'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains - Romance (2)

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by MVLOX(m): 10:45pm On May 06, 2017

Hmmm I see

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by ednut1(m): 10:47pm On May 06, 2017

Yawns

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by smartkester(m): 10:50pm On May 06, 2017

your dp says it all good girl indeed.. Anyways can we straff anytime soon

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Onechancearmy(m): 10:51pm On May 06, 2017

Don't fret yourself. Your "religion" allows multiple choice so you'll soon be one out of four.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by maestroz: 10:51pm On May 06, 2017

Anthony Joshua will pocket a whopping sum of £15 million (N8.2 billion) for beating Klitschko, yet Yoruba elders will say "ija o dola" (fight does not give wealth).
#Shoro niyen? (that one na talk)...abeg who wan fight me...make we arrange

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by smartkester(m): 10:52pm On May 06, 2017

lemme see your pishure first before i tell you weda they need your attension or not

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by SalamRushdie: 10:52pm On May 06, 2017

Take it D from me This is nonsense

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Ipfreely: 10:53pm On May 06, 2017

I think you mean 'Trash'.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by kingPhidel(m): 10:53pm On May 06, 2017

Na alter call?

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nickymezor(f): 10:53pm On May 06, 2017*

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by M2dX(m): 10:55pm On May 06, 2017

pls, forget all this trash, all I know was Good is Good and bad is bad..

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by madridsta007(m): 10:55pm On May 06, 2017*

Let the girl run around and play hard to get and either two things happens.

1. If the dude is a responsible dude, he looses interest and chases other serious things. Work deadlines, business interest, travel interest or, what's common, a new boo (I fall into this category here). A lady I recently asked out told me, "please give me some weeks to get back to you..." That was the end for me. She actually got back to me, weeks later, and I was deep into some new work project. She pleaded, I told her what was honest and blunt: I wasn't keen any longer.

2. The guy does all he can, gets the girl, sleep with her and dump her in annoyance.

I don't know where advice as this (playing hard to get) comes from.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Handsomecole(m): 10:55pm On May 06, 2017

You are Aunty "A"

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by eternalcity(m): 10:56pm On May 06, 2017

Aunty B wasn't a good girl Na. She is indeed foolish. You don't do chores for a guy you aren't married to no matter what. If he wants to know if you are a good homemaker, he should come and see you take care of your father's house.

Once you begin to give tangible things to a guy who has only made an intangible promise to you, then you are on a highway to a sad ending.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 10:57pm On May 06, 2017

Those of us that knew this tactic a long time ago high five wink

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by FreeSpirited: 10:57pm On May 06, 2017*

If I get your point at all, so all ladies should be a wh.ore like Aunty A?......how senseless

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Dopeluiz(m): 10:58pm On May 06, 2017

dis is rubbish. what guy would marry anty A who everyone knows is a runz babe instead of anty B who is always there?? she is talking marriage here, not mere dating. If we check am well sef she wey dey give advice no get bf

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 10:58pm On May 06, 2017*

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by olabrad: 10:59pm On May 06, 2017

When I look at your dp, it is clear you are only looking for a maga.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Jasy(m): 11:00pm On May 06, 2017

Don't forget that not all aunty A's finally make it in life, some get kidnapped and used for money rituals, some are abused without a second thought because all they want is the money, some got bathed with acid or shot dead by rich guy/man's wife or gf to claim territory, many die in accidents from incessant travels, many are raped by irresponsible rich dudes, some get infected with STD's cos dey can't say no to unprotected sex when rich ppl demand it, others get their wombs damaged from multiple abortions and so on. Fact is, aunty A's don't always tell u all dey encountered in their line of duty, girls be wise biko

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 11:01pm On May 06, 2017

The only thing I can contribute is to encourage women to reach out to men about HOW TO GET MARRIED.

Many men know little or even afraid of this topic. Because we are rarely taught at home. Simple

For example, do you know that your boyfriend does not know how much a wedding hall costs. He does not even have a sketch of what a wedding ceremony involves. How is he going to get married soon?

Put him in perspective and you will see him hurrying up

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 11:02pm On May 06, 2017

There is no one formula when it comes to these things. The only thing I will sort of agree with is the one about availability. Some women are just over available. They are more available than grains of sand on a beach.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Goldenheart(m): 11:03pm On May 06, 2017

Winky winky

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Humility017(m): 11:05pm On May 06, 2017

I think the Lady wrote this out of frustration.... she should be watched closely and encouraged... be it in relationship or friendship be yourself

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by isaiahethan: 11:06pm On May 06, 2017

Contact me via email

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by baddosky1: 11:08pm On May 06, 2017

Those men that come running to you are woozies. Guys like me have zero tolerance for shit. If you give me little attention, i turn you to trash and leave you for LAWMA and jump to the next babe...NO TIME!

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by coolviv: 11:10pm On May 06, 2017

The problem is ladies make the fatal mistake of carrying the faithfulness of marriage into boyfriend /girlfriend relationships.
Reminds me of a story of a guy who had this girlfriend. They had been dating for 4 years and as na woman time dey waste, d girl kept asking his plans. He would be nonchalant, or quarel and fight with d girl. Then the girl stopped asking. He felt cool with himself that he has tamed her instead of seeing this as a danger signal.
Long story short...he accidentally found out from a mutual friend that she was getting married to some guy.
The wailing of d guy was so terrible and he reported her to all who would listen and though they tried to console him, not one person blamed d girl.

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 11:11pm On May 06, 2017

Now, aunty B certainly shouldn't make herself more absent, but instead, she should become the freak that her man desire, without bringing BS excuses (in the bedroom) when he wants to do all the dirty sexual stuff that is in his mind. Anyone who don't want to abide, will just open the door to their union to all the aunty A out there, who will gladly satisfy your man. If you want a man by your side, then become the freak that he desires!
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So you are saying its okay to satisfy him sexually even when the union is not legal

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Heffalump(m): 11:11pm On May 06, 2017

Aunty "A" is Tonto Dike and Aunty "B" is Mercy Johnson, period!
grin

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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Bowwow11(m): 11:12pm On May 06, 2017

this is serious o ladies now revalidating new ideas to make their men to be committed to them

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