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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by syrex24(m): 2:51pm On May 11, 2017
Oh my goodness!!! You must be a joker.Its your duty as a gf to cook for your bf i dont see anything wrong with that.If you truly lovehim bring him back please edakun
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by GoodFaith: 2:51pm On May 11, 2017
Heavance:
Hmmm, you seem to see the guy as an okay person, probably the way he sounded about you cooking turned you off entirely, at times guys can be authoritative without knowing they are, mostly when around their friends.
Should have just gone on more dates, he could turn out nicer than you thought.

The dude shouldn't take her out on a second date because she has a Bleep up attitude
Her dumb ass should have informed the dude this is their first date
A village girl said is not her responsibility to cook
she will remember the dude is five year after she can't find a man
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by sisisioge: 2:51pm On May 11, 2017
He shouldn't have asked that of her on their first date. As time goes by, she would definitely want to feed him by cooking for him nau... Egocentric male!

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by JOBA3(m): 2:51pm On May 11, 2017
Who you ebb? Ferminism is not madness. Because a guy ask you to cook on your first date, you feel you are too cheap to comply. This the simple reason why many ladies remain singles in their 40s. I pity this generation. If women should decide when to cook because cooking is not just their responsibility, then Christianity, Islam, and our traditions remain death for ferminism. Nonesense!!!!!!!
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Basseybruce: 2:52pm On May 11, 2017
Revolva:
that lady is an idoit n a big problem in d future nonsense
...... Bro, pls take it easy, e pain me pass u sef.

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by PrickGetSize(m): 2:52pm On May 11, 2017
It is very wrong to ask a girl to cook for you on first date. As a gentleman, you're supposed to be one to cook for her if you can. Treat her like a queen and make her feel at home. But don't forget to fvck her; there's no rule against that.

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Kakamorufu(m): 2:53pm On May 11, 2017
T3Amo:
I would have dumped him too. The guy is very wrong on the first date inviting her over so that she can cook for him and his friends and justifying it because she is a woman. His manner and approach was very wrong.
This would turn most women off.

Imagine if the girl on the first date invited the guy to her house and started demanding that he buy groceries and do shopping for her because after all he is a man and it's his duty to provide? A lot of men here would be calling her all sorts of names. Hypocrites.

buh it's right to collect money on the first date
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by mosez346(m): 2:53pm On May 11, 2017
Ole alapa ma sise

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by wristbangle: 2:54pm On May 11, 2017
The guy is wrong albeit it's his first date with her. I can only defend him if the lady stance is adamant about not cooking for him if they are dating already.

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by CoCoLav(f): 2:55pm On May 11, 2017
pocohantas:

Babe she for no chop joor.
These guys think the world revolves around their manhood o...imagine say she for cook for "prospective boyfriend"?

Oshey! Awon prospective boyfriend crew! grin
Title dey for this Nigeria. We gats hustle to colonise one manhood...

LOL!!!!!

There are two angles to it. If she was proud, she will not eat the food. But if anger surpasses the pride, babe, I am eating that food.

I have come to learn that a guy that will treasure you will treasure you, you dont need to bend over backwards to make someone like/love you.

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by pocohantas(f): 2:55pm On May 11, 2017
PrickGetSize:
It is very wrong to ask a girl to cook for you on first date. As a gentleman, you're supposed to be one to cook for her if you can. Treat her like a queen and make her feel at home. But don't forget to fvck her; there's no rule against that.
Fu<k wetin?
Me no dey carry me vagina commot house on such a day sef.

I agree with the rest...
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Noble855: 2:55pm On May 11, 2017
The man is very wrong for instructing you to cook in your first visit. You're a visitor that very day. You may cook for him as times goes on but not that very day

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Basseybruce: 2:56pm On May 11, 2017
Look @ her mouth............ Edaaaaaaa, yahngjgtmdpatmgtj, saying gibberish, NA**TY FEMINIST!
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by brightnelly(f): 2:56pm On May 11, 2017
As you UGLY reach undecided undecided
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by bareal(m): 2:56pm On May 11, 2017
rumenase:



Source: http://crazyanne.com/dumped-my-boyfriend/

Come back here and tell us when you dump a potential husband ...then, i can send you a hot slap to reboot your medulla.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 2:56pm On May 11, 2017
ericsmith:


see hw myopic yu ladies reason,, hw does cookin fr a prospective bf ,,lower ur value,, asking her to cook fr him n is friends was jus way of showing off,, guys wil alway show off any gurl they ar in luv wit..
dumbass,,gurls lik yu end up wit guys dat ask yu fr Mouth Gig on d first date,, bleeps yu n pass u to his dogs..... @50 frm shiloh 2 redeem askin God fr a future hubby.
anytime i carry olosho dnnt even bother asking them to cook,, because dey already set a standard lik you

Please resend this message when you learn how to express yourself intelligently. I can't be bothered to read such gibberish. It's painful to the eyes.

Dunce with a smart phone.

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 2:56pm On May 11, 2017
Ralphdan:


It seems ure an idealist
U go old 4there. grin

See one of them. angry

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Twinkle004(f): 2:57pm On May 11, 2017
Oluwasaeon:
One word - Pride !
That is not pride. Just that we Africans there are somethings we take for granted. If the guy needed a cook, he should get a maid

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by PrickGetSize(m): 2:57pm On May 11, 2017
pocohantas:

Fu<k wetin?
Me no dey carry me vagina commot house on such a day sef.

I agree with the rest...
I didn't say rape her. So if she opens toto I shouldn't fvck because it's first date?
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by T3Amo(f): 2:57pm On May 11, 2017
Lifestone:

Maybe we should try and find out who dump who! It's most likely that it's the guy that dumped her. As a woman I will respect men that eats at home than those that eats outside

Honestly I could care less who did the dumping. It's good riddance to bad rubbish. That guy has no manners and little regard for her. She would be one of the millions of men who use such girls for cooking and cleaning and then still go and marry someone else.

On a first date there should not be an expectations of wife and husband duties. The reason that men generally pay for the first date is because they are the ones that approached the lady and asked her out. However am not opposed to paying too or taking my man out at times and cooking. But what is required is respect as well.

There is a time and place for everything and the place and the approach the guy did on the first date was just sickening.

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Kakamorufu(m): 2:57pm On May 11, 2017
YelloweWest:

Rivers state
BTW hope you know rivers state is in Nigeria too. cos this one u said your married a Nigerian man. koyemi ooo
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by ransomed: 2:57pm On May 11, 2017
You have technically dumped a potential husband. Good husband materials are around but ladies do not identify them. The guy just wanted to know your cooking skill and you wasted a big opportunity to penetrate his heart as a home maker. Sorry! Indomie generation.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by pocohantas(f): 2:58pm On May 11, 2017
CoCoLav:


There are two angles to it. If she was proud, she will not eat the food. But if anger surpasses the pride, babe, I am eating that food.

I have come to learn that a guy that will treasure you will treasure you, you dont need to bend over backwards to make someone like/love you.
Wellsaid!
No rules to this at all...

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Jerryojozy(m): 2:58pm On May 11, 2017
YelloweWest:

Maybe you'd mum was a desperado to get married. No sane woman would jump into kitchen for the first time in your house haba!
Hahahaha desperado ke? that's what is obtainable in my place. Do u think 70s is 2017? Ask ur parents they have stories to tell you.


Genius J
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by T3Amo(f): 2:58pm On May 11, 2017
Lifestone:

Maybe we should try and find out who dump who! It's most likely that it's the guy that dumped her. As a woman I will respect men that eats at home than those that eats outside

Honestly I could care less who did the dumping. It's good riddance to bad rubbish. That guy has no manners and little regard for her.

She would be one of the millions of men who use such girls for cooking and cleaning and then still go and marry someone else.

On a first date there should not be an expectations of wife and husband duties.

The reason that men generally pay for the first date is because they are the ones that approached the lady and asked her out. However am not opposed to paying too or taking my man out at times and cooking.But what is required is respect as well.

There is a time and place for everything and the place and the approach the guy did on the first date was just sickening.

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Eluwilussit(m): 2:58pm On May 11, 2017
rumenase:



Source: http://crazyanne.com/dumped-my-boyfriend/


If this picture is you, i wonder what the hell the guy was thinking in the first place. angry angry angry angry angry.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 2:59pm On May 11, 2017
Kakamorufu:
on top to just cool small food lasan, o GA.

I don't get you, but since you mentioned me, you must be another one of them. angry

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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by delishpot: 2:59pm On May 11, 2017
She should be the one suggesting that she cooks them a meal. She nor try jor.
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by omaigala12(m): 2:59pm On May 11, 2017
rumenase:



Source: http://crazyanne.com/dumped-my-boyfriend/
And y are you telling us now
I even thought you were feeling bad about dumping a very nice guy as u describe him Dats y I clicked d story in d first place
I mean Wots wrong if u cook? And d way d guy even said it doesn't sound like he was ordering u. Simple cook make we chop ( u go follow chop o) u Con d der d form.
Moreover if he actually asked you to access his kitchen On D first date, don't you think he was trying to make u feel at home and free with him? And baba still go buy food come after you Bleep up and you still get mind siddon chop clean mouth em drop u.. U tell am bad bai bai
Keep on waiting for d special guy dat will be taking you Every day. You are young
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by seguno2: 2:59pm On May 11, 2017
Femlexx:
Alainikanse

Ohun ni e!
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by eminikansoso(m): 3:00pm On May 11, 2017
Femlexx:
Alainikanse
TO N DA IPARI OSU

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