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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by SirMichael1: 8:29pm On May 31, 2017
Lala just dey watch this topic like this...


Someone help me with that pic abeg

Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by sarutobie(m): 8:34pm On May 31, 2017
Watch Davido or wizkid's videos and you will see the male dancers and the artistes all covered up to their heads, but the girls will be moving around with their butts all over the place...you expect those artistes to have respect for any of those girls? Why can't they(the artistes) go around in their briefs just like the girls? Oh no they won't, because they are smarter...

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by OLAJADON: 8:35pm On May 31, 2017
Akjwyzepal:
cn u imagine a 16yr old gal posted a pics of her in pant and bra. I commentd and reset her brain, she now deleted d poo. Nt every1 wants to c a gal private body so they should only show it to those who want to c it.
am glad I have seen a guy that reason like me. if you follow this trend from the beginning you would notice that majority of the females comment actually are attacking the op and see no bad in indecency all they are saying is dress doesn't portray inner self, can you imagine that kind of statement and the funny thing is they will be quick to call men cheat.
the reason why men has the freedom to fornicate is because of women, they need reorientation without that women will always dress indecently calling it civilization while men lust after them.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:36pm On May 31, 2017
some ladies be like ...

Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by cristianisraeli: 8:37pm On May 31, 2017
every woman have the right to dress the way she want to dress and that does not give a man the right to disrespect her,its because muslim men cant control themselves thats why the prophet made muslim women cover themselves up and its happening..go to germany and sweden today..muslim men are raping the women there..in asia lots of women wear bum shorts and all.its like a norm to them..that shouldnt make whats under a mans short strong or make a man disrespect her

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by sisisioge: 8:37pm On May 31, 2017
Those girls in the second pics are struggling for their freedom mehn!

# freethegirls! Freedom singers grin
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:37pm On May 31, 2017
Who's this sell out? undecided
Oya we have noticed you, you're a decent girl. Wife material, 100 yards . Oya go and clean your boyfriend's house.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by almarthins(m): 8:37pm On May 31, 2017
Dimples182:
This is some country mindset angry

No, you should not judge people by what they wear, that's shallow. Because a woman wears a short dress or skirt does not mean she is less of a woman or human being.

The fact that this is coming from another woman is just sad.

No mind dem jare! Abeg wear swim suit pass oshodi for daylight and tell me d story later.shallow tin u say . Abi u no know say men are moved by what dey see. Abi I need to tutor u on DAT.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by abike12(f): 8:37pm On May 31, 2017
Treat people fairly and be the change you want to see in this world. I'm a very conservative dresser and sometimes my instinct is to judge people that expose their bodies but I have to caution myself. People are free to dress how they want and they are not harming anyone. Some people will say it's because they are teaching children bad things. Be a good role model to your kids so that when they see half n*ked women on the streets they already know they don't want to dress up like that.

If you are okay with treating people badly because of how they dress then you will treat people badly for how they talk or who they date or who their father is or where they're from... where does it end?

It's okay for people to have different views of life and different expectations. No one ever gets in trouble for minding their own business. If you don't want to date a half n*ked woman, there are millions of girls that dress conservatively. Why not pick from that batch and stop looking for an excuse for being a jerk?

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:41pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


Actually, me telling you not to take my word for it doesn't mean I was lying. But you can't judged me with that either because I believe in keeping myself till after marriage cause I'm practicing it.

Again who's talking about hijab? People and their mentality sha, who said only those in hijabs dress decently? My point is you'll always be judged by the way you dress. And most guys won't respect girls that don't respect their selves and their bodies.
Lmao he shouldn't judge you for keeping your virginity till marriage but you are judging other ladies on how they dress

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by OLAJADON: 8:42pm On May 31, 2017
SirMichael1:


I can bet that a 19 year old is behind this handle. You're still too young to differentiate your left from your right
you are one of the problem of nigeria today. when you have your child encourage her to walk around without even the need of pant of bra. you hear matured man who is more than 19years.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:43pm On May 31, 2017
2dice01:
one of them pepper dem gang

Ikeja diocese cheesy

Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Jabioro: 8:44pm On May 31, 2017
Na so unal go do blind someone ,OP if my wife accused me of going out tonight with female in nairaland, na your moniker I go.mention , wetin be dis pesin no fit sleep in peace again.. thank your house number.. see the commotion
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by sarutobie(m): 8:45pm On May 31, 2017
Dimples182:


Her body is none of your damn business! You can not say that she deserves to be hurt and cheated because she dressed differently. Get off your high horse and STFU. Men are attacking us and you jump on board and condone women being mistreated because of what they wear. You self righteous bigot! You promote the rape culture. What you are saying is if women dont do as they are told or expected to do then they deserve to be mistreated. You think women who don't wear mini skirts and dresses don't get dumped and heartbroken? I won't reply you again because I can't reason with morons!
. You're a very deceitful person.. you condone what you know you will hardly do yourself just to sound politically correct...dress like a ho and expect to be treated like a queen? Yea right in your dreams and wild fantasies..the stoopid guys egging you on most will never even wear a short that will show their crooked hairy legs. Far be it from any of them to as much as wear a tank top exposing their arms to an outing..they will cover up from head to toe.. the fvcking hypocrites will NEVER allow their kid sisters go out looking like a slut..everyone wants to sound 'enlightened ' these days..

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by DeRay98(m): 8:46pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:
The way some women dress these days I don't really blame guys for disrespecting or treating them as cheap, after all, the way you dress is the way you'll be addressed.

They dress themselves in rags, walking around unclad all in the name of civilization yet they keep complaining guys disrespect and treat them like a hooker. How do you expect to get a responsible guy when you yourself don't dress responsibly?

Stop blaming and criticizing guys for thinking you are cheap if you are one of those who walk around in rags cause they are only following the signal you are sending out to them.

The truth is always a hard pill to swallow but it still remains the truth.
My dear, lots of young women of your generation have nothing to offer but their bodies, their minds have been harped by low self esteem hence they seek relevance attention for validation.
You can see how they attacking you with "sophisticated mentality" and most of them are pre-university and early varsity girls.
You can't help them because lots of them are messed up already.
They think when guys whistle and cat-call them that it means they are are getting attention from guys but they are not knowledgeable to decipher that it's actually means disrespect from street boys who see them as the sex objects that they actually portray themselves as.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by SirMichael1: 8:47pm On May 31, 2017
OLAJADON:

you are one of the problem of nigeria today. when you have your child encourage her to walk around without even the need of pant of bra. you hear matured man who is more than 19years.

Fūck off or shut up!

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by KingEbukasBlog(m): 8:47pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:
The way some women dress these days I don't really blame guys for disrespecting or treating them as cheap, after all, the way you dress is the way you'll be addressed.

They dress themselves in rags, walking around unclad all in the name of civilization yet they keep complaining guys disrespect and treat them like a hooker. How do you expect to get a responsible guy when you yourself don't dress responsibly?

Stop blaming and criticizing guys for thinking you are cheap if you are one of those who walk around in rags cause they are only following the signal you are sending out to them.

The truth is always a hard pill to swallow but it still remains the truth.

Says who ? A woman can still dress to kill and earn respect from some men .Ninon de l'Enclos and Tullia D'Aragona were popular hoes yet they gained so much respect from men . Wu Chao was a mistress and she ended up controlling China as an Empress till she was 80 or so . Napoleon's wife Josephine was so respected by him but she was a hoe before they got married . Respect is a psychological thing , women who knew their way around in the past gained it so easily , in some cases they paid a high cost but they earned it any way .

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:47pm On May 31, 2017
Angel196:


There should be freedom of dressing as long as the mode of dressing is decent. We can't respect and encourage indecency for many reasons because it ends up spreading and corrupting the youth.

The difference between me and them is that I'm being judged for dressing decently which is absurd and they are being judged because they dress indecently which if you're being honest isn't right.

Everyone is free to choose but no one is free from the consequences of their choices.

God wil bless you immensely. Amen.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:48pm On May 31, 2017
The babe has a very rustic mentality. She's probably doing this to get some sort of approval from the guys. Women bringing other women down to make themselves look/feel better. It's really sad. sad
Dimples182:
This is some country mindset angry

No, you should not judge people by what they wear, that's shallow. Because a woman wears a short dress or skirt does not mean she is less of a woman or human being.

The fact that this is coming from another woman is just sad.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Berbierklaus(f): 8:50pm On May 31, 2017
Fabulocity:
Who's this sell out? undecided
Oya we have noticed you, you're a decent girl. Wife material, 100 yards . Oya go and clean your boyfriend's house.
Lolz,abi

Self righteous people do the most,check well she is a public fucker_ gringrin

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 31, 2017
sarutobie:
. You're a very deceitful person.. you condone what you know you will hardly do yourself just to sound politically correct...dress like a ho and expect to be treated like a queen? Yea right in your dreams and wild fantasies..the stoopid guys egging you on most will never even wear a short that will show their crooked hairy legs. Far be it from any of them to as much as wear a tank top exposing their arms to an outing..they will cover up from head to toe.. the fvcking hypocrites will NEVER allow their kid sisters go out looking like a slut..everyone wants to sound 'enlightened ' these days..



This your post is GOLD! I had such experience with another nairalander a while ago. Something they would never tolerate bit they choose to sound pc with it in order to sound enlightened!

The hypocrisy is nauseating!!!!

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Rhesusmonkey(m): 8:51pm On May 31, 2017
Dimples182:
This is some country mindset angry

No, you should not judge people by what they wear, that's shallow. Because a woman wears a short dress or skirt does not mean she is less of a woman or human being.

The fact that this is coming from another woman is just sad.
babe, havent you heard that most times you are being addressed the way you dress, you dont dress indecently and expect me to take you serious.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by tosyne2much(m): 8:51pm On May 31, 2017
Can't even bring a lady that dresses like a lunatic home. Not even when my parents are around. The way a lady dresses determines how your life is going to capsize

Say no to wayward girls

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by OLAJADON: 8:51pm On May 31, 2017
SirMichael1:


Majority? You refuse to take corrections yet again. These are your personal findings. You didn't conduct a wide range of research from different part of the country and you dare say majority?!

A girl walks in rags doesn't make her to be disrespected. It's her choice. Clothings and adornments isn't a yardstick for measuring decency or chivalry. Celebs wears crazy attires, don't they.

This is 2017. Everybody is bad but not everyone is corrupt

So, how was jamb?
even Adam and eve hide from God when they knew they were naked and you are saying we are in 2017 women should dress indecently.
shake my head for you
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Humility017(m): 8:52pm On May 31, 2017
Peacefullove:


the point is , Some women are the reasons guys disrespect them . Which is mostly related with the way they dress portraying themselves as sex objects

spot on
you nailed...it. still can't understand reason for some guys comments antagonising the OP.
anyway common sense is never common.

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by sarutobie(m): 8:53pm On May 31, 2017
PDPGuy:

Decency laws are generally limited to public places like the streets or the beach. Private businesses can enforce whatever dress code they so desire.
My overall point is that people shouldn't be judged on what they wear, neither should one's respect be earned by how a woman dresses.
so why the fvck can't they wear the same butt exposing dress to an office? Why the need for "decency laws" if one shouldn't be addressed by what they wear?

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Ojidouble: 8:53pm On May 31, 2017
CHEAP GALS.
Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:53pm On May 31, 2017
So all girls that don't meet up to your standard of decent dressing is wayward? It's okay!
tosyne2much:
Can't even bring a lady that dresses like a lunatic home. Not even when my parents are around. The way a lady dresses determines how your life is going to capsize

Say no to wayward girls

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:53pm On May 31, 2017
Berbierklaus:

Lolz,abi

Self righteous people do the most,check well she is a public fucker_ gringrin

Why won't you say so? When you went humping on a gear knob thing it was your bf's dickk!

Shioor!

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by hollah123: 8:54pm On May 31, 2017
Dimples182:
This is some country mindset angry

No, you should not judge people by what they wear, that's shallow. Because a woman wears a short dress or skirt does not mean she is less of a woman or human being.

The fact that this is coming from another woman is just sad.
try n read between the lines n get d op right, she's not judging anyone here n she's not trying to ridicule anybody all she's saying is don't dress like a bitch n expect guys to treat u like a queen. that's all

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:54pm On May 31, 2017
all I can see I a muslim who is caged thereby resorts to criticise what she wish she could do,my friend ,why don't you face your mosque,with all your covering and all ,your men still treat Muslim wives as second class, with no voice, I will listen to talk about respect when you and your brothers hit your head on the same floor inside the same mosque, nonsense

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Re: Some Women Are The Reason Guys Disrespect Them by Nobody: 8:55pm On May 31, 2017
It is sad this is page 6.
Nevertheless Op is completely wrong from that perspective, simple logic ;
Do you steal because you found no guard?
I don't have much to say but I blame the mod that push this to FP

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