dear. One can get two for a penny on the relationship parallel market.



Caricature:
Some of you who write these lists or ways have never seen the underwear of a woman much less talk about a relationship with one.
Relationship comes first, then, seeing the underwear. Try to get the order right next time.



Caricature:
All these list of THIS and twenty ways of THAT, are just plain silly
Let's face it. You're just pained the OP is unmasking your moves. But don't worry, I know you still got a lot of cards to play. Perhaps someday I'll lay out some.
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Nobody: 6:22am On May 02, 2017
Luvdk:
They always die to hv it cry
When you finally giv it to them,they wud not even last up 5 minutes.. cry
Op all those stuff u listed above r the primary ones wink

Please add the secondary ones for us too. cheesy
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by xrenzy(m): 6:32am On May 02, 2017
funmisticqueen:
please let them form expert, we will sip malt and laugh cos they have no idea
chei same thing EVE did to ADAM is happening again

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Paruz1015(m): 6:34am On May 02, 2017
chiraqDemon:


True, they will still expect u to provide for the both of you and after everything all they will give is sex. Some cant even cook ur favourite meal or any meal for that matter.
Is it the sex that i cannot buy vaseline and relieve myself before going to sleep?
Just for hole o

Lol
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by harffie(m): 6:36am On May 02, 2017
Caricature:
All these list of THIS and twenty ways of THAT, are just plain silly. Some of you who write these lists or ways have never seen the underwear of a woman much less talk about a relationship with one.

Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by donodion(m): 6:38am On May 02, 2017
importexpert:
This is specially a guys’ thread. If you believe the crap that women are the weaker sex, then you can believe that yam grows on trees. They may be weaker in terms of bodily strength, but that is all about being weak. Can we just face the truth? While a lot of guys claim to be in charge in the relationship, their woman is actually the boss but they don’t just know it. A wise man once said that: while the man is the head of the family the woman is the neck that turns the head

Right from childhood, have you not observed that compared to the boy child, it is an easy thing for a female child to request something from her dad and get it? And the mother is always pissed off by it. Why? The mother knows that even her own daughter can play her very wise dad.

Today, many guys are actually the women in the relationship but they are too blind to see it. I’ve put together in summary, seven ways women use men that most men do not realize.

1. Sexx: This has to top the list. I remember back then in school, a course mate was telling me how she got her Samsung tab. She said after going out a few times with the man, he took her to a plaza and got her a tab for almost 100k. She then proudly indicated when she got the tab, she decided to sleep with him. You get the drift? She rewarded the man with sexx. And this remains the most powerful weapon today. Women (even in marriages) have painted intimacy as what a man has to earn. So, you will see the average guy running pillar to post just to get into a girl’s pants. Yet, it is the same act that they will both enjoy! If you as a man do not learn to turn down the advances of a woman from time to time, you will still remain under her power. There is something about a man who refused to be manipulated into sexx. The woman will immediately see him as a conquest she must win. Guys, learn to say “no” too. You won’t die!

2. Being the one to ask her out: It is like a tradition, especially in Africa that a man should ask a woman out. Have you observed that once a man says he wants a relationship with a woman, she suddenly gains an influence over him? Well, there is little that can be done here. However, some guys have found their way around it. How? They simply ensure that she is way into them too that she starts to show not just green light, but all the colors of the rainbow. Guys who do not understand this are those still committed to chasing a woman for weeks stretching into months. Or better still, quit begging a woman for a relationship. They often have more to gain than give in the relationship anyway.

3. Showing weakness on purpose: There is an effect on a man that comes when a woman shows him her weakness. Once she shows her seeming inability to do something, what naturally comes to your mind as a guy? To help her out, isn’t it? For instance, if she was in the sun trying to get a taxi, you may feel inclined to offer her a ride. But have you ever done that for a guy? Okay, let’s rephrase the question: have you even ever shown concern to a guy in such a situation? Of course not! But what does the society call such preferential acts? Being a gentleman. This is the reason why some guys will buy a lady a phone of 70k while their brother is using torchlight. And women have discovered this! Have you seen a woman showing her weakness to her fellow woman? Hardly! But she shows it to a guy. Why? Because she knows he will start to feel like it is his responsibility to do something about it.

4. Crying over an issue: Does this need much explanation? She knows that if you truly love her, you can’t bear to see her cry. So, when logic and all forms of persuasion prove abortive, this is the last bet. And for most guys, when they see the tears, their reasoning just goes to sleep. The point is, most of these tears are not genuine. She is simply using a weapon in her armory to achieve her goal.

5. Stirring jealousy: She may not be getting attention from you or she wants you to take notice of her. To get quick attention from you, she decides to flirt with other guys in your presence. The aim is to get you jealous, put you on your toes and make you run to her. Most women believe flirting with other guys will make their men see them as valuable and desirable by others. You may get angry for a while (yes, they know), but eventually, your girl probably knows you will start working yourself hard to keep her.

6. Petting and flattery: This is one of the most rampant, even online. This is what makes a guy to pounce on his fellow guy online simply because a female referred to him as “baby”. Seriously, guys need to grow past this! The craze to hear sweet things from a woman has made many go to surprising lengths. Beware when she suddenly is all nice to you. Beware when she flatters you. You have no idea what is about to hit you. If you do, you probably won’t be smiling sheepishly.

7. Playing the guilt card: This is reverse psychology. What happens here is that she will blame you for something to get you to try defending yourself and then getting you to do what she blamed you about. Let’s say she accused you of not loving her as a reason why you did not get her an ipad. What is the motive? To get you to explain that you love her and promise to get her an ipad in the end. You know the implication? She just stripped you of the right to complain that you will not buy her the phone. Or else, you risk proving that you don’t love her. My best advice to guys in this situation: do nothing, say nothing. Just let the accusation hang and be quiet. if must say something, tell her that she do not value the relationship that is why she weigh the level of love using material things.
Remember, this strategy is always a trap.

Women can easily spot when a fellow woman like them is using a guy’s head. Guys need to learn all these manipulations and know to come off it.
Guys, am I making sense here?


Your score point is 100% pass mark.

Not one point is out of line. Perfect and true in every aspect. Well done!.

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by explura: 7:01am On May 02, 2017
This is revealing.. As a woman, i think it's inherent in a high number of women to manipulate.. I'll confess, I too, am guilty.. We take advantage of the vulnerability of most men in accepting the 'women is the weaker sex' theory... and do what we really want to do without leaving any trail for suspicion.. Though dear poster, I'm glad you've not unearthed most of our secrets, biko next time, you could keep your thoughts on your discovery about women to yourself, and stop adding acid to our garri..

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Laveda(f): 7:03am On May 02, 2017
Sometimes I don't call him all that sweet names grin

I just call him a big head.. Sexier seff

But these points tho, some girls do it genuinely
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by GodblessNig247(m): 7:06am On May 02, 2017
Caricature:
All these list of THIS and twenty ways of THAT, are just plain silly. Some of you who write these lists or ways have never seen the underwear of a woman much less talk about a relationship with one.

grin u look good

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by oshaosha2014(m): 7:10am On May 02, 2017
Seeing dirty underwears is some kind of achievement? I guess?
Caricature:
All these list of THIS and twenty ways of THAT, are just plain silly. Some of you who write these lists or ways have never seen the underwear of a woman much less talk about a relationship with one.
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by oshaosha2014(m): 7:20am On May 02, 2017
You are right.
MissCuppy:
Its not every guy that would want to have sex anyhow.

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Nobody: 7:54am On May 02, 2017
It's not working with me again. I'm taking it all and doing the sharing like I know what I'm doing. Eat me
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by plainmirror(m): 10:03am On May 02, 2017
Oyind17:
I like you, my kinda person. Truthsayergrin

She is not a "truth-sayer"


You are a Butt-licker

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by boiz2men(m): 10:06am On May 02, 2017
Mimienudles:
I really don't know what to think about you angry
I think... in fact ehn, Iduno what to say lipsrsealed

nor b only u... babes around me are confused too... they dont just understand how and why i ignore them...... i dont too... maybe cos i treat all equally.. babes and guys alike.. rich and poor alike
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Rexnegro(m): 10:40am On May 02, 2017
Paruz1015:
Sure op making sense
Nice write-up

Most girls this days the only thing they can offer is SEX and after that they become a burden to you with nothing to offer after spending precious time chasing them.

SEX is their weapon and our Weak point
SeX is their bargaining chip
You no lie Brother..then most of them are brain dead, boring, You get to wonder how most of them reason awkwardly...very annoying creatures.

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Caricature(f): 11:58am On May 02, 2017
Damfostopper:
when with 500 naira... Yu can lay biitches.... stop thinking from ur clitoris..
500naira for which girl? Orange seller?
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Caricature(f): 12:01pm On May 02, 2017
oshaosha2014:
Seeing dirty underwears is some kind of achievement? I guess?
Coming from guys that don't wash their boxers for several days. tongue.
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Caricature(f): 12:06pm On May 02, 2017
thowbie7ven:
How much will seeing a woman's underwear add to my bank account?...of what use is a woman's underwear?...mtchewww!!!...una too dey priortize these una punny too much!...punny wey don turn 1kobo....
Please show me 1kobo if you have it.

Seems you are struggling to hiss because it's not a guy thing. Here, let me show you how to do it........mstcheeeeeew!!! cheesy
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Caricature(f): 12:08pm On May 02, 2017
olagunjumariah:
your underwear wey u never wash for three days? ayama!!
but if we open you will still close your nose and enter.

In fact you will be begging.....babe please na, let me only insert the tip na...... tongue

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Caricature(f): 12:10pm On May 02, 2017
GodblessNig247:


grin u look good
Thanks kiss
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Nobody: 12:31pm On May 02, 2017
plainmirror:


She is not a "truth-sayer"


You are a Butt-licker
Anuofia
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Justdare: 3:25pm On May 02, 2017
Caricature:
but if we open you will still close your nose and enter.

In fact you will be begging.....babe please na, let me only insert the tip na...... tongue

smiley smiley
More like......... Just once

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Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by Rank50: 7:06pm On May 02, 2017
OP ur kinda correct buh all of that stuff is dependent on how much u like the bani.. If i no like u sorry u don jam tipper!
& btw give guys some credit we can use & discard scatter. Is that one not manipulation
Re: 7 Common Ways Women Use To Manipulate Men by NNAMDICE: 11:33pm On May 03, 2017
pocohantas:
@point1...Learn to say no ke?
The urge to insert prick dey make them mumu steady cheesy.
That's why I like my guy, correct guy...im no dey think with prick and he is a Nairalander. Dude just change my mindset sha kiss

By the way I show weakness to fellow women, very few men get my sympathy. I rather fling 100 men into River Nile than fling 1 sister. Nobody should quote me o.

obviously a lesbian

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