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Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by justiniyke29: 7:01am On May 14, 2017
obataokenwa:
Bro, look very well after the mosque experience, something is missing in your life cos of that foolish decision of yours. Go for deliverance cos that singular act will keep speaking against u till u realise you served another god
NTIN is missing o,infact i learned abt diff believe nd dat nt all of them are bad.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 7:02am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part huh
Congratulations.

You have just saved yourself a lot of heartache down the road.

Because, when a copule have differing beliefs, especially as regards religion, that can be a source of constant strife in your relationship.

Am sure you would at one point want to marry her? Would you like it if she insisted on teaching your children her religion? Would you tlerate your child worrying verbally about her father's soul going down to eternal damnation?

Sometimes, it is better not to be unequally yoked. Yes, I know of copules who differ in the beleif department, but.....the kind of compromises they make for the sake of their relationship....you might not be strong enough to make them. And for that matter...neither would your intended.

(And don't pretend to be religious to get her. Because women don't like being decieved.....)
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by zealblinks(m): 7:03am On May 14, 2017
banmee:
Lol. The mindset of a religious nutjob. Smh.
omo see painment only God can save us in 2pac's voice
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 7:03am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
sorry bro, can't do that undecided
Atheism is interesting brcause it needs other objects to survive as a counterpoint. Without religion there would be no aetheism. Maybe if it were named " secular humanism" that might work. But wait. That sounds like a religion

Seems atheism is a belief system and religion with books, faith and congregation. The only non religion sect are pagans who have no moral boundaries. The existence of moral boundaries implying that there is good and evil is in itself a religion.

I think you should just be tolerant and let religious people do their thing, while you do yours. You do have things to do outside of religion dont you?

Oh and the girl. She is not for you. Love includes wanting the object of your love to be happy. Clearly she isnt happy with you. Move on and be thankful for the moment ( of course i mean thankful to providence..er no...rather thankful to her. That sounds better) With your post this morning, i am sure hundreds of lovely atheist girls wil be checking you out.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 7:04am On May 14, 2017
Haha. Dope.

lefulefu:
fellow atheist no dey to date?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 7:05am On May 14, 2017
ARE THERE ATHEIST IN NIGERIA? LOL WATIN DEM KNOW?, A COUNTRY THAT HAVE SOME OF THE WORST UNIVERSITIES IN THE WORLD WHAT DID THEY KNOW ABOUT DIVINITY HUMAN ORIGIN, AND THE COSMOS? PEOPLE THAT HAVEN'T LEFT THE SHORES OF NIGERIA ARE STILL CALLING THEMSELVES ATHEIST FUNNY PEOPLE. NIGERIANS ARE TOO DUMB TO BE ATHEIST. ONLY A FOOL WILL ARGUE ABOUT DIVINITY WITH A NIGERIAN ATHEIST.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 7:05am On May 14, 2017
see comments,anyway the only thing I know I am skeptical about atheism is that I keep asking where atheist base their mortality on,Christians have their conscience tamed by instructions from the Bible, even if some don't adhere to most of those instructions but a large percentage do.while I respect the view of atheists,I must point out that we as Nigerians are not ready for it,imagine,if someone didn't have to say "if not because of God ,wetin I for do you eh", there will be chaos
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Lilimax(f): 7:06am On May 14, 2017
CatfishBilly:
Christianity, a religion that came to be after a woman's attempt to cover her infidelity went way the fuckkk out of hand
Mbekwu anike!! smiley
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by justiniyke29: 7:06am On May 14, 2017
Flawlessangel:
I could follow a girl to her church but mosque? Really dude! Is she miss world?
I liked her nd she liked me, bt d prob was d religion xo i made a deal with her she comes 2 church 4 sumtym nd she realised dat we were nt bad nd vice versa. after each 2 his own religion
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Lilimax(f): 7:07am On May 14, 2017
maxwell60:
ARE THERE ATHEIST IN NIGERIA? LOL WATIN DEM KNOW?, A COUNTRY THAT HAVE SOME OF THE WORST UNIVERSITIES IN THE WORLD WHAT DID THEY KNOW ABOUT DIVINITY HUMAN ORIGIN, AND THE COSMOS? PEOPLE THAT HAVEN'T LEFT THE SHORES OF NIGERIA ARE STILL CALLING THEMSELVES ATHEIST FUNNY PEOPLE. NIGERIANS ARE TOO DUMB TO BE ATHEIST. ONLY A FOOL WILL ARGUE ABOUT DIVINITY WITH A NIGERIAN ATHEIST.
lol
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 7:07am On May 14, 2017
Oh lawd. Ya wicked. grin

xynerise:
I am more concerned about your name. Please, change it to an atheist name.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by justiniyke29: 7:08am On May 14, 2017
HARDDON:
shocked shocked shocked

Omg! Things guys do for a lil taste!
BOSS BOSS u understand as it they go.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Lilimax(f): 7:08am On May 14, 2017
sukkot:
yo ass is atheist but your name is one of the sons of noah in the bible ? confused negro

nigga name is japeth. say hello to shem and ham for me nigga
Touche! smiley
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by missjane: 7:08am On May 14, 2017
Hmm.. @Poster.. there is nothing wrong with you..your belief system doesn't change the fact that God loves u unconditionally.. about d lady that ran, probably she didn't have d stomach for heartbreak eventually if u guys don't end up getting married.. I still believe that somehow God may have used her to reach you (doesn't entail bedding you o).. a believer that knows her stuff do not shy away from such opportunities.. again probably the feeling wasn't mutual (I mean how u feel about her).
Don't worry your own woman will come..and pls do not join any religion for d sake of dating a woman..trust me it won't be authentic or acceptable.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Toks2008(m): 7:09am On May 14, 2017
niyihawking:
how did you know this? how many dead atheist told you that they found themselves faced with a god. lmao there is a nature's god and it's definitely not the Christian god.
You have a choice to pick from this two...
Accept the truth now or realize you are wrong after death.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Lilimax(f): 7:09am On May 14, 2017
lalabrother:
She can't be unequally yoked with an unbeliever. Go and get a life by accepting Christ into your life
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 7:09am On May 14, 2017
Toks2008:
Keep deceiving yourself...

Many Atheist secretly fear the possible existence of GOD but they keep fighting it until they die and find themselves face to face with the truth while those who have the chance usually accept God's existence at the point of death.
i think you are the one decieving yourself!

I think the case is that many theists believe in God because they are afraid of going to a mythical hell, not that they are convinced of the existence of a god. They secretly wish they had the freedom and peace and security of atheists but the fear of hell is what is keeping them in the god delusion.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by justiniyke29: 7:10am On May 14, 2017
BabaCommander:
You mean you joined Shekua people just to get led?
LOL,na d sex part ur mind go to.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Kusibe77(m):
Can you even date yourself as an atheist?

She knows that nothing good can come out from such an atheist... and I give a good thumbs up to her for making a good choice!

Because Seu.n is an atheist and built Nairaland... every Tom... DICCK and Harry wants to become one!!

#Bullshit!!
lord
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 7:14am On May 14, 2017
Toks2008:
You have a choice to pick from this two...

Accept the truth now or realize you are wrong after death.
no, it is you who should accept the truth that the believe in a god is a delusion. Accept it now that you are still alive or die regreting that you believed in a god and by that, you caused harm to other people who are of a different sexual orientation, a different religion and non religion, couples who loved each other and had sex even though they are not married, etc.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by mecussey(m): 7:14am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part huh
The fact that a woman quickly understood you are an atheist shows some atom of foolishness in you, with due respect sir. I will advice you to change your atitude first and stop screeming ' I dont believe in God ' It takes time to know someones lifestyle who is wise but it takes just a question to know a foolish man. Be free thinker, instead of an atheist, rmber some things are yet to be known. If you a science student, you will understand what I am mean. That you quickly concluded in this short time you stayed on earth that there is no God, means you can also quickly conclude that there is no object that could fly fast than a jet.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 7:14am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part huh
You are not wrong to be an atheist especially due to the limited and usual misconception of what God is. I think if you truly love this lady and really want her in your life, I can help you proof the existence of an aspect of you which you cant see. That, which is nameless perfection, which the world coin the word 'God' to represent. When you establish the true nature of what God is, all other things shall be added unto you, including that beautiful love of your life.

My Credential ? - I was atheist for over a decade and a very popular one. But I found something.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Nobody: 7:15am On May 14, 2017
What shocked me is how evil, judgemental and discriminatory, the religious people on this thread are and yet they say they preaching love! grin

The op fell in love with a woman, not her religion or beliefs but her heart and her soul and she rejected him for being different. Then the so called Christ like people come here and further reject and humiliate him. Then they say atheist are evil! Religious people talk from two sides of their mouth. undecided
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by MiddleDimension: 7:16am On May 14, 2017
missjane:
Hmm.. @Poster.. there is nothing wrong with you..your belief system doesn't change the fact that God loves u unconditionally.. about d lady that ran, probably she didn't have d stomach for heartbreak eventually if u guys don't end up getting married.. I still believe that somehow God may have used her to reach you (doesn't entail bedding you o).. a believer that knows her stuff do not shy away from such opportunities.. again probably the feeling wasn't mutual (I mean how u feel about her).
Don't worry your own woman will come..and pls do not join any religion for d sake of dating a woman..trust me it won't be authentic or acceptable.
the only sensible post coming from the blind theists infesting NL.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by naijalander: 7:17am On May 14, 2017
zealblinks:
why the insult?
You dis bastard of ten thousand fathers
omo ale jatijati
You fada!
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by niyihawking(m): 7:18am On May 14, 2017
Toks2008:
You have a choice to pick from this two...

Accept the truth now or realize you are wrong after death.
what is the truth?
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by ekhai(m): 7:19am On May 14, 2017
SHE IS GOD FEARING BABE. THEREFORE SHE IS DIRECTLY OPPOSITE OF YOU. I PRAISE HER DECISION. GO LOOK FOR THOSE WHO SHARE SAME IDEOLOGY WITH YOU.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by IAmAmbrose(m): 7:19am On May 14, 2017
justiniyke29:
Wetin i do dat wan make lose heaven,didnt i obey his commandment(LOVE UR NEIGBOUR AS UR SELF)
smh

Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by adegeye38(m): 7:20am On May 14, 2017
Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her cry, is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part huh
y should you b an atheist in the first place? (it doesn't make sense, i mean with everything u see and knw) atheists strikes me as people who are scared of the possibility of being accountable to a supreme being....

i dont blame d gal, hw can u date som1 whose life is based on chance
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:20am On May 14, 2017
you have broken the rules already. Quit forcing yourself on a girl that doesn't like you. move on. Girl are everywhere. Move on and don't repeat the same mistake with the next one.
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Jman06(m): 7:21am On May 14, 2017
This is why is why i think there is need for an association of atheists and free thinkers here in nigeria to make it easier for us to network so that those who need like minded partners can easily get hooked up. Such association exists in the US and other countries of the world. We can do it here!
Re: She Doesn't Want To Date Me Because I'm An Atheist by Bimpe29(m): 7:21am On May 14, 2017
How on earth is that beneficial? God love you more than you could possibly imagine. Your relationship with her is an eye opener for you to change your away.
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