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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by ivolt: 3:54pm On Jun 02, 2017
khalifahsparkles:



who denied what? abeg go wash your eye. I said it before. you lack understanding. and you are still spewing more thrash. please shift go front. thank you

before you shift I have gist for you. grin an Igbo man just accepted Islam in Ebonyi state this afternoon after jummah prayers. right in the mosque I prayed. grin

now you can now shift. good afternoon


That is none of my business, he may accept amadioha for all I
care, so long he doesn't marry his daughter off at age 6 and he
does not support violence.

An Igbo man's conversion cannot change your own reality and
guilty people always ask for "understanding".

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Jun 02, 2017
khalifahsparkles:


you were supposed to not bother. don't forget grin

and yes. I saw yours. I saw your advice gringrin

you needn't tell us how Islam should survive because it's more than one thousand four hundred years old already. grin
good afternoon
I want an Islam that preaches peace and practice it to its fullest.



I lost a friend to Islamic thugs shouting Allahu Akbar while they hacked him to death because he wasn't of their religion.


Just keep quiet and do your so called Ramadan in Peace.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jun 02, 2017
ephi321:


But she never made a statement similar to saying people should not be alive for having different religious views. That's taking it too far in my opinion. Please let's take things easy.

you should read her comment sha.

toh. you are sensible. thank you
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Amberon11: 3:56pm On Jun 02, 2017
Saying the truth is not an act of love? Was your Mohammed not a pedophile, rapist, murderer and more? Matter fact, I'm done reading or replying you.
madjnr:
what a hypocrite... Where's the love in your statement above now?
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by ammyluv2002(f): 3:57pm On Jun 02, 2017
Here, we are fighting over which religion is the best bla bla bla. Is it by fighting? What have you done to convince people around you that yours is the best? Seriously, it's a free world and we are allowed to chose whichever religion we want and mean it.

Look at the evil happening everywhere in the world today, yet people still fight over which religion is the best. This shows people don't even fear God, yet they claim His ways are the best, fight for Him over the net just to prove a point. Aren't we tired of fighting? Imagine, if we can channel all these energies into acting like God whom we claim to love.

I'm so sick of the world and all the things happening in it. We are chasing shadows and leaving out on the main thing. Why can't we love God deeply? Why can't we be like Him at least we make so much noise about Him? Why can't we reconcile with Him? Why so hate when all He gives is Love? What is the problem with us? Haven't God done enough for us? We can't we embrace Him totally with the way we live? Why are we always fighting one another?

We go to church every Sunday and the Muslims does same every Friday yet, there's no improvement in the way we live. Why are we deaf to God's teaching?

We as Christians are so concerned about our doctrines, leaving out the main thing. Why are we not touched with the sermons?


Mehn, I wish all these will just stop!


Op, I don't have any right answer to give, but I think you should consult the elders of your religion and seek for advice. As for your wife, she chose what she feels is the best for her so allow her practice her new found religion, but if you can't deal with it and your religion allows divorce then you can divorce, she will remain single according to the Christian teachings & serve her God.

If you truly love her, then allow God direct you.

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jun 02, 2017
madjnr:
.. Maybe Nigerian Jesus told you he came to the world to commit suicide baa? So that you can all do uncountless sin and go scot free ba? Keep fooling your self...
suicide??funny, please say something else or ask to learn if u dont know what to say...the only suicide we know of is by isis, boko haram and such who were sent by the devil to kill infidels.
btw have you seen the muddy spring where Prophet Mohammed said the sun goes at night? and have you been able to locate the christians that worship Mary the mother of Jesus as the Third person of the Trinity?please help me with these facts given by the Prophet Mohammed or else you could just admit he is nothing but a fraud and anti-christ

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Amberon11: 3:57pm On Jun 02, 2017
Too long, sorry, couldn't read.
Mujtahida:

Why are you so immature? Why are you so inflamed, getting a high deriding other people's religion?

The person I quoted initially mentioned Jesus or you didn't read where he mentioned Jesus and is Jesus no longer Christ?

In your first mention of me you were the one that mentioned 'Christ or Christianity' and I took it up from there.

Now you come round to say that the person I quoted said nothing about Christianity. Is Jesus Christ no longer the founder of Christianity? (mind you, you were the one that mentioned Christianity, not me)

Did you smoke dung? So much for Christians being Christlike! If people like you are what Christianity is then it's really pathetic.

You just flying from one mention to another pouring contempt on the faith of other people and I don't blame you because you are seriously ignorant of the murderous, blood curdling history of Christianity.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by dragonking2: 4:00pm On Jun 02, 2017
nurshah:




http://edition.cnn.com/2017/03/16/world/islam-fastest-growing-religion-trnd/index.html
Lol. Did you read the part that says

Muslim women have more children, on average -- 3.1 children compared to 2.3 for all other religious groups combined, Pew says.

This is exactly how you guys are deceived to be the fastest growing religion in the world. So why can't you tell us how many people are converting to Islam in a daily basis?

Now read here to know how thousands of hungry, poor muslims have left their barren countries and converted to Christianity just to enjoy asylum.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3611073/Thousands-Muslim-migrants-convert-Christianity-mass-baptisms-reaching-Europe-just-desperate-asylum.html

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/muslim-refugees-converting-to-christianity-in-germany-crisis-asylum-seekers-migrants-iran-a7466611.html

http://www.foxnews.com/world/2017/03/21/muslim-converts-breathe-new-life-into-europe-s-struggling-christian-churches.html

Christianity is making a comeback in Europe – and it’s mostly thanks to Muslims, say experts in Islam and faith leaders.

A soaring number of Muslims, many of them refugees from Syria, Iraq and Afghanistan, are converting to Christianity, breathing new life into Europe’s once floundering Christian churches. The Muslims are flocking to various Christian denominations, experts said, including becoming Protestants, evangelical or Catholic

Islam will be a dead religion very soon.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Mujtahida: 4:07pm On Jun 02, 2017
See them, we are finished in this country, from tribalism now to religious intolerance. Muslims, Christians Worship your respective God and grant others leave to do same

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by wizod(m): 4:10pm On Jun 02, 2017
tallfish145:
Please I need your advise on what to do as my wife suddenly renounced our religion after visiting a pastor and I married her as a Muslim. though I intends calling the union off anytime soon.
repent, follow God, denounce Allah or u perish
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Mujtahida: 4:13pm On Jun 02, 2017
grin
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Mujtahida: 4:16pm On Jun 02, 2017
Amberon11:
Too long, sorry, couldn't read.
Shove your sorry into your pipe. It's expected when you are no better than an illiterate . swerve abeg, Pharisee bigot
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Amberon11: 4:24pm On Jun 02, 2017
Lmao. Seems like you're suffering from an autosomal recessive disorder, or even a trisomy. I've got no time for senile schizorphrenics like you. Can't risk depleting my IQ by talking to a subhuman sloth. Get lost! I'm done reading or replying you fool.
Mujtahida:

Shove your sorry into your pipe. It's expected when you are no better than an illiterate . swerve abeg, Pharisee bigot
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by 5oyad: 4:45pm On Jun 02, 2017
drakeli:
If you think everything he quoted is wrong. It's left to you to show him in your Quran that it otherwise. Of course he brought all those from your Quran. He doesn't have the responsibility to debunk himself. But you have. So show us in the Quran.

He should be challenged to tell us the verses where he saw them so we can use them to attack Muslims - will that not be an easier route?
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Mujtahida: 4:55pm On Jun 02, 2017
Amberon11:

[s][/s]Lmao Seems like you're suffering from an autosomal recessive disorder, or even a trisomy. I've got no time for senile schizorphrenics like you. Can't risk depleting my IQ by talking to a subhuman sloth. Get lost! I'm done reading or replying you fool.
[s][/s]
Patrick obiahiagbon's clone but a poor one. look at the shit dripping from the septic tank you carry inside your head. Hypocrite, mad woman
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by BlindAngel: 4:57pm On Jun 02, 2017
Markikus:
This one weak me. Abeg who get that lion meme

Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 5:39pm On Jun 02, 2017
First and formost, please give me a verse in the new testament to support all this story you wrote. In the presence of two or more witnesses, a thing is established. The answers to these questions you asked is something only the christian knows cos it is foolishness to an unbeliever, i don't want to start a religious debate here, the bible is a book pointing to jesus christ, and the way he treats women should be the standard we should follow. Always read something in the context in which it is written, thank you.
madjnr:
Exodus 21:7-8 "And in case a man should sell his daughter as a slave girl, she will not go out in the way that the slave men go out. If she is displeasing in the eyes of her master so that he doesn't designate her as a concubine but causes her to be redeemed, he will not be entitled to sell her to a foreign people in his treacherously dealing with her."
Here in this verse we can see that fathers can easily and freely sell their daughters as slaves to other men. The other men are free to rape the daughters if they wish to do so.
Deuteronomy 25:11-12 "And in case men struggle together (in a fight) with one another, and the wife of the one has come near to deliver her husband out of the striking one (to save her husband), and she has thrust out her hand and grabbed hold of his private (the other man's groin) , she must then get both her hands cut off, and the eyes of the men must feel no sorrow. "
One has to ask himself a very simple question here: Why should the wife who is trying to save her husband from brutal beating by another man get both her hands cut off? and why should we not have any mercy on her? Does this sound inspired from God to you? Be honest with yourself.
Leviticus 21:9 "And the daughter of any priest, if she profane herself by playing the LovePeddler, she profaneth her father: she shall be burnt with fire. "
Why a priests daughter be burnt in fire just because her father is a priest if she decides to act like a LovePeddler? Is this fair? Should it make a difference whether or not a girl's father is a priest or not?
Ecclesiastes 25:22 "Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die." (from the Catholics Bible) Women in the Bible are considered evil !!!.
Ecclesiasticus 22:3 "....and the birth of ANY daughter is a loss" (From the New Jerusalem Bible. It's a Roman Catholics Bible); Roman Catholics today form more than 75% of the Christians population throughout the world.
Why should the Bible give stupid (with all respect to you) generalizing statements like that about ALL women?
Leviticus 12:2-5 , if a woman gives birth to a baby boy, then she becomes unclean for 7 days. But if she gives birth to a baby girl, then she becomes unclean for 14 days. This verse is another proof that women in the Bible are disliked to be born !.
Ecclesiastics 7:26-28 "And I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare, whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains. The man who pleases God will escape her, but the sinner she will ensnare....while I was still searching but not finding, I found one upright man among a thousand but not one upright woman among them all ". The Bible claims that it is impossible to find a single good woman among a thousand women.
Let us examine the following two verses from the book Leviticus:
Let us look at Leviticus 20:15 "If a man has sexual relations with an animal, he must be put to death, and you must kill the animal."
Let us look at Leviticus 20:16 "If a woman approaches an animal to have sexual relations with it, kill both the woman and the animal. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads."
Notice that in Leviticus 20:15 the man has to be caught having sex with an animal in order for him to be put to death. We have to be sure 100% beyond the shadow of the doubt to kill him.
Notice however in Leviticus 20:16 that if a woman only looks SUSPICIOUS and not necessarily get caught having sex with an animal, she would still be put to death. We
do not have to be sure 100% beyond the shadow of the doubt with her in order for us to kill her.
It is beyond question that Leviticus 20:15 and Leviticus 20:16 prove that the Bible prefers to put women to death whenever an opportunity presents itself!
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jun 02, 2017
karlz:

haha the only basis for divorce is adultery, and what if its your children that change?you are only responsible for your head, if you try to make someone see reasons with you and they still dont let them be...if you were born in a muslim home and you grew up and changed to christianity would be support your parents torturing you for your decision?treat others how you would want to be treated

I will frustrate her and she will concur to the divorce.
There were some spec in her that got him attracted and he was convinced, so he took the bold step to get married but she later end up changing what initially attracted him to her and it was one of the basic thing he had wanted in a woman. Is either she change or she walks out of the marriage. I'm a practical person. You and I know before you tie the knot both parties are suppose to have same goal to avoid conflict in raising the kids.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jun 02, 2017
Point taken, but these old testament and new testament verses are totally different concepts , there are deeper revelations to these verses which you are not privy to.
Please tell me with quaranic verses, why i as a woman should join islam. Sell your religion to me.
madjnr:
Timothy 2:11-14 "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection. But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression."
1 Corinthians 14:34 "Let your women keep silence in the churches: for it is not permitted unto them to speak; but they are commanded to be under obedience as also saith the law. And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their husbands at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church."
Men can shave the women's heads if women don't cover their heads:
1 Corinthians 11:5-10 : "But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven. For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn : but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered. For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man. For the man is not of the woman: but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man. For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels."
1 Corinthians 11:13: "Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God (with her head) uncovered?

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 6:00pm On Jun 02, 2017
I take christianity anyday over a paedophile prophet, so please, convince me on why i should join islam and its benefits for women
madjnr:
Exodus 21:7-8 "And in case a man should sell his daughter as a slave girl, she will not go out in the way that the slave men go out. If she is displeasing in the eyes of her master so that he doesn't designate her as a concubine but causes her to be redeemed, he will not be entitled to sell her to a foreign people in his treacherously dealing with her."
Here in this verse we can see that fathers can easily and freely sell their daughters as slaves to other men. The other men are free to rape the daughters if they wish to do so.
Deuteronomy 25:11-12 "And in case men struggle together (in a fight) with one another, and the wife of the one has come near to deliver her husband out of the striking one (to save her husband), and she has thrust out her hand and grabbed hold of his private (the other man's groin) , she must then get both her hands cut off, and the eyes of the men must feel no sorrow. "
One has to ask himself a very simple question here: Why should the wife who is trying to save her husband from brutal beating by another man get both her hands cut off? and why should we not have any mercy on her? Does this sound inspired from God to you? Be honest with yourself.
Leviticus 21:9 "And the daughter of any priest, if she profane herself by playing the LovePeddler, she profaneth her father: she shall be burnt with fire. "
Why a priests daughter be burnt in fire just because her father is a priest if she decides to act like a LovePeddler? Is this fair? Should it make a difference whether or not a girl's father is a priest or not?
Ecclesiastes 25:22 "Of the woman came the beginning of sin, and through her we all die." (from the Catholics Bible) Women in the Bible are considered evil !!!.
Ecclesiasticus 22:3 "....and the birth of ANY daughter is a loss" (From the New Jerusalem Bible. It's a Roman Catholics Bible); Roman Catholics today form more than 75% of the Christians population throughout the world.
Why should the Bible give stupid (with all respect to you) generalizing statements like that about ALL women?
Leviticus 12:2-5 , if a woman gives birth to a baby boy, then she becomes unclean for 7 days. But if she gives birth to a baby girl, then she becomes unclean for 14 days. This verse is another proof that women in the Bible are disliked to be born !.
Ecclesiastics 7:26-28 "And I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare, whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains. The man who pleases God will escape her, but the sinner she will ensnare....while I was still searching but not finding, I found one upright man among a thousand but not one upright woman among them all ". The Bible claims that it is impossible to find a single good woman among a thousand women.
Let us examine the following two verses from the book Leviticus:
Let us look at Leviticus 20:15 "If a man has sexual relations with an animal, he must be put to death, and you must kill the animal."
Let us look at Leviticus 20:16 "If a woman approaches an animal to have sexual relations with it, kill both the woman and the animal. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads."
Notice that in Leviticus 20:15 the man has to be caught having sex with an animal in order for him to be put to death. We have to be sure 100% beyond the shadow of the doubt to kill him.
Notice however in Leviticus 20:16 that if a woman only looks SUSPICIOUS and not necessarily get caught having sex with an animal, she would still be put to death. We
do not have to be sure 100% beyond the shadow of the doubt with her in order for us to kill her.
It is beyond question that Leviticus 20:15 and Leviticus 20:16 prove that the Bible prefers to put women to death whenever an opportunity presents itself!

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Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Amberon11: 6:05pm On Jun 02, 2017
Thrash!
Mujtahida:
[s][/s]
Patrick obiahiagbon's clone but a poor one. look at the shit dripping from the septic tank you carry inside your head. Hypocrite, mad woman
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by BigBrother9ja: 6:29pm On Jun 02, 2017
Kathmandu:
Sun Worshipper
Lol!
Lack reasoning
You need education
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by BigBrother9ja: 6:30pm On Jun 02, 2017
IhateAfonjas:


Do I want to die ??
Of course you'll miserably of hate soon.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by BigBrother9ja: 6:32pm On Jun 02, 2017
Amberon11:
A human that your Quran says will defeat the Antichrist and Satan? Have you seen a human fight with a spirit? Better than the pedophile, rapist, murderer, serial killer , caravan raider, prophecyless, miracleless camel piss drinker .
You're nothing but a shallow brain morôn.
So almighty God (omnipotent and omniscience)
Needs to engage in a battle with Satan? What he created and controls?
Retârded soul.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jun 02, 2017
BiggyB242:


I will frustrate her and she will concur to the divorce.
There were some spec in her that got him attracted and he was convinced, so he took the bold step to get married but she later end up changing what initially attracted him to her and it was one of the basic thing he had wanted in a woman. Is either she change or she walks out of the marriage. I'm a practical person. You and I know before you tie the knot both parties are suppose to have same goal to avoid conflict in raising the kids.
take am easy sha, its a free world and you only have one life to live, dont have to worry yourself so much about peoples choices, do your best for peace to reign and leave the rest to God, na Him be the only judge...you didnt create anybody or yourself so you shouldnt FORCE them live by your rules...live and let live. your life; your choices...no time 2worry
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Amberon11: 6:48pm On Jun 02, 2017
Says the pedophile, rapist, camel piss drinking worshipper. You daft people shouldn't cohabit with humans as you belong in the BCs, not even ADs. You should dwell in forests with wild beasts.

I'm done reading your replies nor will I reply.
BigBrother9ja:

You're nothing but a shallow brain morôn.
So almighty God (omnipotent and omniscience)
Needs to engage in a battle with Satan? What he created and controls?
Retârded soul.
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by Everblazinggg(f): 7:12pm On Jun 02, 2017
Tiny23:



Really? Tell me more since you so conversant with the hadiths.
.
I like commenting with facts....I just read Sahih Bukhari (84:57).
.
And it said

Some Zanadiqa (atheists) were brought to 'Ali and he burnt them. The news of this event, reached Ibn 'Abbas who said, "If I had been in his place, I would not have burnt them, as Allah's Apostle forbade it, saying, 'Do not punish anybody with Allah's punishment (fire).' I would have killed them according to the statement of Allah's Apostle, 'Whoever changed his Islamic religion, then kill him.'


I think that woman is not safe anymore cus your religion recommends killing for people like her since only Islam is the true religion according to your quaran.


As for the rest, I will still take them as allegation till proven to be true
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by nnokwa042(m): 7:20pm On Jun 02, 2017
Tiny23:


Why not pick up the Holy Qur'an yourself,go through it and show me where you can see all what your friend posted,I recommend you read the English version. I don't engage in religious squabble ,I no get time for that. Peace!
I should buy Koran English version abi?didn't ur Muhammad married Aisha at age of 6 ? Didn't ur Muhammed asked his followers to drink camel urine?
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by mhizAnnie(f): 7:21pm On Jun 02, 2017
IhateAfonjas:

Religion is the biggest scam in the history of mankind

I'm not that stupid to let a brain washing religion created by the white men to ruin my marriage

She can choose/switch to any religion she wants, i don't care as far as she's not bugging/trying to convert me with her religion

She can switch to snake religion or start worshipping lizards, i don't give a flying and running fucck


Where you'll be concerned is when she converts your kids to lizard/snake/frog religion
Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by BigBrother9ja: 7:42pm On Jun 02, 2017
Amberon11:
Says the pedophile, rapist, camel piss drinking worshipper. You daft people shouldn't cohabit with humans as you belong in the BCs, not even ADs. You should dwell in forests with wild beasts.

I'm done reading your replies nor will I reply.
Lol! Frustrated retârd.

CONTINUE MAKING A FOOL OF YOURSELF grin
SLAVES

Re: What Can You Do If Your Wife Switches Religion Against Your Wish? by vicben27(m): 7:50pm On Jun 02, 2017
she go go back to her papa house go practice am

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