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Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Andiebest(m): 12:31am On Jun 08, 2017 |
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Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Andiebest(m): 12:33am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Perspectives: What is your purpose? East kind of woman do u want? What I know is love is never enough trust me. For example, a partner can love u n still cheat on you. The only thing that can stop someone from cheating or evil is the fear of God. I always recommend marrying someone who has the fear of God n is deeply rooted in the church (that means u have to be involved yourself beyond Sunday worship) cos sometimes people shy away from certain things not necessarily for the fear of God but for fear of what people will say if caught. I used to smoke n drink but I had no choice but to stop when I became very involved in the church as a result of a responsibility I was given as a youth leader, I was concerned about what people will say about me, the brethren n the entire church. Moreover I made new friends n none was doing those things, n since I spent most of my time with them I just couldn't smoke n drink again. Association plays a big deal in our lives whether we accept it or not, it's better to have a partner that surrounds himself with brethren n is actively involved in the church. They will always respect the authority in the church so u can easily report them, only that thought can go a long way in keeping them on their toes cos everyone wants to look good in the church. Eventually it becomes a habit. Finally, vision is key to association. Only people headed in the same direction should travel together. Marry for where you are going to not where you are today, that means you need to discover your purpose first cos that should determine your wife. SHALOM! 1 Like |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Nobody: 8:42am On Jun 08, 2017 |
Andiebest: God bless you |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Jun 10, 2017 |
sweetilicious: Even more for women Sir |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Andiebest(m): 5:24pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
Perspectives:Bless you too. |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Limitless72(m): 6:50pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
NairalandCS: Instinct in this issue is not enough.... Thorough introspection have to be made... As of the last time I checked MARRIAGE is the only institution you don't graduate from...you keep going to the end of your life.. So abeg no tell am sey im too dey over think and make im follow im instinct |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by tosyne2much(m): 7:31pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
tobianthony:I learnt a lot from your comment.. May God increase your wisdom sir |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by mzhorlah(f): 8:14pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
love is important but it's not enough, you need to look at compatibility, how well you could endure and tolerate each other.Because after about 4years, the love grows a lil cold, only compatibility keeps it going |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Nobody: 8:40pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Funny enough I was reading one of your threads the other day ...wasn't really happy with it ...though some of what you said could be true . I don't think I'm wise my brother ... I'm just me . My mother once told me that out of all her children I'm the wisest but when it comes to women I can be stupid . All the best . |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by tosyne2much(m): 8:55pm On Jun 11, 2017 |
tobianthony:Well, concerning the article, someone can't always be right bro Your wiseness could be smelt in your comment. When I saw the comment, I had to check your moniker and viewed your profile. I would have followed you if not that I've reached my follow back limit |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jun 12, 2017 |
Limitless72: Thank you my guy. Shey person go just enter marriage like say na nairabet |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jun 12, 2017 |
mzhorlah: Thanks, I find your opinion quite fascinating. Can I get to know you? |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by mzhorlah(f): 5:29pm On Jun 12, 2017 |
Perspectives:hello |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by Nobody: 5:34pm On Jun 12, 2017 |
mzhorlah: Hello how are you doing |
Re: If Love Is Not Enough For Marriage, What Is? by mzhorlah(f): 9:08pm On Jun 12, 2017 |
Perspectives:m good and u |
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