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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by double0seven(m): 3:50pm On May 11, 2017 |
For the girl to be at his house on a first date, she probably felt very comfortable with him. This happens sometimes. First, I think the guy shouldn't have asked the girl to cook for him on a first date. It definitely sent the wrong signals. However, from the story the girl tells, don't think the guy is bad guy. He probably just made a bad judgement. Because after she refused, he seemed to get the point. And he still went out and got some food for her from a fast food restaurant. And the guy asking her to cook rice, while his friends are also around, maybe his own way of saying/thinking the girl is special and sees her as more than just a potential girlfriend. And he wasn't wise enough to see the wrong signal he may be sending. But it would seem he realized it after the girl declined. He still bought her food, then went to drop her at home. The girl made her point by refusing to cook, but she may have overacted by dumping the guy. Who knows. He may turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to her. Meanwhile, it's total nonsense to say it's not the responsibility of the woman to cook, just because she's a woman. True, the woman is not a slave and men should do their best to help out. Even in Western countries, 9 out of 10, it's the women that come cooks & takes care of the home. But their men are very understanding and help out in the house. Even in these western countries, women that in such things like its not the women responbility to cook or take care of the homes are mostly not married or not interested. They are mostly women that live for their careers and they do achieve great things but they don't care about marriage. Marriage is at the bottom of their priority list 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Frankcastle: 3:51pm On May 11, 2017 |
Oshisko.. NwamaziNwaAro: |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by lovethchioma(f): 3:52pm On May 11, 2017 |
Nofuckgiven:Dont mind that blockhead ... 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Eluwilussit(m): 3:52pm On May 11, 2017 |
seguno2: I got you. I once dated a girl who wouldnt cook. Good Christian girl but when a man is looking for a wife, he is most likely looking for a home maker. Someone that will team up with him and build a lovely home. A lot of people take what they read or hear through the media too seriously. Our needs as humans, haven't really changed a lot. Food is still our number one need and pririoty. Guys still need wives and girls, husbands. We make things complicated unnecessarily, sometimes. 2 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Frankcastle: 3:53pm On May 11, 2017 |
E ku ise.. U make sense. missomo: 2 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 3:53pm On May 11, 2017 |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Frankcastle: 3:53pm On May 11, 2017 |
If only your views are taken seriously. Eluwilussit: |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Josephamstrong1(m): 3:55pm On May 11, 2017 |
Eehh! There is nothing I won't read on NL. Na dem slay butcher bae.
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Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by leofab(f): 3:57pm On May 11, 2017 |
Okay but he bought rice for her and she ate it T3Amo: |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 3:58pm On May 11, 2017 |
sukkot:Abeg go and sit down! |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 3:58pm On May 11, 2017 |
Frankcastle: Thank you Frank. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by leofab(f): 4:00pm On May 11, 2017 |
Nofuckgiven:why didn't the girl make a move to buy herself the rice so the guy can support ? Go sleep Kate.. am a lady like you. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by micxwell(m): 4:00pm On May 11, 2017 |
missomo:At first I was like what's the big deal in cooking but, but I guess the guy sounded as though It's his right and not asking for a favour. #MutualRespect. But if I were in your shoes, I won't eat the food he bought o, you sef no try jor |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by leofab(f): 4:01pm On May 11, 2017 |
lovethchioma:yes am the blockhead here just like you who is one sided feminist.. you won't cook on your first date and yet ate his rice on first date.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 4:01pm On May 11, 2017 |
EAZY2422: 39? Shiloh 2016? It's either you're a terrible comedian or you've got mental issues. I'm seriously concerned about you. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by liksy(f): 4:01pm On May 11, 2017 |
My dear don't feel you lost any thing because you refused to cook for him. I don't think that guy is a good guy, how can he ask you to cook just few weeks after meeting him. No!!. He is like those guys that use women, want to subdue women at every opportunity they have. That is if you give them the opportunity. Him, asking you to cook in just few weeks he met you, is like you asking him for money just few weeks you met him. You can imagine how he will react if you had ask him to give you money. I am not against you cooking for your boyfriend or fiance once in a while, not while you just met. Every lady should have self esteem. 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nofuckgiven: 4:02pm On May 11, 2017 |
leofab:You are a lady like me and I am telling you the guy would have not bought her the rice. He did it because he wanted to. Abi na she force am to ask her out? It is not by force! 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 4:02pm On May 11, 2017 |
micxwell: Lol. He offered her the food now. But I'm sure if he had ordered her to eat it she wouldn't have. 2 Likes |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by olushola777(m): 4:05pm On May 11, 2017 |
rumenase:I only hope you won't wait for too long before you realize your mistakes not all guys takes this attitude from you...Lady's of nowadays!. Thank your stars, that guy is a nice guy if not your intestine will rumble like royal rumble...Alakada shior |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by CONFAMA: 4:06pm On May 11, 2017 |
missomo: So that olosho babe na standard... Smh |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 4:08pm On May 11, 2017 |
CONFAMA: Even a broken clock is right twice in a day. And please don't call her a prostitute. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by leofab(f): 4:08pm On May 11, 2017 |
Nofuckgiven:today I have a lot of ffucks to give.. if is one sided and came to announce it to gain cheap sympathetic point... but this is Nigeria and I am not sorry for her. You don't expect that guy to enter the kitchen to cook for her and his friends. Haba.. 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by frankosuji: 4:09pm On May 11, 2017 |
I think no body can advice u rather than urself .shame shame shame shame . |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by DEBJOCH1(m): 4:10pm On May 11, 2017 |
You need to go visit TBJ, and you are proud of that? |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by micxwell(m): 4:11pm On May 11, 2017 |
asuustrike2009:Exactly my thoughts bro. Enter the Kitchen and see whether she will join or not . She can't cook but she ate the food the guy bought. Somehow I think if the guy can cook, he would have done so and she will eat it without assisting him all because "she thinks he's trying to boss her around".... She has no shame |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nickymezor(f): 4:11pm On May 11, 2017 |
leofab:Hey, it's nt as if I aint gonna assist him. I can do the dishes and tidy up afterwards. .. See , its kinda out place fr him to want me to fix something fr everyone to eat wen I am jst paying him a visit fr the first tym. Subsequent visits no go dey again ni |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by leofab(f): 4:12pm On May 11, 2017 |
MsRoe:the real reason why same sex marriage is the way to go.. less stories less troubles.. we hardly see them divorce nor involve in domestic violence.. 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Nobody: 4:13pm On May 11, 2017 |
micxwell:Hahaaaaaa 1 Like |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by micxwell(m): 4:14pm On May 11, 2017 |
leofab:Why not, If the guy knows how to. It's his house now and he's not married . #My thoughts |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Odicious: 4:15pm On May 11, 2017 |
so wetin concern me if u decide to poo on ur head...see as u ugly sef |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by leofab(f): 4:15pm On May 11, 2017 |
Nickymezor:for him to take you to his house says it all.. he can easily hang you in a hotel. She felt fulfilled and Confident in you and went you to impress his friends.. imagine the discussion they will ensured after she leaves.. she didn't dump that dude the dude dumped her.. his friend must have virused him.. |
Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by Eluwilussit(m): 4:15pm On May 11, 2017 |
Frankcastle: . I know. |
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